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I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by lordreigneth: 3:22am On Feb 13, 2017
Hello romancelanders,i met this girl up to two weeks now, she is lovable and very lively.
My intention when I first met her was to get along with her I mean to-date her.... But after some days I told her my intention.she told me we can only be friend and nothing else.
I wasn't happy about her reply and I told her
She even showed me her boyfriend pics that she love him.
Her boyfriend still in school but me am a working class I have a child outside wedlock and I already told her
Now I keep spending on her everyday, whatever she wants I give her but yet she turns down my proposal telling me we are friends and nothing more
She told me I should take her out on Valentine's day
But after all spending she will still say thank u and no time for romance....guys pls advice me well what can I do? I hope am not dulling myself.... I love her but she keeps saying we are friends..... Can she still fall for me or I should forget about her cos I need someone who I will date not friend... Thanks all
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 3:33am On Feb 13, 2017
She told you what's up but you don't want to hear. She will spend your money and go get the D from her boyfriend. On valentines day she will chop your money and get energy then go to her boyfriend's bed and sexercise grin

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by marshalcarter: 3:34am On Feb 13, 2017
mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew
















getout sef..
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nigerians lyk askin question to which they already know the ans undecided……keep spendin for her...cheerful spender undecided

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by mecussey(m): 3:57am On Feb 13, 2017
lordreigneth:
Hello romancelanders,i met this girl up to two weeks now, she is lovable and very lively.
My intention when I first met her was to get along with her I mean to-date her.... But after some days I told her my intention.she told me we can only be friend and nothing else.
I wasn't happy about her reply and I told her
She even showed me her boyfriend pics that she love him.
Her boyfriend still in school but me am a working class I have a child outside wedlock and I already told her
Now I keep spending on her everyday, whatever she wants I give her but yet she turns down my proposal telling me we are friends and nothing more
She told me I should take her out on Valentine's day
But after all spending she will still say thank u and no time for romance....guys pls advice me well what can I do? I hope am not dulling myself.... I love her but she keeps saying we are friends..... Can she still fall for me or I should forget about her cos I need someone who I will date not friend... Thanks all

check her contact, she must have saved ur number with Friend zoned maga.... Man up and get urself a girlfriend wether fake or real. When she notices, tell her you are just friend with her but the other girl is friend with benefit...that u still dey find your own real chick.

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by faithugo64(f): 4:10am On Feb 13, 2017
She told you plainly that you are just a friend and you still spending on her shocked


Errm her boyfriend is a student right?


Haaaaaaa I laugh in greek

The truth is they don use you do ATM!

Trust me, you give her, she gives him

They are on scholarship sponsored by you grin

Op receive sense and move on with your life

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by olac21(m): 5:14am On Feb 13, 2017
Who be this again,you be mumu ni?She even show you boyfriend pics and you still dey spend..omo na you ooo!

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by FunnyDude(m): 5:35am On Feb 13, 2017
@op abeg u well so? Why allow woo-man use ur head like this, small girl for that matter. wise up
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by pasqal09: 5:42am On Feb 13, 2017
Brother you've been friendzoned.

But you need to change your approach, give her space and let her be for a while then watch and see her countenance.

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 6:13am On Feb 13, 2017
Congrats man, you have just attained that zone called friend-zone. Dont be scared... dont be worried, you shall be given your study materials and manual... if you study hard, you may eventually graduate to another level.

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 7:07am On Feb 13, 2017
You met her two weeks ago and you're already 'in love'?


Do you want her to start dating you when she's got a boyfriend?



If she agrees for you......









She will meet someone in a week's time who's richer than you.





Guess what?





She will leave you and go for the person.


Enjoy your friend zone bro

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Apos2kay(m): 7:27am On Feb 13, 2017
Oga oooo, for this recession, you still dey spend for gal, God go punish love... Abeg if u no get better thing to do with ur money, come dash me, Mr nice guy
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 7:37am On Feb 13, 2017
pasqal09:
Brother you've been friendzoned.

But you need to change your approach, give her space and let her be for a while then watch and see her countenance.
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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by samdavjustin(m): 7:39am On Feb 13, 2017
Maga don pay shout hallelujah oooooo

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by eezeribe(m): 8:02am On Feb 13, 2017
Because you are working class,you are spending like a maga from the peanuts you earn as monthly stipends... Sorry,salary.
The real big guys,have gone past this level.
#wisen up.

