Aderola15:


Which kain epp you dey give? I no trust you

try and see

Rutirexa:
not like I do sex with them. what i mean is that I like being in their company. we stuffs kind of relationship like. it kind of complicating. not that I have feelings for anyone of them. but just like being with them. and I don't have high libido. it just like exploring. being with other guys. and not with your bf alone.

If u r not sexxin them or having anything physical then ur not cheating per say.. U just luv d company of these guys prolly cos ur guy is boring n uninteresting. You should know however that u r playing with fire n before u say hey" u might be boinking one or two dudes on d side... Work on whats missing with whom u claim u luv

Rutirexa:
please no insults. Advise only.
I started dating this awesome guy. he was everything I wanted in a guy. we have been dating for two years and some months. Am 20, his 25. but the problem is I can't stop falling in love with other guys who are wooing me. I love my bf so much. and he loves me too. but my cheating aspect is what am trying to stop and he doesn't know. And after all these with other guys. I don't feel remorse like am doing anything wrong. but I know he would feel bad if he knows.
So what can I do to stop.

first post on nairaland,any way it natural at 20

u dont feel remorse that u r doing anything wrong because u have not be caught..so u think u r doing the right thing..i am sorry u cant change because cheating is in ur habit...u dont no what u want...u r confuse and never satisfy....what has ur wonderful bf done to deserve this from u?

it is girl like you that gives guys STIs because of ur random boyfriends....

Rutirexa:
please no insults. Advise only.
I started dating this awesome guy. he was everything I wanted in a guy. we have been dating for two years and some months. Am 20, his 25. but the problem is I can't stop falling in love with other guys who are wooing me. I love my bf so much. and he loves me too. but my cheating aspect is what am trying to stop and he doesn't know. And after all these with other guys. I don't feel remorse like am doing anything wrong. but I know he would feel bad if he knows.
So what can I do to stop.

As much as you can "say" you love this guy, it is obvious that you don't (and have no clue about the meaning of the word LOVE).The fact that you have no remorse about your disrespectful and deceitful actions is the worst part of this story. Sadly, you are just as evil as many of our sistas who gladly double/triple/quadruple date, until they can find the perfect donkey to marry.

Solution: If that's the type of life you desire for yourself, then so be it, but have some guts to show this man what type of animal woman you truly are.

Rutirexa:
please no insults. Advise only.
I started dating this awesome guy. he was everything I wanted in a guy. we have been dating for two years and some months. Am 20, his 25. but the problem is I can't stop falling in love with other guys who are wooing me. I love my bf so much. and he loves me too. but my cheating aspect is what am trying to stop and he doesn't know. And after all these with other guys. I don't feel remorse like am doing anything wrong. but I know he would feel bad if he knows.
So what can I do to stop.

keep it up

I know where d problem is from. Is that woman u bleeped her house that cursed u for continuous bleeping. Go n appologize to her before agbero wet don smoke osogbo weed with alomo join catch u

Rutirexa:
please no insults. Advise only.
I started dating this awesome guy. he was everything I wanted in a guy. we have been dating for two years and some months. Am 20, his 25. but the problem is I can't stop falling in love with other guys who are wooing me. I love my bf so much. and he loves me too. but my cheating aspect is what am trying to stop and he doesn't know. And after all these with other guys. I don't feel remorse like am doing anything wrong. but I know he would feel bad if he knows.
So what can I do to stop.

Firstly you need to fully understand the meaning of love.
If he loves you and you truly love him then you won't cheat on him knowing fully well how it would hurt him.
In your case you simply have a wondering eye. You need to let your eye be single. What is it your bf isn't doing enof of? If I may ask is he gud in the sack or he leaves you wanting more?
Answer this question first. We can solve this together. You ever watch the movie my best friend's girl?… all it would take is one very horrible date for you to realise what you've got and you'd stop straying believe me. I'm available to help in that aspect. One good Bleep to purge your system from other yearnings you'd be satisfied with your bf after trust me

can I have your numb er pls? can I have your numb er pls?

Rutirexa:
Am not sexing them. it just like am putting them on the edge and making it see. like we are dating. but we are not. I just feel like am cheating on each other feelings. and it a game I can't stop but I want to. and I don't have high libido

Now first of All why are you lying to us here?
Do you want to tell us that out of all the Guys you have been doing what you said you do to you have not slept with anyone of them?

Are you a Virgin? Have you slept with Your boyfriend?

Rutirexa:
Am not sexing them. it just like am putting them on the edge and making it see. like we are dating. but we are not. I just feel like am cheating on each other feelings. and it a game I can't stop but I want to. and I don't have high libido

u see it as a game? Dnt worry, ride on, ride on. Time will change ur perspective.

