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My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by skales67(m): 9:20am On Nov 02, 2020
It is not uncommon anymore seeing marriages and relationships falling apart out of so many reasons bordering from infidelity, domestic violence and other reasons.

Other reasons may stem from incompatibility, financial hardship, sexual weakness etc but about 80% of these breakups are from the first two reasons i stated earlier.

In the event of a breakup in relationship or marriage between two people, for the reason of domestic violence or infidelity, one person is seen as a perpetrator while the other is seen as the victim.

As you all know, in most cases of these events, the men are seen as the perpetrators while the women are seen as the victims. All over social media, we see ladies and women of all ages screaming blue murder about how they made sacrifices for the previous men they dated and how they ended up being dumped by these men.

Many of them who are single mothers from previous failed relationship(s) or failed marriage come online at any slightest opportunity to vent about how their ex got them pregnant and absconded or left her to raise their child alone.

While i would like to truthfully point out that there are indeed dead-beat dads all over the place who are irresponsible, my personal experience has also taught me to be wary and made me look in-depth at the scenarios that come to play while being with a fraction of the women who fall in this category which made be draw a solid conclusion based on my analysis before crucifying the men these women have either been with or are currently with. Oh yes...women who are single and even MARRIED...yes...i have dated them all and even opened a thread about some of my escapades with some of the married women i have had affairs with (see the thread here if you wish to be entertained or "disgusted" depending on your social and "moral standing" in the society)

Before you begin to throw charades at me, ask yourself inwardly if you are any better. We all have done things which society may not be give us accolades for but it takes guts to come out in the open and admit it like i am about to do so read on.

Like i said earlier, women seem to place themselves on the receiving end of most failed relationships and marriage as victims and the men seen as the villian but i have discovered that this is mostly false in it's entirety because most of the time, the man does not speak up.

Between 2014 till date apart from single ladies whom i have had something romantically with, i took a census which arrived at 8 married women and about 9 single mothers i was involved with.

All these women had something bad to say about their present or ex partners except just 1 among them. The only one case who never bad-mouthed her hubby as a matter of fact broke up with me as she said she was feeling pangs of guilt after making out with me and going home.

We were coursemates in the university back then and never talked to each other while in school but got reunited via our alumni Whatsapp group where i found her more appealing and radiant after having 4 kids. I approached her online via Facebook, we started chatting and before you could say "Jack Robinson", we kick-started a steamy amorous affair which but lasted for about 4 months.

While we were together "doing our thing" we never had any serious form of altercation or arguments or fights unlike the other ones who were slandering their partners or ex-partners as the case may be. We only ended it because she still had that love and respect for her husband even though she was caught up in the heat of the moment when i was making passes at her (trust me, i am very sweet-mouthed and artistic in seducing women) wink

I decided to really sit down and do an in-depth research and analysis and found out that these women's husbands and exes were really not the problem but the women themselves because they eventually displayed their crass attitude which their husbands and partners experienced to me!

The only case i made an exemption of apart from the "coursemate" was the very first married woman i dated. She is a mother of 3 but presently separated from him because of his negligence and the crude behavior from her in-laws which i later investigated and found out to be very true.

Of the other women, i investigated their husbands and found out that for some, they were either slandering the man or there was very little truth in their claims but mostly, the man was being who he was because of the negative and TOXIC character which they eventually displayed to me in due course!

This made me realize that the only and most effective way of finding out if what a married woman says about her husband is true is to DATE HER and in no distant time, her true characteristics will surface because like they say, "A leopard cannot shed its spots"

These women go all over social media groups, talkshows etc talking about how bad men treat them while they are the problems themselves.

Painfully the society takes whatever they say seriously and begin to berate the man because when they narrate "their ordeals", they go emotional and the man is seen as the devil because when he is narrating his own side (that is if he is even given the chance and opportunity to do so) he is barely emotional but says it with either a vent of bile or a straight face.

I will in due course recount my experiences with these women starting from the very first i dated till the last one which i broke up with few days ago.

My reason for creating this thread is to change the narrative that women are generally the victims of failed relationships while to me, it seems it is largely the other way round.

