Erase her off your memory dude...

you will continue to hurt until you realize it's time to let go.
looking for someone else won't help you. The first step in overcoming emotional break down starts with you.

Forgive yourself first
Take it you are not meant to be
she doesn't deserve you if she can't forgive u
she has moved on.
Dedicate more time to things that makes you happy
Never be alone. try as much as possible to overcome loneliness.

Remember never shut your heart to love because you don't know when the right one will come.


I hope this help

quinnboy:
[i][/i]I think I'm dying in silence. My gal and I had issues and from all indications now I don't see us coming back. We ve been dating for just 8 months but the intimacy was such that we both couldn't spend a couple of days without being with each other. We live together and do almost everything together. I'm so use to her, I've done all I could to let her know that I'm sorry but all to no avail. I think she is moving on leaving me down and heart broken. She's dating one dude now all to forget me in time but I seems to love her so much that I can't move on. Pls this thing is killing me. I want to know how long will I suffer this pain so I can start counting down. I miss her bt I guess I need to move on.

Is she ur first love?

Truckpusher:
Now I see where you were going.I don't fight my woman I only fight her on the bed and beat the hell out of her .

are you sure?
Maybe she is the one beating the hell out of you in bed

Nneka123:
Erase her off your memory dude...

erase her with what exactly?

Enegod:
erase her with what exactly?

With eraser or "cleaner" like primary school kids call it.lol

quinnboy:
I think her boss is my major problem. Her boss introduced her to the guy she's with now. I think she loves me and wish we would be back, in fact she told me we can be back only if I won't mind him dating the two of us. I think she's scared of losing her job.

oh my God she actually wants to date two of you
Well, why not consider, you can be the main guy and the other, the side bf

Nneka123:
With eraser or "cleaner" like primary school kids call it.lol

hmmm...sounds more like a punny to me...so, the op should erase her with another punny.. great!

Date both guys in wot sense? If she didn't give in to d other guy offer in d first place, issues won't have escalated to dis point.

Like someone said: nothing can take d place of time, don't sweat it or beat yourself over dis, its a process and you have alot to learn when things DAT couldn't destroy u makes u stronger.

But for now sit up and make a final decision once over the girl & whatever u have agreed to do should not b betray for whatsoever reason's, because if u choice to delete her number 100times without conclusive decision, my brother u will find ways to get the number back 100 times.

If u can get books (Probably BattleField of d mind by Joyce Meyer), stay away from boredom ( get enough seasonal movies DAT will last u 2 weeks), go out and have some fun, just view life from a whole new perspective and laff hard when u find yourself around folks that makes u happy.

When next u tingle again... Don't fall in love, grow in love! Learn how to know the dept of water with one leg, if it is too deep for u to cope, back out with less stress.

Stay Strong!

klark3:

Is she ur first love?

No, but she's the first I really want to keep forever.

Danielstainz:
Till you see another one

I can't even woo a lady any more.

woodboi:
Date both guys in wot sense? If she didn't give in to d other guy offer in d first place, issues won't have escalated to dis point.

Like someone said: nothing can take d place of time, don't sweat it or beat yourself over dis, its a process and you have alot to learn when things DAT couldn't destroy u makes u stronger.

But for now sit up and make a final decision once over the girl & whatever u have agreed to do should not b betray for whatsoever reason's, because if u choice to delete her number 100times without conclusive decision, my brother u will find ways to get the number back 100 times.

If u can get books (Probably BattleField of d mind by Joyce Meyer), stay away from boredom ( get enough seasonal movies DAT will last u 2 weeks), go out and have some fun, just view life from a whole new perspective and laff hard when u find yourself around folks that makes u happy.

When next u tingle again... Don't fall in love, grow in love! Learn how to know the dept of water with one leg, if it is too deep for u to cope, back out with less stress.

Stay Strong!

wow! I think U are right. U made me sighed.

quinnboy:
I can't even woo a lady any more.

U know what I told a friend? People look down only to show sympathy on the weak one... But when situation makes people to look up they aim to aspire. So its up to you, either to allow the girl and friends ard u look down and feel pity for you or look up and be amaze at how u are doing.

If folks that have spent 20 yrs with kids could choose to go dia separate ways, there's no point expecting forever while dating.

Stay strong #

quinnboy:
I've got to find out that her boss introduced her to the guy she's with now. She want to come back but scared of losing her job coz of her boss....guy I'm really HURT.

Forget her, move on. Love is about sacrifice, if she loves u she wont go for d guy and u actually don't know the real truth. "If girl lie for 4u in fact u go think say devil na learner" Forget abt being hurt.

quinnboy:
[i][/i]I think I'm dying in silence. My gal and I had issues and from all indications now I don't see us coming back. We ve been dating for just 8 months but the intimacy was such that we both couldn't spend a couple of days without being with each other. We live together and do almost everything together. I'm so use to her, I've done all I could to let her know that I'm sorry but all to no avail. I think she is moving on leaving me down and heart broken. She's dating one dude now all to forget me in time but I seems to love her so much that I can't move on. Pls this thing is killing me. I want to know how long will I suffer this pain so I can start counting down. I miss her bt I guess I need to move on.

Ehya...well d best way to get outta the shithole u in is to man up nd meet other ladies out there.....ure dis pained cos u feeling lonely.....she could also be feeling d pain of leaving u but she's gt somone to ease the pain for her nd u dont......and most of all get busy as an idle mind brings forth useless thots

edimolu:

Ehya...well d best way to get outta the shithole u in is to man up nd meet other ladies out there.....ure dis pained cos u feeling lonely.....she could also be feeling d pain of leaving u but she's gt somone to ease the pain for her nd u dont......and most of all get busy as an idle mind brings forth useless thots

thanks buddy....I'm healed now, guess what!...she came back begging but it was too late.

quinnboy:
thanks buddy....I'm healed now, guess what!...she came back begging but it was too late.

Yea....now this is the best part.....it is already too late...we have to let this ladies know we d one to decide who stays nd goes....thats wat being a man entails....d only thing dat differentiates us from them is d balls we got...nd dats enough to commnd respect from any dam

khristology:
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free space..Make i use am abge..
seriously,this is the reason i dont wish to fall in Love again..It takes time to move on and forget someone u love so much...
@op..Delete everytin about her,it might help..
My girl never left me,i did when i sensed she is too promscious!!

quinnboy:
[i][/i]I think I'm dying in silence. My gal and I had issues and from all indications now I don't see us coming back. We ve been dating for just 8 months but the intimacy was such that we both couldn't spend a couple of days without being with each other. We live together and do almost everything together. I'm so use to her, I've done all I could to let her know that I'm sorry but all to no avail. I think she is moving on leaving me down and heart broken. She's dating one dude now all to forget me in time but I seems to love her so much that I can't move on. Pls this thing is killing me. I want to know how long will I suffer this pain so I can start counting down. I miss her bt I guess I need to move on.

2months is okay for me if I really mean business.