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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Smellymouth: 4:23pm On Apr 09, 2017

firstking01:
Sunday school you say ...there's something you are not telling me...kuku finish the story

My mum na strong christian na. Lol
Read my diary for more Infos..

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Donpoker9(m): 5:07pm On Apr 09, 2017

DeltaBachelor:
Alero, Itshekiri babe, i think i like u already. Text me , 08139012462 or pm me. Am Delta igbo though

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by petux(m): 6:34pm On Apr 09, 2017

Smellymouth:
My mum na strong christian na. Lol Read my diary for more Infos..

Bro Dust don full your diary....u gas go clean am

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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Smellymouth: 6:36pm On Apr 09, 2017

petux:
Bro Dust don full your diary....u gas go clean am

Hahahah. I will bro.
How have u been?

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by danbrowndmf(m): 7:09pm On Apr 09, 2017

Dope sturv!

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by petux(m): 7:39pm On Apr 09, 2017

Smellymouth:
Hahahah. I will bro. How have u been?

Doing Great Brother .....how ya syd?

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Smellymouth: 8:02pm On Apr 09, 2017

petux:
Doing Great Brother .....how ya syd?

Gallant bruh. The street is military but Oluwa ti sure.

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Nobody: 2:02am On Apr 10, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
Don't tell me good luck.
He lost the last election.

whenever am sad i just log on to nairaland and i'd be glad i did.. See this, ehn... No kill me with laughter.

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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Nobody: 2:05am On Apr 10, 2017

Like me... Sometimes self am even hopeless... Life yaff tire me.. All the money wey i get na en i don use bleach finish.. Alero3arubi kukuma marry me already biko

K9Uneet:
If you're indeed serious, then I'd advise you accept the love proposal from the next "houseless" and "carless" man you come across.

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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Nobody: 9:45am On Apr 10, 2017

mrdcai:
Why? What's the significance?

I'm not wanting this so I can rub it in his face much later.
I just want to share those moments with him.
Want to the joy that he experiences when we cross every stage.
And yes I will still keep growing with him.
Don't intend to stay stagnant.
I just want to be his buddy from scratch, ground zero.
I don't know if you get me.
I'm not saying in essence that he mustn't have had a first job and staying in a self contained apartment ooo
But the first flat I want to be with him when he makes that decision.
As for car I am crazy about some specs and reason for needing one so I want to do that with him.
The building matter is that I've worked with construction firms almost all of my earning life and I pretty have some ideas in how best to cut cost and still get good buildings.
Plus I want to plan the house drawings and stages with him.
Am I making sense yet?

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by itzmoni(m): 10:48am On Apr 10, 2017

K9Uneet:
So if a guy already has a car and a house, he's automatically disqualified from being your husband?lol...bros you 2 much

Please, permit me to call you a confused woman.

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by placeofallure(f): 12:22pm On Apr 10, 2017*

Alero3Arubi:
Why settle down to establish roots and then marry?
What are you marrying me for again kwa?
To become a trophy?

I will be very frank with you. YES! You are not realistic in your askings. You strike me as somebody who is too rigid. JacksonD7 raised a lot of possible and plausible points. Will you see a man as unworthy if he's already bought a car or owns a house? He might even have a child. Life happens and some of us find ourselves where we would rather not be. It is noble of you if you are not one of the gold diggers but are you some life moulder or builder that you'd rather go for a man who is still grappling with life? Know this, even if you nurture a man from cradle to adulthood, it's not a guarantee that he will dance to your every whims and caprices. Pray for a good man, they are not too difficult to spot if you're good yourself and take him in any package he comes in whether unmade or made or even a widower. Good luck!

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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Nobody: 1:25pm On Apr 10, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
I'm not wanting this so I can rub it in his face much later.
I just want to share those moments with him.
Want to the joy that he experiences when we cross every stage.
And yes I will still keep growing with him.
Don't intend to stay stagnant.
I just want to be his buddy from scratch, ground zero.
I don't know if you get me.
I'm not saying in essence that he mustn't have had a first job and staying in a self contained apartment ooo
But the first flat I want to be with him when he makes that decision.
As for car I am crazy about some specs and reason for needing one so I want to do that with him.
The building matter is that I've worked with construction firms almost all of my earning life and I pretty have some ideas in how best to cut cost and still get good buildings.
Plus I want to plan the house drawings and stages with him.
Am I making sense yet?

You're looking for a guy that hasn't "made it" yet, so you can both establish yourselves together. That's fair enough, but it's an odd requirement.

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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Mimzyy(f): 8:44pm On Apr 10, 2017

Someone is playing mind games grin

. So obvious, even the blind can see it.

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by kaboninc(m): 9:15pm On Apr 10, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
I'm a female in her mid twenties.
I want to settle down but I can't seem to find someone who meets all my requirements.
But I don't want to settle for anything less.
My friends say I am asking for too much.
Here is my list.
1. He must have God.

