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For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Gerald620(op): 7:48pm On Feb 13, 2017
It ’ s Valentine period and , well , some healthy
doses of sex are going to take place among
lovers .
But, how long should sex last for it to be
considered fantastic or good ?
Generally , stories of sex that lasts all night long
tend to impress listeners. However , researchers
are saying that in reality, good sex should not
last more than 13 minutes!
Indeed, scientific studies suggest that the more
preferred duration of sex, on average ,
is between five and 13 minutes. And though
some sexual encounters might last a slightly
longer period , the average time of 13 minutes is
really the most common .
Some studies , such as a 2005 study published in
the Journal of Sexual Medicine , even report a
median time of between 5 . 4 and 7. 5 minutes!
In 2012 , a team of researchers from the
University of New Brunswick measured the
duration of both the IELT and pre-intimacy .
IELT , meaning “ intravaginal ejaculatory latency
time , ” is defined as the time between the
moment an erect penis enters a vagina and the
moment that penis begins to come.
The study asked men and women in
relationships to report how long an ideal
pre-intimacy session should last, as well as ideal
intercourse .
Then they timed their actual sex lives in the
comfort of their own bedrooms . The couples
reported an average of 11 to 13 minutes of
pre-intimacy , and seven to eight minutes of
intercourse .
Sex expert, Tracey Cox , warns that ideally , sex
may not last longer than 13 minutes because
the natural lubrication women enjoy doesn’ t
last for ever .
“ Therefore, going for too long might prove
painful , especially if the intercourse is in one
position , ” the sex guru says .
Cox notes that there’ s a perception that women
crave longer sex, saying , “ while some women
enjoy uninterrupted, prolonged sex, apparently,
the majority really don ’ t. ”
Sex therapists argue that sex is considered “ too
short ” when it lasts one to two minutes.
“ Adequate” is three to seven minutes, and
“ desirable ” is seven to 13 minutes . The range
for “ too long” went up to 30 minutes. Anything
longer, like “ more than 40 , ” is legendary, they
enthuse.
But a 2004 study in the Journal of Sex Research that
did actually include pre-intimacy found that on
average , people were indulging in 11 - 13
minutes of pre-intimacy , followed by 7 - 8 minutes of
intercourse
The bottom line: Sex is more than just
intercourse , and the time couples allot to it
should include the time to generate arousal
both mentally and physically , says sex therapist
and licensed marriage and family therapist, Dr .
Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First .
“ That can mean lots of touching and pre-intimacy ,
sharing a fantasy , reading erotica , watching
porn together , or roleplaying some sort of kinky
scene , ” Ian says.
With long pre-intimacy is the probability of getting
fully aroused , which can help you achieve
orgasm more quickly — an attestation to the
possible short duration of real act of sex.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by psucc(m): 7:53pm On Feb 13, 2017
I think those that got stuck in each other enjoy the most. lollllls
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by darbeelicous(f): 7:58pm On Feb 13, 2017
Eternity and a day after!
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by subtlemee(f): 8:26pm On Feb 13, 2017
Yeah 15mins Is very ok anytime exceeding that is no more sex but gymnastic tongue
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by popefuse(m): 8:42pm On Feb 13, 2017
Normal sex duration is 5 min After climax. Other na stress
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by alizma: 8:55pm On Feb 13, 2017
btw 10-15 minutes. however, this also depends on the parties involved.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by alizma: 8:58pm On Feb 13, 2017
popefuse:
Normal sex duration is 5 min After climax. Other na stress
so everybody Climax within 5minutes abi?
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Stevengerd(m): 9:04pm On Feb 13, 2017
subtlemee:
Yeah 15mins Is very ok anytime exceeding that is no more sex but gymnastic tongue
Hmm!! Am Learning
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by youngberry001(m): 9:11pm On Feb 13, 2017
uhmm 1hour iz enough



But person no be dog ooh!!
