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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by idrmdk: 8:53am On Mar 01, 2017
pls don't' change to any religion because of a woman Islam is the true religion of God in the bible there is nowhere where they mention Christianity an Jesus was only send to the Jews is there in the bible.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by bigiyaro(m): 8:55am On Mar 01, 2017
JimloveTM:
You should convert to Christianity sharp sharp

My mum got married to my dad because he promised to change from islam to Christianity. A year after he changed. Today, am happy he did. We are all happy for it. You will be happy for. It's a Leap in the right direction.

u got d dopest and sharpest mom.... Like mine

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by olaadesino(m): 8:57am On Mar 01, 2017
If you do, you have missed the only way to paradise. Christianity is not a religion but an organization. The only acceptable way of is in Islam, see the example below

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 8:58am On Mar 01, 2017
ollah1:


And the illustration doesn't even tally. U skipped the Exodus 20:4.5 part.
What has idolatry got to do with the moon?
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:02am On Mar 01, 2017
asuustrike2009:

What has idolatry got to do with the moon?

What has idolatry got to do with Exodus 20: 4.5?






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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by LockDown69(m): 9:07am On Mar 01, 2017
Your salvation has come.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:11am On Mar 01, 2017
ollah1:


What has idolatry got to do with Exodus 20: 4.5?






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Hmmmm are you a Muslim ,pagan or Christian?
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by yazach: 9:12am On Mar 01, 2017
lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.
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You sorted advice from a pastor and you are a Muslim
][/ quote author=lalasticlala post=54145801]
I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow... I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me... I just need a candid advice."[/i][/quote]

I will never sell my hereafter just because of ending lust of this world
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:13am On Mar 01, 2017
asuustrike2009:

Hmmmm are you a Muslim ,pagan or Christian?


Are these the only faiths that exist? Besides, you didn't answer my question
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:17am On Mar 01, 2017
ollah1:



Are these the only faiths that exist? Besides, you didn't answer my question

When you answer them I will give you my reply.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:30am On Mar 01, 2017
asuustrike2009:

When you answer them I will give you my reply.

You simply aren't ready to answer cos your question isn't inline with the discuss.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:32am On Mar 01, 2017
ollah1:


You simply aren't ready to answer cos your question isn't inline with the discuss.
Your biblical quotation doesn't tally either
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:42am On Mar 01, 2017
asuustrike2009:

Your biblical quotation doesn't tally either

Keep running from pillar to post
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by kolaish(m): 9:50am On Mar 01, 2017
idrmdk:
pls don't' change to any religion because of a woman Islam is the true religion of God in the bible there is nowhere where they mention Christianity an Jesus was only send to the Jews is there in the bible.
Stop misleading yourself and others. In Mark 16:15, Jesus told his disciples ‘Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature.

Also, in Mathew 28:19 Jesus told his disciples when he was about to depart the world, “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”

My sincere advice to the Op is:

Devote 3 days to pray sincerely (with fasting) and ask God of HIS will in your life, and for God to show you the real religion to follow to gain eternity/paradise. Wishing you Goodluck in all your life endeavours
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by yunusaocholi80(m): 9:56am On Mar 01, 2017
wow..... good write up
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by loomer: 9:56am On Mar 01, 2017
lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.

I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow... I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me... I just need a candid advice."

Is you woman a true Christian? Does she actually exhibit the virtues of one? If not why should you change ur religion?
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by yunusaocholi80(m): 10:01am On Mar 01, 2017
my friend don't make that mistake of changing your religion for the sake of pleasing someone. I go against changing your religion in totality
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by toye440: 10:13am On Mar 01, 2017
Nne5:
Why forcing you?
I'm a Christian but that is plain wrong.
What happened to freedom of religion?
You don't force someone to convert to your religion.
That's stupid.