I am not a religious person but the BIBLE which Christians read says in Proverbs 14 that "A wise woman buildeth her home but the foolish woman pulls it down with her own hands"...if we should interpret that passage to my own understanding, it can be said that THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE while the WOMAN IS THE ONE WHO RUNS THE HOME! This is akin to a captain who steers a ship but the wife is like the ship mate who organizes the crew...if the crew becomes disorderly, the captain can be disoriented and that can wreck the ship!

If we should go with the narrative of the bible which say that the foolish woman pulls her house down with her own hands, then it is pertinent to say that so many of our women are really getting damn foolish these days because of so many broken homes we see and single mothers all over the place who lack decorum and display their brash attitude at any slightest given chance. (APOLOGIES TO THE FEW GOOD ONES WHO ARE THE REAL VICTIMS).

My fellow men, it is time for us to look inwardly...it is high time we begin to take the narratives of these slanderous women with a pinch of salt until we hear from the man's side or better still, try to get involved with the woman and no matter how hard you try to do things differently and better from "her husband or ex who she slandered" you will still get your own fair share of her venom!

A toxic woman will always be toxic even if she dates or marries JESUS CHRIST!

Will drop my harrowing encounters with some of these women whom i dated subsequently on this very thread so you all will learn from it!

Stay tuned!

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by skales67(m): 9:27am On Nov 02, 2020
odi1278, LawyerLomo, drake99, emmanuelpopson, gafman222, luminouz, sweettinz20

New thread connected to former. The main thread will still get updates.

I am penning this one down here like some sort of "reportage" on my "FIELD WORK" grin

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 9:41am On Nov 02, 2020
Skales baba, I dey o....I see your summon and I full ground. grin


What you said about women na the REAL TRUTH. Very few are truly victims but the rest are damaged themselves and can never make any man happy, because they can't even make themselves happy. My experience is from single ladies and trust me, I got an earful of their so called exes issues. In due course, I found out that they were the PROBLEM and even I couldn't tolerate half of what those 'supposedly bad exes: tolerated.

Its an inherent nature of women never to be accountable for their actions, they deflect, divert, redirect any blame of their actions towards someone else. They always have a JUSTIFICATION for some shiit they do. They are like cats: Vain, cruel and haughty.
I was talking to a girl like 3 days ago, who claimed men are bad. I asked her if her ex cheated on her, she said no but she cheated on him, JUST TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS. I probed further and she was still insisting it was his fault. she came with the 'he caused it BS" and If I had been like most men, I might have believed the issue was with her ex,not her.

One thing I've learned is this: YOU CANNOT SAVE A DAMAGED/TOXIC WOMAN, NOT NOW,NOT EVER. JUST LET HER BE, OR BE DRAGGED DOWN TO DARKNESS WITH HER


Though, like I admit, few women are real and raw and do admit they fuqed up and some do make amends.

I have a thread full of men who know these things and more... The link is below. Open your eyes and see



https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know#92715467

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Yoonsung52: 9:47am On Nov 02, 2020
Wow
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by skales67(m): 9:56am On Nov 02, 2020
luminouz:
Skales baba, I dey o....I see your summon and I full ground. grin


What you said about women na the REAL TRUTH. Very few are truly victims but the rest are damaged themselves and can never make any man happy, because they can't even make themselves happy. My experience is from single ladies and trust me, I got an earful of their so called exes issues. In due course, I found out that they were the PROBLEM and even I couldn't tolerate half of what those 'supposedly bad exes: tolerated.

Its an inherent nature of women never to be accountable for their actions, they deflect, divert, redirect any blame of their actions towards someone else. They always have a JUSTIFICATION for some shiit they do. They are like cats: Vain, cruel and haughty.
I was talking to a girl like 3 days ago, who claimed men are bad. I asked her if her ex cheated on her, she said no but she cheated on him, JUST TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS. I probed further and she was still insisting it was his fault. she came with the 'he caused it BS" and If I had been like most men, I might have believed the issue was with her ex,not her.

One thing I've learned is this: YOU CANNOT SAVE A DAMAGED/TOXIC WOMAN, NOT NOW,NOT EVER. JUST LET HER BE, OR BE DRAGGED DOWN TO DARKNESS WITH HER


Though, like I admit, few women are real and raw and do admit they fuqed up and some do make amends.

