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7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by fridayokoli: 8:28am On Apr 08, 2017
7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!!

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wherever (regardless of the situation), women tend
to need a bit more inspiration, according to Cindy
M. Meston, Ph.D. and David M. Buss, Ph.D.,
psychology professors at theUniversity of Texas at
Austin and coauthors of Why Women Have Se x:
Understanding Sexual Motivations from Adventure
to Revenge (and Everything in Between). For a
better understanding of how to get her in the
mood, consider the following eight factors that
Meston and Buss say affects a woman’s li bido:


HER MAN’S APPEARANCE


Men are usually considered to be the most turned
on by visual stimuli (think about it: how many strip
clubs and adult magazines are actually targeted
toward females?), but women are actually quite
turned on by a man’s face, body and movement as
well, say Meston and Buss. “Sexually, women are
attracted to men with masculine features, although
not too masculine,” Meston explains. “A little light
stubble is usually a turn-on for women if it’s clean
and well-kept. Body-wise, women generally find
men with a V-shaped torso or a high shoulder-to-
hip ratio sexually attractive. Motion is important,
too, as women find athletic prowess and agility to
be sexual turn-ons.” The bottom line: If you’d like
to get her in the sack, a good first step to take
might be getting yourself into the gym.

2. THE TIME OF DAY


Meston says that women are very individualized in
terms of when they most prefer to get it on: “In
general, women want to have se x when they feel
their best — when they have energy, feel
connected to their partners, aren’t distracted by
work or stressful daily events, and when they feel
sexy — and that may or may not be at night.” In
order to figure out when a woman’s most likely to
be in the mood, pay attention to the times she
seems the most energized and/or chilled out. Try
thinking outside the box — you may find that she’d
love a post-jog quickie right before her shower!


3. CERTAIN SMELLS


Meston and Buss explain that, for women, sense of
smell is far more important than it is to men when
it comes to sexual attraction. Simply put: if a
woman doesn’t like the way a man smells, it’s
often a deal-breaker — whether she consciously
realizes it or not. The number one turn-off reported
by most women is — not surprisingly — bad
breath, says Buss. A woman’s sense of smell also
plays an interesting biological role in what attracts
her to a man, according to Meston: “Olfactory
signals provide a woman with a wealth of
information about a man’s health, hygiene, and
even his genetic makeup,” she notes. Pheromones
— tiny airborne molecules that humans emit from
various glands in their body — can influence a
woman’s desire to be sexually intimate with a
man. Male pheromones have been shown to
provide information on a man’s symmetry, which
is an indicator of genetic fitness and ultimately can
determine whether a man is genetically compatible
with a woman. “For many women — whether they
realize it or not — scent can play an important role
in determining her willingness to have se x with a
man, given her ‘sense’ of whether they can
produce genetically healthy, strong children
together,” says Buss.

4. HER GUY’S CHOICE OF WORDS


Often, what a man says is more important than
what he does when he’s trying to get a woman in
the mood. “Offering compliments is usually a sure-
fire way of making someone want to get closer…
although, if the compliments come across as
insincere, they will actually turn her off,” says
Meston.
To score extra sincerity points, make references to
future activities you’d like to do together, explains
Meston, noting that showing signs of commitment
can often be sexually alluring to women. Buss also
notes that a man with a sense of humor is also a
sexual turn-on for the ladies: “If a man can make a
woman laugh, it relaxes her and makes her feel
that he ‘gets’ her,” he says, adding that a good
sense of humor also conveys some key qualities
women want in a mate: intelligence (it’s hard to be
witty if you’re not too bright), the ability to gauge
her emotional and social perspective (a.k.a. having
the mind-reading skills to know what she will find
amusing), and social verve or confidence.


5. THE NEED FOR REVENGE


In their research, Meston and Buss found that
many women had “revenge se x” with someone
other than their most recent dating partner to get
back at a cheating partner or to “even the score,”
as some women put it. “Some women hoped their
ex would find out about it and feel angry or hurt,
and other women said they didn’t care if they
found out or not — they felt better just knowing
they had gotten revenge,” Meston explains. Why is
the need for revenge such a turn-on for women?
“Revenge can serve two basic functions,” Buss
explains. The first function is one of deterrence:
just as bullies stop picking on victims who
retaliate, cheating partners sometimes stop their
illicit activities when the other person retaliates in
kind. The second function of revenge is “reputation
management,” says Buss. “Women who are
scorned sometimes suffer damage to their social
reputation, whether they are cheated on or
dumped. Having se x — especially if it is with
someone who is relatively high in ‘mate value’ —
can sometimes help to restore a woman’s
reputation,” he explains.
6. GENETICS
Women prefer men whose MHC genes (or Major
HistoCompatibility genes) are dissimilar to their
own, because this is the set of genes involved in
determining an individual’s immune function.
“Having children with men who are dissimilar
produces children with healthier immune systems,”
Buss explains. “Astonishingly, women seem to be
able to pick this up through sense of smell,
especially at ovulation, if they are not on hormonal
contraceptives.”


7. HER PHYSICAL HEALTH OR WELL-BEING


If you’re looking for a few good reasons why she
should have se x with you, there are countless
ways in which you can emphasize that “getting
busy” would be a wise move for her health.
“During orga sm, opiates — the body’s natural
painkillers — are released, which can help decrease
all sorts of aches and pains for women,” Meston
explains. Se x can also help maintain the body’s
flexibility and cardiovascular health, decrease
anxiety, and enhance overall mood. Additionally,
Meston notes, having se x during menstruation
decreases a woman’s risk of experiencing
endometriosis symptoms. Of course, se x (if it
lasts long enough!) can also be a good calorie
burner, so you can always suggest it as a fantastic
way to burn off the chocolate cheesecake you
shared for dessert.