I can't believe some people above me support the lady.
See if she really loves you religion will not stand in the way.#Fact.
Just let her go abeg!
Converting to another religion is something. Now converting because you were FORCED to is something else.Let her go.Your true wife will come.
The fact that u ans or carry a Christian name really doesn't make u one. I was initially surprised to see u garner over 216 likes but after much cogitation I came to that conclusion u spoke d minds of those against d ladies decision.
Have u had a second thought like she's trying to safe herself or family d future problem of which religion her children should or would follow.
The Lady obviously read that part of the bible that says " bring up a child in the way DAT he should go and wen he grows he would not depart from it". Having seen what Islam calls peace no reasonable woman would want her children going about with bombs strapped on their body.
Same for the husband who believes Islam is the religion. so u see how wise she is and if u doubt my assertions pls date one and see if they don't ask u to convert.

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by FactualSpeech: 10:20am On Mar 01, 2017
shakurkings:
My brother, you are not a Muslim. You probably only bear a Muslim name. Cos if you are one, and you stand firm on your religion, no lady can force you to drop your religion all in the name of marriage. I'm not saying you shouldn't convert, but it should come from your mind and not being coerced into it. I'm a Muslim and I pray Allah give you the wisdom and understanding to solve your riddle.

Respect brother
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by younglas: 10:27am On Mar 01, 2017
Every body just dey talk him mind.who no like him religion. Guy if you are fool allow woman to control you idiot
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by afroxyz: 10:49am On Mar 01, 2017
shakurkings:
My brother, you are not a Muslim. You probably only bear a Muslim name. Cos if you are one, and you stand firm on your religion, no lady can force you to drop your religion all in the name of marriage. I'm not saying you shouldn't convert, but it should come from your mind and not being coerced into it. I'm a Muslim and I pray Allah give you the wisdom and understanding to solve your riddle.

I'm xtian, but I concur with you
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by afroxyz: 10:52am On Mar 01, 2017
toye440:

The fact that u ans or carry a Christian name really doesn't make u one. I was initially surprised to see u garner over 216 likes but after much cogitation I came to that conclusion u spoke d minds of those against d ladies decision.
Have u had a second thought like she's trying to safe herself or family d future problem of which religion her children should or would follow.
The Lady obviously read that part of the bible that says " bring up a child in the way DAT he should go and wen he grows he would not depart from it". Having seen what Islam calls peace no reasonable woman would want her children going about with bombs strapped on their body.
Same for the husband who believes Islam is the religion. so u see how wise she is and if u doubt my assertions pls date one and see if they don't ask u to convert.

Go and read about the history of.your religion before u start talking. Xtianity that approved slavery, crusades and conquistadors. Xtianity that hung hundreds of women accusing them.of being 'witches'. Plz go and read

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by iyanigold: 11:05am On Mar 01, 2017
lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.

I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow... I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me... I just need a candid advice."

she has already given u an insight of how the marriage is gonna be. she will be the husband and u will be the wife. As simple as that
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by toye440: 11:10am On Mar 01, 2017
afroxyz:


Go and read about the history of.your religion before u start talking. Xtianity that approved slavery, crusades and conquistadors. Xtianity that hung hundreds of women accusing them.of being 'witches'. Plz go and read
The truth is bitter, its all about kill d infidels and u won't stop going to them.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by sulakishop(m): 11:12am On Mar 01, 2017
MY ADVICE FOR YOU:

1. NEVER CHANGE RELIGION BECAUSE OF A WOMAN (ONLY WEAK MEN DOES THAT), CHANGE BECAUSE OF GOD AND BECAUSE YOU WANT TO CHANGE.

2. I SERIOUSLY DOUBT IF YOU ARE A TRUE MUSLIM IF NOT WHY WILL YOU EVER CONTEMPLATE CHANGING?

GOOD LUCK TO YOU.



lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.

