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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by pheyhi(f): 10:22am On Jul 20, 2016
mavaakiti:
sir I'm very beautiful in every way for your information.

Seriously your are really answering him
Can't wait to see some people's children tho, the way they open their mouth to insult people on nairaland

The bad thing is that, this kind of people are ALWAYS very UGLY.

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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by babsnuel(m): 12:55pm On Jul 20, 2016
obontami:
babe na fight. cheesy cheesy grin ??


I can now see clearly that you can't handle the truth


The truth they say is bitter


Anyways today is my birthday aint you gonna wish wish a happy birthday ??
your brain is full of petrol...IDIYAT!
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by obontami: 8:11pm On Jul 20, 2016
babsnuel:
your brain is full of petrol...IDIYAT!

Mister respect your self and don't insult me on this forum okay ??
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by sweetestever(f): 8:31am On Jan 06, 2017
WiLdFLame:
What did u now do? confronted him?
yes! but the bager denied it
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Slip(m): 11:41am On Jan 06, 2017
I had been reading through all comments from the beginning. I have two things or observation to share.

1. What is "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE". Our Biblical it is!!! This is the instrument that most ladies use to shallow most guys because they know that guys are created to be determined on whatever they desired. Observation shows that most girls that are on condition of "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE" don't contribute much in the relationship because they knew that one day the relationship will end.

The way forward is guys should always be careful because of the dangerous girls out there looking for whom to destroy and for girls please for the sake of God don't go into a long relationship thinking it will be possible to abstain from sex. It takes the help of the HOLY SPIRIT for a man to stand out.

2. "THE HEART BROKEN GUYS". The fact that a lady broke ur heart doesn't not mean that u shld kill urself sleeping around with all girls that comes ur way who are u destroying is it just the girl capital NO. If we are thinking too much of sex only affect girls u are deceiving urself. The truth is u are killing urself physically, spiritually and lost of eternal life and that is the plan of DEVIL FOR UR LIFE. In fact it is the DEVIL that breaks ur heart using someone else to enable u to carry on the wound. U can read that in JOHN 10:10. Says
"The Devil cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and destroy. I have come(JESUS) that they might have life and have it more abundantly"

The way forward is guys and girls should be watchful and pray to God for protection against the instruments of the DEVIL.

I leave u in peace!!!

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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jan 19, 2017
Slip:
I had been reading through all comments from the beginning. I have two things or observation to share.

1. What is "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE". Our Biblical it is!!! This is the instrument that most ladies use to shallow most guys because they know that guys are created to be determined on whatever they desired. Observation shows that most girls that are on condition of "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE" don't contribute much in the relationship because they knew that one day the relationship will end.

The way forward is guys should always be careful because of the dangerous girls out there looking for whom to destroy and for girls please for the sake of God don't go into a long relationship thinking it will be possible to abstain from sex. It takes the help of the HOLY SPIRIT for a man to stand out.

2. "THE HEART BROKEN GUYS". The fact that a lady broke ur heart doesn't not mean that u shld kill urself sleeping around with all girls that comes ur way who are u destroying is it just the girl capital NO. If we are thinking too much of sex only affect girls u are deceiving urself. The truth is u are killing urself physically, spiritually and lost of eternal life and that is the plan of DEVIL FOR UR LIFE. In fact it is the DEVIL that breaks ur heart using someone else to enable u to carry on the wound. U can read that in JOHN 10:10. Says
"The Devil cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and destroy. I have come(JESUS) that they might have life and have it more abundantly"

The way forward is guys and girls should be watchful and pray to God for protection against the instruments of the DEVIL.

I leave u in peace!!!
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Ginaz(f): 1:45pm On Jan 19, 2017
See comments o shocked
Chaiii
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Badtoy(m): 4:19pm On Jan 19, 2017
Ginaz:
See comments o shocked Chaiii
omo I tell you... love your picture tho. would wanna know you more.
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Filashade(f): 4:57pm On Jan 19, 2017
I have never cheated before. Think is absolutley wrong.

