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Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Crownadex(m): 4:02pm On Jan 27, 2017
av been disturbed since last year 4rm my friends that it's time 4 me to marry bcz I'm old enough & I'm now 28yrs of age ...... pls what does age needs to do in marriage ?
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by treasuredluv(f): 4:06pm On Jan 27, 2017
It does nothing, we really don't need age in marriage perse, buh one must be matured in heart and in character, its not meant for babies though.

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Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Mustiboy(m): 4:07pm On Jan 27, 2017
it's the love that matters, not age.

but to some people like me, age matters. I was having a good rapport with a girl and she was already into me but when I discovered she's a couple of years older than me, I gave up immediately. gosh! I almost loved her
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jan 27, 2017
Crownadex:
av been disturbed since last year 4rm my friends that it's time 4 me to marry bcz I'm old enough & I'm now 28yrs of age ...... pls what does age needs to do in marriage ?
Your friends call 28 old enough for marriage?, ok...are you financially and psychologically ready for marriage?, not all 28 years old are matured enough.

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Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by balanceofterror1(m): 4:11pm On Jan 27, 2017
Benita27:
Your friends call 28 old enough for marriage?, ok...are you financially and psychologically ready for marriage?, not all 28 years old are matured enough.

Nice one.

Marriage is not for kids in mind.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jan 27, 2017
Age is very important in marriage. For marriage to work, the two participants must be at the same or almost at the same point in their lives.

A lot of the times, a good determinant of what stage a person is in their life is their age.

Personally, I will not settle down with a person who is more than five years younger than me. I want to be on the same wavelength with the person that I settle down with, I don't want us to have different priorities. I want us to be at the same stage of life. I want to be able to reason with the person on the same level. I want a person who has had almost the same type of life experiences as me.


Anyone who says age is just a number is being fatally optimistic.

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Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jan 27, 2017
balanceofterror1:


Nice one.

Marriage is not for kids in mind.
Bless you.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by madridguy(m): 4:17pm On Jan 27, 2017
If your pocket is gallant you're good to go.

If you have a good partner don't waste time.

Crownadex:
av been disturbed since last year 4rm my friends that it's time 4 me to marry bcz I'm old enough & I'm now 28yrs of age ...... pls what does age needs to do in marriage ?
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by balanceofterror1(m): 4:19pm On Jan 27, 2017
treasuredluv:
It does nothing, we really don't need age in marriage perse, buh one must be matured in heart and in character, its not meant for babies though.


The reason we have so many divorce cases today is that we neglect so many things thinking that they doesn't matter and age is one of such. I don't think that a genuine child of God will pray to God for a wife and God will direct him to marry his senior. This is a generation of carelessness and it doesn't matter, America etc are doing it, are my the only one.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Crownadex(m): 4:19pm On Jan 27, 2017
Benita27:
Your friends call 28 old enough for marriage?, ok...are you financially and psychologically ready for marriage?, not all 28 years old are matured enough.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Crownadex(m): 4:20pm On Jan 27, 2017
Benita27:
Your friends call 28 old enough for marriage?, ok...are you financially and psychologically ready for marriage?, not all 28 years old are matured enough.
not ready yet but there is no problem about financially ....my aim is to reach 30yrs
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by balanceofterror1(m): 4:24pm On Jan 27, 2017
Benita27:
Bless you.

Some men can't even wash their wife's undies etc especially when she's sick or pregnant. Some don't even carry their wife along in business and investment etc. So many men are fake.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by balanceofterror1(m): 4:27pm On Jan 27, 2017
Crownadex:
not ready yet but there is no problem about financially ....my aim is to reach 30yrs

Pls if only getting to 30yrs is what you are waiting for, you are making a great mistake.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jan 27, 2017
Crownadex:
not ready yet but there is no problem about financially ....my aim is to reach 30yrs
Then ignore your friends and wait till you're 30 or 35 if you like.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jan 27, 2017
balanceofterror1:


Some men can't even wash their wife's undies etc especially when she's sick or pregnant. Some don't even carry their wife along in business and investment etc. So many men are fake.
I personally wouldn't allow my hubby wash my undies for any reason. As for business, is only an armrobber that would hide his business from his wife.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by knightsson: 4:35pm On Jan 27, 2017
God knows I still have atleast 5yrs to get married no matter the fvcking age I am now.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by knightsson: 4:37pm On Jan 27, 2017
balanceofterror1:


Some men can't even wash their wife's undies etc especially when she's sick or pregnant. Some don't even carry their wife along in business and investment etc. So many men are fake.

How does helping one's wife wash her undies make a husband been termed matured?
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by balanceofterror1(m): 4:41pm On Jan 27, 2017
Benita27:
I personally wouldn't allow my hubby wash my undies for any reason. As for business, is only an armrobber that would hide his business from his wife.

It's not a crime if your husband washes your undies especially when your are pregnant and cannot bend etc. After all there are so many 'odd' things we do in marital relationships. Psychological maturity is needed here.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by balanceofterror1(m): 4:42pm On Jan 27, 2017
knightsson:

How does helping one's wife wash her undies make a husband been termed matured?

Can a stubborn man do it?.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jan 27, 2017
balanceofterror1:


It's not a crime if your husband washes your undies especially when your are pregnant and cannot bend etc. After all there are so many 'odd' things we do in marital relationships. Psychological maturity is needed here.
"it's not a crime if your husband washes your undies", of course not, but out of preference i would rather wash them myself.