SOURCE: http://yoloaded.com/2017/04/7-surprising-things-makes-women-want-sx-bad/

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Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by QueenSuccubus(f): 8:33am On Apr 08, 2017
grin



Juz have a good smell & im pretty sure she's already squirting down there... wink wink
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by David25(m): 9:07am On Apr 08, 2017
QueenSuccubus:
grin



Juz have a good smell & im pretty sure she's already squirting down there... wink wink



Squirting is a fake ideology, that sh!t ain't real
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by Fmartin(m): 10:07am On Apr 08, 2017
QueenSuccubus:
grin



Juz have a good smell & im pretty sure she's already squirting down there... wink wink

is that ur weak point too?
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by pweshboi(m): 10:09am On Apr 08, 2017
David25:


Squirting is a fake ideology, that sh!t ain't real
Bro believe me... It's real
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by Safiaa(f): 10:19am On Apr 08, 2017
Why do you say that?
David25:



Squirting is a fake ideology, that sh!t ain't real
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by QueenSuccubus(f): 10:29am On Apr 08, 2017
Fmartin:
is that ur weak point too?


Yes...definitely...


Who wanna feel that raging sexual urges if the person u wanna fuccck with has a smelly armpit? undecided
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by Divay22(f): 10:33am On Apr 08, 2017
cool If they are high.....
Just Do the Do grin grin grin

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Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by David25(m): 10:54am On Apr 08, 2017
Safiaa:
Why do you say that?


Well unless there is some scientific explanation, or a real life testimony... which I'm yet to see undecided
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by pweshboi(m): 10:54am On Apr 08, 2017
Mhizashantee1 what's ur own weak point from the list aforementioned

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Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by pweshboi(m): 10:55am On Apr 08, 2017
David25:



Well unless there is some scientific explanation, or a real life testimony... which I'm yet to see undecided
I just told u it happens...
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by fridayokoli: 10:56am On Apr 08, 2017
cc:lalasticlala
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by David25(m): 10:57am On Apr 08, 2017
pweshboi:

I just told u it happens... Dats ur testimony


Are you sure its not just "piss" ? sad
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by pweshboi(m): 11:00am On Apr 08, 2017
David25:



Are you sure its not just "piss" ? sad
Nah bro...
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by ExAngel007(f): 11:11am On Apr 08, 2017
true...

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Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by Nobody: 11:52am On Apr 08, 2017
next time arrange your post wella...
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by frugal(m): 12:13pm On Apr 08, 2017
QueenSuccubus:



Yes...definitely...


Who wanna feel that raging sexual urges if the person u wanna fuccck with has a smelly armpit? undecided
A turn on for some women I hear grin
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by QueenSuccubus(f): 12:21pm On Apr 08, 2017
frugal:

A turn on for some women I hear grin



shocked shocked shocked


Nawa....who be that girl wants some smelly armpit? embarassed
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by frugal(m): 1:37pm On Apr 08, 2017
QueenSuccubus:




shocked shocked shocked


Nawa....who be that girl wants some smelly armpit? embarassed
You'd be surprised what's out there.
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by megareal: 1:59pm On Apr 08, 2017
David25:



Squirting is a fake ideology, that sh!t ain't real

Oh, its very real. grin
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by Fmartin(m): 3:08pm On Apr 08, 2017
QueenSuccubus:



Yes...definitely...


Who wanna feel that raging sexual urges if the person u wanna fuccck with has a smelly armpit? undecided


i wil come fr u 2mao
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by QueenSuccubus(f): 3:11pm On Apr 08, 2017
David25:



Squirting is a fake ideology, that sh!t ain't real



U never experience it yet...soon you'll be amazed if u will meet that right girl that can squirt multiple times cool
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by pweshboi(m): 3:14pm On Apr 08, 2017
QueenSuccubus:




U never experience it yet...soon you'll be amazed if u will meet that right girl that can squirt multiple times cool
He still doesn't sound convinced.

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Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by Tazdroid(m): 3:15pm On Apr 08, 2017
8. Ego, Owo, Kudi, Ekehi!

Some observations by indigenes of Africa's largest nation have disclosed that "money makes her world go round" grin
grin

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Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by QueenSuccubus(f): 3:22pm On Apr 08, 2017
pweshboi:

Tell him... He still doesn't sound convinced. I av met one and I must say it's very real


grin

He's vrigin...what can we expect? tongue
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by Nobody: 4:17pm On Apr 08, 2017
Divay22:
cool If they are high..... Just Do the Do grin grin grin
no time

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Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by newmusic: 4:46pm On Apr 08, 2017
@David2, who told you squirting is a fake ideology? Lol, time will tell sha...
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by fridayokoli: 10:35am On Apr 09, 2017
Na 24century we de o
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by leunamme93(m): 4:08pm On Apr 09, 2017
David25:



Well unless there is some scientific explanation, or a real life testimony... which I'm yet to see undecided

not suppose to post this but i once thought like you until i had an xperience with that....
Its seams Surreal but its real.......
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by fridayokoli: 4:52pm On Apr 09, 2017
Hmmm
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by Nobody: 4:58pm On Apr 09, 2017
The only distinguishing difference between a ladies urge for sex and man's is that


Men get moved mostly by the outward appearance of opposite sex, thanks to those chic revealing their bodies unnecessarily. After some minutes into sex, they are already satisfied (self satisfaction) while for ladies, they don't get moved easily. But when they are been sexed, after the guy most have been exhausted, that's when their enjoyment begins...


in short, an average lady should be fvcking a horse
Re: 7 Surprising Things That Makes Women Want To Have S*x So Bad!! by fridayokoli: 10:01pm On Apr 09, 2017
cc;lalasticlala

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