I have a thread full of men who know these things and more... The link is below. Open your eyes and see



https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know#92715467

It's so terrible! Little wonder why the lifespan of men are shorter.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Freestainworld(m): 10:06am On Nov 02, 2020
that is how married women will be giving me appointments in a hotel, some were single when I was chasing after them, immediately they got married, they started chasing after me, fear women, luckily enough I have a pretty wife who is loyal and satisfy my needs now.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by gafman222: 10:13am On Nov 02, 2020
skales67:
odi1278, LawyerLomo, drake99, emmanuelpopson, gafman222, luminouz, sweettinz20

New thread connected to former. The main thread will still get updates.

I am penning this one down here like some sort of "reportage" on my "FIELD WORK" grin
Thanks for d mention. We miss ur story
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 10:50am On Nov 02, 2020
Freestainworld:
that is how married women will be giving me appointments in a hotel, some were single when I was chasing after them, immediately they got married, they started chasing after me, fear women, luckily enough I have a pretty wife who is loyal and satisfy my needs now.
What was their excuse when they were single? How come they now wanted you after getting married?

I'm just curious..enlighten the house

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Freestainworld(m): 10:57am On Nov 02, 2020
luminouz:

What was their excuse when they were single? How come they now wanted you after getting married?

I'm just curious..enlighten the house
I am as curious as you are, you avoid me when single, and now wants me when married, some were telling me, had they know, they would have married me, that am too caring, but I manage to avoid them till I got married, I can not die for free food.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 11:01am On Nov 02, 2020
Freestainworld:
I am as curious as you are, you avoid me when single, and now wants me when married, some were telling me, had they know, they would have married me, that am too caring, but I manage to avoid them till I got married, I can not die for free food.

Lol...maybe they married for financial security,tribal issue or due to age because most times when a woman says 'you are too caring', it sends the wrong signals to me. If he was that CARING,then why dafuq didn't you marry him instead of the so-called he-goat you married huh?

It shows that they want to eat their cake and have it.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Amb1045(m): 12:10pm On Nov 02, 2020
female gender are naturally complicated. them themselves are confused. marry for the sake of kids. love doesn't exist in this part of the world it's just all about manipulations

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 12:32pm On Nov 02, 2020
Amb1045:
female gender are naturally complicated. them themselves are confused. marry for the sake of kids. love doesn't exist in this part of the world it's just all about manipulations

Lol, they are not confused. That is what they want you to think. They know what they are doing, AT THAT TIME. This is because they are ruled by emotions, not logic. When a particular emotion dries up, their behavior switches based on the next emotion they experience. Their emotion is also tied to their mood. Infact, they are the same thing.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Kobicove(m): 12:38pm On Nov 02, 2020
Freestainworld:
I am as curious as you are, you avoid me when single, and now wants me when married, some were telling me, had they know, they would have married me, that am too caring, but I manage to avoid them till I got married, I can not die for free food.

grin
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Onyenna(m): 1:55pm On Nov 02, 2020
Freestainworld:
that is how married women will be giving me appointments in a hotel, some were single when I was chasing after them, immediately they got married, they started chasing after me, fear women, luckily enough I have a pretty wife who is loyal and satisfy my needs now.

DafVck!!

Glad you were able to avoid them!

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by TheGreatFinesse: 1:59pm On Nov 02, 2020
luminouz:
Skales baba, I dey o....I see your summon and I full ground. grin


What you said about women na the REAL TRUTH. Very few are truly victims but the rest are damaged themselves and can never make any man happy, because they can't even make themselves happy. My experience is from single ladies and trust me, I got an earful of their so called exes issues. In due course, I found out that they were the PROBLEM and even I couldn't tolerate half of what those 'supposedly bad exes: tolerated.

Its an inherent nature of women never to be accountable for their actions, they deflect, divert, redirect any blame of their actions towards someone else. They always have a JUSTIFICATION for some shiit they do. They are like cats: Vain, cruel and haughty.
I was talking to a girl like 3 days ago, who claimed men are bad. I asked her if her ex cheated on her, she said no but she cheated on him, JUST TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS. I probed further and she was still insisting it was his fault. she came with the 'he caused it BS" and If I had been like most men, I might have believed the issue was with her ex,not her.

One thing I've learned is this: YOU CANNOT SAVE A DAMAGED/TOXIC WOMAN, NOT NOW,NOT EVER. JUST LET HER BE, OR BE DRAGGED DOWN TO DARKNESS WITH HER


Though, like I admit, few women are real and raw and do admit they fuqed up and some do make amends.