But that's not the major dilemma.
These are:
I want to do these with my husband.
1. Rent his first flat with him.
2. Open his first mortgage account with him.
3. Build his first house with him.
4. Have his first child with him.
5. Buy his first car with him.
6. Start his first marriage with him.
... Just these
Am I asking for too much?

Yes you are...you can't always be the first.

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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by kaboninc(m): 9:16pm On Apr 10, 2017

Mimzyy:
Someone is playing mind games . So obvious, even the blind can see it.

I can't see it..

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by LordReed(m): 9:20pm On Apr 10, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
I'm a female in her mid twenties.
I want to settle down but I can't seem to find someone who meets all my requirements.
But I don't want to settle for anything less.
My friends say I am asking for too much.
Here is my list.
1. He must have God.

But that's not the major dilemma.
These are:
I want to do these with my husband.
1. Rent his first flat with him.
2. Open his first mortgage account with him.
3. Build his first house with him.
4. Have his first child with him.
5. Buy his first car with him.
6. Start his first marriage with him.
... Just these
Am I asking for too much?

When looking out for a life partner while it is useful to have a firm idea of what you want, it is also imperative to realise that you are dealing with humans who by that very definition are imperfect and will never meet any standard you care to set. In order words be ready to see beyond your criteria to the ultimate prize, a happy growing future.

What you are asking for is not too much, just don't let make you myopic.

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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by FitnessDoctor: 9:28pm On Apr 10, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
I'm a female in her mid twenties.
I want to settle down but I can't seem to find someone who meets all my requirements.
But I don't want to settle for anything less.
My friends say I am asking for too much.
Here is my list.
1. He must have God.

But that's not the major dilemma.
These are:
I want to do these with my husband.
1. Rent his first flat with him.
2. Open his first mortgage account with him.
3. Build his first house with him.
4. Have his first child with him.
5. Buy his first car with him.
6. Start his first marriage with him.
... Just these
Am I asking for too much?

You are not asking for too much dear...

Just hope you have the requirements this kind of man is also looking for..

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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Mimzyy(f): 9:44pm On Apr 10, 2017

kaboninc:
I can't see it..

Kabzzzzzz. Look carefully.

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Nobody: 9:54pm On Apr 10, 2017

QueenSuccubus:

I dunno...but its not important to be the first all the time...what more important in this world, you are the last ONE he will have in his life..

You're so damn right!

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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Apr 10, 2017

kaboninc:
Yes you are...you can't always be the first.

So I should be second?

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by kaboninc(m): 9:59pm On Apr 10, 2017

Mimzyy:
Kabzzzzzz. Look carefully.

I have looked so hard...I still can't see anything.

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by kaboninc(m): 10:17pm On Apr 10, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
So I should be second?

Sometimes, you could be the last.

First, second, last...doesn't really matter...what matters is if you'll remain and/or "last woman standing"

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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by ibietela2(m): 10:30am On Apr 12, 2017

It is good to dream.

Also praying same thing above all we should Remain to the end.

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Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Parpor(m): 10:45am On Apr 19, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
I'm a female in her mid twenties.
I want to settle down but I can't seem to find someone who meets all my requirements.
But I don't want to settle for anything less.
My friends say I am asking for too much.
Here is my list.
1. He must have God.

But that's not the major dilemma.
These are:
I want to do these with my husband.
1. Rent his first flat with him.
2. Open his first mortgage account with him.
3. Build his first house with him.
4. Have his first child with him.
5. Buy his first car with him.
6. Start his first marriage with him.
... Just these
Am I asking for too much?

You ain't asking for too much my dear. Your requirements are cool and weird at the same time.
If you wanna do all the first with him,who's gone do all the second? Another lady?

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Nobody: 10:48am On Apr 19, 2017

Parpor:
You ain't asking for too much my dear. Your requirements are cool and weird at the same time.
If you wanna do all the first with him,who's gone do all the second? Another lady?

Hell no!
I'm going to be his all.
What makes it weird.
Keep getting that.

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Parpor(m): 10:57am On Apr 19, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
Hell no!
I'm going to be his all.
What makes it weird.
Keep getting that.

What makes it weird is that you said you wanna be the first. Maybe you should remove the "first" in those paragraphs.
Good morning,and hope you are good?

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by Nobody: 11:30am On Apr 19, 2017

Parpor:
What makes it weird is that you said you wanna be the first. Maybe you should remove the "first" in those paragraphs.
Good morning,and hope you are good?

Good morning.
Well ok I guess.

Re: Am I Asking For Too Much? by sekem: 11:42am On Apr 19, 2017

You sound funny somehow

But then again, truth is, you are not asking for too much

In fact, you sound so sensible

And that's a plus for you

But...

1. I don't like the fact that you will so prefer to build your life around a man's life. To me that seems like you will be a very possessive or clingy woman who wouldn't mind to trick( actually force) a man into loyalty.

2. Your complexion... too dark wink

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