But I was cheated on. We were supposed to chill out for a couple of days but whenever I called him he wouldnt pick my call or cut it off quickly and when I messaged him on whasapp he would read it but not reply.

But you know how God works, coz I am a good and honest person, God made his ex who he said was his ex and a psycho call me and tell me to leave her man alone.

Na that day I know say, I must never fall in love easily with any man and even if my heart is falling for him, I must keep my other half open for any nonsense like the above. Plus my dad has shown me pepper when he cheated on my mum for 20 years so I know that its rare to find good men out there.

I am in a relationship now but still, my heart is not fully in it coz I am a very innocent girl whose eyes got opened long time ago and never again will that happen to me.

undecided undecided undecided

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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Nobody: 6:06am On Jan 20, 2017
Filashade:
I have never cheated before. Think is absolutley wrong.

But I was cheated on. We were supposed to chill out for a couple of days but whenever I called him he wouldnt pick my call or cut it off quickly and when I messaged him on whasapp he would read it but not reply.

But you know how God works, coz I am a good and honest person, God made his ex who he said was his ex and a psycho call me and tell me to leave her man alone.

Na that day I know say, I must never fall in love easily with any man and even if my heart is falling for him, I must keep my other half open for any nonsense like the above. Plus my dad has shown me pepper when he cheated on my mum for 20 years so I know that its rare to find good men out there.

I am in a relationship now but still, my heart is not fully in it coz I am a very innocent girl whose eyes got opened long time ago and never again will that happen to me.

undecided undecided undecided

the hdwritings were clearly on the wall then.you just wanted to linger on to d bad rope-oneside love- he doest noth love u.
.
nevertheless i pray thee, do not be influenced wrongly.dont let ur love be OPPORTUNISTIC like ladies of nowadays

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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Filashade(f): 9:56am On Jan 20, 2017
WiLdFLame:

the hdwritings were clearly on the wall then.you just wanted to linger on to d bad rope-oneside love- he doest noth love u.
.
nevertheless i pray thee, do not be influenced wrongly.dont let ur love be OPPORTUNISTIC like ladies of nowadays

Thanks for your advice. I guess I lingered on thinking he could change but I guess that is not the case.

I am not even sure about this my current relationship. I am always now thinking of being single again.

embarassed embarassed embarassed
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by AgbenuAnna(f): 10:41am On Jan 20, 2017
I was going to his house my mind was just telling me to go back home but I refused I started sweating I knew something was off ,I got to his house his neighbor looked at me and I saw a female shoe i knew something bad is gonna happen I knocked it took him 20 minutes to open the door ,when I got in he was so confused he rushed out collected his neighbor 3 months baby started asking me what was topic in church, the babe was very scared ,I couldn't do anything I just told him my father is not a pastor and I was just passing by and decided to greet him,the guy was just following me telling me not to leave I just acted like I didn't know what was up.He later told him me that he was so scared that I was going to break his head that's why he tool the baby so that I will pity the baby .mehn the experience no funny at all

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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jan 20, 2017
AgbenuAnna:
I was going to his house my mind was just telling me to go back home but I refused I started sweating I knew something was off ,I got to his house his neighbor looked at me and I saw a female shoe i knew something bad is gonna happen I knocked it took him 20 minutes to open the door ,when I got in he was so confused he rushed out collected his neighbor 3 months baby started asking me what was topic in church, the babe was very scared ,I couldn't do anything I just told him my father is not a pastor and I was just passing by and decided to greet him,the guy was just following me telling me not to leave I just acted like I didn't know what was up.He later told him me that he was so scared that I was going to break his head that's why he tool the baby so that I will pity the baby .mehn the experience no funny at all

still with him?
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by AgbenuAnna(f): 7:11pm On Jan 20, 2017
WiLdFLame:
still with him?
no even I smoke weed I no go back.moved on

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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by LordAdam7: 7:28pm On Jan 20, 2017
AgbenuAnna:
I was going to his house my mind was just telling me to go back home but I refused I started sweating I knew something was off ,I got to his house his neighbor looked at me and I saw a female shoe i knew something bad is gonna happen I knocked it took him 20 minutes to open the door ,when I got in he was so confused he rushed out collected his neighbor 3 months baby started asking me what was topic in church, the babe was very scared ,I couldn't do anything I just told him my father is not a pastor and I was just passing by and decided to greet him,the guy was just following me telling me not to leave I just acted like I didn't know what was up.[b]He later told him me that he was so scared that I was going to break his head that's why he tool the baby so that I will pity the baby .[/b]mehn the experience no funny at all

The guy supposed be stand-up comedian. Funny sh*t.

