Bishop4Christ:
HI.. MY NAME IS BISHOP. AM FROM AKWA IBOM. PLS ANY BODY WHO CAN CONTACT THE PERSON WITH DIS HANDLE IN nairaland: "bonjovi12". SHOULD TELL HIM THAT HIS CASE IS SMALL B4 GOD. IF GOD CAN DO FOR COUPLE AFTER 15YEARS OF MARRIAGE,HE CAN EQUALLY DO IT FOR HIM. HE SHOULD CONTACT ME THROUGH 08062698799. AM BISHOP BY NAME. because AM SO INTERESTING IN HIS PROBLEM. LET HIM HAVE THE FAITH THAT HIS CASE IS SETTLE.HE SHOULD CONTACT ME WITH THE PHONE NO. ABOVE.

Any body who can contact the person with dis handle in nairaland 'Bishop'should tell him that I said thanks but i am not interested.

bonjovi12:
Got married in 2011.No children.
Doctors have diagonised medical issues with me.Wifey has got some issues too but we have had them sorted.
There are spiritual issues on wifey father's side.We have been praying.We have sowed seeds.We both love kids.We don't envy anyone but bless them when they have their kids.
Have seen almost all my friends,church members and family all have kids.Some of them got married after us but are on to their second, third issue.
Just heard that the wife of one of my guys that acted up during his marriage is preggies.Almost couple i know has kids.
Have done procedures except IVF until a couple of years back.Spent money.
We decided to use money to do other things and just trust God to come through.
I'm not a saint.I.try for God.Bless people and do service.
Prayers have revealed we would have kids.We have both had dreams about having our kids.
Today I'm just down. Depressed. Wish I had enough dough so i can risk doing enough IVF to give us our children but worried about squandering my lil savings and not get desired results.
I need help.Pastors have ripped us off.Most of them wanted or wants something in return.
Just pray God can just do it and now too.
Wifey was not handling it well before till she signed out.Now is she just trying to live her life.
Its getting to me.I am a correct Guy that people admire and some envy cos I have got some other things going on for me.
I want above every thing else to be a father.Can't stand the stigma. I need help.Is there anyone out there who can help?
Real,genuine individual prolly been in this before and knows and understands how it feels and overcame.
I don't know.Just sad but cos I have a relationship with God no matter how ffed it is sometimes cos of my sins,I am still hopeful.

Continue to fast and pray for this infact, fast for this purpose with wifey from 6am to 2pm daily until God answers ur prayers. Only God can give u children. It will happen when u least expect it, hw old is wifey by d way hope nt above 38yrs, continue to do d needful esp when she is ovulating.

Build ur sperm count too exercise well, eat water melon, banana, plantain, pap, cucumber n take food supplements to give u those thick sperm to get d job done. Quit alcohol, sugar, starch n smoking during this period. Eat excess fruit anyone u can see n vegetables

You will have a baby b4 the end of this yr. I can see him coming. Thank God n be happy it is settled.

bonjovi12:
Got married in 2011.No children.
Doctors have diagonised medical issues with me.Wifey has got some issues too but we have had them sorted.
There are spiritual issues on wifey father's side.We have been praying.We have sowed seeds.We both love kids.We don't envy anyone but bless them when they have their kids.
Have seen almost all my friends,church members and family all have kids.Some of them got married after us but are on to their second, third issue.
Just heard that the wife of one of my guys that acted up during his marriage is preggies.Almost couple i know has kids.
Have done procedures except IVF until a couple of years back.Spent money.
We decided to use money to do other things and just trust God to come through.
I'm not a saint.I.try for God.Bless people and do service.
Prayers have revealed we would have kids.We have both had dreams about having our kids.
Today I'm just down. Depressed. Wish I had enough dough so i can risk doing enough IVF to give us our children but worried about squandering my lil savings and not get desired results.
I need help.Pastors have ripped us off.Most of them wanted or wants something in return.
Just pray God can just do it and now too.
Wifey was not handling it well before till she signed out.Now is she just trying to live her life.
Its getting to me.I am a correct Guy that people admire and some envy cos I have got some other things going on for me.
I want above every thing else to be a father.Can't stand the stigma. I need help.Is there anyone out there who can help?
Real,genuine individual prolly been in this before and knows and understands how it feels and overcame.
I don't know.Just sad but cos I have a relationship with God no matter how ffed it is sometimes cos of my sins,I am still hopeful.

Adopt a child.,treat him/her like u would do urs

bonjovi12:
Got married in 2011.No children.
Doctors have diagonised medical issues with me.Wifey has got some issues too but we have had them sorted.
There are spiritual issues on wifey father's side.We have been praying.We have sowed seeds.We both love kids.We don't envy anyone but bless them when they have their kids.
Have seen almost all my friends,church members and family all have kids.Some of them got married after us but are on to their second, third issue.
Just heard that the wife of one of my guys that acted up during his marriage is preggies.Almost couple i know has kids.
Have done procedures except IVF until a couple of years back.Spent money.
We decided to use money to do other things and just trust God to come through.
I'm not a saint.I.try for God.Bless people and do service.
Prayers have revealed we would have kids.We have both had dreams about having our kids.
Today I'm just down. Depressed. Wish I had enough dough so i can risk doing enough IVF to give us our children but worried about squandering my lil savings and not get desired results.
I need help.Pastors have ripped us off.Most of them wanted or wants something in return.
Just pray God can just do it and now too.
Wifey was not handling it well before till she signed out.Now is she just trying to live her life.
Its getting to me.I am a correct Guy that people admire and some envy cos I have got some other things going on for me.
I want above every thing else to be a father.Can't stand the stigma. I need help.Is there anyone out there who can help?
Real,genuine individual prolly been in this before and knows and understands how it feels and overcame.
I don't know.Just sad but cos I have a relationship with God no matter how ffed it is sometimes cos of my sins,I am still hopeful.

