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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:53pm On Apr 18, 2016|
Sense Pill 2: THE WAY UP, IS D WAY DOWN, THE WAY FORWARD IS THE WAY BACKWARDS
For ladies r like money, the more u chase them, the harder it gets
Rather learn to set traps... Sassy/fun traps
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by ewaski(m): 4:04pm On Apr 19, 2016|
BRING IT ON BRO, AM TOTALLY WITH YOU.....SMOOTH SAILING
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:39pm On Apr 19, 2016|
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:16pm On Apr 20, 2016|
to get fame, u must know that SENDING less is actually more attractive than been all over her and needy like a peacock on heat.
learn to relax, 3 steps forward, two steps back.........
lets say two guys really fancy a gurl and wud luv to take her out on a date:
Guy1 calls her up and says i'd really appreciate it if you can find time for me this friday, i want to take you out.
Guy2 calls her up and says; i have this usual ritual on fridays after work i just go to this very kul spot and chill, alota options on the menu, kuls sounds filtering at the background, as i sip my wine and watch them stars above, u cud come along this friday....
Which of the guys do u think she wud gladly go out with?
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nturguy1122: 8:08pm On Apr 20, 2016|
HARDDON:The one she likes more
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Seened: 9:06pm On Apr 20, 2016|
HARDDON what's up with you? You were off through February and March.
|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:17pm On Apr 20, 2016|
Read Btw d lines n tell which one wud most likely win her from their iv speech
|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:29pm On Apr 20, 2016|
Yea, more important things needed some heat from my heart
Didn't know u were following
@ last post, which of the guys do u think she wud pick easily?
|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nturguy1122: 11:24pm On Apr 20, 2016|
HARDDON:in as much ur communication skills is important in getting a favourable response from a female so is appearance and composure
|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Seened: 1:38pm On Apr 21, 2016|
@HARDDON; Guy 2 because he wasn't seeking her permission.
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:50pm On Apr 21, 2016|
Yups! This is one reason, the others are:
*second guy exume confidence and he isn't trying to please her by offering to take her out. He rather lay it across like he is doing her a favour by having her over .. here is d interpretation: this is my usual routine n u shld see it as a privilege im inviting u. Not same as I wano take u somewhere just to impress n buy ur attention
u also notice d way he skillfully tried to make her curious about wanting to go know the place.....
SENSE PILL 3: Suspense; Works like charm on women.
Always Keep her Guessing! It puts them on edge ,out of their comfort zone n what they r used to wit other guys! " all guys are the same "...they say and they are right! so Dare to be different
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:56pm On Apr 21, 2016|
Not just communication but what comunicated n How it is communicated
First guy was trying to win her attention by seeking to take her out while d second guy is acting like he isn't even interested in taking her out. But trying to do her a favour by having her come share his space n spot
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:34pm On Apr 21, 2016|
We wud go back to d nitty-gritty after now n talk ways to woo ladies
( without really wooing them, If a lady hasn't asked u If u even know her name after u guys finished rumbling, then u haven't been wooing d right way...If a lady hasn't Suddenly realised her self n asked what just happened, u need this drill)
n LET THEM STRIVE TO Keep u If u so wish
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:42pm On Apr 21, 2016|
guys, this is from a gurl, a must read!
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:03pm On Apr 21, 2016|
We would analyze each statement she made in course of this drill and post here real life situations to buttress her points
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 9:36pm On Apr 21, 2016|
In as much I may agree with your write ups due to its agreeable psychology, I feel each person should live life with the intent to be themselves and enjoy the one life they have. Not everyone is bound to get the girls and hop on the relationship rollercoaster. Thumbs up anyways.
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by SAINTDADA: 9:39pm On Apr 21, 2016|
More than 1300 views but just a handful of comments on your thread so far, I guess lots of folks including me are finding this thread not only helpful but interesting... Majority wouldn't admit though, which explains why we've got very few comments relative to the number of views.. Keep it up!
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:03pm On Apr 21, 2016|
@ the bolded, the psychology is totally at a tangent with generally accepted norms, only a few minds wud appreciate the Pills and hence the few comments, but i know this write ups made up from experience and study, are definitely helping some1 out there with their ego, releasing some1 from the friend's zone...saving some1 alot of aches and money
Norms says rush in, I tell them to take their time
norms says just buy her anything she wants, i say have some balls and turn her down funnily....
thanks for your comment all the same
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Fkhalifa(m): 9:05am On Apr 22, 2016|
DOn baba, I'm in need of a perfect response to, dear I need a very good response to those bitchz when they request r card,money for sub, hair etc without sounding arrogant, stingy or appearing as though I care about her feelings.
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:47am On Apr 22, 2016|
For a start, women ain't "bitches" n If u have been rolling with d wrong set, stop selling short, u r worth more.
because everything here is geared towards making u a better man with ladies. ...
Why waste my time with these drills If Itz "bitches" when u can just pop in @ a joint n with 3k u esponge ur bowels?
I wud hv no answer for u because those gurls only understand one language: money
But If Itz undergrad u dealing wit, here r possible responses:
Recharge card? In this age and time? Wow!
I'd rather teach u fishing....
