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| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 8:34am On Mar 04, 2017*. Modified: 6:56pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
cococandy:Dont let Afonja deceive u, no such law exist. More importantly, wat law protects u and ur daughter wen Afonja and Aboki kidnap one, rape and force into marriage/Islam? That is y we dont value u girls in igboland, ur simply a lower intelligent. I will specially write a will telling my daughter that i love her with the things eternal but love my sons with everything material. I have given her the share that belongs to her, love and protection, wat was left, i gave to her on her wedding day. She got the best of everything and i will always love her. Hence she is not included in my property distribution. U call us animal but want to inherit animal property. Is it not animal property u people are after? The animal dont want u to have any of his property, on that matter, his sons are favored. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by carzola(m): 8:35am On Mar 04, 2017 |
Butterworth:How does GAY marriage affect the economy? |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 9:07am On Mar 04, 2017 |
cococandy:U better start preparing for a boy, if ur interested in inheritance matter. Let me share with u a secret, 95% of igbo men today between 25 - 35 years get disappointed wen their wife give birth to baby girl as a first child. I know this becos, i am one of dem. The minute u give birth and it is a girl, i am still single and searching. Dont think, it is dated becos it is very much in vogue, the we are modern stuff is all in ur head. Igbo culture is the apex of all Africa culture and Superior. U cannot get more modern than igbo culture, we are leading the rest. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by PRINCEWAHAB88(m): 9:10am On Mar 04, 2017 |
Egbos and land, its only in Egbo land u see more dan 10 people killing denselves over one piece of land, nd one funny tin, u people are aggitating for ur own country. My question which land una wan go live? |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 9:11am On Mar 04, 2017 |
PRINCEWAHAB88:Why Biafra dey bother una so much? Biafra is the future, Nigeria has no future. When a country cannot progress with billions of dollar worth of revenue from oil sales, u know that country is doomed. ![]() |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by karimusaa: 9:37am On Mar 04, 2017 |
Hmmmnnnn...... dre11:
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| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by rafcrown(m): 11:56am On Mar 04, 2017 |
MAD SILVA.MUST BE LIVING IN THE VILLAGE ,not abroad. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by ezeagu(m): 11:59am On Mar 04, 2017 |
In today's globalised view, yes, this seems extreme in terms of women's liberties, but if you try to understand the tradition first before commenting obvious things you feel you have to comment you will start to understand the reason such a tradition exists. Igbo culture is patrilineal and the villages marry women outside, this means that most Igbo villages are primarily based on decent from one man although some people join sometimes. This means that married women in the community are always from outside the community and naturalized in the place. Daughters and their properties and co are under the protection and guardianship of the father, they are like this until marriage. Since daughters only marry out and their possessions and co will be inherited by their children who are part of the mans family, the tradition in the past made sure that family lands do not fall into the hands of foreign communities. Also the woman's husband is naturally supposed to provide her with things such as land for farming and housing in the past. Today there has not been a reform made probably because it benefits men, but there obviously should be a reform seeing as we do not live in a time where women are completely or mostly uprooted from their birth families and we aren't in the time of communal warfare. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 12:59pm On Mar 04, 2017*. Modified: 1:23pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
ezeagu:U can only reform things that are not working or broken. People that visit the east say it is sparsely built, that is becos daughters marry off without land. If u give them land, they will build on it and return to occupy it with their children. The entire east will become compact like yoruba land. I dont see anything wrong with igbo customary law on inheritance. This story we read here is either fabricated or distorted. Women buy land in the village and east and nobody confiscate them. They have not told us the whole story or wat is actually going on here. Even if we must give them free land not to be sold under any circumstances in the East as reform, then it should be in the township and Cities in the East, not ancestral land, we use that to keep records of patrilineal lineage. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by delishpot: 1:06pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
martineverest:Did you read the article at all? |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by ezeagu(m): 1:10pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
unstableaswater:Yes, obviously when it comes to ancestral land the ancestral tradition holds supreme, but my understanding was that the brother here was going with anything that the lady bought while in her fathers home, so even if a plot of land was bought in Enugu township, I think for today that is extreme considering the liberalisation that's already taken place. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 1:15pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
ezeagu:The bold is criminal, no brother will do such a thing. It is very bad and not igbo customary tradition. No igbo customary court will enforce that. Is he her father? The point that they are trying to make here is that, if she bought ancestral land, then she has erred. The article does not specify the location of the land, i am guessing that the author is being mischievous. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 1:37pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
Look at this greedy i.diot. She bought the land and you think it belongs to you? You are a crook. And then they say that 'despite civilization' some rules still apply. Are you telling us that these rules are barbaric? ![]() Morons! |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 1:38pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
hammerF:You are nothing more and nothing less than an i.diot of the worst sort. If you ever plan to commit suicide, I will help you. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 1:55pm On Mar 04, 2017*. Modified: 3:34pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
Mindfulness:Na like this, e dey take start. #Team Handsome#... Afonja stop the jealousy. #A man most loyal associate#.