Came here to read stories sha.

As for guys wen find out say na their friend dey march their woman banga. Hmmm. That is against the G code.

A nigg* shouldn't eff his friends girl (gf, fiancee,or wife), ex, sis, mom, grand-mom (yep! it happens), or couz without express permission. The circumstance doesn't matter. It's against the guy (g-) code.

That said, the awful thing about cheating is that most people (I'm talking like 98%) who do it know it's wrong; but somehow the taboo factor makes it crazy alluring.

Besides, if we want to be technical about cheating, then cheating is pretty widespread. Many ladies, esp. those that are ready for marriage, often keep spare tires. They may not be riding each or any for that matter, but that's still breach of trust. Guys have gfs but often still do have close female friends that are patiently waiting for the green light for rebound sex.

Even in marriages, spouses many times keep close friends of the opposite gender. Such that the only reason why they wldn't bang is wedding vows, the ring, or kids; not really because they don't want to. That's already a breach of trust. Because all it's going to take to go over that line is one nasty argument at home or one shot of tequila.

I bet one reason why cheating is rampant and sorely painful is that we've pegged it as an act. Cheating is not an act of having coi.t.us with someone else while being in a relationship. Cheating is a PROCESS.

How many people really cheat with strangers they met on the road seconds after meeting them.

You can't have a boyfriend, then maintain a chat with someone that "appears" to be more serious than your boyfriend in terms of marriage, and say you aren't cheating. Or you're a guy and getting dangerously close to your gf's bff, and think you've not broken her trust yet.

We need to push the threshold of cheating back. Because the sex itself can happen for the flimsiest of reasons. Eyes locked, accidental rubbing of hands, borderline innocent verbal cues, one naughty message, a joke, one absolutely intense emotional movie ending, discussing about a relationship problem (this one is a fan favorite), a cute chuckle, or some other reason. But the sex wouldn't have happened if there already wasn't an atmosphere where it could thrive.

Many who say they haven't cheated have definitely broken the trust of their partner at some point. And still kept it a secret without asking for forgiveness. That it didn't lead to voracious hair pulling, back scratching, and/or ass spanking don't mean it didn't matter.

-Lord

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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by obontami: 8:43pm On Jan 31, 2017
Vincent41:


men desist from Taking any such..Learn the act of Fucking and u will Last any hour u want...In the course of Hrt brake by babe,i cried and na there i learnt how to Bleep..i never kwe there is a blessing in disguise....i was fucking her and at the sane time beating her,we struggled,there i learnt sometin every man must learn


Seriously ? Hateu2 needs to see this. grin
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Nobody: 1:44am On Feb 01, 2017
obontami:



Seriously ? Hate.u2 needs to see this. grin
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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Nobody: 1:48am On Feb 01, 2017
HateU2:
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Knock knock
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Nobody: 1:52am On Feb 01, 2017
Dreamwaker:

Knock knock

It's 1:53a.m
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Nobody: 1:55am On Feb 01, 2017
HateU2:

It's 1:53a.m

I know, I have a watch. What's going on? Would you answer if I sent you a pm?
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by wizrose(m): 1:57am On Feb 01, 2017
I cheated a lot ..... if my gf found out about it Wu fucking. cares.... if I die anytime It will be a holiday no more cheating it better I cheat now or regret letter.... grincheesy

Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Nobody: 2:01am On Feb 01, 2017
Dreamwaker:


I know, I have a watch. What's going on? Would you answer if I sent you a pm?
Nah. Goodnight sweet. Im off to bed wink
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Nobody: 2:07am On Feb 01, 2017
HateU2:
Nah. Goodnight sweet. Im off to bed wink

