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The Ruling On Disliking Polygamy/ The 'Allaamah Shaykh 'Abdul-'Azeez ibn Baaz


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Whh3742HDQ

This is for those that are not mentally detailed....

AbdelKabir:
The Ruling On Disliking Polygamy/ The 'Allaamah Shaykh 'Abdul-'Azeez ibn Baaz


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Whh3742HDQ

This is for those that are not mentally detailed....

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Coccoh:
Mentally detailed

Don't you see the mentally derailed girl up there that affirmed she is actually "kolomental"?

You can see her insulting scholars that served/are serving Islam, who does that except one who is mentally detailed?

Why not quote me fool. Psycho she's correcting you metally derailed not detailed. Mtcheeeeeeeew
You think any sensible person will click on that your video you agenda will not work and we will not accept people like you who feel they know about islam but are full of arrogance and know nothing.
Like i said you are a pervert.

AbdelKabir:
, she wants to start the only thing she knows how to do without failure...... Insults

Atleast i have you to thank for teaching.pervert

sarahade:
Why not quote me fool. Psycho she's correcting you metally derailed not detailed. Mtcheeeeeeeew
You think any sensible person will click on that your video you agenda will not work and we will not accept people like you who feel they know about islam but are full of arrogance and know nothing.
Like i said you are a pervert.

T is close to R on my keyboard (QWERTY)..... So What's your own excuse? Metal kor, Metamorphosis ni...

A true life story of a muslimah who didn't want her husband to marry second wife:




“Second wife! The words reverberated through my brain. Why? Am I not good enough? Never! I will never accept a second wife! If you want a second wife you can go out and get one as long as you know that I will not be here when you come back! Those were my words to my husband a few years ago when he mentioned to me that he is intending to marry again a second time. It was a woman recently divorced, 4 children. She is having a hard time, he said, she doesn't know where the next meal is coming from or how to provide adequately for her children. “Where is their father?” I asked, “Can’t he take care of his own kids? Why do you a strange man have to carry another man’s burden? Surely there are other ways that you can help her out financially without having to MARRY her!

I could not imagine myself in a plural marriage. Sharing my husband with another woman. Sharing his love, his smiles, his jokes with a woman other than myself. I could not fathom him holding her close and whispering loving words in her ears. It was unacceptable. An outrage! After all, I have been to him, wife, lover, mother, doctor; housekeeper. I raised 3 of his beautiful children. How can he insult me by marrying another woman as if I am not good enough? Not pretty enough. Not young enough or just plain not ENOUGH! NO! I could not accept that and I vehemently made my stance clear to him. If she walks in, I walk out! Plain and simple. If he is willing to risk our marriage, our life, our children for another woman, then he must go ahead. I will not stand for it!

It all seems so many years ago now. When I thought that life would last forever and that nothing will ever change. But it did….My husband did not get married to a second wife. After all my warnings and threats of leaving he abandoned the idea. I don’t know what happened to the woman and her children. My guess is that they moved on to another town.

He never mentioned a second wife again and I was happy with that. I managed to hang on to my husband but I didn’t know that our time was running out. His last words to me were that he had a headache and is going to lie down till Esha. He never read Esha namaaz that night, because he never woke up! I was devastated by his sudden death. The man whom I have spent my life with, snatched away from me in a second! I mourned him for a long, long time.

Neglecting my children and the business. Soon all went to waste and we started losing everything one by one. First the car then the shop, then the house. We moved in with my brother and his family. My 3 children and I crowded the house and my sister in law soon became annoyed by our presence. I needed to get out, to work and find a place of our own instead of living off the leftovers of others. But I had no skill.

When my husband was alive we lived comfortably. I had no need to go out and work or equip myself with a skill. Life was very difficult for me and my children and I wasn’t young anymore. I missed him every day with every beat of my heart. How could one’s condition change so drastically? One day my brother told me that someone he knew is looking for a wife. He was a good person, good akhlaq and very pious. Perfect for me, but he wants me to be his second wife.

It’s the second time in my life that the word second wife was mentioned to me. But how different the circumstances. He came to my brother’s house to see me. There was an immediate connection between us. I liked him and I liked everything about him. He told me that his first wife knows that he is intending to marry again but that she is obviously not supportive of the idea and that he doesn’t know what her reaction will be when he tells her that he had found someone. His answer he said, will be dependent on her acceptance of Polygamy. I started praying Istikhara that night. I so desperately wanted it to work out. I remembered so many years ago when the life of another woman depended on my decision and what my decision was. I felt contrite, I felt that because I did not give another woman a chance, a space in my life, that Allah will punish me this time around.


I repented, not once in my life did I think my action worthy of repentance because I had done nothing wrong. I only protected what was mine. Now that I am on the receiving end, I realized how wrong I was in denying another woman this PRIVILEGE of a husband. I prayed that she will accept me. He phoned me a few days later telling me that his wife is having a hard time accepting it but that she is willing to meet me. I was nervous the day of the meeting. I prayed a lot the day before and asked Allah to help me.

