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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by dabrightt: 10:32am On Feb 03, 2017

Nma27:
An advice from an enlighten babe who refuse to be shackled by our societal impediments. A typical "Chronic African Babe'" won't allow such. So get your head right.

just answer this simple question
1. Can you advice your younger brother to wife her?

2. If you are a mother will you advice your son to wife her?
No enlighten person will advice such it is ponly practised in village..I guessed you are a villager

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by ikp120(m): 10:50am On Feb 03, 2017

rebirthforgoody:
Why me Na.

Your curiosity got me wondering

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by ISTANDWITHBUHAR: 10:50am On Feb 03, 2017

Nma27:
If u truly love her and she's a good woman to you, wife her.

LOL no be only wife her, Even with one child i will not marry her except her Hubby is late..

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by ISTANDWITHBUHAR: 10:51am On Feb 03, 2017

newyorks:
my house na IDP camp?

hahahaha funny dude..

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by newyorks(m): 10:57am On Feb 03, 2017

ThinkSmarter:
Guy u re too much, girls will fvck around in their bloom and give birth to bastard babies and end looking for a punk or ass.hole to raise the kids and take care of them also.
Fvck them Bi.tches.
I ain't Mother Theresa .

my gee u'r there @smarthinker.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by newyorks(m): 11:00am On Feb 03, 2017

vivypretty:
[quote i couldnt help laughing ......................u self get bad mouth

prettyvivy u sharp for dat dp oo,can we hook up.

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by puresaint12(m): 11:03am On Feb 03, 2017

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Hipsymoi: 11:06am On Feb 03, 2017

THAT IS A VERY BIG LIE. YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID FROM YOUR OWN PERSPECTIVE OR VIEW

Abudu2000:
ladies like that are very rude and never ready to submit to anyone, mostly almost all of them are illustrates, how many educated ladies do you see in such situations? Very few

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by puresaint12(m): 11:08am On Feb 03, 2017

newyorks:
my house na IDP camp?

LoL o oh my gosh dude that was side-splitting! Couldn't contain the laughter. U knw it's people like you make me focus on reading NL comments. Wickedly Hilarious

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by miriamchi(f): 11:11am On Feb 03, 2017

enshi:
You the one on the dp

yea.

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by kaycee2505(m): 11:22am On Feb 03, 2017

Hmm my broda all of dem oo

ekanDamie:
u my friend, are right.
i once dated a G who confessed to me she had done abortion
and has upto 20 body counts. i was shocked.
but cos of her honesty, i decided not to leave her.
she got Preg for me too, and guess what, she filled for abortion
that she aint ready yet. that same lady will still date anoda guy.
so, between her and the lady the OP described, whos worse?

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by CandiceJay(f): 11:24am On Feb 03, 2017

Any guy that has dated more than one lady nd has had sex with the ladies he dated, and calls a single mother a who..re... Such guy is an idiot.

For u to av sex with a lady u re not married to, there is every possiblity dat you'll ask for an abortion if she gets pregnant. And you're there badmouthing a lady that decides to keep her baby after doing what u also do. Shame on you.
I don't advice sex b4 marriage bt i respect single mothers nd they deserve to get good guys too. They are beta than those single abortionist ladies out there.

I am not a single mother o. But stop badmouthing them if u also engage in premarital sex.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by enshi(m): 11:33am On Feb 03, 2017*

miriamchi:
yea.

Wow.. You pretty..

Before now i used to think pretty ladies dont always have issues of the heart, but ofcourse then i dint understand the concept of choice. In as much as i find you very attractive i would want to hope you wont give me reason to regret this action.. I have PMed you... But just incase its delayed here is my email or still

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Jimi23(m): 11:37am On Feb 03, 2017

toshmann:
Fresh wife is a nulliparous woman. Woman that has never been pregnant. Yes. Young men deserve such too, especially young men who have no child.

If he likes her, why come to nairaland? Huh?
According to the poster, she wasn't raped. Or do you know something the poster doesn't know?

Now your ogbanje spiritual eyes have told you I'm female abi? Better go find your pastor/doctor/babalawo for further services. If u paid anyone money for those spiritual eyes wey de tell u about my gender, better go back collect your change.

Love indeed. If you love am, marry am. Did I say he shouldn't marry her?

Biko park well joo

Now madam analyst. How can u tell a woman that has been pregnant and aborted 20 times? Hmn? Has never been pregnant indeed. Just free d dude joor. Nobody holy pass.

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by pattybf(f): 11:37am On Feb 03, 2017

CandiceJay:
Any guy that has dated more than one lady nd has had sex with the ladies he dated, and calls a single mother a who..re... Such guy is an idiot.