Bumbae1:
This is why awesome guys end up not being so awesome
Stop messing around with him .. tell him
One day you will settle down too and be madly inlove .. ... karma dear
Nothing is wrong with it if that's how you are but at least free the guy if he decides to remain with you then.. goodluck

Bumbae1:
This is why awesome guys end up not being so awesome
Stop messing around with him .. tell him
One day you will settle down too and be madly inlove .. ... karma dear
Nothing is wrong with it if that's how you are but at least free the guy if he decides to remain with you then.. goodluck

eee do girls still cheat?

Bumbae1:
This is why awesome guys end up not being so awesome
Stop messing around with him .. tell him
One day you will settle down too and be madly inlove .. ... karma dear
Nothing is wrong with it if that's how you are but at least free the guy if he decides to remain with you then.. goodluck

eee do girls still cheat?

alobright17:
try and see

Really?

OP I don't want to take your post personal but you are a very stoopid person. It is people like you that turn good men into demons.

YOU ARE FVCKING THOSE GUYS!!! Who resemble monkey for here?

I know your type. A blood sucking demon that is about to blossom into a fully fledged olosho.

And yes, in case you didn't notice. I'm pained.

Hoe like you. And one day you will have the nerves to turn around and say that all men are dogs, when the type of atrocities you and your ilk perpetuate in obodo Nigeria is enough to make the devil weep.

#spits

waywardpikin:
OP I don't want to take your post personal but you are a very stoopid person. It is people like you that turn good men into demons.

YOU ARE FVCKING THOSE GUYS!!! Who resemble monkey for here?

I know your type. A blood sucking demon that is about to blossom into a fully fledged olosho.

And yes, in case you didn't notice. I'm pained.

Hoe like you. And one day you will have the nerves to turn around and say that all men are dogs, when the type of atrocities you and your ilk perpetuate in obodo Nigeria is enough to make the devil weep.

#spits

If you now wan take am personal nkor?


Damn!!! You killed Op and this is what I call destiny resetting words. Haba!

Rutirexa:
please no insults. Advise only.
I started dating this awesome guy. he was everything I wanted in a guy. we have been dating for two years and some months. Am 20, his 25. but the problem is I can't stop falling in love with other guys who are wooing me. I love my bf so much. and he loves me too. but my cheating aspect is what am trying to stop and he doesn't know. And after all these with other guys. I don't feel remorse like am doing anything wrong. but I know he would feel bad if he knows.
So what can I do to stop.

if you're not sleeping with them, that's a good thing. However, emotional cheating is still very unfair to your partner. If you love him as much as you claim you do, you should be able to keep all these other fellas at bay.
Doing that is very easy.. when a guy comes on to you, tell him from the onset that you're in a serious relationship. If he is a responsible person, he will either back off or agree to be friends. If not, tell your partner. Don't wait until something stupid happens before you start rendering all the apologies in the world.

I understand the need for attention and how it makes you feel. If your partner doesn't give you enough attention, let him know. If he loves you as much as you say he does, he will adjust to suit you and make you happy.

Trust me, the blowback is very horrible when he finds out.. And he will definitely find out eventually.

My advice is that you stop all the nonsense and find a suitable way to tell him about it. A guy that loves you will be upset but he wont leave.
In my opinion, it's better to hear something like this from the horse's mouth.
Goodluck.

waywardpikin:
OP I don't want to take your post personal but you are a very stoopid person. It is people like you that turn good men into demons.

YOU ARE FVCKING THOSE GUYS!!! Who resemble monkey for here?

I know your type. A blood sucking demon that is about to blossom into a fully fledged olosho.

And yes, in case you didn't notice. I'm pained.

Hoe like you. And one day you will have the nerves to turn around and say that all men are dogs, when the type of atrocities you and your ilk perpetuate in obodo Nigeria is enough to make the devil weep.

#spits

these insults you have spewed forth serve no purpose... it only shows your ignorance. the girl has admitted her wrongs and is seeking help.
if you aren't going to offer advice or be a spectator, just remain quiet.

DeLioncourt:


these insults you have spewed forth serve no purpose... it only shows your ignorance. the girl has admitted her wrongs and is seeking help.
if you aren't going to offer advice or be a spectator, just remain quiet.

And if I don't remain quiet what will happen? Maintain your lane oga.

Aderola15:

Really?

yes am in my room waiting.

waywardpikin:


And if I don't remain quiet what will happen? Maintain your lane oga.

i didn't even notice your moniker...I was wasting my time. I thought you had sense...

Carry on with your waywardness brother!

DeLioncourt:


i didn't even notice your moniker...I was wasting my time. I thought you had sense...

Carry on with your waywardness brother!

Good. Now swerve.

Imbe.cile.

