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NemzySeries:
ask me again, read ur earlier quote on my comment and tell me if it appears reasonable to u

ericsmith:
recieve d anointing to lie !!

ericmor:
Lol. I'm just appreciating your comment not that I'm trying to insult you. Could have been another person comment. Don't be offended bcs I don't know u n not trying to be rude.

NemzySeries:
i concur nw jst dat frm dis angle it wuznt cool, maybe nxt time u shd b more transparent.... do av a nice day

ericmor:
Lai lai. I'm not lai Mohammed son

ericsmith:
yle am stil waitin for d boy i sent groundnut,, garri don ova swell ..lemme add... if yu cannt lie then make sure yu av money.. ur gadgets wil entice these babes.
whr dis mukaila boy cum go !!! #brk

Tominiola:
She should dump him o jare. That's how I met someone last year, he told me one big massive lie that I believed. Once I found out. I quietly dropped him like a bad habit. I didn't pick his calls or reply his messages or anything cuz there's no point. I don't understand why people can't be themselves. The funny thing is he was now trying to make it seem as if I was beneath him When in actually I was better off without him. When you lie it makes you look weird. Dump him because if you don't what you allow is what will continue in the marriage. I don't even understand why Bella is defending this guy. It doesn't make sense.

Babzilla:
Sounds like an abj boy

ericsmith:
those wu carry eye go market these days end up going home with "packaging"
its nt abt bin smart or bin a panasharp..
you attract what you are .., ur friend cannt date a sincere guy,gbam!!!! twisted n complicated are women wen it cumz to r/ship & love
even isabella wants to b flattered ..what r we (men) suppose to do... women luv lies !! i tried truth naa me knw weytin my eye see fr dem hand

Talk2Bella:
Hey Bella please help me publish this and also advise me on the next step to take thanks.

When I met him he told me he had many things which I later found out to be lies, he was squatting but he told me his friend was the one squatting, so whenever I went to his house I would be expecting his friend to excuse us but he won’t until one day I got angry and told him he should excuse us after all that wasn’t his house, he got angry and chased me and my fiancé out that was when I knew my man was the squatter.

We raised money and got an apartment together, my job pays better than his and I was recently blessed with a car, but he’s gone around to tell everyone the car is his, he told everyone he pays for our house, feeds and clothes me while I just sit back and enjoy his wealth, this attitude makes people asks him for favors and then I end up giving him money to satisfy them.

There are so many things he brags about that he doesn’t own, lands, shares, money, and a sister abroad, I am tired, whenever I catch him lying he would say people loves lies; I don’t love him anymore I want to secretly get an apartment and dump him, I don’t see myself having kids with him, my children will learn nothing good from him, am I making the right decision?

Anonymous please


Would you have fallen in love with him if it weren’t for the lies he told you? He’s a braggart and you encouraged him by not debunking claims he makes while in public, you’re a participant of his bad habits and should not feel bad now things are worse.

Love comes with its price and you’ve paid yours, leaving him secretly is not the answer, no man is born evil, circumstances might have made him who he is, have a one on one intense talk with him and let him know how you really feel, no one is prone to change, tell him the lies and brags have to stop; you already know him in Toto there’s no need for him to present himself to be someone or something he’s not, this will only work if you still loved him which you said in your email you don’t.

Even if you’re going to leave still have that talk with him, it will make things better between both of you.

Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/02/my-fiance-brags-alot-he-lies-about.html?m=1

BabaAduras:
Talk2Bella,

She said she does not love him anymore. She should leave the stupid liar.

I do not agree with you that no man is born evil. Some men are simple born evil.

Tominiola:
I don't really believe in this you are "what attract what you are thing" if I have to be honest. The way I see it, sometimes bad things happen to good people in the sense that you can have a good heart and mean well for the other person, but then you come across someone who just out to use you or leech off of you.

Talk2Bella:
no one is born evil

check out the history of the worst serial killers on earth something happened to them during the course of their lives

BabaAduras:
Science has proven that some of the evil personalities of this world are genetically predisposed to committing evil. Scanning of brains of some of the notorious serial killers of this world have also shown elements of genetically predisposition to evil. So, what do you call genetically disposition? You are born with it, it has nothing to do with environment.

I totally agree that experience and environment contribute to whatever we become, but some things are simply hard wired into us all from the eggs of our mothers and sperms of our father. Simple as abc.

Talk2Bella:
where did you read about this please

BabaAduras:
Follow 'Discovery' Channel and just do a wild search on internet you will be amazed at all the work that has been done on this topic.

Let me add my own posers. Is Judas that betrayed Jesus a product of (greed) environment? Are those suffering from cancer, high blood pressure, diabetics, mental disabilities etc are product of what they eat (environment)?

Talk2Bella:
diabetics cancer mental disabilities are sometimes hereditary

Talk2Bella:
Hey Bella please help me publish this and also advise me on the next step to take thanks.

When I met him he told me he had many things which I later found out to be lies, he was squatting but he told me his friend was the one squatting, so whenever I went to his house I would be expecting his friend to excuse us but he won’t until one day I got angry and told him he should excuse us after all that wasn’t his house, he got angry and chased me and my fiancé out that was when I knew my man was the squatter.

We raised money and got an apartment together, my job pays better than his and I was recently blessed with a car, but he’s gone around to tell everyone the car is his, he told everyone he pays for our house, feeds and clothes me while I just sit back and enjoy his wealth, this attitude makes people asks him for favors and then I end up giving him money to satisfy them.

There are so many things he brags about that he doesn’t own, lands, shares, money, and a sister abroad, I am tired, whenever I catch him lying he would say people loves lies; I don’t love him anymore I want to secretly get an apartment and dump him, I don’t see myself having kids with him, my children will learn nothing good from him, am I making the right decision?

Anonymous please


Would you have fallen in love with him if it weren’t for the lies he told you? He’s a braggart and you encouraged him by not debunking claims he makes while in public, you’re a participant of his bad habits and should not feel bad now things are worse.

Love comes with its price and you’ve paid yours, leaving him secretly is not the answer, no man is born evil, circumstances might have made him who he is, have a one on one intense talk with him and let him know how you really feel, no one is prone to change, tell him the lies and brags have to stop; you already know him in Toto there’s no need for him to present himself to be someone or something he’s not, this will only work if you still loved him which you said in your email you don’t.

Even if you’re going to leave still have that talk with him, it will make things better between both of you.

Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/02/my-fiance-brags-alot-he-lies-about.html?m=1

Fedayeen02:
leave Talk2bella that's giving advice like a novice.


All this Charles B wannabe

Bruv, I just tire!

There is no love here. Infact, Love is non-existent in this situation.

Talk2Bella:
diabetics cancer mental disabilities are sometimes hereditary