I got your point though!.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by ikp120(m): 4:53pm On Jan 27, 2017
WriteBoy:
Age is very important in marriage. For marriage to work, the two participants must be at the same or almost at the same point in their lives.

A lot of the times, a good determinant of what stage a person is in their life is their age.

Personally, I will not settle down with a person who is more than five years younger than me. I want to be on the same wavelength with the person that I settle down with, I don't want us to have different priorities. I want us to be at the same stage of life. I want to be able to reason with the person on the same level. I want a person who has had almost the same type of life experiences as me.


Anyone who says age is just a number is being fatally optimistic.

Bro, yes age is just a number. Maturity has nothing to do with age but background and personal decisions. Some 20 years olds are more mature, both mentally and physically, than most 35 years olds.

As for the boldened, you two can NEVER have the same priorities naturally. I guess you should know better than that. C'mon you can't tell me you're looking for a lady who is just like you? WTF! shocked shocked That's both absurd and irrational mehn. No two persons have the same priorities except they agree on that, which is purely all about understanding, which has nothing to do with age.

Abeg change this your orientation o before you enter and see wetin mouth no fit talk.

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Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by knightsson: 4:55pm On Jan 27, 2017
balanceofterror1:

Can a stubborn man do it?.
Its only a stvpid man that would wash his wife undies.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by knightsson: 4:57pm On Jan 27, 2017
Benita27:
"it's not a crime if your husband washes your undies", of course not, but out of preference i would rather wash them myself.

I got your point though!.


Its a crime, a big one at that. infact its an abomination for a man to wash his wife undies.

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Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jan 27, 2017
knightsson:


Its a crime, a big one at that. infact its an abomination for a man to wash his wife undies.
"Abomination" in Africa of course.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by ikp120(m): 5:05pm On Jan 27, 2017
balanceofterror1:


Some men can't even wash their wife's undies etc especially when she's sick or pregnant. Some don't even carry their wife along in business and investment etc. So many men are fake.

Bro please what is your definition of maturity? Because those things you stated up there have nothing to do with age but personal decisions and orientations.

Maturity is simply all about being able to understand others and accept their personal decisions, which have nothing to do with age but personal background and decision.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jan 27, 2017
ikp120:


Bro, yes age is just a number. Maturity has nothing to do with age but background and personal decisions. Some 20 years olds are more mature, both mentally and physically, than most 35 years olds.

As for the bolded, you two can NEVER have the same priorities naturally. I guess you should know better than that. C'mon you can't tell me you're looking for a lady who is just like you? WTF! shocked shocked That's both absurd and irrational mehn. No two persons have the same priorities except they agree on that, which is purely all about understanding, which has nothing to do with age.

Abeg change this your orientation o before you enter and see wetin mouth no fit talk.


At first when I read this I thought to myself: "What a conceited human being -- He thinks he has it all figured out". Well brother man, let me tell you something everyone's needs are not the same. I don't want to be in a marriage where the woman has a wildly different trajectory than mine. It's not any irrational, it is what I want. It is also something that I have seen close relatives get, so mine will not be any different.

Should I become too plain and tell you that what I want is a woman that will help me as I work to achieve my goals?


If you like don't marry a person that's congruent to your values and see how you will suffer for that foolishness. Every human being has a complementary nature, it behooves you to study yourself and discover which one is ideal for you.

It has everything to do with age. I am a firm believer in the fact: The more time a person spends in this world, the more wisdom they will accrue as a result. Some people are faster than others in this regard, they blossom on time. I call those ones the outliers. The majority of people are only able to make certain decisions, reach some milestones with time.

That's how life works, the more time you spend here, the wiser you will become. I don't want a woman that hasn't seen life in the way I think life should be seen.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by balanceofterror1(m): 5:20pm On Jan 27, 2017
ikp120:


Bro please what is your definition of maturity? Because those things you stated up there have nothing to do with age but personal decisions and orientations.

Maturity is simply all about being able to understand others and accept their personal decisions, which have nothing to do with age but personal background and decision.

So if I am able to understand an armed robber and accept his personal decision to rob me, I am matured according to your explanation?.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by balanceofterror1(m): 5:22pm On Jan 27, 2017
knightsson:

Its only a stvpid man that would wash his wife undies.

And a wise man will ask the wife to suck his dick and in turn suck her vagina abi?.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jan 27, 2017
balanceofterror1:


And a wise man will ask the wife to suck his dick and in turn suck her vagina abi?.


When you drink a beverage, is it a must that you wash the dishes?
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by balanceofterror1(m): 5:28pm On Jan 27, 2017
WriteBoy:


When you drink a beverage, is it a must that you wash the dishes?
You are now applying number 6 which is sign of immaturity.
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by ikp120(m): 5:33pm On Jan 27, 2017
balanceofterror1:


So if I am able to understand an armed robber and accept his personal decision to rob me, I am matured according to your explanation?.

Sure, and then make your own personal decision. Shikina! grin grin
Re: Pls Do We Really Need Age In Marriage ? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jan 27, 2017
balanceofterror1:


You are now applying number 6 which is sign of immaturity.



Wise man, I bow in your presence. It's your type that cooks dinner and goes to the market as well.

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