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by konkonbilo(m): 9:20pm On Feb 13, 2017
youngberry001:
uhmm 1hour iz enough




But person no be dog ooh!!
I last as long as an hour plus without the help of anything. I don't know if this is normal.the last girl I had seex with had to push me away that her womanliness is paining her.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Feb 13, 2017
5hours grin.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by luminouz(m): 9:31pm On Feb 13, 2017
ToriBlue:
5hours grin.
My ideal sexmate! So glad I found u! tongue
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by youngberry001(m): 9:38pm On Feb 13, 2017
konkonbilo:
I last as long as an hour plus without the help of anything. I don't know if this is normal.the last girl I had seex with had to push me away that her womanliness is paining her.
ewwwwww.........u sure u be human being..
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Feb 13, 2017
luminouz:
My ideal sexmate! So glad I found u! tongue
grin grin, you dey madt.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Feb 13, 2017
luminouz:
My ideal sexmate! So glad I found u! tongue
grin grin, you dey madt.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by ola2swit(m): 9:55pm On Feb 13, 2017
grin
ToriBlue:
grin grin, you dey madt.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by SalamRushdie: 10:00pm On Feb 13, 2017
subtlemee:
Yeah 15mins Is very ok anytime exceeding that is no more sex but gymnastic tongue
You gat a lazy puzzy embarassed
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Feb 13, 2017
i said it once and am gon say it again.. When i bang, trust me the pussy catches fire.. I can bang 3hrs nonstop. Thanks to that useless aunty that disvirgin me at age 6... She really improved my sex life just that, it has turn my everyday life.. I cannot live a single day wthout it.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by luminouz(m): 10:15pm On Feb 13, 2017
ToriBlue:
grin grin, you dey madt.
5 hours too small babe? I could do 7! Just to satisfy u! grin grin grin cheesy
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by subtlemee(f): 10:32pm On Feb 13, 2017
SalamRushdie:
You gat a lazy puzzy embarassed
Clear case of tramadol Intoxication..by their names I can identify them
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by konkonbilo(m): 10:41pm On Feb 13, 2017
youngberry001:
ewwwwww.........u sure u be human being..
The tin tire me self o.nah like so I see am.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Christardor: 10:46pm On Feb 13, 2017
Gerald620....why didn't you put your source of that article.abi plagarising is your hobby?
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Babamide(m): 10:49pm On Feb 13, 2017
I once saw horses having sex and they were done within 5minutes.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Feb 13, 2017
subtlemee:
Yeah 15mins Is very ok anytime exceeding that is no more sex but gymnastic tongue
Most girls love gymnastics.. lol
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Feb 13, 2017
Babamide:
I once saw horses having sex and they were done within 5minutes.
Are you a horse?
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Feb 13, 2017
paybak:
i said it once and am gon say it again.. When i bang, trust me the pussy catches fire.. I can bang 3hrs nonstop. Thanks to that useless aunty that disvirgin me at age 6... She really improved my sex life just that, it has turn my everyday life.. I cannot live a single day wthout it.
Continue digging your grave.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by subtlemee(f): 10:57pm On Feb 13, 2017
lowkey28:
Most girls love gymnastics.. lol
And they end up with inflammation,sores and aches everywhere..is that enjoyment?
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Feb 13, 2017
lowkey28:
Continue digging your grave.
e concern you? abi na your grave? na wa oooo.. nothing is sweeter than sex bro, not even honey.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Gerald620(op): 11:16pm On Feb 13, 2017
Christardor:
Gerald620....why didn't you put your source of that article.abi plagarising is your hobby?
Hmmm
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Feb 13, 2017
ToriBlue:
5hours grin.
cucumber crew grin
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by hernandson(m): 3:45am On Feb 14, 2017
popefuse:
Normal sex duration is 5 min After climax. Other na stress
na wa oo! Was thinking and hour or a half
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by hernandson(m): 3:47am On Feb 14, 2017
ToriBlue:
5hours grin.
evils!!!! Not even evil
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