Yea, catch you later cool
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by obontami: 6:23am On Feb 01, 2017
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by bassette(m): 8:35am On Feb 01, 2017
AgbenuAnna:
I was going to his house my mind was just telling me to go back home but I refused I started sweating I knew something was off ,I got to his house his neighbor looked at me and I saw a female shoe i knew something bad is gonna happen I knocked it took him 20 minutes to open the door ,when I got in he was so confused he rushed out collected his neighbor 3 months baby started asking me what was topic in church, the babe was very scared ,I couldn't do anything I just told him my father is not a pastor and I was just passing by and decided to greet him,the guy was just following me telling me not to leave I just acted like I didn't know what was up.He later told him me that he was so scared that I was going to break his head that's why he tool the baby so that I will pity the baby .mehn the experience no funny at all
Though not funny but this cracked me...oh dear
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by 2kurupt(m): 9:48am On Feb 01, 2017
Filashade:
I have never cheated before. Think is absolutley wrong.

But I was cheated on. We were supposed to chill out for a couple of days but whenever I called him he wouldnt pick my call or cut it off quickly and when I messaged him on whasapp he would read it but not reply.

But you know how God works, coz I am a good and honest person, God made his ex who he said was his ex and a psycho call me and tell me to leave her man alone.

Na that day I know say, I must never fall in love easily with any man and even if my heart is falling for him, I must keep my other half open for any nonsense like the above. Plus my dad has shown me pepper when he cheated on my mum for 20 years so I know that its rare to find good men out there.

I am in a relationship now but still, my heart is not fully in it coz I am a very innocent girl whose eyes got opened long time ago and never again will that happen to me.

undecided undecided undecided

Life's indeed unfair but why allow the misdemeanors of others define & reshape how you view & life your life to such an insecure proportion?
Until you drop this mindset you haven't moved on...
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by AgbenuAnna(f): 10:51am On Feb 01, 2017
[quote author=LordAdam7 post=52983620]
The guy supposed be stand-up comedian. Funny sh*t.
Came here to read stories sha. lol how is it funny?
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by AgbenuAnna(f): 10:55am On Feb 01, 2017
bassette:
Though not funny but this cracked me...oh dear
last time I saw him I mimicked him
you know the saying time heals all wounds
Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Hopefulman: 12:17pm On Feb 01, 2017
I was going to open a thread about this before but I will just share mine here...


Ok, I dated this babe 5 years, and I mean I taught her everything she knows, opened her eyes too, deflowered her and all, we have gone so deep to the extent our families know one another. I have taken her home to my parents letting them know this is the woman I want to marry and countless times my dad and mom have both prayed for us with us kneeling, I mean we have gone that deep. I will be 30 this year and she's 25, so we both know walking down the aisle is pretty close, though I plan going outside the shores to study and seek greener pastures to, while the plan is doing an introduction before my balling out.



All that up there is just to let you know how far and deep this relationship has gone.


I do everything for this babe cos I see her as my wife already, and I could swear she can't ever open up her body for another guy, I mean I loved, trusted and cared too much, I use to be a play around guy but that life changed when I met her.


Just this past December, I began to notice firstly she lies too much and I have spent 5 years with this babe that I know every single thing about her as well as when she lies too even if sometimes I prefer not to talk cos deep down I am like "if you do anything wrong to this great relationship, you doing yourself".


Years back she gave me access to her fb and maybe must have probably forgotten, So on this faithful day something just pushed me to check which I don't do cos the trust was there, lo and behold when I went to her inbox, she had a fresh chat with a guy someone she's told me about that use to pester her where she use to work before she gained admission into school...

He was pleading with her to visit, before this chat obviously they have been talking over the phone, to my surprise and disappointment her response was

" how much you go gimme if I come? "

Guy was like " no worry, just come first "

And she was like " how much be tf to come there "

He told her and the next thing she said was send the address through text, he asked when she was coming and she said Saturday.


