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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by Henrypraise: 12:38pm On Feb 02, 2017
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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by eherbal(m): 12:38pm On Feb 02, 2017
That's how you fell for him in the first place undecided
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by vanbonattel: 12:39pm On Feb 02, 2017
Is his name lies mohammed?

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by RaeMystix: 12:39pm On Feb 02, 2017
She should talk to him, so he could do what?. Lie that he would change?
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by moralex(m): 12:43pm On Feb 02, 2017
Talk2Bella:


she's noticed his lying ass from day one and she decided to still get an apartment with him
don't blame her o...... one thing might be true o.....the size of his d**k
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by Jennifer89(f): 12:44pm On Feb 02, 2017
Talk2Bella:


she's noticed his lying ass from day one and she decided to still get an apartment with him

I wonder for the girl o...smh
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by Josmila(m): 12:45pm On Feb 02, 2017
All I see is a relationship with a foundation built on lies.

In her case, she encouraged the lies clearly..she fell in love with because of the lies, sweet talking..

Unfortunately, she's in love with an adult with a kid's brain who feels lying about things he doesn't have makes him more of a man.

Is that the only thing she hates about him? Then she should try talking to him about it and see if he'll change, otherwise she should hit the exit door of that relationship.
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by AreaFada2: 12:48pm On Feb 02, 2017
Talk2Bella:
Hey Bella please help me publish this and also advise me on the next step to take thanks.

When I met him he told me he had many things which I later found out to be lies, he was squatting but he told me his friend was the one squatting, so whenever I went to his house I would be expecting his friend to excuse us but he won’t until one day I got angry and told him he should excuse us after all that wasn’t his house, he got angry and chased me and my fiancé out that was when I knew my man was the squatter.

We raised money and got an apartment together, my job pays better than his and I was recently blessed with a car, but he’s gone around to tell everyone the car is his, he told everyone he pays for our house, feeds and clothes me while I just sit back and enjoy his wealth, this attitude makes people asks him for favors and then I end up giving him money to satisfy them.

There are so many things he brags about that he doesn’t own, lands, shares, money, and a sister abroad, I am tired, whenever I catch him lying he would say people loves lies; I don’t love him anymore I want to secretly get an apartment and dump him, I don’t see myself having kids with him, my children will learn nothing good from him, am I making the right decision?

Anonymous please


Would you have fallen in love with him if it weren’t for the lies he told you? He’s a braggart and you encouraged him by not debunking claims he makes while in public, you’re a participant of his bad habits and should not feel bad now things are worse.

Love comes with its price and you’ve paid yours, leaving him secretly is not the answer, no man is born evil, circumstances might have made him who he is, have a one on one intense talk with him and let him know how you really feel, no one is prone to change, tell him the lies and brags have to stop; you already know him in Toto there’s no need for him to present himself to be someone or something he’s not, this will only work if you still loved him which you said in your email you don’t.

Even if you’re going to leave still have that talk with him, it will make things better between both of you.

Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/02/my-fiance-brags-alot-he-lies-about.html?m=1

So you never enter house, you were forming landlady, bah? grin cheesy

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by transient123(m): 12:50pm On Feb 02, 2017
Apologies for saying this. The lady in question is a mumu. He lied he owns an apartment till you also arrogantly crossed your boundary by being insolent to the owner of the house.

Because of shame garnished with lies, you went with your lying liar to get an apartment, later both of you will come online and abuse politicians for bragging and lying abi!

Now, you are done with his lies and banging, you want to navigate and meet Mr Saint Abi, continue with your donation in cash and kind. Some ladies sef.

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by jbcul4ril(m): 12:51pm On Feb 02, 2017
confront him on the subject and if he does not change RUN now that you can
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by ybalogs(m): 12:53pm On Feb 02, 2017
You know what to do bae.Just do it.

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by 4tune490(m): 12:54pm On Feb 02, 2017
I bet this is ur reaction wen he lie n tries to add u to d flow 2 make d lie look real grin cheesy lipsrsealed

Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by SmartyPants(m): 12:56pm On Feb 02, 2017
MrWhaley:
You see all these traits in him and you are still coming online to seek approval about dumping his lying, deceitful ass?? Whatever happened to common sense?


And Talk2Bella is busy talking about Love. What kind of Blind love is that?
Pftt! undecided

Oga i have come to discover that when it comes to humans, it is like that actually attracts like. As the say, birds of a feather flock together. Since she was able to stay after the first shocking discovery which would have driven most women to take to their heels, it means she actually likes the man like that, so she should find a way to manage. After all, given that the ratio of men to women in the world is roughly proportionate, someone still has to marry that guy at the end of the day. Not so?

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by willibounce1(m): 12:59pm On Feb 02, 2017
Talk2Bella:
Hey Bella please help me publish this and also advise me on the next step to take thanks.