Common, How many guys wud u collect money from b4 u finally make it? I spoke with ur dad last week, he said he gave u money for that already! Lol
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:18pm On Apr 22, 2016|
now that we have set the tone, Let us take it from the top:
DRILL NUGGET 2: HOW TO APPROACH LADIES( THE VERY BEST, YOU GOT TO HAVE STANDARDS NOW),
GET THE NUMBER AND GET OUT( WITHIN 5MINS)
2a: WHEN TO PLACE THAT FIRST MOST IMPORTANT CALL
2c: HOW TO DEAL WITH REJECTION( Should you be)
DRILL NUGGET 3: SETTING UP THE FIRST OUTING And Subsequent ones.
3a: Where to meet
3b: what not to discuss
3c: Dos and Donts
3D: Always set her hairs on edge( anticipation, spontaneity, suspense)
DRILL NUGGET 4: THE FIRST KISS( EITHER MAKES OR MAR YOU)
4a: Get her into it
4b: tease her: one step forward, two steps back
DRILL NUGGET 5: Never Tell Her U luv Her!
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by macville2: 10:44pm On Apr 22, 2016|
baba i am following you one way! nice one
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 1:29pm On Apr 23, 2016|
gud to have you here Mac V
feel free to ask Questions
|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 1:35pm On Apr 23, 2016|
°•° Hello!!! ...Hehe
|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:41pm On Apr 23, 2016|
Declare ur gender first:
How can (f) be in front of a king? Transgender?
|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by SimpleBea(m): 6:39pm On Apr 23, 2016|
Folowing you like.........
|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 2:48pm On Apr 25, 2016|
|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 3:03pm On Apr 25, 2016|
|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:24pm On Apr 25, 2016|
DRILL NUGGET 2:
HOW TO APPROACH LADIES( THE VERY BEST, YOU GOT TO HAVE STANDARDS NOW),
GET THE NUMBER AND GET OUT( WITHIN 5MINS)
To start off, we would like to advise: for now, your aim is to try and build your confidence, douse tension and expunge the fear factor first; let's make friends instead looking for mating dates.
SENSE PILL 3: Go with FRIENDS making ATTITUDE NOT DATING/MATING one.
have it at the back of your mind that for every lady u meet from now henceforth, you wud be genuinely interested in meeting them and making NEW FRIENDS not the boo0bs and down below.
Reason for this is that when you go with a dating attitude,
it breeds tension, which sometimes breeds stuttering, oozing off of needy personality( doing all to please her ) , losing your respect and self worth and ultimately losing her. or you get friendzoned or turned into a mugu( this usually happens when she senses u can do anything to please her but she doesn't really like u, just ur cash).
and if peradventure she rejects you, talks down on u and embarrasses u in public( never experienced that,How can u also? Armed with fun n quick wit?), u wud handle it like a man should and not let it make u withdraw into ur sheLL from d world of women
Meeting a lady with just friendship attitude, removes the tension, u are more likely to be u and in full control of the convo and how it swings, throw in wit and kill it off with humour. by this, you learn to be more relaxed around the super hot ladies, fear factor is blown out and u get to realize them hawt ladies luv to meet guys as much as guys luv to meet them, just that they have filters you must get tru b4 they shine tru
a practiced hunter is frigid with his weapon, he aims and takes out targets( no matter how far) but to get to that peek of perfection, one thing is most needed; practice. he wud miss alot of great kills while at it, but if he keeps his head down, and learn his trade, Experience wud be his life long anchor.
Remember, the monkey earn his right to life, by humping from one tree to the other.
So first learn to crawl( make friends) b4 you dare to fly( mate dates)
go out and meet ladies, whether they appeal to you or not, just poke some fun and walk on by while she laughs loudest. build your confidence, then u begin to get selective and only approach the super hawt ones as your balls grow and you learn to think more funly on you feet!
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:53pm On Apr 25, 2016|
There goes our able, ever repping sh3-m4l3
Don't forget to close the door behind u
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:17pm On Apr 25, 2016|
Tools needed b4 u go making friends
1) Confident - the act of being comfortable in ur skin, aura of manliness
2) Quick Wit - ability to think on ur feet n produce succinct answers n statements after analyzing d other party's mood, statements n or surroundings
3) Fun jabs - the act of throwing witty jibes n balancing it off with humour n fun
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|Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:36pm On Apr 25, 2016|
Where to Meet Decent Ladies:
Everywhere basically If u have decent eyes, unless u want a target set:
Places likes airporT's, birthday parties, classy joints,online(bcareful though), go swimming, the pool has a friendship bonding soul....
Add this to ur routine henceforth, learn to take a walk /drive sundAy evenings.....dont ask me why
NB: decent eyes are able to see beyond the make ups and all other lady accessories, they are able to see her the way she is naturally like she was in her birthday clothing b4 em.
they are able to, at a glance, know the boobs that are fallen and are therefore, on life support, small and augmented with funky form or pushed up.
Gud badt guys take their time to learn the world of woman: they know the different bra sizes out there, the different hair colours, creams, soap, shoes, make-ups, lingerie , dresses and everything there is to know about ladies.
for the purpose of these drills, we recommend you learn the very common ones first: make-up kits- the diff types, hair types and colours, ladies shoes , nails and all augmenting accessories like bras( the ones with forms and the ones without) , B00BS and B00tIES( if u didnt know, they sell b00bs and b00ties in the market now even HIPS! no jokes )
You wondering why u need to learn about these things? well, they are the best ways to get a lady's attention, bypass her defenses
and she wud naturally be blown away when u start schooling her about her own world! when starts laughing hysterically, dont forget to remind her that you a practicing Doctor, not an in house clown, let her know that her laughter unnerves u!
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