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prittygift114:
waooow is that how your mum usually say "hi" to your dad middle finder?? Oh no wonder you don't have a bearing.....

person and a blood simpleton

futurism:
say hi to my middle finger

you say??

futurism:
person and a blood simpleton

you said??

futurism:
madam, y'all are still same abeg. The one that toyed with your heart is whom you preferred over the one that really cared. I said in my post is that you can not tolerate a guy who is 100% loving and caring. It what it is please.

Where did you get Chicago Bulls cap? That thing should be extinct by now I guess...

We all get let down in life. It is obvious that you are hurting and angry.
However there are lessons to be learned in these instances. Set aside your hurt and ego, take a fresh look at the relationship and see what lessons can be learned.

It is okay to love but not to your detriment. It seems to me that your are confusing physical attachment with love and possibly, you stifled your former partner.

Thing is for a relationship to work, you both need to be well rounded individuals. Time to pursue individual interests must be maintained, so you don't lose who you are, the person you were that attracted your mate to you in the first instance.

Share your lives but do not live your lives for each other. Try this and you will experience a more balanced and enjoyable relationship.

firstking01:
When a man begins to lament like this, know that something is wrong

you are right but he is correct

futurism:
There is no good girl... no matter how much innocence she may display, no matter how faultless she may appear, never assume she is different from others. They are all manipulative.

Doing that means you are letting your guards down and you would be in for a rude awakening. You may like her, love her, hide whatever you feel for her as much as you can. Show it sparingly and then disappear from her sight for as long as you can. Appear again and disappear. Never let her understand you, be invisible.

Even if she acts like she is liking you do not give her the chance. Assuming she is different from any other will be your greatest undoing.

Act like you do not trust her even if you do, let her know you have varieties to choose from... ball hard, baff up and make her wish she was yours... but keep your distance for as much as you can.

There is no good girl, they all manipulative and confused, even the ones that will comment here know this.
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Dear futurism

a look @ the number of likes ur post garnered shows that what u just said is valid and accepted by many people ,......but dnt tell people ur experience bcuz no matter how hard u preach ,mumu boys will still do love shit with Nigerian babes and more hearts will still be broken.

I detest naija babes but u can hardly see me badmouth them... ..Did I read u saying u love a woman 100%--a big mistake!.,.,.…the guy that took his own life bcuz of his cheating wife was presumably the 100% type

dnt be in a hurry to get married. . .just do baby mama . ... a lot of people hv done it. As for what people will say,remember that no one really gives a Bleep about u ....... in fact u are alone in this world .. .....so be happy and do what makes u happy


I, too will not marry. . .I will hv kids anyway. . .It will shock my people but I ve set my mind on that


u can't be loved unless u can love yourself

pussyAvenger:
Dear futurism

a look @ the number of likes ur post garnered shows that what u just said is valid and accepted by many people ,......but dnt tell people ur experience bcuz no matter how hard u preach ,mumu boys will still do love shit with Nigerian babes and more hearts will still be broken.

I detest naija babes but u can hardly see me badmouth them... ..Did I read u saying u love a woman 100%--a big mistake!.,.,.…the guy that took his own life bcuz of his cheating wife was presumably the 100% type

dnt be in a hurry to get married. . .just do baby mama . ... a lot of people hv done it. As for what people will say,remember that no one really gives a Bleep about u ....... in fact u are alone in this world .. .....so be happy and do what makes u happy


I, too will not marry. . .I will hv kids anyway. . .It will shock my people but I ve set my mind on that


u can't be loved unless u can love yourself

Thank boss. I feel much better now and will keep my tracks clean henceforth.

futurism:
Thank boss. I feel much better now and will keep my tracks clean henceforth.

welcome...this things are psychology.

They tend to favour hard,I don't care guys

The OP may have a case based on his experience.But what I find most daunting about all dis codes and conducts is d lack of sincerity dey entail, really find dat hard to do.I wear my heart on my sleeves and I ain't afraid of dat

pussyAvenger:
welcome...this things are psychology.

They tend to favour hard,I don't care guys

the irony of life

midehi2:
your headache ooo, so na me say make him love mumu love

u go wicked ooooo