When I met him he told me he had many things which I later found out to be lies, he was squatting but he told me his friend was the one squatting, so whenever I went to his house I would be expecting his friend to excuse us but he won’t until one day I got angry and told him he should excuse us after all that wasn’t his house, he got angry and chased me and my fiancé out that was when I knew my man was the squatter.

We raised money and got an apartment together, my job pays better than his and I was recently blessed with a car, but he’s gone around to tell everyone the car is his, he told everyone he pays for our house, feeds and clothes me while I just sit back and enjoy his wealth, this attitude makes people asks him for favors and then I end up giving him money to satisfy them.

There are so many things he brags about that he doesn’t own, lands, shares, money, and a sister abroad, I am tired, whenever I catch him lying he would say people loves lies; I don’t love him anymore I want to secretly get an apartment and dump him, I don’t see myself having kids with him, my children will learn nothing good from him, am I making the right decision?

Anonymous please


Would you have fallen in love with him if it weren’t for the lies he told you? He’s a braggart and you encouraged him by not debunking claims he makes while in public, you’re a participant of his bad habits and should not feel bad now things are worse.

Love comes with its price and you’ve paid yours, leaving him secretly is not the answer, no man is born evil, circumstances might have made him who he is, have a one on one intense talk with him and let him know how you really feel, no one is prone to change, tell him the lies and brags have to stop; you already know him in Toto there’s no need for him to present himself to be someone or something he’s not, this will only work if you still loved him which you said in your email you don’t.

Even if you’re going to leave still have that talk with him, it will make things better between both of you.

Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/02/my-fiance-brags-alot-he-lies-about.html?m=1

Lol..you wan marry guyman
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by Fedayeen02: 1:01pm On Feb 02, 2017
MrWhaley:
You see all these traits in him and you are still coming online to seek approval about dumping his lying, deceitful ass?? Whatever happened to common sense?


And Talk2Bella is busy talking about Love. What kind of Blind love is that?
Pftt! undecided
leave Talk2bella that's giving advice like a novice.


All this Charles B wannabe

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by grandstar(m): 1:13pm On Feb 02, 2017
The guy is a liar! He probably has low self esteem and the lies a defense mechanism. However you're not a psychologist to get him to change. Thats not your load my dear.

I advise you to drop him and move on

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by tafabaloo(m): 1:15pm On Feb 02, 2017
He is still in campaign mode like APC.

He is trying sustain you with what he used in winning you...
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by Nobody: 1:17pm On Feb 02, 2017
I have been here before. I understand you very well.

The lies will even make you to start doubting every words of his mouth. And, you will loose trust in him too.

My dear, I broke up with him. How can you marry someone you always doubt and don't have trust for?

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by babyface224(f): 1:19pm On Feb 02, 2017
I don't think u need an answer cos u jst answered urself... d dude is a liar n u know it so why seek approval to "dispose" him...
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by bencarson007(m): 1:21pm On Feb 02, 2017
Talk2Bella:


I am not

she fell in love with lies

now she's realised it

Bella,how will u feel if someone gives you d same advice u just gave her?
There is nothing to talk about mbok !
How many times will he embarass her with lies outside and inside and how long will this go on?
Madam,the foundation is lies and you and I sure know that humans are hard to change positively except God steps in.
Do you want him to brainwash her more or didn't you hear her when she says she don't love him no more...
Please put urself in her shoes and forget this talk to him thing ... E no dey work for dudes like this

Men face their fears while boys lie about stuff. Let that dude face his fears and always tell the truth rather than hide behind lies that will ruin the relationship more.

@Op/complainant, you don't love him anymore and he is hurting u bad with his lies...

Two pieces of advice for u
1. Listen to Bella and stay and talk to him to change until he kills you with lies.

2. Leave the boy to go with his lies and let commit to God so He gives you a man

#BoysLie
#MenFaceTheirFears

Who do u want?
A man or a boy...

#Respects

@ Bella, nothing personal.
I salute you
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by Nobody: 1:33pm On Feb 02, 2017
I won't be surprised if you fell in love with a murderer.
Talk2Bella:


Na y I de carry eye go market be dat loool
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by Sebastine1994(m): 1:33pm On Feb 02, 2017
DEAR NIGERIANS
I am a Phd student researching nigeria. Risk is what most nigerians fear. They are afraid of what will happen after. Question like ' who will take care of my family if I die ' what would happen to me if I do it. I don't want to become a begger. These are what keeps most nigerians from taking risk. That is why no body wants to challenge the government. It is what makes nigerians docile.
Here in nigeria our children are the insurance Company we have. They will take care of us when we grow old. So how can such children afford to take risk? Nigerian can never die for nigeria. Their loyalty lies elsewhere.
But what if there is an organisation like a god father that then agree to shoulder the risk of every nigerian for a monthly fees. What do you think will happen. I will call them big brother. It will be both an insurance company and a brotherhood. Any member intimidated by the government agents should report.
Ordinary nigerians have nobody to run to when they are offended. They just swallow it.
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by sulakishop(m): 1:34pm On Feb 02, 2017
GIMME HER NUMBER, SHE DOESNT HAVE A BOYFRIEND
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by ameh99: 1:37pm On Feb 02, 2017
Babzilla:
Sounds like an abj boy



