Op have Muslim girls finish, why not date and marry your fellow Muslim, you want to try to convert a Christian girl through marriage so that your position in heaven will increase and more virgins for you and the thing backfired and you are now looking for escape route.
The hunter is now hunted.
Enjoy,the girl is wise.

the guy should feel free to do what he feels is right...

Nne5:
Why forcing you?
I'm a Christian but that is plain wrong.
What happened to freedom of religion?
You don't force someone to convert to your religion.
That's stupid.


I can't believe some people above me support the lady.
See if she really loves you religion will not stand in the way.#Fact.
Just let her go abeg!
Converting to another religion is something. Now converting because you were FORCED to is something else.Let her go.Your true wife will come.

You do not talk like a true Christian.

Bro let her go if u really bliv in ur religion.

If you both really love each other why not, you have to be prepared for it. Many will laugh at you. But you will live to be happy with the decision for life. Happy married life in advace.

Understanding is all that matter much.Dnt mind that useless pastor that told u that lies.it's him and his household that will have problem not u.Tell her she can practice her own religion and u'll do us. God nor vex as long as u don't add/join babalawo.It is well

Never u dear try it
its not allowed to disobey Allah or sin cause of any man or woman including ur mom and dad u won't follow then when what they ask u to do is a sin or Haram!!

Very simple my dear Aboki.
Look! is up to you. I know u love her? so since we are in modern world I believe u know what is good for u. Here is my advice, its either u be her husband and become a Christian which will even put a bigger light to ur life. or you stay in ur fathers house while waiting for Amaria that will be with u.
Because she will never agree to become a like this..!!

lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.

I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow... I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me... I just need a candid advice."

Change because of God not woman.... I'm a Christian but I know one should choose religion because of God not man or woman

Christianity is not just by going to church on Sunday my brother. Christianity is all about JESUS CHRIST, you have to be a true follower not because of your woman.

clash of the Gods part 1

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Nne5:
Why forcing you?
I'm a Christian but that is plain wrong.
What happened to freedom of religion?
You don't force someone to convert to your religion.
That's stupid.


I can't believe some people above me support the lady.
See if she really loves you religion will not stand in the way.#Fact.
Just let her go abeg!
Converting to another religion is something. Now converting because you were FORCED to is something else.Let her go.Your true wife will come.

What are you even saying?
You typed all this and claim to be a Christian?

I do not blame her

Maybe I should remind you of

2corinth6vs14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

So if he wants to truly Marry her let him come to the light



CASE CLOSED

Why are you even seeking for advice on NL.. Do you not know what Islam says about marrying an unbeliever??

I am a Christian. Pls dont change your religion bcs of a Lady.
All you need to do is to accept Christ into your life.

Guy you need to think...........because both of u are not compactable.

U should change from Muslim to Christian, unbelievable. Islam is the religion of the profect that God sent to us. Please my brother don't allow any to mislead you. Islam is the religion of Adam, Moses, Niemier, Jesus, Mohammed. And other the profect.

She made a mistake for allowing you in the first place in her heart. She can't convert you since she's is not the Holy Spirit. What relationship does light have to do with darkness?

lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.

I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow... I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me... I just need a candid advice."

Why be a Muslim?

Why a Christian?

Why are they forcing you to become a Christian? Because they do not want you to go to hell? So if you don't become a Muslim, and after living a fulfilled and joyful life on earth, you'll still have a bunk in hell?

Why not just use your head? Religion brings the worst chaos one can ever imagine. If she really loves you, I mean loves you, she'll respect your religion. She tolerate your religion. But she doesn't.. ..because her religion teaches her that you are a sinner and he'll bound. And your religion sees her as an infidel and needs to be killed or forced to convert.

Such is the kind of life religion brings.. ..

Nigerians never cease to amaze me.

is this an issue you seek advice on?

very soon you'll ask us if Maiduguri is safe to live in.


You're a Muslim, why are you engaged to a Christian? How exactly do you think it will work without friction?

Infact, how did you get this point gan that you did not know she will eventually make demands like this? were you sleeping all the while in the relationship?

You better break off your engagement and find a Muslim like you.

There is no problem in that ask her to pay your dowry and also appreciate by changing to her father name in return in addition to her demand. Upon all surplus ladies outside, i wonder if Aboki can marry 104 wives and divorced 7 how come you want sell your destiny to one arrogant lady. May i ask if she is a virgin

agabaI23:
You are looking for a girl to convert via marriage? I am very sure that someone like you will force her to change to islam after marriage. Leave her alone if you can't change your religion. Let her be. She has been practising her own religion since childhood too.

YOU HAVE SAID IT ALL!

Unbelievable are you even thinking this through? ?? Why would you even consider this. ..brother islam is the true religion to follow if you change your good path because of a woman....i don't even know what to think of you....islam over everything

JimloveTM:
You should convert to Christianity sharp sharp

My mum got married to my dad because he promised to change from islam to Christianity. A year after he changed. Today, am happy he did. We are all happy for it. You will be happy for. It's a Leap in the right direction.

Dont be one sided. Bring him authentic verses from The holy Quran and Bible so that he may choose wats he tinks is best for him. Being happy is not enough to be a reason to convert to islam or christianity. Even atheists who dont have religion are happy

Lawlahdey:
Why are you even seeking for advice on NL.. Do you not know what Islam says about marrying an unbeliever??

See this one... Who is an Unbeliever?
Shake your head... anything there

fufuNegusi:
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What are you even saying?
You typed all this and claim to be a Christian?

I do not blame her

Maybe I should remind you of

2corinth6vs14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

So if he wants to truly Marry her let him come to the light



CASE CLOSED

Great.. they should just separate then.
According to my religion.. She's also an unbeliever and a believer shouldn't frolick with an unbeliever.

OLUWAFUNMISE:

See this one... Who is an Unbeliever?
Shake your head... anything there

You are the one with an empty tank on your neck not me.. Shoo off, dollybird.

shakurkings:
My brother, you are not a Muslim. You probably only bear a Muslim name. Cos if you are one, and you stand firm on your religion, no lady can force you to drop your religion all in the name of marriage. I'm not saying you shouldn't convert, but it should come from your mind and not being coerced into it. I'm a Muslim and I pray Allah give you the wisdom and understanding to solve your riddle.

I sighted you bro

After changing your religion, what next would she ask you to change?

If the marriage is based on you changing your religion, I honestly think there is no point getting married to her.

Changing your religion should be done because you want to not because your partner wants you to change...

This aint compromise nor love, it is selfishness on her part...

My 2kobo...

hell is your abode if you forsake islam for her pagan religion,all christians are hell bound cos they are worshipping a mortal that was murdered by the romans

BJAYADEMOLA:
It is a matter of choice and agreement with her. But one thing I know is that you should not be the one to change your religion. It is your wife that must follow your religion path.

well said, I can't agree with you more

Sir, the simple reason is that, one has to be a born again Christian for him/her to marry (from Christian point of view) .

But it is wrong for her to pressure you.

Please don't get pressured. If it's not your conviction please don't convert, because it will be counterproductive.

Get another beautiful but a Muslim lady to marry.

I advise you this way because I am a Christian.

lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.

I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow... I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me... I just need a candid advice."

Why can't she become a Muslim?