She came to my place Saturday, unshaved, we had to quarrel before we had sex, cos her mind was elsewhere, I knew all along and could have knocked everything off but I wanted to give her a benefit of that cos of how much I trusted this girl, normal it's not bad to have opposite sex as friends as long as you know your boundaries, my mind was like she was probably going to visit and leave.




Then Saturday came I purposely asked her how she would be spending her day, she was like she's going to her Elder's Sis, who happens to know me too, I was like say me hi to her and the kids when you get there.


From 6pm, for the first time in our 5 years of dating she wasn't picking up, only for her to come on WhatsApp later around 8 and told me she was upset and can't pick...

First I called the elder sister to give her the phone, she told me my woman wasn't at her place which was the confirmation she was spending the night at the guys place.


I wanted to clear her all her Bleep ups but controlled my emotions, I decided to chill and let her enjoy herself and do it face to face when I see her.


I couldn't sleep that night 6th of December, knowing another guy who probably didn't care one bit about her was fucking my woman.


Note, sex and money wasn't the problem, we Bleep like cat and rats, I opened her up, when it comes to even the sex this babe doesn't have my strength very lazy in bed, to even last a round is a p, she complains about my strength and love for sex, money wasn't the p cos I make sure she doesn't lack a thing, then why cheat on a nigga, when in truth since she doesn't have my strength sexually I should be the one cheating or trying to cheat.


Now the confrontation...

She ended up spending Saturday till Monday with this guy, two fucking nights.


On Monday she was like she's back from her sister's, meanwhile I let her be these two days, for the first time she wasn't online till Monday, and didn't bother calling or messaging and was complaining of body pains and how tired she was.


I wrapped a few fake gifts sent it to her to come pick them up plus some cash. She showed up in the afternoon that Monday.

I locked the door, wanted to beat her up then push her out, but to what end?, when the neighbourhood knows her as my woman, I didn't want to Bleep her up like that

I confronted her, she kept insisting she was at her sister's place, not till I told her about the call I made to her sister, plus the chat with the guy, even further convinced her I bugged her phone with a spy app which tells me all she does, dialled calls and messages which she fell for and lo began to confess.


That they did it twice and the guy is even as weak as she is in bed, it's her first and the last, she can't do without me bla bla bla, I can give her whatever punishment I want but not to leave her.

Her birthday was suppose to be 5 days away and I had plans.

I was like what was your reason, I still have this particular screenshot too cos I kept asking even after the confrontation, she was like

"Boo I just wanted to explore, test another dick ",

At least once in her life cos she's known just me all her life



WOMEN, I WONDER WHAT ONE CAN DO TO EVER PLEASE HER

She's still with me but I don't know what to do with her for now...

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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Nobody: 5:07pm On Feb 01, 2017
Hopefulman:
I was going to open a thread about this before but I will just share mine here...


Ok, I dated this babe 5 years, and I mean I taught her everything she knows, opened her eyes too, deflowered her and all, we have gone so deep to the extent our families know one another. I have taken her home to my parents letting them know this is the woman I want to marry and countless times my dad and mom have both prayed for us with us kneeling, I mean we have gone that deep. I will be 30 this year and she's 25, so we both know walking down the aisle is pretty close, though I plan going outside the shores to study and seek greener pastures to, while the plan is doing an introduction before my balling out.



All that up there is just to let you know how far and deep this relationship has gone.


I do everything for this babe cos I see her as my wife already, and I could swear she can't ever open up her body for another guy, I mean I loved, trusted and cared too much, I use to be a play around guy but that life changed when I met her.


Just this past December, I began to notice firstly she lies too much and I have spent 5 years with this babe that I know every single thing about her as well as when she lies too even if sometimes I prefer not to talk cos deep down I am like "if you do anything wrong to this great relationship, you doing yourself".


Years back she gave me access to her fb and maybe must have probably forgotten, So on this faithful day something just pushed me to check which I don't do cos the trust was there, lo and behold when I went to her inbox, she had a fresh chat with a guy someone she's told me about that use to pester her where she use to work before she gained admission into school...

