FitnessDoctor:
Mayor21

Most of our problems start from what we believe about ourselves and how concentrated we are..

I remember when I was called some years ago to pull a gen near my crush's house.. She was there alright and I have pulled a gen a times so many and nothing bad has gone wrong..

That day... with just one pull I cut the rope and I was like what!!

Now, I went home that same night and pulled the house gen very well..

What really happened

I was trying to prove to her that I am strong and was not really concentrated on the task in front of me..
When doing stuff, concentrate.. read instructions and look for signs on how to do it... Don't keep thinking of this or that, but just on what you are doing... That way you will know what you are missing, what could possibly go wrong and how you can do it faster..

Change your believe that you can't do anything right.. But look into your mirror and speak positively about yourself everytime you feel down..Search for Brian Tracy quotes on google and his quotes will help you..

Start learning something..

Not everyone can draw, when I was in secondary school, there were some boys that couldn't draw at all but they were very good with musical instruments, others were good with computer and IT stuff (websites and blogs and others). others were good with graphic designs and others.

Learn something from today... and find something you are actually good at.. Stop concentrating on something you are not and find what you actually are good at..

You can mention me if you think you need more tips

FitnessDoctor:
Mayor21

Most of our problems start from what we believe about ourselves and how concentrated we are..

I remember when I was called some years ago to pull a gen near my crush's house.. She was there alright and I have pulled a gen a times so many and nothing bad has gone wrong..

That day... with just one pull I cut the rope and I was like what!!

Now, I went home that same night and pulled the house gen very well..

What really happened

I was trying to prove to her that I am strong and was not really concentrated on the task in front of me..
When doing stuff, concentrate.. read instructions and look for signs on how to do it... Don't keep thinking of this or that, but just on what you are doing... That way you will know what you are missing, what could possibly go wrong and how you can do it faster..

Change your believe that you can't do anything right.. But look into your mirror and speak positively about yourself everytime you feel down..Search for Brian Tracy quotes on google and his quotes will help you..

Start learning something..

Not everyone can draw, when I was in secondary school, there were some boys that couldn't draw at all but they were very good with musical instruments, others were good with computer and IT stuff (websites and blogs and others). others were good with graphic designs and others.

Learn something from today... and find something you are actually good at.. Stop concentrating on something you are not and find what you actually are good at..

You can mention me if you think you need more tips

Mayor21:
Hi guys, i greet you all. I'm just a guy in his early 20's and i don't have a talent, i can't even do any stuff well, i can't fix things perfectly. Example, as a dude i can't even sketch a simple drawing of anything, meet me to sketch a simple african map it will be a problem. The other day i was trying to fix a memory card on a phone, i couldn't, i asked a friend for help, he did within seconds.
I read for exams, yet i don't remember anything. I do assigments in school but i don't do it neatly no matter how i try. I just can't seem to do anything well at all, nothing including even simple house chores.
It affects me alot because someone may need my help on something, i will do it but wouldn't be able to satisfy that person, it hurts when i see the person redoing it or giving it to someone else. Please guys, what could really be the problem, cos me i'm just tired.

Pinkpetals:


Aw my baby lives

Where did u disappear to.... It's been 3 years now....

You can do many things u put your mind too

Mayor .... You are not 21 anymore...Inbox me and we can chat about it... I miss you friend

Mayor21:

Kinkybraids my luv... U abandoned me.

Pinkpetals:

No I got busy with school....
How are u

Mayor21:

You think so?

Mayor21:

I'm ok, been alot busy too... i'll make sure i inbox.

Hannysmilez:
Yup. You're highly competitive and thats good. Problem is that you have esteem issues,and thats a terrible combo

joseph1832:
Happy Birthday. I called your lines, kept saying 'busy'.

Hope you're having fun?

