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Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jan 13, 2017
Gflat:


Fabian, you are a known feminist on nairaland but judging from the topic's point of view do you think a lady should maintain a relationship and suffer?
lol. @Known feminist. grin



Eh, Well, my idea of relationship isn't dependent On Materialistic goals/advantages.It's based On somethings deeper than that. like love, friendship, Chemistry. ETc...

the relationship thing is a Subjective thingy, I feel like if A girl thinks she could cope with A broke ass dude that she's in love with, Then, hell, She should stick with him, through thick and thin. I ain't tripping.


I am not one to slut shame, or judge and all that? if she's defining her relationship based on what she's getting, the cars, money, clothes.. then, she shouldn't 'Suffer'. she should move on to the next best thing. smiley

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Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jan 13, 2017
colik:
I guess not. undecided

lol. cheesy You must be really bored.
bored to the teeth! undecided

thought I'd Say hi! wink
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jan 13, 2017
Gflat:
TrapQueen77, you haven't acknowledged my question cheesy



What was ur kweshun? grin
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 5:27pm On Jan 13, 2017
Estharfabian:
lol. @Known feminist. grin



Eh, Well, my idea of relationship isn't dependent On Materialistic goals/advantages.It's based On somethings deeper than that. like love, friendship, Chemistry. ETc...

the relationship thing is a Subjective thingy, I feel like if A girl thinks she could cope with A broke ass dude that she's in love with, Then, hell, She should stick with him, through thick and thin. I ain't tripping.


I am not one to slut shame, or judge and all that? if she's defining her relationship based on what she's getting, the cars, money, clothes.. then, she shouldn't 'Suffer'. she should move on to the next best thing. smiley


I appreciate your sincerity. I also know you as a person will never indulge in such with a broke guy. Your heart is literally made of stone. Lol cheesy
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jan 13, 2017
Estharfabian:

bored to the teeth! undecided


thought I'd Say hi! wink
How sad. undecided

If this is how you say "Hi",then I would love to see how you say "Hello" grin
And then "Goodbye" would be a disaster. tongue
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jan 13, 2017
Gflat:


I see Nigeria becoming a better place with ladies like you.


Ok ooo smiley
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jan 13, 2017
Gflat:



I appreciate your sincerity. I also know you as a person will never indulge in such with a broke guy. Your heart is literally made of stone. Lol cheesy


lol. this chick wasn't made to suffer. grin LMFAO.


Lol. @bolded, I prefer diamonds. stones break easy these days. grin
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 5:30pm On Jan 13, 2017
TrapQueen77:




What was ur kweshun? grin

Oh boy! Don't tell me you forgot already cheesy
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 5:32pm On Jan 13, 2017
Estharfabian:


lol. this chick wasn't made to suffer. grin LMFAO.


Lol. @bolded, I prefer diamonds. stones break easy these days. grin

jackpot!

So when you say diamonds you mean black diamonds?
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jan 13, 2017
colik:
How sad. undecided
If this is how you say "Hi",then I would love to see how you say "Hello" grin And then "Goodbye" would be a disaster. tongue
lol. grin
Yeah , I'm not much of A 'greeter'. tongue And Causing chaos is kinda my way of reaching out. lol. you know me already!grin

Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 5:33pm On Jan 13, 2017
Gflat:


Oh boy! Don't tell me you forgot already cheesy



Don't be surprised... I'm really forgetful... wink
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 5:39pm On Jan 13, 2017
Gflat:

jackpot!
So when you say diamonds you mean black diamonds?

lol. yeah! grin

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Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 5:40pm On Jan 13, 2017
TrapQueen77:




Don't be surprised... I'm really forgetful... wink


you mentioned something about knowing who I am on the other thread shocked
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 5:43pm On Jan 13, 2017
Estharfabian:
lol. grin

Yeah , I'm not much of A 'greeter'. tongue
And Causing chaos is kinda my way of reaching out. lol. you know me already!grin


It's a nice hobby...causing chaos.
Would get you into trouble one of these days though.cheesy

And as for me knowing you? I'm afraid I'm not quite there yet. tongue
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by LorDBolton(m): 5:45pm On Jan 13, 2017
Gflat:


My mum don't need to reason that way because she owns a company and she met dad at one of the conferences they both attended. Dad is a barrister by the way and together they gave their kids good education and what of life.

I know you are frustrated because you never had this kind of opportunity while growing up in the ghetto but next time before you place your slippery fingers on your 2.5inches phone to disgrace yourself try not to be recumbent in reasoning

Your dad's a lawyer, so it's safe to assume one of your siblings might be too (if you yourself aren't one)

Feel free to show a sound mind your original post then this one I just quoted

They'd certainly agree you're not just speaking from a position of ignorance, you're also deeply naiive and lack a basic understanding of what relationships entail.


I just dey smh 4 you...

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Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 13, 2017
SafeDavid:
OP's mumu no be here.

I'm not spending a dime on any date I go in the nearest future.

Any girl who has a problem with that should go hug a transformer.


Why? Because of what zehner did to you? cheesy
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 5:49pm On Jan 13, 2017
LorDBolton:


Your dad's a lawyer, so it's safe to assume one of your siblings might be too (if you yourself aren't one)

Feel free to show a sound mind your original post then this one I just quoted

They'd certainly agree you're not just speaking from a position of ignorance, you're also deeply naiive and lack a basic understanding of what relationships entail.