Gbam!....Abuja boys and fake life be like em.....please who has that Jacob Zuma pics grin
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by ladyverere(f): 1:39pm On Feb 02, 2017
Talk2Bella:


I am not

she fell in love with lies

now she's realised it

Then it's time for her to quit the relationship! I had a nasty experience of getting married to the greatest liar on earth and let me tell you, she can't live with a blatant, bald face liar day in and day out. There will be no trust because she will never know when he is being truthful or odawise. It's better she leaves him now than to continue especially as she no longer loves him.

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by andyanders: 1:40pm On Feb 02, 2017
@Bela, your friend or someone asked you to help publish her article and you have to give her such advise is just off point.You messed it up by the advise you have given herein.

Such a person cannot change for real. She only fvcked herself up when she first discovered that the apartment he claimed he owns turned out to be that of his friend and she never left the relationship, rather went further to rent another place for both of them.

As it is, the guy cannot change, rather get worse in the future. I feel the best thing for her to do is, since they are not married, she should walk out of the relationship unless she wants to stay with a deceit. One day, he when he commits any crime without her knowledge, then she will come to realize how deep and great mistake of staying in such a relationship. He can put another lady in a family way and she might end up finding out later.

Most of such guys are known as freeloaders. They find a woman they hang with and drain her, when nothing is forthcoming from the person, they look for another victim.

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by Lucasinho(m): 1:43pm On Feb 02, 2017
Sebastine1994:
DEAR NIGERIANS
I am a Phd student researching nigeria. Risk is what most nigerians fear. They are afraid of what will happen after. Question like ' who will take care of my family if I die ' what would happen to me if I do it. I don't want to become a begger. These are what keeps most nigerians from taking risk. That is why no body wants to challenge the government. It is what makes nigerians docile.
Here in nigeria our children are the insurance Company we have. They will take care of us when we grow old. So how can such children afford to take risk? Nigerian can never die for nigeria. Their loyalty lies elsewhere.
But what if there is an organisation like a god father that then agree to shoulder the risk of every nigerian for a monthly fees. What do you think will happen. I will call them big brother. It will be both an insurance company and a brotherhood. Any member intimidated by the government agents should report.
Ordinary nigerians have nobody to run to when they are offended. They just swallow it.
what point are deriving at undecided dat got to do with this particular post?
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by NemzySeries(m): 1:47pm On Feb 02, 2017
if not long throat (kwodeyi) ,watz taking u to such a man dat has nofin to even offer himsef?
~ wat attracted u to d man in d first place?
~ y are u cohabiting wit a man dat has not paid even a single cowry on ur head?
~ Y did u wait dis long b4 realising uve bin wit an alien?
.........U ladies at times give men d privilege to mess u up even if dey originally dunt intend to, aw can a woman b renting hauz for a man, if hiz working and needs support datz different but here ure spending money, time and resources on him and hiz only busy living on air and burning hiz energy on u every nite...... i wonder were u came up wit d word FIANCE for such a man

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by MrHighSea: 1:49pm On Feb 02, 2017
[quote author=Thecassanova post=53332311][/quote]laughing hard with my asshole wide open
Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by LePrezident(m): 1:50pm On Feb 02, 2017
Talk2Bella:


I am not

she fell in love with lies

now she's realised it

Bella, this your advise is totally over the bar, totally! As a male, I say she should dump his assss instanta, nothing good will come out of him no matter the talk. That is his nature. Wtf would he even lie such big blinding lies. Bella there's no love in there anywhere to salvage on any level for nothing!

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Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by Nobody: 1:57pm On Feb 02, 2017
ameh99:




Gbam!....Abuja boys and fake life be like em.....please who has that Jacob Zuma pics grin

Re: My Fiancé Brags Alot, He Lies About Everything by Tominiola: 2:14pm On Feb 02, 2017
She should dump him o jare. That's how I met someone last year, he told me one big massive lie that I believed. Once I found out. I quietly dropped him like a bad habit. I didn't pick his calls or reply his messages or anything cuz there's no point. I don't understand why people can't be themselves. The funny thing is he was now trying to make it seem as if I was beneath him When in actually I was better off without him. When you lie it makes you look weird. Dump him because if you don't what you allow is what will continue in the marriage. I don't even understand why Bella is defending this guy. It doesn't make sense.

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