For u to av sex with a lady u re not married to, there is every possiblity dat you'll ask for an abortion if she gets pregnant. And you're there badmouthing a lady that decides to keep her baby after doing what u also do. Shame on you.
I don't advice sex b4 marriage bt i respect single mothers nd they deserve to get good guys too. They are beta than those single abortionist ladies out there.

I am not a single mother o. But stop badmouthing them if u also engage in premarital sex.

hmmm!.......I see them coming after you!

I mean d nl who..re guys.

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nobody: 11:42am On Feb 03, 2017

FTbomb:
so are you saying you're still a virgin... you've not been fucking?

Am not a virgin.. I use to have sex in the past. And I made sure it's not often and my bf then must be on protection.. There is nothing like in the heat of passion we forgot to use condom. Am always with my senses most times and very few times I forgot. I immediately rush to pharmacy and buy postinor.
There was a particular period, my ex said he wants to marry me but I. Must be pregnant first. With the pressure he was mounting on me, I was thinking deeply about it and had decided I will tell him yes ok.. Let's go for it.. But that night, as I was sleeping my late mum appeared in my dream and she gave me 3 Abala/ that's a resounding slap at my back in the dream and said so u want to go against my wishes abi? What kind of dumvb daughter did I give birth to? U what to be single mum? U want to consider that stupidd boy.. My God! Before u disgrace my memory I will finish u off!
shocked

With the beating, I woke up from the dream.. Screaming mama am sorry ooo. Please oo

Lol.. That day I had to breakup with my guy.. I just told him if he's hung unto making me pregnant before paying my bride price..then Sorry am not interested anymore.. Bye bye.. He was shocked looking at me. As I hurriedly left his place..
Even till now, she's dead and buried for the past 7years but I still can't go against her wishes ..
I cant cry

Now am born again.. Na celibacy all thru until wedding night.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Abudu2000(m): 12:00pm On Feb 03, 2017

Hipsymoi:
THAT IS A VERY BIG LIE. YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID FROM YOUR OWN PERSPECTIVE OR VIEW

how can a lady be so unlucky that 2 guys would leave her after she had given them kids?? Or you wanna tell me she is doing contract marriage ni huh

Oga her character is worse....The only person that could have endured it was the second guy but as far that one also left then something isn't right about her....

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by toshmann(m): 12:25pm On Feb 03, 2017

Jimi23:
Now madam analyst. How can u tell a woman that has been pregnant and aborted 20 times? Hmn? Has never been pregnant indeed. Just free d dude joor. Nobody holy pass.

The dude is free. Nobody is holding him but himself. He decided to come to nairaland to seek opinion on an important private matter like choice of a life partner.
Nuff said.

As per abortion regulars, leave matter. If a woman has been pregnant before, I will know. If you need lectures, let me know. But there are anatomical and physiological means of knowing women who have been pregant before.

But don't forget, even ashawo has a right to be loved. . . . . . . . . Just not my me cool

And I don't begrudge those who chose to love whomever they want to love, but I don't want them or anyone to begrudge me for not loving someone.
Chikena!!

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Prettyenit18(f): 12:25pm On Feb 03, 2017

As you people are blaming the lady, please don't forget to blame the guys that got her pregnant and abandoned their children. They are also wrong. Please the parents should start training their boys, tell them not to get any lady pregnant till marriage, the society should start shaming the boys too, for getting a lady pregnant outside marriage. They should make the society better for our sisters, mothers, daughters, brothers e.t.c As a man you should know a lady's character before you jump into bed with her, don't sleep with get her pregnant and start saying you cannot marry her because you don't like her character.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Jimi23(m): 12:29pm On Feb 03, 2017

toshmann:
The dude is free. Nobody is holding him but himself. He decided to come to nairaland to seek opinion on an important private matter like choice of a life partner.
Nuff said.

As per abortion regulars, leave matter. If a woman has been pregnant before, I will know. If you need lectures, let me know. But there are anatomical and physiological means of knowing women who have been pregant before.

But don't forget, even ashawo has a right to be loved. . . . . . . . . Just not my me
And I don't begrudge those who chose to love whomever they want to love, but I don't want them or anyone to begrudge me for not loving someone.
Chikena!!

Ok madam. Shikena. Leave matter for mathias

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by andyanders: 12:40pm On Feb 03, 2017*

Nma27:
If u truly love her and she's a good woman to you, wife her.

Nonsense. Which Love? Wife her wetin? Why was she not able to keep to two different men she gave birth to? First was a mistake, second too a mistake and why she want the 3rd?

If the two earlier men died after marrying her, then the 3rd man should prepare to die. If she separated from the first, why couldn't her keep the second. She is a Time Bomb hence I cannot recommend any man for her.