I just dey smh 4 you...

broke guy's comment. Must you brokers insult?
I am not the author of your frustration boy cheesy

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Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by SafeDavid(m): 5:51pm On Jan 13, 2017
onirugbon:


Why? Because of what zehner did to you? cheesy
lol!
Imagine going around feeding hungry girls all in the name of going on dates.
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by mayoadegbola(m): 5:53pm On Jan 13, 2017
!

TrapQueen77:




Don't be surprised... I'm really forgetful... wink

Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by LorDBolton(m): 6:01pm On Jan 13, 2017
Gflat:


broke guy's comment. Must you brokers insult?
I am not the author of your frustration boy cheesy

Another ignorant assumption... I criticised you ,therefore I must be broke??

Yet u claim you're well educated?

Insult u?? Actually you've already done a great job of insulting yourself i'm only echoing what you typed.

If you aint just being a troll then obviously Life is yet to humble you.

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Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jan 13, 2017
SafeDavid:


lol!

Imagine going around feeding hungry girls all in the name of going on dates.

I do not share that sarcasm with you.
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jan 13, 2017
colik:

It's a nice hobby...causing chaos.
Would get you into trouble one of these days though.cheesy

And as for me knowing you? I'm afraid I'm not quite there yet. tongue

Lol. grin
you didn't tell me you had psychic/Seer abilities.


Yet? I see promise. grin
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 6:11pm On Jan 13, 2017
LorDBolton:


Another ignorant assumption... I criticised you ,therefore I must be broke??

Yet u claim you're well educated?

Insult u?? Actually you've already done a great job of insulting yourself i'm only echoing what you typed.

If you aint just being a troll then obviously Life is yet to humble you.

lol, trolling for what? Bruh check out of my mentions please you obviously know nothing grin
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by jashar(f): 6:20pm On Jan 13, 2017
.... a lady should be able to take care of herself, independent of a man.

But it is usually advisable to marry a man who is a bit ahead of you in most ramifications; especially in the Spiritual, Intellectual and Financial aspects.

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Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 6:23pm On Jan 13, 2017
Estharfabian:
Lol. grin you didn't tell me you had psychic/Seer abilities.

Yet? I see promise. grin
I may or may not have such abilities...but the cards never lie. grin tongue
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by LorDBolton(m): 6:25pm On Jan 13, 2017
Gflat:


lol, trolling for what? Bruh check out of my mentions please you obviously know nothing grin

Grammar is only used to impress kids.

I was just reading your original post and llaughing

U were at a restaurant on the ISLAND with your SCOTCH & PIECES of berbaque lols. Big Boys no dey loud anything who u wan impress? NL hungry babes abi?

Anyway continue, this is why I enjoy NL

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Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 6:31pm On Jan 13, 2017
LorDBolton:


Grammar is only used to impress kids.

I was just reading your original post and llaughing

U were at a restaurant on the ISLAND with your SCOTCH & PIECES of berbaque lols. Big Boys no dey loud anything who u wan impress? NL hungry babes abi?

Anyway continue, this is why I enjoy NL

Broke Niggas think they know anything wink
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 6:32pm On Jan 13, 2017
jashar:
.... a lady should be able to take care of herself, independent of a man.

But it is usually advisable to marry a man who is a bit ahead of you in most ramifications; especially in the Spiritual, Intellectual and Financial aspects.

Someone with sense. Please don't let guys like LorDBolton evade your space grin
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by SafeDavid(m): 7:00pm On Jan 13, 2017
onirugbon:


I do not share that sarcasm with you.

But honestly, how much or what a guy buys for you on a date doesn't really matter. What matters most is you guys knowing each other.

If a girl feels like eating rice añd chicken, she can as well go to the market, buy and cook for herself.

And I don't know how a girls suffering relates to who she dates. We all have been endowed with something so why must a guy you are not yet committed to provide all your needs.

Relationships is all about give and take but most girls don't even realize this.
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by LorDBolton(m): 7:10pm On Jan 13, 2017
Gflat:


Someone with sense. Please don't let guys like LorDB.olton evade your space grin

If you were actually

*well educated

*an island big boy


Then you'd see jashar rebuked you ...rather your dumb post, albeit subtly

Sadly u can't read btw the lines ergo u didn't notice she used words like ladies should be INDEPENDENT of their man.

And the ideal partner should be A BIT AHEAD (she refused to use the words RICH which shows a very smart lady) she then showed her maturity by adding other necessary factors in a relationship beside money.

But hey I'm the so-called broke guy and you're the son of a barrister and a rich woman who's. so we'll educated.

Actually now I'm sure you're a fake!

I'll appreciate you don't give me any mentions again sir flat. Thank u

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Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 7:16pm On Jan 13, 2017
LorDBolton:


If you were actually

*well educated

*an island big boy


Then you'd see jashar rebuked you ...rather your dumb post, albeit subtly

Sadly u can't read btw the lines ergo u didn't notice she used words like ladies should be INDEPENDENT of their man.

And the ideal partner should be A BIT AHEAD (she refused to use the words RICH which shows a very smart lady) she then showed her maturity by adding other necessary factors in a relationship beside money.

But hey I'm the so-called broke guy and you're the son of a barrister and a rich woman who's. so we'll educated.

Actually now I'm sure you're a fake!

I'll appreciate you don't give me any mentions again sir flat. Thank u


Lord Bolton (lol) why don't you bolt off my thread bruh. I don't trade words and you clearly becoming emotional about this grin
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jan 13, 2017
colik:
I may or may not have such abilities...but the cards never lie. grin tongue
Lol. Scary. embarassed

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