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| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by joseph1832ng: 2:27pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
Mindfulness:Top of the day to you ma'am. I'm curious enough to ask when you started using expletives? You always read so refine so I'm wondering what happened? ![]() |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 2:49pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
blank:Why her last born son and not daughter? ![]() |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 2:53pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
unstableaswater:And this makes you happy? I hope you realize that most Igbo ladies now marry outsiders, only those unfortunate mumus cling to Igbo men, I pray God blesses me with a Yoruba husband Sha, one Nigeria! ![]() |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 3:04pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
In fact, i wont dignify that afonja with a response. Stay off my mention. Always begging marriages, well it is not ur fault that u all are butt ugly. Everybody knows ur marriages are just another excuse for owanbe, ask Tonto Dikeh. Bloody Afonja! https://www.nairaland.com/3472742/super-falcons-releases-new-team/1#51160895 Pidgin2: |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 3:29pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
Onye iwe na ewe, ya biko wegbue ya, i dont care, ya biko wegbue ya i dont care. E MONEY dont look like he is missing anything here.
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| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Omoluabi16(m): 4:43pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
Pidgin2:Look no further. ![]() |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by ezeagu(m): 4:51pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
unstableaswater:Yeah, I guess that's where the meat of the matter is, the story doesn't look real to me though, but I thought it would be good to explain anyway. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by ezeagu(m): 4:54pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
Mindfulness:That "civilisation" thing is just the way ignorant Nigerians talk when they mean modernity. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by whizqueen(f): 5:03pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
Omoluabi16:Right under my nose you're flirting |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 5:18pm On Mar 04, 2017*. Modified: 5:43pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
ezeagu:The reason u see so much nonsense comments here is becos, many times Nigeria media house fabricate non-existent story to tarnish the image of a particular person or group of people. They have been hammering on about the need for igbo to abolish bride price and to allow their daughter inherit ancestral property and every other property. They will print fake news and use every form of media blackmail, thinking that will coerce igbo to do wat they request. This same people will then hire yoruba language teacher to teach igbo children in Lagos yoruba with intent of erasing their igbo language/indentity and expanding yoruba. (deplete igbo number and expand) They will champion marriage to igbo like their life depend on it based on the same agenda.Yet the whole expansion will be in their tiny southwest. https://www.nairaland.com/3143995/lagos-make-yoruba-language-compulsory https://www.nairaland.com/3654602/lagos-state-employ-more-yoruba This is the missing link, the population explosion in the southwest would be too much for them to handle, so they want the spillover into the southeast. Mind u the hausafulani are also plotting to spill over into the middlebelt and subsequently the SE/SS and SW, hence the fulani attacks. At this point, they will abolish the indigene clause, so they can claim ancestral land and even political office in the east. In the north they are having mass wedding, marrying ten and twenty wives, in the south west yoruba want all other tribe to convert to yoruba. The population explosion that will soon follow in the southwest and north, is the reason they want one Nigeria, so they can expand into the south east and overrun our land with their languages. Systematically, they have plotted to eradicate igbos, but the only problem is we are more clever and have seen them coming and that is y preparation for exit is in full swing. Brexit in the UK was for the same reason, we wont wait until it is too late. We take our land and watch their population explode until they are shitting on-top of each other heads. hahahahahahaha! |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by blank(f): 5:42pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
Pidgin2:Never ever questioned it before. I guess its cos Igbo's don't let women inherit land but they can buy. But supreme court has overturned that sha. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 6:20pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
hammerF:And how do these photos prove that you are not an i.diot? ![]() |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 6:21pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
joseph1832ng:My new year's resolution was to no longer tolerate dvmbness. ![]() It's like a virus. It must be extinguished. ![]() |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 6:21pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
ezeagu: |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by joseph1832ng: 6:32pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
Mindfulness:Aye! Now you see reason why it's necessary to quell dumbness with every once of strength in your body. It's annoying as well as contagious. Hope you now see reasons why it's welcome to troll and diss dumb people, especially here, where it celebrated. |
| Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 6:34pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
joseph1832ng:Actually, I am enjoying exposing ignorance. It's my new hobby. I will find a new one in 2018. Until then, happy 2017. ![]() |
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