I have a thread full of men who know these things and more... The link is below. Open your eyes and see



https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know#92715467

undecided
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by TheGreatFinesse: 1:59pm On Nov 02, 2020
skales67:
It is not uncommon anymore seeing marriages and relationships falling apart out of so many reasons bordering from infidelity, domestic violence and other reasons.

Other reasons may stem from incompatibility, financial hardship, sexual weakness etc but about 80% of these breakups are from the first two reasons i stated earlier.

In the event of a breakup in relationship or marriage between two people, for the reason of domestic violence or infidelity, one person is seen as a perpetrator while the other is seen as the victim.

As you all know, in most cases of these events, the men are seen as the perpetrators while the women are seen as the victims. All over social media, we see ladies and women of all ages screaming blue murder about how they made sacrifices for the previous men they dated and how they ended up being dumped by these men.

Many of them who are single mothers from previous failed relationship(s) or failed marriage come online at any slightest opportunity to vent about how their ex got them pregnant and absconded or left her to raise their child alone.

While i would like to truthfully point out that there are indeed dead-beat dads all over the place who are irresponsible, my personal experience has also taught me to be wary and made me look in-depth at the scenarios that come to play while being with a fraction of the women who fall in this category which made be draw a solid conclusion based on my analysis before crucifying the men these women have either been with or are currently with. Oh yes...women who are single and even MARRIED...yes...i have dated them all and even opened a thread about some of my escapades with some of the married women i have had affairs with (see the thread here if you wish to be entertained or "disgusted" depending on your social and "moral standing" in the society)

Before you begin to throw charades at me, ask yourself inwardly if you are any better. We all have done things which society may not be give us accolades for but it takes guts to come out in the open and admit it like i am about to do so read on.

Like i said earlier, women seem to place themselves on the receiving end of most failed relationships and marriage as victims and the men seen as the villian but i have discovered that this is mostly false in it's entirety because most of the time, the man does not speak up.

Between 2014 till date apart from single ladies whom i have had something romantically with, i took a census which arrived at 8 married women and about 9 single mothers i was involved with.

All these women had something bad to say about their present or ex partners except just 1 among them. The only one case who never bad-mouthed her hubby as a matter of fact broke up with me as she said she was feeling pangs of guilt after making out with me and going home.

We were coursemates in the university back then and never talked to each other while in school but got reunited via our alumni Whatsapp group where i found her more appealing and radiant after having 4 kids. I approached her online via Facebook, we started chatting and before you could say "Jack Robinson", we kick-started a steamy amorous affair which but lasted for about 4 months.

While we were together "doing our thing" we never had any serious form of altercation or arguments or fights unlike the other ones who were slandering their partners or ex-partners as the case may be. We only ended it because she still had that love and respect for her husband even though she was caught up in the heat of the moment when i was making passes at her (trust me, i am very sweet-mouthed and artistic in seducing women) wink

I decided to really sit down and do an in-depth research and analysis and found out that these women's husbands and exes were really not the problem but the women themselves because they eventually displayed their crass attitude which their husbands and partners experienced to me!

The only case i made an exemption of apart from the "coursemate" was the very first married woman i dated. She is a mother of 3 but presently separated from him because of his negligence and the crude behavior from her in-laws which i later investigated and found out to be very true.

Of the other women, i investigated their husbands and found out that for some, they were either slandering the man or there was very little truth in their claims but mostly, the man was being who he was because of the negative and TOXIC character which they eventually displayed to me in due course!

This made me realize that the only and most effective way of finding out if what a married woman says about her husband is true is to DATE HER and in no distant time, her true characteristics will surface because like they say, "A leopard cannot shed its spots"

These women go all over social media groups, talkshows etc talking about how bad men treat them while they are the problems themselves.

Painfully the society takes whatever they say seriously and begin to berate the man because when they narrate "their ordeals", they go emotional and the man is seen as the devil because when he is narrating his own side (that is if he is even given the chance and opportunity to do so) he is barely emotional but says it with either a vent of bile or a straight face.

I will in due course recount my experiences with these women starting from the very first i dated till the last one which i broke up with few days ago.

My reason for creating this thread is to change the narrative that women are generally the victims of failed relationships while to me, it seems it is largely the other way round.

