tosyne2much:
What am I saying and what are you saying? Is there any correlation at all?

When I say most African Politicians are potential looters, and you as a politician stands out as an exception, does it change the fact that most politicians have in their DNA to swindle public funds? That's exactly what we are talking about

Please when arguing, let your points revolve around the scope of discussion, not saying what doesnt tally

You don't even understand my point...The saying that all men have it in their DNA to cheat is flawed!.... Simple.

ipledge10:

You dey f up se you know

JeffreyJamez:


If promiscuity is in your DNA,I know for sure it's not in mine.... and I can confidently vouch for a few others.

You sound like someone who doesn't have what it takes to attract ladies to be hovering around you.. Cos with the way you're talking, on can doubt if you've got ladies stalking you, If you do, you wouldn't be saying all those things.

Even some married men in the remote village where I live in Ekiti still play side games despite the fact that they look ugly and unkempt much more of a man that's got what it takes to win almost every lady.

As a very handsome dude with nice swag, good dress sense, good oratory ability, and to crown it all, money still dey your pocket join ... Even if you get married, you will always fight to be completely faithful

JeffreyJamez:


You dey f up se you know

i no know, overbusy dey worry me, I don't even know why I'm still awake

refiner:


I dont want him to think i'm cheating on him...u are part of my past now...so respect that

past and future

Cutehector:
your religion doesn't support polygamy but it supports formication abi?


Cc: lawlah dey, twa ci, bum bae1

Yo

ipledge10:
past and future

Which future...mama ngozi u cheated me with is now ur future...so hapu num aka

lefulefu:

bros legend ur number 3 is flawed abeg.cheating has nothing to do with a man"s features.there are ugly men who cheat on their wives as well.Obasanjo and oshiomole who are known to be players are these men handsome? this is the same way we assume that a girl must be olosho if she"s beautiful and she must be god fearing if she's super ugly and unkempt .its all in the mind bro.if a man makes up his mind not to cheat he wont cheat.

those type of men are rich enough to buy their freedom to cheat, and their partners can't complain because there are desperate women out there ready to take their place.+

iLegend:
My bum bum is bigger than Bumbae1 How are you?

Morning Legend
Whoop its Friday! Just reading others views on thread glad it went fp ,, really good debate

Bumbae1:

Yo

it strikes me when girls who aren't righteous claim to be saints when attacking someone else because of her views.

refiner:

Go joor before my husband catches u here

ur bf... d guy wants to be serious with u now

It has been proven that successful marriage stern from the fact that the wife must be "blind","deaf" and "dumb". If na lie, ask our papi why their marriage last and hear the truth from papi if him never cheat...

The ladies these days be like this proverb: Person wey sabi or don kill b4 no dey like make dem use cutlass pass him/her back. Why e no go scatter?

Jesusgirl92:
Check the circle of people you roll with. #just_my_advice.

It's not about the cycle of people I roll with.. It's about moving with people who are open minded and are not hypocritical in nature. Men who are free to discuss their marital challenges

REIIGN:


My lil sis would say the same and even place a bet on it. But I know better


Don't be too quick to conclude dear.

Coded run
.. Popsy go even dey ask for latest codes self.. My sister go vouch die for him..
Don't mind those girls, their lots are who lawlardeys post really talk about

Cutehector:
it strikes me when girls who aren't righteous claim to be saints when attacking someone else because of her views.

Attacking who
Wth u on about please .. i gave my opinion finish .. like everyone else including guys so pls .. stop being petty
Tosyne been writing controversial threads and yet u dont see him retaliate and abuse everyone just because they had a comment di you?
You that open topic the other day same girls called it trash so wt are u on about ?? Pls if my and wasn't to anyones taste then open topic in diaries and luck it..... so if i agreed with op no problem abi .. u got me fuked up

Talking sh!t about girls who aren't righteous what has that got to do with going into marriage with trust ?? Pls tell me n stop gassing urself to score points

Cutehector:
it strikes me when girls who aren't righteous claim to be saints when attacking someone else because of her views.

Abi ooooo

refiner:

Which future...mama ngozi u cheated me with is now ur future...so hapu num aka

which one be mama Ngozi again

tosyne2much:
Only if you don't have what it takes for women to be hovering around you.. Cos with the way you're talking, I doubt if you've got ladies stalking you, If you do, you wouldn't be saying all those things.

Even some married men in the remote village where I live in Ekiti still play side games despite the fact that they look ugly and unkempt much more of a man that's got what it takes to win almost every lady.

