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wristbangle:
Baba, no mind her. Na she first start am.

Chicken

See how he fear ban

ElsonMorali:
a man who cant provide for his family loses self respect.

Even if your wife works and earn more than you a thousand times, it is your duty as a husband to provide for your family.

Madam, this stereotype no longer works! Be real to yourself. Men no longer find women who have no life attractive.

Anyway, the aim of this thread is to encourage our ladies to get something doing and not be a liability on their men.

I have spoken! IDGAF how anybody interprets the post.

No woman become a liability in marriage but trust me it becomes very irritating when men only know how to be the 'man' of the house when it comes to authority but forgets it when it comes to taking responsibilities. Very very irritating.

Cutehector:
u can't advise anyone on his choice of marriage.. There are men out there who don't their wives to work and will provide a means for her to do business.. It all depends on his wishes..

Its only struggling men dat will want to marry a woman who is working as well . ah mean we all keep setting up a lot of conditions for ourselves when itbcomes to marriage and its really really having a negative effect..

That's why I said "or join in the hustle" House wife now is not OK for a modern family.

Jman06:
Madam, this stereotype no longer works! Be real to yourself. Men no longer find women who have no life attractive.

Anyway, the aim of this thread is to encourage our ladies to get something doing and not be a liability on their men.

I have spoken! IDGAF how anybody interprets the post.

oga open your eyes o, i no be madam. Lol.

You must have misread my post. There's nowhere i said the lady shouldnt work. Read again carefully. Even when she works, you shoul still provide for your family.

A man protects and provides for his family.

But i respect your opinion and your right to hold it.

Jman06:
That's the problem! People are always quick to refer to 'traditional setting' when it suits their selfish interests. Let's be realistic my friend! whoever set that 'traditional' standard never envisaged that a time like this would come when running a home will be so expensive.

Fyi, the guy is a very hardworking guy! But he needs to be relieved by his supposed help mate!

I'm not doubting the times, but they also apply to women. Now they are told by people like you to support their husbands in the breadwinner role as if their support at the home front is inferior.

Have you ever worked at home? coupled with kids? try it once and you will know it's stress itself. And now you want her to combine this with part of his, that's fine but hope he is ready to compromise too, like share hers also .

What is our business if she is materialistic. Didn't he see all that in her before he married her? Didnt he lead her on?