I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow... I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me... I just need a candid advice."
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by RandomVic(m): 12:22pm On Mar 01, 2017
Omojudy:
It baffles me when people of different religious beliefs are in a serious relationship. Before I married, once I am approached for a relationship, I ask these three questions
1. What are your religious beliefs?
2. What is your genotype, and can I see an evidence (as I happen to be AS)?
3. When can we go do a mutual HIV test?
The responses from these three questions determine if the relationship can start.

You my friend is smart!

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by zameena(f): 12:25pm On Mar 01, 2017
Religion. Has been dividing nigerians , had to quit a 2yrs old relationship 3days ago just because of religious difference. I'm a muslim and he is a christian, his parents just woke up and said he should do away with me because muslims are killing christians and that he would get into many problems if we get married, that there pastor has seen the revelation and so on. its hard but life goes on. I will advice you to judge a person based on their personality and not just religious backgrounds. Most of you here making noise are only practicing their religion because they were born into it. Who gave you the right to say which religion is the right one or not. I simply would say honor every man's religion and practice yours in peace.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by tpapi: 12:28pm On Mar 01, 2017
Op there r so many Muslim ladies in Nigeria, so I wil advice u to leave her alone n try n get urself a Muslim lady for marriage within ur mosque or community
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by airmark(m): 12:31pm On Mar 01, 2017
nyabinghi:
why follow a god that failed. a simple test against the romans,if you dont acknowledge God and die as a christian hell is your destination

Make up your mind and appologise for lying that Jesus was killed when your quran stated he wasn't. If i am a muslim i will see you as an irresponsible islamic fellow.

ollah1:



Well, same call for Christains too. Islam is the only way. You had better convert before its too late.

You need to read surah 3:55 and switch. "O Jesus, indeed I will take you and raise you to Myself and purify you from those who disbelieve and make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve until the Day of Resurrection.

and also mohammed was sent to his people not you a Nigerian. Arabic is not our language, so you should look for an imam that allah spoke directly to, and speaks your mother tongue

"And we have sent no messenger but with the language of his people, that he might make (the message) clear for them." Quran 14:4

mukhtara446:
brother what is the questions please

According to Quran, only God can give life to creatures. It was written in your books that Jesus created a bird from mud. Dont you think, the christians are right to call Jesus, God? No one else , whether dead or alive did this. Quran 3:49. You can clarify those replies i gave your brothers above too.

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by OLUWAFUNMISE(f): 1:32pm On Mar 01, 2017
Bitcoiniler:


Why are you contradicting yourself? Smh
You lack insight cheesy
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by mukhtara446(m): 1:38pm On Mar 01, 2017
airmark:


Make up your mind and appologise for lying that Jesus was killed when your quran stated he wasn't. If i am a muslim i will see you as an irresponsible islamic fellow.



You need to read surah 3:55 and switch. "O Jesus, indeed I will take you and raise you to Myself and purify you from those who disbelieve and make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve until the Day of Resurrection.

and also mohammed was sent to his people not you a Nigerian. Arabic is not our language, so you should look for an imam that allah spoke directly to, and speaks your mother tongue

"And we have sent no messenger but with the language of his people, that he might make (the message) clear for them." Quran 14:4



According to Quran, only God can give life to creatures. It was written in your books that Jesus created a bird from mud. Dont you think, the christians are right to call Jesus, God? No one else , whether dead or alive did this. Quran 3:49. You can clarify those replies i gave your brothers above too.

my brother Jesus give life to bird,raise dead man to life, speak when he is a baby and many more miracles. but with the permission of his father. I once had that Jesus himself said in the bible that him himself can't do anything without the permission of his father. What you don't know is that we know a messenger that made a mountain pregnant and get birth to a camel. Moses you know his miracle. The most high made all this miracles to make you believe not to disbelieve. I wish you follow the way of life of Jesus and forget does that call themselves christens. And Muhammad whom we believe him as a messenger said he saw Jesus and he is a black man not white.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Bitcoiniler(m): 1:39pm On Mar 01, 2017
OLUWAFUNMISE:

You lack insight cheesy

Your collosal comment lacks insight...

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