When I met her, she was a person, a woman like me. A woman who loves her husband and fears losing him. She took my hand and with tears in her eyes said: “This is very hard for me, but I hope that we can be sisters” her words broke my heart. All I needed in these dark days was a hand reaching out to me and embracing me, giving me hope and the will to carry on. His wife was to me, the woman that I could not be and I will be forever grateful for that. I thought that no one could love her husband the way I loved mine, but she taught me the true meaning of unconditional love.


You never knew a person’s situation until you are in it. Judge by what is right according to Qu’ran and you will see how Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala will sent double fold of blessings your way.”

http://muslimvillage.com/2014/12/09/60243/second-wife-a-sisters-story/

sarahade:
Don't worry the low self esteem ladies will holla.
Vacancy for prostitutes and damaged wombs.
I'm sure you have to taste them too .
Mtcheeeeew rubbish

sarahade:
Why not quote me fool. Psycho she's correcting you metally derailed not detailed. Mtcheeeeeeeew
You think any sensible person will click on that your video you agenda will not work and we will not accept people like you who feel they know about islam but are full of arrogance and know nothing.
Like i said you are a pervert.

My dear sister, kindly take it easy now. This is not befitting you at all. Tune down even if you are upset for any reason. Calm down now. You are beautiful and i am sure you dont want your future husband who perhaps might be reading this see your comments. Someone already admonished up there.

Btw, you never know if he is your future husband. Think about it. Dont you think you might make great couple?. To me, i see compatibility btw you two especially the way you both react to each other. Just calm down and think about it.

^^ lol ......That got me rolling on the floor.....BT u no try for me ooo......I'm a beard carrier...

I don't wanna take her serious today that's why I'm kinda being gentle...

She must've been hitting her head against the wall when typing that...its so obvious

Empiree:
My dear sister, kindly take it easy now. This is not befitting you at all. Tune down even if you are upset for any reason. Calm down now. You are beautiful and i am sure you dont want your future husband who perhaps might be reading this see your comments. Someone already admonished up there.

Btw, you never know if he is your future husband. Think about it. Dont you think you might make great couple?. To me, i see compatibility btw you two especially the way you both react to each other. Just calm down and think about it .

You and these your memes

And you are right @bold. Who knows? Maybe they've been PM(ing) each other and saving face with all these everyday fight between them.

But then, wetin 'consign' me

I trust @MrOlai he likes that story ehn.....he has shared it many times.....BTW where did you run to sef?

Rilwayne001:
You and these your memes

And you are right @bold. Who knows? Maybe they've been PM(ing) each other and saving face with all these everyday fight between them.

But then, wetin 'consign' me

Lol...like you read my mind. I was going to say that but i decided you take chill pill

Empiree:
My dear sister, kindly take it easy now. This is not befitting you at all. Tune down even if you are upset for any reason. Calm down now. You are beautiful and i am sure you dont want your future husband who perhaps might be reading this see your comments. Someone already admonished up there.

Btw, you never know if he is your future husband. Think about it. Dont you think you might make great couple?. To me, i see compatibility btw you two especially the way you both react to each other. Just calm down and think about it.

Me I don't like the way you are judging this matter o.
Jejekuly I made a comment and he called me kolomental and I gave him the reply that I think he deserves.
I'm actually very beautiful and a nice person he can't handle a woman like me laye laye.
Remove that picture of me and him before my husband to be catch you o.
I'm sorry if my words were harsh it won't happen again.

AbdelKabir:
T is close to R on my keyboard (QWERTY)..... So What's your own excuse? Metal kor, Metamorphosis ni...

My excuse is your new assignment.

Rilwayne001:
You and these your memes

And you are right @bold. Who knows? Maybe they've been PM(ing) each other and saving face with all these everyday fight between them.

But then, wetin 'consign' me

pm who i no fit be 5th wife o abeg

sarahade:
Me I don't like the way you are judging this matter o.
Jejekuly I made a comment and he called me kolomental and I gave him the reply that I think he deserves.

Me self didnt know what @bold means. All i know is it sounds something abnormal. However upon checking dictionary shows that its meaning is actually restricted to nigerian pidgin style of english. So dont blame me. All i can say it dont mind that.

I'm actually very beautiful and a nice person he can't handle a woman like me laye laye.

Good. Hook with him then.

Remove that picture of me and him before my husband to be catch you o.
I'm sorry if my words are harsh it won't happen again.

@bold, that's it.

Chai! One chance...... Empiree, keep up the good work ,you got my support

AbdelKabir:
I trust @MrOlai he likes that story ehn.....he has shared it many times.....BTW where did you run to sef?

Lol. I've been extremely busy. That's why.