Mznaett:
Firstly,you aren't a cheat. The problem is from those guys who wouldn't mind disturbing one's peace just to accept them. It's not as if they have anything good to offer o I'm very sure @op must have told them she has a serious date already? But would they ever listen?
I'd advise you cut every ties you have with those guys if only you want the best for yourself o.
The way some guys react whenever they see the opposite sex is so disgusting... Tufia

. This is the most hilarious comment on relationship I've ever read. Or were you trying to be sarcastic ? It's just like some blaming his opponent for scoring against him.

this is an issue with girls who have too many male friends. i hope her boyfriend breaks up with her asap. this kind of girl isnt good for nobody because when you are not around, she will be hanging out with some other guy

prettyboi1989:
this is an issue with girls who have too many male friends. i hope her boyfriend breaks up with her asap. this kind of girl isnt good for nobody because when you are not around, she will be hanging out with some other guy

The issue is NOT about having many male friends, it is about dating a disrespectful/deceitful woman. If she had NO male friends she would still do what she does with strangers (while many have gazillion male friend and don't cheat). Her mind is corrupted!

MrBrownJay1:


The issue is NOT about having many male friends, it is about dating a disrespectful/deceitful woman. If she had NO male friends she would still do what she does with strangers (while many have gazillion male friend and don't cheat). Her mind is corrupted!

Do you go around fire expecting not to sweat?

What does she need all those MALE 'friends' for?

I've seen too many of the OP's type to be watching my words. A hoe will always be a hoe.

All of a sudden, none of the girls saw it as cheating.


Make una continue.

waywardpikin:


Do you go around fire expecting not to sweat?

What does she need all those MALE 'friends' for?

I've seen too many of the OP's type to be watching my words. A hoe will always be a hoe.

- If a Lady had many male friends when you met her, you had no problem with it and decided to date her, why would your low self esteem self wanna try to change that now?!

- Its called FRIENDSHIP, and just because you are insecure doesn't mean there is something wrong with having friends of the opposite sex. Wanting a woman to have NO social contact with male friends, is not only crazy, but also sick.

- If the woman is a hoe then the problem is in her HEAD, and not in the amount of male friends she has.

MrBrownJay1:


- If a Lady had many male friends when you met her, you had no problem with it and decided to date her, why would your low self esteem self wanna try to change that now?!

- Its called FRIENDSHIP, and just because you are insecure doesn't mean there is something wrong with having friends of the opposite sex. Wanting a woman to have NO social contact with male friends, is not only crazy, but also sick.

- If the woman is a hoe then the problem is in her HEAD, and not in the amount of male friends she has.

There are those who have male colleagues and acquaintances to an acceptable degree. And then there are those who, as their boyfriend, you notice that they are unusually friendly with an alarming number of guys under the pretext of friendship. Of course if you try to draw her attention towards it you are labelled as insecure or suffering from low self esteem just as you have attempted to do here.

Any guy who attempts to restrict his babe from talking to ANY guy at all except for himself is a sicko, which is apparently not the case here. Don't know how we got into that.

If you're trying to say there is no correlation between having a large number of male 'friends' and being a hoe then I have nothing more to say to you.

Who no go no know...

waywardpikin:


There are those who have male colleagues and acquaintances to an acceptable degree. And then there are those who, as their boyfriend, you notice that they are unusually friendly with an alarming number of guys under the pretext of friendship. Of course if you try to draw her attention towards it you are labelled as insecure or suffering from low self esteem just as you have attempted to do here.

I guess what you are saying is that as soon as women get into a r/ship, they suddenly become unusually friendly with their male friends... Or is it possible that these women were ALWAYS unusually friendly with their male friends... And while it wasn't a problem for you as you were wooing her, it suddenly becomes an issue now that you are dating her (due to insecurity)?

Any guy who attempts to restrict his babe from talking to ANY guy at all except for himself is a sicko, which is apparently not the case here. Don't know how we got into that.

How will such lady talk to guys if men like you are against her having male friends?!

If you're trying to say there is no correlation between having a large number of male 'friends' and being a hoe then I have nothing more to say to you.

NO correlation whatsoever...

MrBrownJay1:


I guess what you are saying is that as soon as women get into a r/ship, they suddenly become unusually friendly with their male friends... Or is it possible that these women were ALWAYS unusually friendly with their male friends... And while it wasn't a problem for you as you were wooing her, it suddenly becomes an issue now that you are dating her (due to insecurity)?



How will such lady talk to guys if men like you are against her having male friends?!



NO correlation whatsoever...

Men like me did what? Go sleep oga.

Goan argue with a brick wall.

Rutirexa:
please no insults. Advise only.
I started dating this awesome guy. he was everything I wanted in a guy. we have been dating for two years and some months. Am 20, his 25. but the problem is I can't stop falling in love with other guys who are wooing me. I love my bf so much. and he loves me too. but my cheating aspect is what am trying to stop and he doesn't know. And after all these with other guys. I don't feel remorse like am doing anything wrong. but I know he would feel bad if he knows.
So what can I do to stop.

I think your boyfriend is one of those nice guys who offer everything... I can imagine a real boring relationship here where there is love and care but there is no real spice in the relationship.. Like the fun stuff and the dirty sexy stuff which other guys offer and that is what's attracting you..

Right?