Mayor21:
Hi guys, i greet you all. I'm just a guy in his early 20's and i don't have a talent, i can't even do any stuff well, i can't fix things perfectly. Example, as a dude i can't even sketch a simple drawing of anything, meet me to sketch a simple african map it will be a problem. The other day i was trying to fix a memory card on a phone, i couldn't, i asked a friend for help, he did within seconds.
I read for exams, yet i don't remember anything. I do assigments in school but i don't do it neatly no matter how i try. I just can't seem to do anything well at all, nothing including even simple house chores.
It affects me alot because someone may need my help on something, i will do it but wouldn't be able to satisfy that person, it hurts when i see the person redoing it or giving it to someone else. Please guys, what could really be the problem, cos me i'm just tired.

Hannysmilez:
Thanks so much honey. You remembered?!! Im shook.
I did have fun,too much fun.

Michellekabod:

You lack motivation,passion, concentration, diligence, proper planning and perfection. Do this accordingly:
1.passion for something.2.motivation for that thing.3.proper planning.4.concentration and diligence .5.perfection

joseph1832:
You're welcome.

All fools day is hard to forget. LOL. Cheers Han. You're extremely bae.

Mayor21:

Thank bro

Michellekabod:
I am female

Melonny:
mayor21, you are unhappy because of your expectations. we set high standards- unattainable standards.. Because ur friends can play the guitar, piano or draw and you can't, doesn't make you a loser..
On academics, just read smart, understand the topics, use the study guide and study objectives. I ve studied 4hours everyday for a month for an exam and guess what? I failed. it's not how hard you study for the exams but how well you understand the topics.. Stop the loser mentality.

AntiWailer:
U need to concentrate on your strengths.

When u dwell too much on your weakness you will suffer a confidence crisis.

There are things you are good at doing that u can convert.

Get motivational books and read.


On your academics are you procrastinating ?
For you to have survived all these while, trust me you are not an 1mbecile.

If your level for energy requires that you read a course 5 times before you grab all, waiting till exam is 2 or 3 weeks time might not help you.

Just study yourself. You are much more better than you think.

It is normal and natural that some subject just dnt interest you.

I cnt draw and hate drawing with passion too and had D/E in most drawing related courses in my under graduate days but that does not stop me from graduating as a 4 pointer.

Does not knowing how to draw make me less creative ?

Naaaaa. My core area of specialisation requires smartness and creativity more that u can imagine and if u permit me to be a bit proud, " I am one of the best".

Also run away from those who doubt your ability and rub it on your face. They can Kill your dreams before you catch it.

On the issue of perfection. Screw it ! U dnt need perfection for anything.

All the students you look up to as gods in terms of their academic performance only scored above 70 from 100 to get A and having it in all major courses is what they grade as first class.

So forget perfection and do whatever u set ur mind to do and do it well to the best of your ability.

Please start working on this. If you dnt believe in urself, nobody will believe in you.

AntiWailer:


You are welcome any time Bro.

If you are in Lag. I can host u to a lunch one of these days to talk to you.

cocaineaddict:

Gay alert. Op run for your life

Pinkpetals:


No I got busy with school....

How are u

nicerod:


Happy birthday to u

Pinkpetals:


Aw thank u

Pinkpetals:


Aw thank u

Mayor21:
Hi guys, i greet you all. I'm just a guy in his early 20's and i don't have a talent, i can't even do any stuff well, i can't fix things perfectly. Example, as a dude i can't even sketch a simple drawing of anything, meet me to sketch a simple african map it will be a problem. The other day i was trying to fix a memory card on a phone, i couldn't, i asked a friend for help, he did within seconds.
I read for exams, yet i don't remember anything. I do assigments in school but i don't do it neatly no matter how i try. I just can't seem to do anything well at all, nothing including even simple house chores.
It affects me alot because someone may need my help on something, i will do it but wouldn't be able to satisfy that person, it hurts when i see the person redoing it or giving it to someone else. Please guys, what could really be the problem, cos me i'm just tired.

Esty20:
sweetheart it is well,trust me!how is your relationship with Jesus?if u don't have,I'll advice u to seek him,he will fix your life,he did mine!

emperorgoke:
I av d same problem.... I uses determination and aggression(force) to fix things,,, I don't gv up.... I can read a page more than 5 times to understand... Op! U nid determination nd force application