LordZero:

Work on yourself first. Are you comfortable relating with the female members of your family/female neighbors.


Try and read the thread from page one. ..

peterpen:

Believe me when i say i am not doing it the wrong way neither am i overdoing it...seems she lacks sense of humour and is kinda uptight....

LordZero:
I believe u have others na. leave her alone for now.

HARDDON:
Usually i wud send a hook/suspense message they wud usually call back cos of d way d msg is structured: "Thanks for abandoning me wit three kids n time travelling to planet earth wit a fallen star. Ive come to get u home......( insert her name her, skin colour, height, cup size n any other crazy detail, den sit back n relax , she must call)" Or "Remind me ur shoe size again, size 30 or 40?" Or " what has been happening? Your b00bs r getting smaller, your eyes bigger n neck longer?!" Or "So u have been cheating on me? After all we been tru?!" Or " vanilla or banana, which wud u rather hv?" Or " a gold neckchain or three sets of VS lingerie?" " make up kit or lingeria?" " where wud u rather we spend d suma, D bahamas or dubai?" Why wudnt she cal? "

peterpen:
meanwhile you jux unlocked a key right now....Been looking for a way to give a girl a taste of me...prob is i took her number last year cos of some normal stuffs and after that never called, Saw her recently and she was really beautiful, So why not go for it after all i have nothing to lose, still have her number tho, was thinking about calling since she's nt on whatsapp...now that you have dropped this, i got a clue buh since we are still acquaintances, do advice i roll with those up there cos they sound too familiar...

peterpen:
Not at all oh buh there's one that's on hold harddon has refused to answer me

LordZero:

You must have killed the attraction somehow. ...

You considering talking to her like a nice guy; here is what I want you to ask yourself.
Are you happy being a "ball less nice guy". I'm kinda sure your answer will be no cos you wouldn't be here if you are. .

Leave her alone and look for other ladies. If she comes around, make sure you don't repeat your mistakes. .

Be a mystery and don't be predictable.


Ya'll should stop caring or worrying yourself about their physical appearance, it might get into your head and you start being under unnecessary tension.

Japhet04:
nice, meaning i should not call or message her throughout the one month holiday right?

LordZero:

If she comes around (calls or message you), you can call her back but not immediately and make sure the call is brief..

Show her you have a life without her and it's a privilege for her to be part of it...

peterpen:

I am so disappointed right now, dnt even know wat to type....


HARDDON LORDZERO OBIOMON OKWYPASCAL USTEC LILJBOY RICHKAL And the other gurus,
Hw do u reply a girl who is resistant to wit or gets angry when u make a subtle sexual joke abt her..




Dnt wanna ignore cos it might depict an act of cowardice cos she reprimanded me

Torackzy:
Op I Want Use This Medium To Thank U 4 Ur Work Here, I Stumbled Opon This Thread Some Days Back Sha, Buh I Seem To Be Having A Bit Of A Sitiuation At My Hand.
My Story- I Met A Girl In Skul N We Became Frnds N Along The Line She Told Me She Loves Me That She Wud Like Us To Bein A Rltshp,i Agreed Even Thoug Deep Dwn I Knw I Loved The Gal Mre,nd After Some Weeks I Found Out That She Cheated On Me Wid My Friend N When I Confronted Her She Wud Deny It,i Tried To Put Everyth In The Past N Continue Wid The Rltshp But These Days She Barely Calls Me Nor Picks My Calls N When She Eventually She Will Tel Me To Call Her Back Vhat She Z Busy. Harddon Pls Help Me Cos Am Having A Hard Time Putting Her I Her Place.

Meklex:
I must say, this is the best thread on romancelander. I just tried it on mama Oge beautiful daughter. They sell ofe akwu, I don't cook anymore and my trousers are now becoming tight

liljboy:
some are just hardheaded..... If you didn't start just immediately with the sexual jokes, then guy you need to move to the next girl..... but if the problem is from your part, then, meet up, create a connection, make sure she's comfortable chatting you up first, then, BANGGGGGGG! You in for the explicit jokes.

magikalz:
Guyyyyyyy, don't you have orders to deliver on Fiverr? Lol

Dani4tech:
You're doing a great job here @op...I'll say mine is complicated... I'm not usually shy but when it comes to the ladies affair, I can shy for Africa!! I mean very very shy when it comes to talking to dem pretty ladies. Most peeps even bet on it whenever I tell them that I'm single . it's true that looks doesn't matter at times but I have to say I'm good looking, with a pink lips to match ...i'm 22 and there's no record of serious dating in my life. Even when it's obvious that a lady is crushing on me, throwing the green lights and all that, that fear still handicaps me...i've missed so many opportunities of dating cute girls I've been opportuned to meet. It has gotten to the extent that some of my crazy gees has started wondering if I was gay (they now termed me 'beautiful boy'...)
I decided to raise this alarm because there's this hot girl in all ramifications that packed into my neighborhood and I fell for her....
I just need a guide on the first step to take...
I don't want this one to slip away from me. Thanks
cc: HARDDON

youngfocus:
big thumb up for baba harddon and d gurus in the house,apart from all the lesson been learn here,d 1 way I enjoy most is the tip of hw to loose the bra with only 1 hand,without jacking the babe,waow it av been working for me big time,

CHIZZNEWS:

which page dat one dy, abeg

youngfocus:

I cnt remember Oóo because I av been following dis treat from d beginning,though Dan I don't av gf,bt since wen I don use this drill to get my present girlfriends, I don hang my boot Oóo,cos I know she loves me no need to cheat on her,though I do check my emotions just not to act Mr nice guy,she is the 1 doing the calling,I don't spent on her,dat much because she will not ask,my guy the way I do unhook is bra,use to surprise her,she ask me 1 day DAT hw did I know much abt dat,dat she herself cnt unhook it with one hand, I told her DAT out of 12children dat my mum gave birth to am d only guy,DAT wen ever dey wnt to unhook their bra they do call on me,dat is y some time I do stay outside late,am tired of unhooking bra, come and see the way she dey laugh.am just lying Oóo,we are all boy in our house ooo,bt if she Bleep up I will go and pick my boot and start my gaming again Oóo,life is too short bro,BT will try and search for d page bro

youngfocus:

I cnt remember Oóo because I av been following dis treat from d beginning,though Dan I don't av gf,bt since wen I don use this drill to get my present girlfriends, I don hang my boot Oóo,cos I know she loves me no need to cheat on her,though I do check my emotions just not to act Mr nice guy,she is the 1 doing the calling,I don't spent on her,dat much because she will not ask,my guy the way I do unhook is bra,use to surprise her,she ask me 1 day DAT hw did I know much abt dat,dat she herself cnt unhook it with one hand,I told her DAT out of 12children dat my mum gave birth to am d only guy,DAT wen ever dey wnt to unhook their bra they do call on me,dat is y some time I do stay outside late,am tired of unhooking bra,come and see the way she dey laugh.am just lying Oóo,we are all boy in our house ooo,bt if she Bleep up I will go and pick my boot and start my gaming again Oóo,life is too short bro,BT will try and search for d page bro

LordZero:

done..

HARDDON:


She wud call n call , plead n prob, u aint having none of it!

hey, while @ it, u must make sure ur true caller la active! Dont be caught off guard

brandon180:
abeg shy ugly boys like us, where we wan start abeg...

HARDDON:


She wud call back immediately!

Ignore it. tru out that day! suspensez

Or after a while of her calling, send her a msg : '
" hi, cant talk right now, msg only, ok bye"