In marriage, watch before you leap. Keep your eyes open when going into relationship.Avoid having kids out of wedlock but if you do, carry your cross alone.

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by davidif: 1:32pm On Feb 03, 2017

AmuDimkpa:
I hardly comment on these topics but I will give you this piece of advice. NEVER marry a single mum. I repeat, NEVER marry a single mum. I am telling you this from experience. The issue is not because she has a child, no. The issue is that there will be so much drama. If the kids don't like you, then you are in for a long ride. Also, the lady will definitely give more attention to those kids than you. The cost of trying to win the kids over and many other things are not worth it bro. Forget relationships, marriage is a totally different ball game. My apologies to single mums but this is just the way it is. All the best.

Please someone should frame this post. It seems that a lot of people on here giving advice have never been in one before so they are talking nonsense.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by andyanders: 2:31pm On Feb 03, 2017

People should also note here that the said lady has two kids from different men. In fact, ONLY unreasonable guy would wanna settle down with such lady. If the first was a mistake, the 2nd shouldn't have been a mistake hence I am afraid if the 3rd person goes in there ...............................

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by toshmann(m): 3:24pm On Feb 03, 2017

Jimi23:
Ok madam. Shikena. Leave matter for mathias

Trying to piss me off. . . . . . . , it ain't working tongue

U need to upgrade your thinking faculty to at least rise a little better than a cow's reasoning

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by CandiceJay(f): 4:02pm On Feb 03, 2017

pattybf:
hmmm!.......I see them coming after you!
I mean d nl who..re guys.

They should. I have said what i have to say

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Cherlene(f): 5:07pm On Feb 03, 2017

CandiceJay:
Any guy that has dated more than one lady nd has had sex with the ladies he dated, and calls a single mother a who..re... Such guy is an idiot.

For u to av sex with a lady u re not married to, there is every possiblity dat you'll ask for an abortion if she gets pregnant. And you're there badmouthing a lady that decides to keep her baby after doing what u also do. Shame on you.
I don't advice sex b4 marriage bt i respect single mothers nd they deserve to get good guys too. They are beta than those single abortionist ladies out there.

I am not a single mother o. But stop badmouthing them if u also engage in premarital sex.

YOU speak volumes!

Cherlene

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Nickymezor(f): 5:20pm On Feb 03, 2017

SalomonKane:
Em, what made you think I wasn't?

I guess it more of a perception... I noticed u make jibes at people .

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by anigbajumo(m): 5:55pm On Feb 03, 2017

After 2,u mean marry huh

WTF,it is better to keep off than future drama....

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Cherlene(f): 6:23pm On Feb 03, 2017

I had to copy this from your THREAD at MILONIS.

<<----Prayer of St. Francis---->>

The world is presently besieged by legions of calamities and disasters----> from the unending Middle east conflict, waves of ferocious terrorism sweeping across the Arab world, the scourge of Aids, unending circle of corruption......

But I feel that the greatest destroyer of peace today is abortion, because it is a war against the child, a direct killing of the innocent, murder by the mother herself.

And if we accept that a mother can kill even her own child, how can we tell other people not to kill one another? How do we persuade a woman not to have an abortion? As always, we must do so with love. The mother who is thinking of abortion should be helped to love even if it hurts her plans or free time, to respect the life of her child.

By abortion, the father is told that he does not have to take responsibility at all for the child he has brought into the world. That father is likely to put other women into the same trouble. So abortion just leads to more abortion.

Any country that accepts abortion is not teaching it's people to love, but to use any violence to get what they want. That is why the greatest destroyer of love and peace is abortion.

I wish you can hear me scream" please don't kill the child, I want the child. Please give me the child. I am willing to accept any child who would be aborted and to love the child and be loved by the child".

In Calcutta, there are about 3000 children saved from abortion (cc: Mother Teresa). These children have brought such love and joy to their adopting parents and have grown up so full of love and joy.

Let us make that point- that no child will be unwanted, unloved, uncared for, killed and thrown away.

Shalom!

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by SalomonKane: 6:34pm On Feb 03, 2017

Nickymezor:
I guess it more of a perception... I noticed u make jibes at people .

Really? What kind of jibe do I make at people?

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by chiraqDemon(m): 6:40pm On Feb 03, 2017

I would
I mean my last gf had a son and im a son of a single mom myself
Being a single mom does not reduce your value
It even increases it if u successfully raise ur children alone and they come out right n good like moi
S/o to all single moms yall the mvp

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With 2 Kids From Different Men? by Oreoluwa09(f): 6:42pm On Feb 03, 2017

babyfaceafrica:
my choice....wetin concern you?

ask google... tongue

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