Niceiroko:
u r not loyal

JoeCutie:
But the Bible says you (women) should be, let me quote the Bible literally, "submissive". And that entails submitting...EVERYTHING...including salaries.


You should submit your salaries and then we'd pay you salaries from your own salaries. Who be that Pastor sef? Abeg he deserves some very chilled keg of pammy.

RockyEyo:



But you can submit your body and the very part of you that you hold sacred, leaves one wondering what the values of women are these days?
And to think you made a choice of spending the rest of your life with him?? Like handing the driver you don't trust the key to drive the car, how do you then relax and let him drive. My take money is just a lil thing that causes so much trouble if allowed to be in control. Put your money under control and stop using your mouth to pray for the wrong husband.
come to think of it, my wife submits her salary to me but at the end na she dey spend the money.

sandraanakebe:
The pastor was indirectly talking to his wife...Lol

Monalisa185:


Joe!!!!! Baba for the girls *hands up in the air*

Where you been hide na?


You and that pastor ehhhhh... Lemme not talk first

JoeCutie:

RockyEyo:



But you can submit your body and the very part of you that you hold sacred, leaves one wondering what the values of women are these days?
And to think you made a choice of spending the rest of your life with him?? Like handing the driver you don't trust the key to drive the car, how do you then relax and let him drive. My take money is just a lil thing that causes so much trouble if allowed to be in control. Put your money under control and stop using your mouth to pray for the wrong husband.
come to think of it, my wife submits her salary to me but at the end na she dey spend the money.

Monalisa185:


lol, what?

Monalisa185:


[b]what's this man saying? You sure you're married? What has a woman submitting her body to her husband got to do with her submitting her salary to her husband after working?

Does a woman ask her husband to give her body back to her for use after submitting it to him? The answer is "NO"..

But a woman will keep on asking for money to do this and do that after giving it to her husband. Why can't she just keep the money and use it wisely instead of submitting and asking? These days, men hate it when women keep on asking for money to do one thing or the other let alone the money they worked for...

Imagine a married woman asking her husband to give her money to buy sanitary pad, under wears, makeup kit and the rest when she can just comfortably buy those little things without having to bother the man.

Abeg make una dey talk things wey dey feasible and stop making unnecessary comparisons. So because I refused to give my salary to my husband I no longer have virtues? Mtchewwwwww.. Let it be that I've lost my virtues then!. [/b]

pocohantas:

She can't submit her salary, keep your sermon to yourself. Some men on this same thread also said they can't collect it, why you no quote them?
Are they not spending their lives with her?
Why didn't you ask them what are their values?
Is she not submitting her body to them too?

Naso Una dey rush to quote woman, because na there your strength reach.

RockyEyo:

Whatever makes it work for you....... it's your life, your marriage, your happiness, your joy. How you run it, is entirely up to you. Always have it at the back of your mind ( you be African woman) however you want to look at it there are certain thing's that's expected of you. In my place, there are some sayings
* If the fence is solid the cattle can rest on it.....
* A stick of broom will not sweep the compound the way a bunch of broom will
90% of made men are made by other women that had faith in them, ask questions.

I didn't have to do this but just felt I should maybe it might help someone. Have a funfilled weekend.

pocohantas:
[s][/s]
Nonsense.
Faithfulness has nothing to do with submitting all your salary. You didn't have to do this at all...zero sense in it.

CuteMorriz:
this is how you know kids...na the guy no get parents too abi....yawwnsss

Amhappy:


No swallow me ooo. He no comot from wood naaaa,He got parents and responsibilities that's more reason why I will never ask him to submit his hard earned money to me. Same with me,I got responsibilities which includes him and my entire family and it's lame for me to submit my hard earned money to him. People waste money they did not work for #fact#. Meanwhile I be person mama.