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Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by willi926(m): 3:08pm On Feb 05, 2017

Na ur type need confirm flogging. angry

wch one is to cry 4 a woman na. Goan sit down. U ar not a man. U ar a sissy

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by Stellamariss(f): 3:56pm On Feb 05, 2017

eeeya bro sorry, girls are too silly including me

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Feb 05, 2017

enuk80:
i am trying to come out from a relationship with my girlfriend whom i love so much but i discovered that things are not meant to be and i broke it up with her...i tried to pleased her while i displeased myself...i saw all her wrong doing but i thought she would change but she didnt because she got dark secret, not open minded, tell so many lies etc., doesnt give a damn if i want to leave or not because she got many guys as friends and even married men coming to visit her..i sat down and i discovered that my relationship fail for the following reasons:

1. i was scared of starting all over again which made me scared of losing her.
2. i didnt take my decision serious because she knew i would always forgiver her.
3. i was too emotional
4. i didnt hangout with other girls because i thought i got her.
5. i fail to learn from my past relationship
6. i over showed love to her when she dont deserve it.
7. i was too caring
8. i made her belief i cant do without her.
9. i cried before her and she took advantage of my tears.
10. i was too committed in the relationship
11. i was too free with her.
12. i gave her too much attention.
13. i was always bother and worried about her.
14. i didnt allow her to express her love because my lovely attitude covers her.
15. i gave her so much hope
i guess she saw all these as my weak point and took advantage of me. i broke up with her because of the follwoing :

1. she lied ( i said 'lied' because i dont no if she was preg) about her being pregnant for me. i took her back because i wanted the baby. i doubted the pregnancy because she recently told me she had miscarriage whichh made me broke up with her. i told her after i forgave her that if i discovered you are not preg, u did aborted the baby, and if u later tell me u had miscarriage, then its over.
2.she pretend
3. she tells lies too much (though i tell lies too but unlike her).
4. she sex diffrent guys behind my back and its mind blowing.
5. she is not open.
6. she i not sincere
7. she keeps keeping in touch and seeing her ex fiance whom they are yet to break up.
8. she is not caring,
9. she is manipulative
10. she is not serious
11.she entertain married men and guys coming in and out of her house.
12. she is decieving.
13. she was not into me completely.
14. she claimed to be right
15. she is proud, not committed, not trust worthy
16. i dont understand her.

though i am not perfect and i no i have my own flaws but seeing all her doing is actually blowing me off..i really want to take things beyond where we are not but she is not ready.i broke up with her because this is not what i want. i am trying to move on but its hard for me and i want to prove to myself that i can move on without her even though i am finding it difficult.i guess she gladly accepted the break up cos she stop showing sign of wanting to come back.pls am i doing the right thing?i am the one who feels the pain more because i love her.

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Feb 05, 2017

oglalasioux:
Treat women rough. Don't ever let them know you want them. The day you let your guards down you are a dead duck.

real talk

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Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by firstking01(m): 5:18pm On Feb 05, 2017

Hehehehehe, atimes the people we date open our eyes to the reality of life...good a thing you are being sincere to yourself and you realised your mistakes and took the right decision...my advice, just continue in the decision you 've taken, you are on the right path...that girl doesn't deserve an intch of your love...i bet after she must 've exhausted that exuberating spirit controling her she will come back to her senses and perhaps comes to beg you, @this point you'd be a fool to welcome her back to your arms...move on and never look back.

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Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by kowalsky: 7:53pm On Feb 05, 2017

enuk80:
i am trying to come out from a relationship with my girlfriend whom i love so much but i discovered that things are not meant to be and i broke it up with her...i tried to pleased her while i displeased myself...i saw all her wrong doing but i thought she would change but she didnt because she got dark secret, not open minded, tell so many lies etc., doesnt give a damn if i want to leave or not because she got many guys as friends and even married men coming to visit her..i sat down and i discovered that my relationship fail for the following reasons:

1. i was scared of starting all over again which made me scared of losing her.
2. i didnt take my decision serious because she knew i would always forgiver her.
3. i was too emotional
4. i didnt hangout with other girls because i thought i got her.
5. i fail to learn from my past relationship
6. i over showed love to her when she dont deserve it.
7. i was too caring
8. i made her belief i cant do without her.
9. i cried before her and she took advantage of my tears.
10. i was too committed in the relationship
11. i was too free with her.
12. i gave her too much attention.
13. i was always bother and worried about her.
14. i didnt allow her to express her love because my lovely attitude covers her.
15. i gave her so much hope
i guess she saw all these as my weak point and took advantage of me. i broke up with her because of the follwoing :

1. she lied ( i said 'lied' because i dont no if she was preg) about her being pregnant for me. i took her back because i wanted the baby. i doubted the pregnancy because she recently told me she had miscarriage whichh made me broke up with her. i told her after i forgave her that if i discovered you are not preg, u did aborted the baby, and if u later tell me u had miscarriage, then its over.
2.she pretend
3. she tells lies too much (though i tell lies too but unlike her).
4. she sex diffrent guys behind my back and its mind blowing.
5. she is not open.
6. she i not sincere
7. she keeps keeping in touch and seeing her ex fiance whom they are yet to break up.
8. she is not caring,
9. she is manipulative
10. she is not serious
11.she entertain married men and guys coming in and out of her house.
12. she is decieving.
13. she was not into me completely.
14. she claimed to be right
15. she is proud, not committed, not trust worthy
16. i dont understand her.

though i am not perfect and i no i have my own flaws but seeing all her doing is actually blowing me off..i really want to take things beyond where we are not but she is not ready.i broke up with her because this is not what i want. i am trying to move on but its hard for me and i want to prove to myself that i can move on without her even though i am finding it difficult.i guess she gladly accepted the break up cos she stop showing sign of wanting to come back.pls am i doing the right thing?i am the one who feels the pain more because i love her.

girls are overhyped.
love is grossly overhyped.

I know how it feels after a relationship like dis. but trust me bro. there's more to life than girls. a lot more.

forget about this chick. cut all communication links with her. it's going to be hard at first. but it'll feel better with time. the main tin is you stop talking to her.
you stop talking to her for 1 day, it becomes two days the next day. and before you know it. it's a week already... you sleep and wake up its a month.

the pleasure derived from doing without pple who seemed to have been your lifeblood and who consider them selves your bastion is nothing short of ecstatic. this will boost your confidence and reinjuvinate you. with time this girl will amount to nothing short of a random pussy you drilled continually (at least from your perspective)

just take a big break from chicks and focus on your hustle bro. they're not worth one bit of the effort

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Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by KehindeOmololu: 9:17pm On Feb 05, 2017

Op..we have similar issue,the only different is that have not ended up with my gal cuz am still trying to get facts...she's a consistent liar and she also allow guys both single and married.This is our 7th year of dating...the reason for her change in attitude is distance which was as a result of NYSC..ever since she finished serving in abuja she refused to come home under the pretense of searching for job.

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by STILESGANG: 9:46pm On Feb 05, 2017

Nigerian fathers are doing a very bad job. Raising sissies instead of men, imagine a grown ass man crying because of a girl. Wtf!

If a girl thinks she is too beautiful for one guy to keep. Then am too handsome for one bitch.

No girl has ever treated me like trash and no girl ever will. I deal with girls with 99% of my brain and 1% of my heart

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by TuneChi369(m): 1:25am On Feb 06, 2017

Benita27:
Why won't he cry?, the story is heartbreaking sef.
Op, take heart!.

why won't he cry... Funny u.

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by enesty77(m): 4:33am On Feb 06, 2017

OP you caused all thses shits. Forget about her completely and move on bro ✌

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by wiringdpt(m): 4:38am On Feb 06, 2017

Pussy

enuk80:
i am trying to come out from a relationship with my girlfriend whom i love so much but i discovered that things are not meant to be and i broke it up with her...i tried to pleased her while i displeased myself...i saw all her wrong doing but i thought she would change but she didnt because she got dark secret, not open minded, tell so many lies etc., doesnt give a damn if i want to leave or not because she got many guys as friends and even married men coming to visit her..i sat down and i discovered that my relationship fail for the following reasons:

1. i was scared of starting all over again which made me scared of losing her.
2. i didnt take my decision serious because she knew i would always forgiver her.
3. i was too emotional
4. i didnt hangout with other girls because i thought i got her.
5. i fail to learn from my past relationship
6. i over showed love to her when she dont deserve it.
7. i was too caring
8. i made her belief i cant do without her.
9. i cried before her and she took advantage of my tears.
10. i was too committed in the relationship
11. i was too free with her.
12. i gave her too much attention.
13. i was always bother and worried about her.
14. i didnt allow her to express her love because my lovely attitude covers her.
15. i gave her so much hope
i guess she saw all these as my weak point and took advantage of me. i broke up with her because of the follwoing :

1. she lied ( i said 'lied' because i dont no if she was preg) about her being pregnant for me. i took her back because i wanted the baby. i doubted the pregnancy because she recently told me she had miscarriage whichh made me broke up with her. i told her after i forgave her that if i discovered you are not preg, u did aborted the baby, and if u later tell me u had miscarriage, then its over.
2.she pretend
3. she tells lies too much (though i tell lies too but unlike her).
4. she sex diffrent guys behind my back and its mind blowing.
5. she is not open.
6. she i not sincere
7. she keeps keeping in touch and seeing her ex fiance whom they are yet to break up.
8. she is not caring,
9. she is manipulative
10. she is not serious
11.she entertain married men and guys coming in and out of her house.
12. she is decieving.
13. she was not into me completely.
14. she claimed to be right
15. she is proud, not committed, not trust worthy
16. i dont understand her.

though i am not perfect and i no i have my own flaws but seeing all her doing is actually blowing me off..i really want to take things beyond where we are not but she is not ready.i broke up with her because this is not what i want. i am trying to move on but its hard for me and i want to prove to myself that i can move on without her even though i am finding it difficult.i guess she gladly accepted the break up cos she stop showing sign of wanting to come back.pls am i doing the right thing?i am the one who feels the pain more because i love her.

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by firstking01(m): 5:47am On Feb 06, 2017

STILESGANG:
Nigerian fathers are doing a very bad job. Raising sissies instead of men, imagine a grown ass man crying because of a girl. Wtf!

If a girl thinks she is too beautiful for one guy to keep. Then am too handsome for one bitch.

No girl has ever treated me like trash and no girl ever will. I deal with girls with 99% of my brain and 1% of my heart

You have an over swollen ego...watch it dude cos things are not always the way they seem in life.

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Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 6:02am On Feb 06, 2017

[color=dodgerblue]L0velyn berlynn

Look shocked

its u

http://www.sambisareports.com/2017/02/best-of-poetry-even-if-its-lie.html?m=1
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Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by lanicky(f): 7:23am On Feb 06, 2017

Jesu! Na somebody shortcomings long like this?

You did the right thing by breaking up with her.

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 8:27am On Feb 06, 2017

DeepFriedPuff:
[color=dodgerblue]L0velyn berlynn

Look its u

http://www.sambisareports.com/2017/02/best-of-poetry-even-if-its-lie.html?m=1
[/color]

yea its me, how did you see tat?, i think someone i know wrote a poem for me....

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by STILESGANG: 10:36am On Feb 06, 2017

firstking01:
You have an over swollen ego...watch it dude cos things are not always the way they seem in life.

So not allowing ladies use me like a doormat makes me arrogant or what are you yapping about? undecided

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by firstking01(m): 10:46am On Feb 06, 2017

STILESGANG:
So not allowing ladies use me like a doormat makes me arrogant or what are you yapping about?

Your initial post is nothing near a lady using you...you sounded so mysoginistic...you just have ego issues, deal with it.

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by STILESGANG: 11:46am On Feb 06, 2017

firstking01:
Your initial post is nothing near a lady using you...you sounded so mysoginistic...you just have ego issues, deal with it.

Well, your problem not mine.

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Feb 06, 2017

Berlynn:
yea its me, how did you see tat?, i think someone i know wrote a poem for me....

[color=deepskyblue] u think huh

? Was reading that site [/color]

Re: This Heartbreak Is Bringing Me Down.pls Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 8:36pm On Feb 06, 2017*

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