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by sirusX(m): 9:00am On Feb 13, 2017
Why go for a girl who already has a bf...besides, shez told you her intentions.

Remember, there are many fishes in the ocean...way too much single ladies out there so you don't keep belittling yourself.

Money can't buy love or hapiness...cz love is a mutual thing
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by RichieDaVinci01(m): 9:08am On Feb 13, 2017
Be giving her money so that she will choop belleful and give varieties of styles to her boyfren
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 9:22am On Feb 13, 2017
ordinarily, the fact that you are a working class earning some cool cash should make her wanna tie you down for marriage. I mean, her boyfriend doesn't seem ready at the moment, but you are.

This days there are high chances that women don't eventually settle with the one they love. Though love matters in a relationship but readiness factor is key. Except if she's buoyant enough to set her guy up or patient enough to wait till things take it shape.

Left to me, I would have said you are in a better position to win her over but damn you've got a kid. No one wants to play second fiddle. No lady wants to marry a man who's got a kid except there exist between you two true and unconditional love. Which in your own case is lacking.

There are extent to which money can influence a relationship especially when the lady in question already knows that no matter how she tries, her kids will always be second to the one you already have.

Except if you have so much money to dole out, this adventure ain't worth the stress. Except you have other means of persuasions, the fact that you are ready and available won't win this battle for you.

Save up your money and look around for a single mom or a girl who can accept and be part of your life

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by LuvU2: 9:23am On Feb 13, 2017
You dnt hv six packs, no swag, no James Bond moves just doug nd u want to keep a woman. grin grin

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 9:26am On Feb 13, 2017
LuvU2:
You dnt hv six packs, no swag, no James Bond moves just doug nd u want to keep a woman. grin grin

Girlfriend, are you HateU.2?
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by LuvU2: 9:27am On Feb 13, 2017
TheSlyone2:

Girlfriend, are you HateU.2?
Luvu2 Pls wink
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 9:31am On Feb 13, 2017
LuvU2:
Luvu2 Pls wink
You two have similar alignment in viewing things.

HateU.2 would have said exactly what you said without missing words
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by LuvU2: 9:35am On Feb 13, 2017
TheSlyone2:

You two have similar alignment in viewing things.

HateU.2 would have said exactly what you said without missing words
U don't mean? grin
Nd I thought we dnt share anything similar..
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 9:37am On Feb 13, 2017
LuvU2:
U don't mean? grin
Nd I thought we dnt share anything similar..
She's one hell of a trouble..

You need to meet her
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 9:38am On Feb 13, 2017
Instead of saving and spending money on your kid/s, you're spending on a girl with a boyfriend. Some men are beyond retards. Shame on you!

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Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by LuvU2: 9:39am On Feb 13, 2017
TheSlyone2:

She's one hell of a trouble..

You need to meet her
We met lready. Bt I prefer to keep it classy wink
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by minexpo(m): 9:40am On Feb 13, 2017
Lolz....sum guyz will nt learn grin grin kwantinue bro, I dey ur back cool
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 9:42am On Feb 13, 2017
LuvU2:
We met lready. Bt I prefer to keep it classy wink
Hehe... I know.

Same personality behind this two monicker.. No worries.

If I may, What gave rise to the birth of your monicker?
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by LuvU2: 9:49am On Feb 13, 2017
TheSlyone2:

Hehe... I know.

Same personality behind this two monicker.. No worries.

If I may, What gave rise to the birth of your monicker?
My mum dad bf gfs neighbors keep saying they luv me as hell Nd Now I thought I needed to give a general public reply

hope it sounds believable grin grin
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 9:53am On Feb 13, 2017
LuvU2:
My mum dad bf gfs neighbors keep saying they luv me as hell Nd Now I thought I needed to give a general public reply

hope it sounds believable grin grin
Yea, it does. In fact, the most convincing story I've heard since I woke up.

Keep deceiving yourself... Sogbo
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by LuvU2: 9:55am On Feb 13, 2017
TheSlyone2:

Yea, it does. In fact, the most convincing story I've heard since I woke up.

Keep deceiving yourself... Sogbo
grin cheesy
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by GoldenJAT(m): 10:20am On Feb 13, 2017
na ur money!
Re: I Need Serious Advice She Keeps Saying We Are Just Friend by Nobody: 11:06am On Feb 13, 2017
Op pls u should stop bein stupid and just man up to the reality..... Damn it, u give real Geez a bad reputation.

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