I am not a religious person but the BIBLE which Christians read says in Proverbs 14 that "A wise woman buildeth her home but the foolish woman pulls it down with her own hands"...if we should interpret that passage to my own understanding, it can be said that THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE while the WOMAN IS THE ONE WHO RUNS THE HOME! This is akin to a captain who steers a ship but the wife is like the ship mate who organizes the crew...if the crew becomes disorderly, the captain can be disoriented and that can wreck the ship!

If we should go with the narrative of the bible which say that the foolish woman pulls her house down with her own hands, then it is pertinent to say that so many of our women are really getting damn foolish these days because of so many broken homes we see and single mothers all over the place who lack decorum and display their brash attitude at any slightest given chance. (APOLOGIES TO THE FEW GOOD ONES WHO ARE THE REAL VICTIMS).

My fellow men, it is time for us to look inwardly...it is high time we begin to take the narratives of these slanderous women with a pinch of salt until we hear from the man's side or better still, try to get involved with the woman and no matter how hard you try to do things differently and better from "her husband or ex who she slandered" you will still get your own fair share of her venom!

A toxic woman will always be toxic even if she dates or marries JESUS CHRIST!

Will drop my harrowing encounters with some of these women whom i dated subsequently on this very thread so you all will learn from it!

Stay tuned!

lipsrsealed
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 2:05pm On Nov 02, 2020
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Priam: 2:16pm On Nov 02, 2020
Skales67 I've gone through your other thread. Woow! Quite an eye-opener.

Omoh, things they occur.

What really amazed me were people threatening you, lol grin, one even gave you a deadline undecided Nigerians Sha.

If there're people I try to keep at arm's length, it's single mothers; there's too much drama with that lot. I have nothing against them, but I just don't deal nor want to start anything

Abeg give me mention when you update.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Chapter1vs6(m): 2:56pm On Nov 02, 2020
skales67:
odi1278, LawyerLomo, drake99, emmanuelpopson, gafman222, luminouz, sweettinz20

New thread connected to former. The main thread will still get updates.

I am penning this one down here like some sort of "reportage" on my "FIELD WORK" grin
I admire your commitment and tenacity

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by crisgold: 3:14pm On Nov 02, 2020
TheGreatFinesse:
lipsrsealed
mzambia.com
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by BAZ001: 3:17pm On Nov 02, 2020
skales67:
It is not uncommon anymore seeing marriages and relationships falling apart out of so many reasons bordering from infidelity, domestic violence and other reasons.

As you all know, in most cases of these events, the men are seen as the perpetrators while the women are seen as the victims. All over social media, we see ladies and women of all ages screaming blue murder about how they made sacrifices for the previous men they dated and how they ended up being dumped by these men.

Between 2014 till date apart from single ladies whom i have had something romantically with, i took a census which arrived at 8 married women and about 9 single mothers i was involved with.

Painfully the society takes whatever they say seriously and begin to berate the man because when they narrate "their ordeals", they go emotional and the man is seen as the devil because when he is narrating his own side (that is if he is even given the chance and opportunity to do so) he is barely emotional but says it with either a vent of bile or a straight face.

Stay tuned!


Seriously I never thought of this , even as a guy immediately you see single mothers, separated or divorced mother, You will just assume that it’s the man fault and when you hear the story, oh you will say what a wicked man.
Now I know better at least I will like to hear the man story before concluding.
But OP you get mind, 8 married women

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 3:22pm On Nov 02, 2020
BAZ001:


Seriously I never thought of this , even as a guy immediately you see single mother, separated or divorced wife . You will just assume that it’s the man and when you hear the story, oh you will say what a wicked man.
Now I know better at least I will like to hear the other side before concluding.
But OP you get mind, 8 married women

E shock you? grin

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by BAZ001: 3:30pm On Nov 02, 2020
DaudaTheSexyGuy:


E shock you? grin

E shock me oohhhhhh

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by punisha: 4:10pm On Nov 02, 2020
Women?

Both single, married , halfly married and semi married are a course no one should try studying.
Men keep dying early because they feel they can graduate from this school with no end and when it gets hot, and they realise the maze is consuming, they throw in the towel.

