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6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:02pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
We are all pencils in the hand of our Creator. Glory be to God 3 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Jackeeh(m): 10:10pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Wait! Wait on God! Take your mind off children and focus your attention on the Giver of children. You've done your part so allow God do His, that is if you have any faith in HIM. 15 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:15pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Depression wouldnt help u n wifey at the moment, every prob has a solution, ivf is quite expensive but still has a high success rate, just keep faith and give it a try, in time yours would come...nb please forget about pastors here n there, your faith is all u need. 8 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:17pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Jackeeh:Thanks bro.Been there,done that. Not.easy taking your attention off children when everything and everyone reminds you off the absence of kids in your life. If you have not gone through this you may never understand the pain 5 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by mrstheo(f): 10:19pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
God is the giver of children my brother, just put your mind off it and God will surprise u and your wife pretty soon. I'm in same situation as u are. Have made up my mind not to let it weigh me down. All is well 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Mskrisx(f): 10:21pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
If God be God... If the sun still shines at day and moon at night... My brother, before the end of next year, u will carry ur boys... Save there is no God. Quote me when she brings them forth. You can keep doing what u feel will help as to feel relaxed but the end point is that I wrote above. QUOTE ME WHEN SHE BRINGS THEM FORTH. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:24pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
mrstheo:Thanks Sis. May God hear your prayers and ours IJN 11 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by mhizEvangee: 10:25pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
stop seeking for the miracle of God.....Go close to God of miracles. God has not stopped doing good. my aunty married, for 15yrs, no issue and d husband died.she was left with nothing. she got married to another man ,they stayed 7yrs before they had a child "Baby Testimony" Keep trusting God, He never fails 6 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:25pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Mskrisx:I am screaming a loud Amen Thanks for your time. 9 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by eyinjuege: 10:26pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Why not prep yourself up, take a deep breathe in and out, and then face IVF squarely? Of course you need to see a fertility specialist to decide if iVF is suitable for you. I understand the costs of IVF has come down, as there are more centers coming up. There are threads on NL which deal squarely with IVF experiences of people on NL. You'll be able to get various recommendations of good cheap centers. Make that a goal, and follow it through. All the best 12 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:27pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
mhizEvangee:Seriously?Amazing testimony. How did she survive?I'm in.awe. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Lexusgs430: 10:28pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
bonjovi12: I think IVF is the next solution. But be mindful that its not a cheap process and the % of failure rate too is high. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:28pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
[quote author=eyinjuege post=55176012]Why not prep yourself up, take a deep breathe in and out, and then face IVF squarely? I understand the costs of IVF has come down, as there are more centers coming up. There are threads on NL which deal squarely with IVF experiences of people on NL. You'll be able to get various recommendations of good cheap centers. Make that a goal, and follow it through. All the best This option is under serious consideration. Thanks |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Jackeeh(m): 10:30pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
bonjovi12: So how has all you worrying helped the situation? If you're a true Christian, WAIT ON THE LORD! There've been testimonies from your type of situation. There still are. You are supposed to to be a source of support to your wifey. If you both are worried and desperate, how is that going to help the situation? you both need to relax your minds. Worry less. Keep doing what husband and wife do behind closed doors. Do it at every available chance you get. you both won't even know when belle go enter. 3 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:31pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Jackeeh:I have got faith in God still. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by oweniwe(m): 10:36pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
bonjovi12 forget all those spiritual stuffs. if you drink beer/alcohol or smoke ... quite both pls. I'm not saying you drink or smoke o.... But all the men I know who have difficulty getting their wives pregnant either drink beer almost every day or they are smokers. And after they stop drinking/smoking, it takes up to a year or two before pregnancy happens. 5 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by hungryboy(m): 10:37pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
bonjovi12:The Op is right , If you haven't experienced what he is going through, You'll never understand the pain A wise man was told me, Do things that make you happy If a child is what you need to make you feel complete , Please by all means get one, Whether through adoption or surrogacy Or just try impregnating another woman If you love your wife enough to stick by her no matter what, Please do. What am basically trying to say is, Do whatever you wish to , Don't be influenced by outsiders opinions My Mum's aunty is in her sixties and she got no kids, and she is still married to her husband for over 30yrs now I always envy the love the have for each other 5 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by mrstheo(f): 10:39pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
bonjovi12:AMEN! |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by ufuosman(m): 10:41pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
bro still believe in God, soon you will carry your own baby. God ways is not our ways. God will put joy in ur face. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:43pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
[quote author=oweniwe post=55176296]bonjovi12 forget all those spiritual stuffs. if you drink beer/alcohol or smoke ... quite both pls. I'm not saying you drink or smoke o.... But all the men I know who have difficulty getting their wives pregnant either drink beer almost every day or they are smokers. And after they stop drinking/smoking, it takes up to a year or two before pregnancy happens. [/quote I drink occasionally. Have never smoked |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:44pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
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Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by poshestmina(f): 10:55pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
ItsQuinn:You don't joke with people's pains ...not cool! 9 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:56pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
[quote author=bonjovi12 post=55176538][/quote How were they able to do this? |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:56pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Too bad for him! I don't give a f*ck poshestmina: 1 Like |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by poshestmina(f): 10:58pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
ItsQuinn:Suite yourself! 4 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:58pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
poshestmina:You just gave it the attention itcraves.Ignore it 11 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 10:58pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Oh! yes i will! poshestmina: |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by poshestmina(f): 11:03pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
bonjovi12:Was just suprised a 'human being' could be so insensitive ...I pray God grants ur request ,it's well . 6 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by oweniwe(m): 11:05pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
[quote author=bonjovi12 post=55176498][/quote] Let me tell u about an uncle.... he's quite popular ... he's the secretary of some peer associations... so any time he goes to visit people or party, they serve him beer. 7 years, the guy no fit give his wife belle... he got high blood pressure and a doctor advised him to stop drinking... About 6 months later his wife & another gal both got pregnant at same time. sadly, after the ladies delivered, he started drinking beer again ... he went to night party and returned early morning complaining of chest pains.. High blood pressure took him. I stopped drinking beer cos of that. so maybe you should abstain from drinking for some months and see if it'll work. 3 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 11:09pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
poshestmina:Amen.I appreciate your prayer. God bless you |
Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Nobody: 11:15pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
mrstheo:Are you waiting on God?Are you doing anything medical? |
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