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Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Talk2Bella(f): 7:51pm On Oct 19, 2016
I don’t know why I started thinking about this, I just see so many failed relationships around me and it got me thinking, did any of them ever had a breakup plan? Were they ever prepared for something like this? Did they think it would last forever?


Have y’all noticed that the relationships which last these days are the ones which started almost a decade ago, or 8-7-5 years ago before the massive hype and invent of different social media? It’s like the more the world and technology evolves the harder it is to find true love anyway everyone needs to have a breakup plan.


I am not trying to discourage anyone from loving or being steadfast in their relationships but the way things are now, y’all need to have a breakup plan, y’all need to realize that happily ever after might not be for everyone, you might date him for just six months and he takes you to the alter, you might date him for 15 years and one day you wake up and he’s gone, PUFF! Married to another lady vice versa.


What should a breakup plan look like, it’s simple


1. Never be too dependent on a partner


2. Always have it in mind not all relationships lead to marriage


3. Before you take him/her to mama, be sure he/she is the one


4. Don’t live together until you’re married


5. Getting pregnant won’t make him stay or love you any harder


6. What are you future plans? Do they involve him or her?


7. When was the last time you were happy together?


These are perfect breakup plans, you take plans like these into every relationship, you add, subtract, multiply and divide and see if you’re relationship has gotten to the place where you begin to ask yourself these questions.


If you’re too dependent on a partner, your breakup plan will backfire


You have already started making wedding plans even when he/she doesn’t seem ready; your breakup plan is failing already.


How many potential fiancé/fiancée do you want to take home to mama?


Living together is one sure way to finish the sweetness before marriage.


Do you see him/her in your future, if no time to review your breakup plans


When was the last time he/she made you soulfully happy?


These might seem like guides to a happy/not so happy relationship but they are breakup guide, excuses to leave before it gets worse, always have it in mind that while you’re there making future plans, your partner might be dusting out his/her breakup manual.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOCigfuO3LA



Isabella Ibeji

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/do-you-have-breakup-plan-when-youre.html

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Dejiih001(m): 7:55pm On Oct 19, 2016
Love does happen naturally maybe because of maturity a fake relationship can easily be detected by me.

I no longer fall victim but the victimizer.

Coz of my experience.

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Cutehector(m): 7:55pm On Oct 19, 2016
undecided
Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Nobody: 7:59pm On Oct 19, 2016
I even think say having 25 or more Babes for Corner Na the break up plan undecided undecided



Op,


Gerrarahia mehn cool

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by VaselineWarrior: 8:01pm On Oct 19, 2016
bella, shaki dat nyaaa-ash on ma face embarassed

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by dollyjoy(f): 8:07pm On Oct 19, 2016
Being independent is the best breakup plan. Most times, the "left" wails uncontrollably not because she/he deeply love the other party but because of those things that won't be enjoyed again while the affair last. grin

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Nobody: 8:09pm On Oct 19, 2016
On a more serious note, things I see these days makes me wonder if there is anything like ..........


Unconditional Love. cry


Op like seriously, Break up plan


Tf?

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by honeygirl17: 8:13pm On Oct 19, 2016
Hope for the best

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Talk2Bella(f): 8:15pm On Oct 19, 2016
Diddyydiva:
On a more serious note, things I see these days makes me wonder if there is anything like ..........


Unconditional Love. cry


Op like seriously, Break up plan


Tf?



there's nothing like that

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Talk2Bella(f): 8:16pm On Oct 19, 2016
dollyjoy:
Being independent is the best breakup plan. Most times, the "left" wails uncontrollably not because she/he deeply love the other party but because of those things that won't be enjoyed again while the affair last. grin

thank u, u nailed it smiley

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Talk2Bella(f): 8:17pm On Oct 19, 2016
Diddyydiva:
I even think say having 25 or more Babes for Corner Na the break up plan undecided undecided



Op,


Gerrarahia mehn cool

see his mouth cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Talk2Bella(f): 8:18pm On Oct 19, 2016
Dejiih001:
Love does happen naturally maybe because of maturity a fake relationship can easily be detected by me.

I no longer fall victim but the victimizer.

Coz of my experience.

heartbreaker grin
Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Nobody: 8:18pm On Oct 19, 2016
Talk2Bella:




there's nothing like that
There is nothing like unconditional love shocked shocked shocked




Actually there is sis smiley

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by yorhmienerd(m): 8:29pm On Oct 19, 2016
Talk2Bella:




there's nothing like that
You call ursef a rel. coucilor yet you believe the bolded

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Talk2Bella(f): 8:31pm On Oct 19, 2016
yorhmienerd:
You call ursef a rel. coucilor yet you believe the bolded

There's nothing like unconditional love, the sooner you know this the better, can you give your girlfriend you kidney even when you know you might not end up with her?