My brother, I really understand you. I was there for more years than you are now, trust me I understand perfectly. You have to stay strong and be an encouragement to your wife. Let her know that you will always be there for her with/without children. I got so many suggestions from friends, colleagues, family members. some showed genuine concern and others........
Pls don't give up, don't give in, 6years is a long time but trust me there are some who have waited much longer and I am one of them. But the product of every WAITING is always amazing. God is preparing another Isaac, Samuel, John the Baptist for you. These were history makers in their time. Today am a proud father of three lovely children, very exceptional, very intelligent and worth the wait.
As you keep praying and trusting God to help, make sure that you see a fertility specialist, do all the investigations you can do and let God do His part. Try as much as possible to wade off every extended family pressure, don't allow what people say have any effect in your life. God will visit you soon and we will share in the celebration. I base in Abuja too so I will definitely come for their naming. God bless you.

Keep praying
Read Isaiah 54 & 55 and hold on to the promises there.
You can't make it happen
Only God can.

bonjovi12:

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My dear, there is nothing wrong in wanting to be a father as badly as you want it.

It seems it is ok for women to have this longings and everyone expects them to be maternal. But if a man discloses his desire for fatherhood, he is looking for bragging rights or trying to prove his verility

My own advise especially for people who are being told, wait on the lord, fast , pray..... everyone's miracle is not always of biblical proportions, most miracles are in seeing the hand of God in the works of man.

Do what you can on your own personal level, cut out alcohol and smoking, try and de-stress your mind, keep the faith, keep praying, try to keep positive..

Additionally For your wife, she should monitor her cycle, so that you can target intercourse to her most fertile days.
She should read up on the billings method. It is effective for both trying for and avoiding pregnancy. Try not to make intercourse a chore else you will just be adding stress to your life.

God works in mysterious ways, fertility treatment and interventions have been discovered for a reason. If a physical treatment is available and you can afford it, try it. Stop waiting for angel of God to come and part the red sea when there is a bridge or boat just down the river bank.

If you and your wife are below the age of 35, if you can afford it, try going for ivf NOW as your chances are much higher. Once you pass the 35yr mark, plenty comma dey the matter.
Let no one kid you. IVF is not a walk in the park regardless of age, neither financially, physical nor emotional and Success is not 100 % guaranteed but at every stage is God's grace at work. Keep putting the process in prayer.

Rather than giving to any dodgy pastor that requests money, sow that money into the life of the less priviledge or someone really in need. you can even do this annonymously. There are plenty orphanges... there are plenty children in hospital wards and babies in NICU wards that need medical bills to be paid. Your blessings do not always need a pastor to go to some mountain to bath naked on your behalf before you can be blessed. .. it may just come from a very thankful prayer said by someone who was in real desperate need.

Finally Try and get councelling for you and your wife if you can. From a proper psychologist / councellor oh not any church person that will say it is because you did not pay tithe or will start questioning your faith. No one needs that kind of negativity in their life.

enoqueen:
It's well. What's your location?

hi please i want to know you better.
Can we connect on facebook? Need to ask you lot of questions.

Adoption is still an option bro. IVF is ok too but since u haven't got all the money and there is still a chance of failure, go for adoption. Adopt a baby that is few months old probably a girl, love her and care for her. She will fill the void u feel. I know couples who adopted kids and are very happy right now. Dont kill yourself over this. Do what u can and liv the rest for God.

I see people telling you to wait on God, and keep believing. Brother, the truth is that it is not God that is keeping you from having your baby, it is the devil. And you need to defeat that devil because Christ has already placed you above it.

However with sin in your life, the devil will continue to Lord over you. You need to get rid of sin completely and genuinely repent, then you can begin to recover all that the devil stole from you.

I have seen many cases such as yours and they testify always. Pls for your own good, and I know people must have invited you to countless places but pls endeavor to visit Omega Power Ministries Port Harcourt with your wife. You will not pay a dime to anyone there. You only need a bottle of water and your olive oil.

You have been waiting on God for six years, its time to put God to a test.

bonjovi12:

Thanks Sis.
May God hear your prayers and ours IJN

Do not listen to that advice. Tell God you are tired of waiting. Tell Him you want it now.

First things first, go follow the Facebook page of the church Omega Power Ministries. Listen to the wonderful and they will build your faith. Anyone telling you to wait on God is only wasting more of your time. Do not wait any longer.

I have seen people get restored only days after visiting the church. Pls note that I'm not advertising the pastor nor the church. All the glory goes to God. Come with the radical faith that you will not leave the same, and I tell you, you won't.

bonjovi12:

Thanks bro.Been there,done that.
Not.easy taking your attention off children when everything and everyone reminds you off the absence of kids in your life.
If you have not gone through this you may never understand the pain