As a very handsome dude with nice swag, good dress sense, good oratory ability, and to crown it all, money still dey your pocket... Even if you get married, you will always fight to be completely faithful

You're right , I don't have ladies stalking me because I put everyone in their place and no be woman I come life come pursue. I have goals and Ambitions and frolicking around women is definitely not one of them. I have female friends.... not female stalkers. I have female friends who have a purpose in life and not the ones who are looking for the next guy to milk. Those are the kind of people I surround myself with.

The fact a few weaklings are not able to control their sexual urges doesn't give y'all the right to be throwing absurd statistics and theories up and down.

Fourwinds:
ur bf... d guy wants to be serious with u now

Lol...which guy?...
By d way...longestime

kimbra:
Somebody will just wake and be writing *RUBBISH*.

She didn't force you to read ma'am


You can just ignore this thread rather than writing that.

ipledge10:
i no know, overbusy dey worry me, I don't even know why I'm still awake

You better come back whatsapp make we talk.

tosyne2much:
Let's embrace logical reasoning bro.. Even as a guy, you and I know that she's right about most men being potential cheaters (whether married or not)

The truth is that men are naturally born womanizers, only a few of them are able to overcome that trait..

Ooooh common we are both guys nah, let's reason like men not women

this time i agree with you 100%.

Lawlahdey, throughout all the period I was doing the dating game, No man ever broke my heart. That means the guys I dated were not demons. I am married now and I can jump the gun for my husband, he can't and won't cheat. He is a good man. Many men may be cheaters, we still have the good ones too..

iLegend:
Honestly, I only read the OP's post, Tosyne's reply and yours. I don't want to argue with anyone. The truth hurts and no one likes it, including myself. Obasanjo and Oshiomole are not good looking, but they are rich. Have you ever read the Bible? It says, "Money answereth all things." And my #1 on the list is talking about poverty. The reverse of any of the things I listed will make the man have an option to cheat. Weldon Sir! Let's not argue. iLegend is always wrong. Lefulefu my man! Carry on!

The truth is, most of these guys claiming "Mr nice guy" never can tell if they will cheat until they own cars and become rich... Most of the guys throwing shades at the OP are using their current state of financial instability to judge that they will remain faithful when married.. Let them own a car and some millions in their bank account, you will see the unfaithfulness and promiscuity in them

The same way students throw shades at lecturers for sleeping with female students in order to earn marks.. But when they become lecturers too they tend to do worse

iLegend:
You didn't comply, why? Have you forgotten? Search your brain and you'll remember.

Lol remind me i can't
U wer meant to mention me with the rest ... u didn't ..

REIIGN:
**Modified**

I'm confused... I really wanna support the OP but deep down inside, I know it aint right.

She made some strong points though..

Lol.

What is cheating, though? Who invented the concept of monogamy? Who conjured up the rule that states that Mr. A's pênis belongs only in Mrs. A's vagîna as long as they are married to each other? Doesn't it chime a tad cruel and selfish that I can be allowed to bring joy to my wife but cannot be allowed to spread that same gospel of love and happiness to other women?

The way I see it, it's like we are asking people to rebel against nature; to oppose biology. When did it all begin? --- the institution of marriage that is. And how viable is it in this age?

I've been doing a lot of thinking these days and I've realised that nothing is in fact real, that nothing makes sense, that [most] things we deem appropriate are usually just one gigantic, well-embellished farce which we've invented so as to inject some measure of graspable simplicity into our otherwise complex, shambolic existence.

Bluetooth2:


You need to know the mind of a man before you can think like a man. A man is programmed to cheat by default even if he loves his wife but it takes some certain stuff for him to be able to commit to the promise of fidelity he made with his wife.

I am a man and i can tell you that a man can have 100% love for his wife and still cheats on her. It is just the way a man is made by default; selfish, greedy, insatiable and irrational in his needs.

this here is the gospel truth..I have a lot of male colleagues at my workplace who cheat but will NEVER compromise their marriage.. they will strangle you if you dared to even call them when they're home with their wives..they sing of how they love their wives but they cheat..I've come to my personal conclusion which is LOVE CANNOT STOP A MAN FROM CHEATING.. the ONLY thing that can dissuade me from cheating on my wife is the fear of God and the consequences that are sure to follow if I disobey him...

AfroSamurai:
Nigerian men hardly divorce their wives because she cheated. I know some who are still married to women who cheated on them.

At the bolded. I'm curious, what if that imperfection is laziness, in bed? Are you willing to be married to a man who can't perform, yet he's faithful to you, doesn't cheat or even physically or emotionally abuse you?

Lol samurai lazy ke u know dat wan can't slide
Where u been Oh abuse ! Hell no but think op talking more about cheats not lazy or abusive men lol we leave that for another day .