They r the most complicated species of animal to grace the earth.
Sometimes , u will ask urself if ur the abnormal one by the time they start acting up.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by mcjohny(m): 4:47pm On Nov 02, 2020
i must read all useful comments so help me God,amen

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by binary007: 4:47pm On Nov 02, 2020
That was how I was in the Bar this weekend watching Arsenal vs Manchester United... The lady serving drinks was just nagging endlessly how her husband wouldn't give her money for her father's burial that man is wicked and his children which also happen to be her children would do the same thing to him.... Plenty swear, trust me! One would have been moved to open a GoFundMe account for her but I wasn't buying any of it at all... If fact I was getting pissed off.

God vindicated me when one of her fellow co-worker told her that is it no just last month that he gave you money for rent? She replied by saying that was before her father died.
Madam , was he the one that killed your father?
Sebi its your father that died!
She earns 15k monthly and she is talking of killing a cow for the party.
I just left the bar for another bar before I start fighting another man's battle.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Fsekillmonger: 5:02pm On Nov 02, 2020
binary007:
That was how I was in the Bar this weekend watching Arsenal vs Manchester United... The lady serving drinks was just nagging endlessly how her husband wouldn't give her money for her father's burial that man is wicked and his children which also happen to be her children would do the same thing to him.... Plenty swear, trust me! One would have been moved to open a GoFundMe account for her but I wasn't buying any of it at all... If fact I was getting pissed off.

God vindicated me when one of her fellow co-worker told her that is it no just last month that he gave you money for rent? She replied by saying that was before her father died.
Madam , was he the one that killed your father?
Sebi its your father that died!
She earns 15k monthly and she is talking of killing a cow for the party.
I just left the bar for another bar before I start fighting another man's battle.



Lol...it's a wise man who chooses his battles

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by BabaAgba79(m): 5:06pm On Nov 02, 2020
skales67:
It is not uncommon anymore seeing marriages and relationships falling apart out of so many reasons bordering from infidelity, domestic violence and other reasons.

Other reasons may stem from incompatibility, financial hardship, sexual weakness etc but about 80% of these breakups are from the first two reasons i stated earlier.

In the event of a breakup in relationship or marriage between two people, for the reason of domestic violence or infidelity, one person is seen as a perpetrator while the other is seen as the victim.

As you all know, in most cases of these events, the men are seen as the perpetrators while the women are seen as the victims. All over social media, we see ladies and women of all ages screaming blue murder about how they made sacrifices for the previous men they dated and how they ended up being dumped by these men.

Many of them who are single mothers from previous failed relationship(s) or failed marriage come online at any slightest opportunity to vent about how their ex got them pregnant and absconded or left her to raise their child alone.

While i would like to truthfully point out that there are indeed dead-beat dads all over the place who are irresponsible, my personal experience has also taught me to be wary and made me look in-depth at the scenarios that come to play while being with a fraction of the women who fall in this category which made be draw a solid conclusion based on my analysis before crucifying the men these women have either been with or are currently with. Oh yes...women who are single and even MARRIED...yes...i have dated them all and even opened a thread about some of my escapades with some of the married women i have had affairs with (see the thread here if you wish to be entertained or "disgusted" depending on your social and "moral standing" in the society)

Before you begin to throw charades at me, ask yourself inwardly if you are any better. We all have done things which society may not be give us accolades for but it takes guts to come out in the open and admit it like i am about to do so read on.

Like i said earlier, women seem to place themselves on the receiving end of most failed relationships and marriage as victims and the men seen as the villian but i have discovered that this is mostly false in it's entirety because most of the time, the man does not speak up.

Between 2014 till date apart from single ladies whom i have had something romantically with, i took a census which arrived at 8 married women and about 9 single mothers i was involved with.

All these women had something bad to say about their present or ex partners except just 1 among them. The only one case who never bad-mouthed her hubby as a matter of fact broke up with me as she said she was feeling pangs of guilt after making out with me and going home.

We were coursemates in the university back then and never talked to each other while in school but got reunited via our alumni Whatsapp group where i found her more appealing and radiant after having 4 kids. I approached her online via Facebook, we started chatting and before you could say "Jack Robinson", we kick-started a steamy amorous affair which but lasted for about 4 months.