He was pleading with her to visit, before this chat obviously they have been talking over the phone, to my surprise and disappointment her response was

" how much you go gimme if I come? "

Guy was like " no worry, just come first "

And she was like " how much be tf to come there "

He told her and the next thing she said was send the address through text, he asked when she was coming and she said Saturday.


She came to my place Saturday, unshaved, we had to quarrel before we had sex, cos her mind was elsewhere, I knew all along and could have knocked everything off but I wanted to give her a benefit of that cos of how much I trusted this girl, normal it's not bad to have opposite sex as friends as long as you know your boundaries, my mind was like she was probably going to visit and leave.




Then Saturday came I purposely asked her how she would be spending her day, she was like she's going to her Elder's Sis, who happens to know me too, I was like say me hi to her and the kids when you get there.


From 6pm, for the first time in our 5 years of dating she wasn't picking up, only for her to come on WhatsApp later around 8 and told me she was upset and can't pick...

First I called the elder sister to give her the phone, she told me my woman wasn't at her place which was the confirmation she was spending the night at the guys place.


I wanted to clear her all her Bleep ups but controlled my emotions, I decided to chill and let her enjoy herself and do it face to face when I see her.


I couldn't sleep that night 6th of December, knowing another guy who probably didn't care one bit about her was fucking my woman.


Note, sex and money wasn't the problem, we Bleep like cat and rats, I opened her up, when it comes to even the sex this babe doesn't have my strength very lazy in bed, to even last a round is a p, she complains about my strength and love for sex, money wasn't the p cos I make sure she doesn't lack a thing, then why cheat on a nigga, when in truth since she doesn't have my strength sexually I should be the one cheating or trying to cheat.


Now the confrontation...

She ended up spending Saturday till Monday with this guy, two fucking nights.


On Monday she was like she's back from her sister's, meanwhile I let her be these two days, for the first time she wasn't online till Monday, and didn't bother calling or messaging and was complaining of body pains and how tired she was.


I wrapped a few fake gifts sent it to her to come pick them up plus some cash. She showed up in the afternoon that Monday.

I locked the door, wanted to beat her up then push her out, but to what end?, when the neighbourhood knows her as my woman, I didn't want to Bleep her up like that

I confronted her, she kept insisting she was at her sister's place, not till I told her about the call I made to her sister, plus the chat with the guy, even further convinced her I bugged her phone with a spy app which tells me all she does, dialled calls and messages which she fell for and lo began to confess.


That they did it twice and the guy is even as weak as she is in bed, it's her first and the last, she can't do without me bla bla bla, I can give her whatever punishment I want but not to leave her.

Her birthday was suppose to be 5 days away and I had plans.

I was like what was your reason, I still have this particular screenshot too cos I kept asking even after the confrontation, she was like

"Boo I just wanted to explore, test another dick ",

At least once in her life cos she's known just me all her life



WOMEN, I WONDER WHAT ONE CAN DO TO EVER PLEASE HER

She's still with me but I don't know what to do with her for now...
Liked the handled the whole thing, but if I were you I will let her continue on a testing spree nd I can't blame her too, u d only man she has known all her life. The thing is she won't stop until she has seen it all nd its within her rights, so let her go.

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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Joshrob(m): 6:02pm On Feb 01, 2017
I dont understand the word heart break because i have never falling in love..two girls somewhere thinking am there boyfriend,inside me i know i dont love them just like them as a friend. i dont even have the urge to even call them.(cant talk more a minute when i even call)
So even if they cheat i dont care,as long as they give me that attention when i need it..
And if i eventually fall inlove someday,the girl wont be able to cheat on me because she will think i have a frigile heart but my heart strong die.
I just pray am not cheated on when i finally fall in love

Enjoy reading your story thou..continue

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Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Feb 01, 2017
He told me he was broke and needed money to travel for his exams so i lent him the cash. he called me everyday and we even did midnight calls only for me to discover 2weeks later that he travelled down to ogun state instead of ibadan to be with a girl for good 3weeks and the girl knew about me cos she stole my num from his phone to inform me about everything and how she was already pregnant for him so i dumped sorry and pathetic ass . and today am glad i did cos dude now has 3kids from 3 women and still unmarried

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