ChiChilolo:


But there's no one else. And I've never really thought about it.

but am here naa lolz, d thing is not ordinary, I will whisper something in ur ear wen I see u.

it's not a good thing. Do you feel same way with other guys? if yes, then work on it else it will affect you in marriage. if no, then leave him if you have tried and its not still not working.
Stopping sex is not a good idea, most guys love sex, if you stop sex, they might still stay with you but will most definitely have other way of relieving themselves including going out to look for side girl

nikkypearl:
Stop having sex with him...

#teamvirgin#

Team v-wetin wetin you talk
Make I no catch you

SUPOL:
but am here naa lolz, d thing is not ordinary, I will whisper something in ur ear wen I see u.

Your Blood dey hot for the bae

ChiChilolo:


But there's no one else. And I've never really thought about it.

I'm not saying there's someone else . Maybe it wasn't love from the beginning . You might have felt sorry for the guy from the start . since u mention that he's a good guy, could never hurt a fly and is gentle to you .

ChiChilolo:


It's not small oooo.

Maybe its too big then
Did you measure it??


You know what the problem is you haven't had an orgasm yet .. = pointless sex = time wasting = move right on = just don't sex him

Him no turn turn u well be that

Have u ever figured that we are basically sexual creatures and our facade of control can only last so long before our instincts take over! I have a girl like you who pretends to resist then goes wild during and sober after the deal then switches to f****ng b**ch mode again when i push her buttons again and this after re-sanctifying herself from the demon called me! ;-\ who da hell are you kidding?

You think orgasms come without sin! Gerrarahia mehn!

ChiChilolo:


Something like that. I grew up in a very religious background.

She's even calling religious
Na person force u?

Something is wrong with u then....U need deliverance

From my own little observation you are in trouble. First of all you get to hate your guy when you guys have sex meaning you guys don't make love which is an error. Forgive the word am about to use because it's more like he is just f...king you and not making love.

Secondly you keep giving yourself to him to f...k even when you know you will get upset or hate him after that. It's more like you are not in a relationship but you just want people to see you as being in one with one fine guy that probably your friends admire so you just don't want to let him go.

My advice is that you save yourself from the heartbreak that awaits you in the future because some next girl will be bold enough to tell him some day and work on him better that when he starts getting better pleasure from her you will be the last person on his mind.

Am not perfect but just my little contribution which could be meaningless as well

There's nothing wrong in love n war! You love him then you hate him

ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.
I can't explain it.

So you not a virgin?

You don't love him oooooo...

Stop wasting ur time with him plsssss...... .

ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.

I can't explain it.

its ur mindset....u see sex as taking advantage of u or using u or..what ever...and u hav to stop and fight dis mindset....sex is gr8....it connects emotion and all...if wit d appropraite person or......unless u wanna be single all ur live...u gatta learn how to love sex..cos d moment ur husband bleep u den...ur start thinking rubbish...dat will send u to ur fada's house if care is not taken......dats all i gatta say..




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OlympianZeus:


Your Blood dey hot for the bae

Lolz, bros if she no dey enjoy d guy make we give am something better naa, is all about caring mehn

STOP HAVING SEX.

PapiNick:
From my own little observation you are in trouble. First of all you get to hate your guy when you guys have sex meaning you guys don't make love which is an error. Forgive the word am about to use because it's more like he is just f...king you and not making love.

Secondly you keep giving yourself to him to f...k even when you know you will get upset or hate him after that. It's more like you are not in a relationship but you just want people to see you as being in one with one fine guy that probably your friends admire so you just don't want to let him go.

My advice is that you save yourself from the heartbreak that awaits you in the future because some next girl will be bold enough to tell him some day and work on him better that when he starts getting better pleasure from her you will be the last person on his mind.

Am not perfect but just my little contribution which could be meaningless as well

i think u are somewhat offkey...she didnt tell us anything about the relationship...so i'm thinking she is having some kinda wrong mentality about d sex...maybe like feeling down ....or feeling like she did somtin wrong....or like he used her.....and were as it might not actually be so..i dont think she is staying in an abusive kinda reltship neither a rltnship were she is trying to cope or manage d person....i think its her mind set and the way she feels afterwards......i had and ex almost like this.....she will jst stop talking and atimes cry wen we make out to the point of bleeping.......although u might still be correct




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ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.

I can't explain it.

So let's imagine you started the sex at 11:10pm, when does it end? 11:11pm?

From what I can deduce is that you don't hate him because wen u hate someone u don't say it ur action tells... is like ur compensating him wit sex.

Is ur relationship base on. Extreme circumstances?

Has he offended you that your yet to forgive him?

Do you feel you can't find a better man if you break up with him?

because it looks like he is playing the game of chess with you

Please answer the above questions so we can move forward

See bad belles dey advice the babe to leave her bf. One even dey blame the guy, say him do wetin?

Chi, u better work on ur mindset and outgrow this your good girl attitude. It's obvious you fancy dis guy and in the moment you both enjoy the sex. Tell him I said what you need after care. He should pull you close after sex, pet your face or smtn, reassure you of his love and commitment, etc.

You don't hate him and no he did not "use" you, it's just the guilt. So like I said, aftercare.

ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.

I can't explain it.

its either of these 3 tins


1:-its either d relationship is abusive or u ar jst coping and managin d guy(which i guess not)

2:-......ur religion is affecting ur mentality towards sex...seeing it as sinfull,being used..or takin advtge of...yep..dats basicaly having a wrong mentality abt sex...plus it can affect u to ur husbands house...there..u will see sex as only jst an obligation to ur husband...yes..sex is damn sinfull ..well..jst try and enjoy it.(am sure dis is ur problem)

Lastly...it seems d nigga is not good in bed good,does'nt last enouf or som other tins dat make u less satisfied with d sex...(i dont think these 1 is the main prob)



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CorGier:
See bad belles dey advice the babe to leave her bf. One even dey blame the guy, say him do wetin?

Chi, u better work on ur mindset and outgrow this your good girl attitude. It's obvious you fancy dis guy and in the moment you both enjoy the sex. Tell him I said what you need after care. He should pull you close after sex, pet your face or smtn, reassure you of his love and commitment, etc.

You don't hate him and no he did not "use" you, it's just the guilt. So like I said, aftercare.

1 bottle of orijin for u....my point exactly

mavrodi:
There's nothing wrong in love n war! You love him then you hate him

am confused

SUPOL:
lolz he's using psychology on u, u loose ur defense wen ever he is with u

use ur common sense to deduct and evaluate dat its guilt due to religious stuff dats killing her....not the guy....b4 u spoil the guy 4 am.....d guy might even be so gud emotional due to her statement .....tell her to stop dat mentality cos if u wanna hav pleasure den u most sin....if u come hate sex den it will feel like and obligation to ur husband....which he wont find funny

Na dis kine gal bad guys dey fvck their church brain comot....Don't let bad guys catch u.....Your boyfriend is too nice with your pvssy....imagine...if I catch this kine gal....that pvssy go suffer

stanboy28:
tell her to stop dat mentality cos if u wanna hav pleasure den u most sin....

Hmmm, this one is strong, I say this one is strong. Bring the holy cane

superemmy:


Hmmm, this one is strong, I say this one is strong. Bring the holy cane

...i no understand u ooo...wetin strong for tru talk wey i drop......mtcheew....all dis yabaleft escapeez ehn...i reserve my comment



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choi..... na wa ooo ,ur spirit husband and children are responsible

ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.
I can't explain it.

maybe he is not good enough to satisfy you .

ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.
I can't explain it.

maybe he is not good enough to satisfy you . [