While we were together "doing our thing" we never had any serious form of altercation or arguments or fights unlike the other ones who were slandering their partners or ex-partners as the case may be. We only ended it because she still had that love and respect for her husband even though she was caught up in the heat of the moment when i was making passes at her (trust me, i am very sweet-mouthed and artistic in seducing women) wink

I decided to really sit down and do an in-depth research and analysis and found out that these women's husbands and exes were really not the problem but the women themselves because they eventually displayed their crass attitude which their husbands and partners experienced to me!

The only case i made an exemption of apart from the "coursemate" was the very first married woman i dated. She is a mother of 3 but presently separated from him because of his negligence and the crude behavior from her in-laws which i later investigated and found out to be very true.

Of the other women, i investigated their husbands and found out that for some, they were either slandering the man or there was very little truth in their claims but mostly, the man was being who he was because of the negative and TOXIC character which they eventually displayed to me in due course!

This made me realize that the only and most effective way of finding out if what a married woman says about her husband is true is to DATE HER and in no distant time, her true characteristics will surface because like they say, "A leopard cannot shed its spots"

These women go all over social media groups, talkshows etc talking about how bad men treat them while they are the problems themselves.

Painfully the society takes whatever they say seriously and begin to berate the man because when they narrate "their ordeals", they go emotional and the man is seen as the devil because when he is narrating his own side (that is if he is even given the chance and opportunity to do so) he is barely emotional but says it with either a vent of bile or a straight face.

I will in due course recount my experiences with these women starting from the very first i dated till the last one which i broke up with few days ago.

My reason for creating this thread is to change the narrative that women are generally the victims of failed relationships while to me, it seems it is largely the other way round.

I am not a religious person but the BIBLE which Christians read says in Proverbs 14 that "A wise woman buildeth her home but the foolish woman pulls it down with her own hands"...if we should interpret that passage to my own understanding, it can be said that THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE while the WOMAN IS THE ONE WHO RUNS THE HOME! This is akin to a captain who steers a ship but the wife is like the ship mate who organizes the crew...if the crew becomes disorderly, the captain can be disoriented and that can wreck the ship!

If we should go with the narrative of the bible which say that the foolish woman pulls her house down with her own hands, then it is pertinent to say that so many of our women are really getting damn foolish these days because of so many broken homes we see and single mothers all over the place who lack decorum and display their brash attitude at any slightest given chance. (APOLOGIES TO THE FEW GOOD ONES WHO ARE THE REAL VICTIMS).

My fellow men, it is time for us to look inwardly...it is high time we begin to take the narratives of these slanderous women with a pinch of salt until we hear from the man's side or better still, try to get involved with the woman and no matter how hard you try to do things differently and better from "her husband or ex who she slandered" you will still get your own fair share of her venom!

A toxic woman will always be toxic even if she dates or marries JESUS CHRIST!

Will drop my harrowing encounters with some of these women whom i dated subsequently on this very thread so you all will learn from it!

Stay tuned!


Dear OP, after you have enjoyed their yolks, you now think you are in the right position to pass judgement on these married women and single mothers! I want to tell you that both men and women share the blames. 70% of these break ups come from men. See, I am a man. Many of my friends cheat on their wives, they keep late at clubs and beer parlours. Some of my guys today are abroad leaving their lucrative businesses and banking jobs for America and Europe leaving their wives behind. Some even went to Dubai chasing shadows leaving their young wives and children. Please, these your beautiful wives are humans too! Stop the flimsy excuses for men! In fact, a lot of men cannot stand their wives success. Some men just hate the fact that their wives are successful. See, in this 21st century, no woman wants to tolerate the indecent excesses of men! Women have their eyes to see!

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Sixfeetbelle: 5:08pm On Nov 02, 2020
You have successfully managed to put women on the pedestal to be bashed again. Suddenly even men who don't know anything about single mothers or married women and the effects bad marriages and relationships have on their psyche are concurring and commenting one-sided fallacies just to appear 'manly'.

Well done. You'll receive the reward you deserve.

Cc: skales67

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Nobody: 5:16pm On Nov 02, 2020
luminouz:

What was their excuse when they were single? How come they now wanted you after getting married?

I'm just curious..enlighten the house

Financial security for some and for most, it's because they know time is coming, so whoever is interested they go, reasons why you see couples having marital issues because they are mostly likely not somehow they wanted to end up with, maybe the person was responsible until their feelings get complicated, and you know how women can be with their feelings ?

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by GreaterFuture(m): 5:17pm On Nov 02, 2020
Smh

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