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Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by dre11(m): 4:55pm On Mar 03, 2017
CYRIACUS IZUEKWE


There was a serious fight between siblings (a brother simply identified as Silva and his sister, Gift born of the same parent) over the ownership of a landed property Gift bought before she got married to her husband.

The fight, which has become a serious issue in their Eziagu hometown in Enugu State, have thrown the entire family into crises and remained unresolved because of culture and tradition of Igboland.

P.M.EXPRESS gathered that Gift bought a parcel of land in Enugu some years ago before she got married and had her son, while Silva, who resides in United Kingdom, already has about three houses in the same Enugu City and also married with children.

However, trouble began when Gift concluded plans with the assistance of her husband to develop her land and Silva got wind of it and ordered her to stay clear from the land because the land now belong to their family.

Silva also directed his aides and security agents to ensure that Gift and her husband did not trespass on the land.

When Gift wanted to know why Silva or the family took such decision, she was told that the Igbo culture and tradition did not allow her to take any of her properties, especially land, to her husband’s house.

Her brother told her that once she’s married, the land automatically belong to their family and therefore she had no right over the property again.

When she insisted that she bought the land with her own money, Silva replied his sister that she should have as well married her husband without informing their family who married her out.

She was then told that the only condition that will make her take the possession of the land will be if she leaves her husband and return to the family.

P.M.EXPRESS investigation revealed that Silva might be right going by the Igbo culture and tradition.

According to findings, a woman does not inherit any property from the family.

Some of the Igbo leaders who did not want their names mentioned said despite civilization, there are still certain tradition and culture people still expected to respect including this particular one.

“The culture see women as those who will be married to their husbands and any property their husband have belong to them and their children,” a certain Igbo leader told P.M.EXPRESS.

It was gathered that Gift has been warned and threatened that if she near the land again, the family will see it as she has committed abomination and if anything happen to her in her husband’s house, such as death, her family will not come talk less of given her decent burial, while she will be banned from coming to the family for life.

However, P.M.EXPRESS could not reach Silva for his comment on the issue.


http://pmexpressng.com/brother-battles-married-sister-landed-property-citing-igbo-tradition/

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 4:59pm On Mar 03, 2017
That's rubbish. She is not inheriting any land, this is a land she bought with her money so that argument does not stand. This is a clear case of greed by the brother, he lives in UK and yet wants to quite an outdated tradition to covet what he did not work for.
The woman and her husband should get an injunction restraining him from coming near her property.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Lavenda26: 5:00pm On Mar 03, 2017
I want to assume this is jus a story and it is not real.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by madridguy(m): 5:06pm On Mar 03, 2017
lipsrsealed
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 5:14pm On Mar 03, 2017
Lol, if I was gift I will definitely know what to do cheesy
The God of Elijah shall surely send down fire

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by delishpot: 5:14pm On Mar 03, 2017
That brother would be one of the people who hates to hear women's right or feminism. They enjoy seeing their women live like destitutes.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by thorpido(m): 5:18pm On Mar 03, 2017
For this new age wey we dey?She bought the land with her own money,isn't it?

The lady should just get a good lawyer.

Hmmm,ka Chineke Mezie okwu.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by carzola(m): 5:35pm On Mar 03, 2017
This are the people with
A backward mentality that
Want a country for themselves
Imagine how Biafra would be
With primitive minds like this.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 7:14pm On Mar 03, 2017
Money can tear apart the most close knitted family.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by martineverest(m): 7:14pm On Mar 03, 2017
just imagine.....family members fighting dirty over property they will still leave behind after death.

Why would brothers and sisters be fighting over property they never worked for?

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Pavore9: 7:14pm On Mar 03, 2017
The brother is sick. Is the said land inherited?

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by pesty100(m): 7:14pm On Mar 03, 2017
This guy will lose because of equity

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Afam4eva(m): 7:15pm On Mar 03, 2017
If you see the way someone who was born in the US will love Igbo culture because he wants to get something. The same person will put the same Igbo culture down when it affects them. This is a case of being smart by half by the brother with the help of some selfish elders that he must have paid. How can you claim the property that a lady bought with her own money citing Igbo tradition. The thunder that will fire you is doing press up.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by MrGreenMavro: 7:15pm On Mar 03, 2017
A husband and wife are trying to set up a new password for their computer. The husband puts, “Mypenis,” and the wife falls on the ground laughing because on the screen it says, “ERROR. Not long enough"

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Pearly255(f): 7:15pm On Mar 03, 2017
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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by nkwuocha: 7:15pm On Mar 03, 2017
angry
This family is simply a greedy one. This is not igbo culture. The said land belongs to the buyer. The brother is just greedy and wicked.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Nobody: 7:15pm On Mar 03, 2017
Chineke!!!

Blood of Amadioha
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by loomer: 7:16pm On Mar 03, 2017
Idiot, the UK wey u dey no even make u get sense

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by gbegemaster(m): 7:16pm On Mar 03, 2017
GreenMavro:
A husband and wife are trying to set up a new password for their computer. The husband puts, “Mypenis,” and the wife falls on the ground laughing because on the screen it says, “ERROR. Not long enough"
lol
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by OBAGADAFFI: 7:16pm On Mar 03, 2017
They can't try this in the SW.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by notoriousbabe: 7:16pm On Mar 03, 2017
Na dem

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by clevadani: 7:16pm On Mar 03, 2017
That brother is a greedy bastard while the people supporting such archaic tradition should return to the stone age. What nonsense.
That is pure wickedness and not tradition. If you are Igbo and in support of this, then you should know that there is something wrong with you.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by ALAYORMII: 7:16pm On Mar 03, 2017
Igbos can fight for land for Africa

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Hashimyussufamao(m): 7:17pm On Mar 03, 2017
recieve common sense

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by slurryeye: 7:17pm On Mar 03, 2017
I'm not trying to castigate any tradition or culture as I believe every tribe in Africa has one or more tradition that needs to be eradicated. However, I think there are some traditions in Igboland especially those that has to do with women, inheritance and lands that need to be modified or eradicated.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Richy4(m): 7:17pm On Mar 03, 2017
That's the stupidest thing I have ever heard in my life...Assuming it was a family land, it would have been a different case...And the fellow resides in UK where they treat women like eggs... and he became something else in Nigeria....Even an Amateur lawyer can win this....

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Alexrayz(m): 7:17pm On Mar 03, 2017
carzola:
This are the people with
A backward mentality that
Want a country for themselves
Imagine how Biafra would be
With primitive minds like this.



They refuse to acknowledge dat nigeria is d best thing that could ever happen to dem

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Cutie09(m): 7:18pm On Mar 03, 2017
GreenMavro:
A husband and wife are trying to set up a new password for their computer. The husband puts, “Mypenis,” and the wife falls on the ground laughing because on the screen it says, “ERROR. Not long enough"

You are funny choke laughing here
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by profhezekiah: 7:18pm On Mar 03, 2017
d tradition don favour d guy
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by QuietHammer(m): 7:19pm On Mar 03, 2017
If the people involved were Yorubas, you would see them shouting Afonja upandan. Bloody fla.theads. grin

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