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Talk2Bella(f): 8:32pm On Oct 19, 2016
Without attaching emotions, can someone tell me what unconditional love means I'm waiting

Obviously most people use the word but don't know it's meaning

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Talk2Bella(f): 8:34pm On Oct 19, 2016
Diddyydiva:
There is nothing like unconditional love shocked shocked shocked




Actually there is sis smiley

Oya what's unconditional love

When was the last time you loved someone unconditionally

Common mouth odor people break up and yet you still believe there's unconditional love common, there's love, live that will make you ask where was that person before love that would shake you and give you orgasmm without s*x but how unconditional is such love?

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Nobody: 8:57pm On Oct 19, 2016
Talk2Bella:


Oya what's unconditional love

When was the last time you loved someone unconditionally

Common mouth odor people break up and yet you still believe there's unconditional love common, there's love, live that will make you ask where was that person before love that would shake you and give you orgasmm without s*x but how unconditional is such love?
Now I know why you created this thread, you don't believe in love. You don't believe in loving someone unconditionally, You don't believe in loving someone to the extent of putting them first before you.

Unconditional love is aching for the person's smile like it is a lottery.

Giving all your best to someone without expecting back.

Unconditional love is when you are asked ' why do love him' and your reply will be ' I just love him for no reason.'

Unconditional love is when you love and accept someone with all his or her flaws .

Unconditional love is that love that holds our grannies together till death do them part.

I hardly love, but when I do I do it unconditionally. My lady there I one person out there who wants to love you unconditionally. smiley

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Nobody: 9:01pm On Oct 19, 2016
Diddyydiva:
Now I know why you created this thread, you don't believe in love. You don't believe in loving someone unconditionally, You don't believe in loving someone to the extent of putting them first before you.

Unconditional love is aching for the person's smile like it is a lottery.

Giving all your best to someone without expecting back.

Unconditional love is when you are asked ' why do love him' and your reply will be ' I just love him for no reason.'

Unconditional love is when you love and accept someone with all his or her flaws .

Unconditional love is that love that holds our grannies together till death do them part.

I hardly love, but when I do I do it unconditionally. My lady there I one person out there who wants to love you unconditionally. smiley
na true cheesy cheesy
Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Nobody: 9:12pm On Oct 19, 2016
judeefcc:
na true cheesy cheesy
smiley smiley smiley
Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by veekid(m): 9:26pm On Oct 19, 2016
I don't; Buh I know someone who does......... Bibijay123
Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by babs01(m): 9:27pm On Oct 19, 2016
Yes nah, plenty side chicks

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Laveda(f): 9:28pm On Oct 19, 2016
Breakup plans? That's just silly.

Then there was no need going into the relationship at first.

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by dollyjoy(f): 9:29pm On Oct 19, 2016
Diddyydiva:
Now I know why you created this thread, you don't believe in love. You don't believe in loving someone unconditionally, You don't believe in loving someone to the extent of putting them first before you.

Unconditional love is aching for the person's smile like it is a lottery.

Giving all your best to someone without expecting back.

Unconditional love is when you are asked ' why do love him' and your reply will be ' I just love him for no reason.'

Unconditional love is when you love and accept someone with all his or her flaws .

Unconditional love is that love that holds our grannies together till death do them part.

I hardly love, but when I do I do it unconditionally. My lady there I one person out there who wants to love you unconditionally. smiley
There is nothing like unconditional love Diva.

There are always criteria before dating or loving, your condition for dating might be, Intelligence, financial buoyancy, slim, dark blah blah blah, all those are unconditions and when you consider those factors before dating then it is right to say your love is conditionally based or why do you reject some men advances and accept the others? Why not love them "unconditionally" as you said?


There is nothing like i "Love you for no reason" btw,there is always a reason why you chose that one person above the rest.smiley

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by finally1(m): 9:30pm On Oct 19, 2016
Bella don finally carry her lies enter fp

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Nobody: 9:30pm On Oct 19, 2016
babs01:
Yes nah, plenty side chicks
hehehehehe grin cheesy



Confirm. grin
Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by Nobody: 9:31pm On Oct 19, 2016
Diddyydiva:
There is nothing like unnconditional love shocked shocked shocked




Actually there is sis smiley

Do you know what it means to love unconditionally?
Can you love your neighbours child the same way you love your child?

There's nothing like unconditional love.
The key word is not love but UNCONDITIONAL.

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Re: Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone. by SexyRat: 9:31pm On Oct 19, 2016
After the girl I love so much left, that's whem I started having a break up plan.

I go into a relationship mindset of ending it soon.

Truth is i now find it difficult to love any girl with my heart.

I will be in the relationship, but my heart is far away from it

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