Divay22:
Nah I only chased bf away....

firstking01:
You see the problem, so, who are you gon marry if you keep chasing your bfs away?

Divay22:
I mean bf who are scared of setting down.......
But really not time for marriage yet

CyberGypsy:
All the points makes sense .. but do you really have to do this? , do you really have to start advising them ..?

when they get to age 40 they will change their bearing !!!

*closed my eyes and spits on Thread*


those that gives 0 Bleep will soon join the VIP flight

daewoorazer:



This, my friend is what defines us. I have no heart so there can't be @ d bolded

firstking01:
Just like the write up above, your attitude might be the reason he's acting up not yet ready, don't you think so?

Divay22:
Nope.......The number 4 was what I was once guilty about,but today i eat gum inside my room and not outside
Am not even suppose to be talking about marriage,at least not now

firstking01:
At your later statement, is it that you are not ready or because you think guys have not been genuine with you?

Divay22:
I am not ready

firstking01:
Again, in no particular order…



1.You eat like glutton on the first date with him, forgetting that he's intention was to woo you and get serious with you…


2.You visit him for the very first time, before you agreed to come you told him to be sure he 'll give you t.fare to and fro and you were specific on the amount…


3.He gives you money to prepare soup, you used up all the money and after you return from the market you still ask him for more money with the excuse that the money he gave you was not enough...my sister, as an intending wife manage the money and bring change…


4.You guys decide to take a stroll down the street, at every interception with your friends she chews chewing gum and blows out a very big balloon like bolombolo…


5.You came back and saw his 5 missed calls instead of you to call back you sent him "pls call me back sms"...which serious girl does that huh…


6.He sent you recharge card and all you could do to reciprocate his kind gestures was to flash him, smh…


7.You wake up in the morning from the bed leaving your "fiancee" with you and hurriedly pick up your earings and go straight to the mirror and start fixing while you are trying to put on your high heels with one hand on your leg the other hand on your ear just because one of your female friend calls you to come over her place let her gist you about her outing last night, tfu…


8.You drink alcohol irresponsibly anywhere you find yourself...me i hate the sight of a lady taking alcohol, for me it's unwomanly...hard drinks are meant for men.


9.When it's sunday that's when you remember all your dirty clothes in your box, my sister go to church and who knows God might just have mercy on you.


10.You are untarciturnic when it comes to talking....you talk at every slightest opportunity you have not minding who is standing behind you...as a potential wife you learn how to tame your tongue.


11.At every misunderstanding you have with your fiance you raise your voice and even go as far as bringing your chick close daring him to slap you if he's man enough…


12.You lie alot, even when you were caught in the very act...me i run from such girls i swear.


Now, the above write up is not to degrade women or pull down their will as the case maybe...the message is, as a woman try to always be modest in everything you do...don't ever rob shoulders with a man no matter what, God has placed him ahead of you weather you are married to him or not...if you can't respect your bf you will never respect your husband...truth is if you don't have a good relationship built on Godly principles your marriage won't last...maybe that's why the bible urges that all women should learn in silence....


Bad attitude they say is like flat tyre in a car and until you change it you can never go far in life with it.

Thank you .

Presh9OO:
I support your Ministry with 18nillion Naira

ebby9z:

So, when you're ready you'll just pluck your husband from a tree I guess

dadaic:



U DON CHOP BELLEFUL.. NA WOMAN U WAN USE THIS YEAR START? LIGHT NO DE, U DE TALK WOMAN.

firstking01:
Again, in no particular order…



1.You eat like glutton on the first date with him, forgetting that he's intention was to woo you and get serious with you…


2.You visit him for the very first time, before you agreed to come you told him to be sure he 'll give you t.fare to and fro and you were specific on the amount…


3.He gives you money to prepare soup, you used up all the money and after you return from the market you still ask him for more money with the excuse that the money he gave you was not enough...my sister, as an intending wife manage the money and bring change…


4.You guys decide to take a stroll down the street, at every interception with your friends she chews chewing gum and blows out a very big balloon like bolombolo…


5.You came back and saw his 5 missed calls instead of you to call back you sent him "pls call me back sms"...which serious girl does that huh…


6.He sent you recharge card and all you could do to reciprocate his kind gestures was to flash him, smh…


7.You wake up in the morning from the bed leaving your "fiancee" with you and hurriedly pick up your earings and go straight to the mirror and start fixing while you are trying to put on your high heels with one hand on your leg the other hand on your ear just because one of your female friend calls you to come over her place let her gist you about her outing last night, tfu…


8.You drink alcohol irresponsibly anywhere you find yourself...me i hate the sight of a lady taking alcohol, for me it's unwomanly...hard drinks are meant for men.


9.When it's sunday that's when you remember all your dirty clothes in your box, my sister go to church and who knows God might just have mercy on you.


10.You are untarciturnic when it comes to talking....you talk at every slightest opportunity you have not minding who is standing behind you...as a potential wife you learn how to tame your tongue.


11.At every misunderstanding you have with your fiance you raise your voice and even go as far as bringing your chick close daring him to slap you if he's man enough…


12.You lie alot, even when you were caught in the very act...me i run from such girls i swear.


Now, the above write up is not to degrade women or pull down their will as the case maybe...the message is, as a woman try to always be modest in everything you do...don't ever rob shoulders with a man no matter what, God has placed him ahead of you weather you are married to him or not...if you can't respect your bf you will never respect your husband...truth is if you don't have a good relationship built on Godly principles your marriage won't last...maybe that's why the bible urges that all women should learn in silence....


Bad attitude they say is like flat tyre in a car and until you change it you can never go far in life with it.

Thank you .

Divay22:
I am not ready

firstking01:
How old are you?

Divay22:
just 20

jenigurl:


You can change a gf to a wife by example...Trust me , keep doing the right things and with time she will start to imitate you...
My two cents

firstking01:
Jeez, and you said you are not yet ready

Divay22:
I don't wanna get married and be a liability to my husband that why I'm not ready.

Divay22:
I don't wanna get married and be a liability to my husband that why I'm not ready.

awoo47:
so u are currently unemployed