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Warcraft:
Broda Op isn't this child abuse??

No... I see love in the eyes of a girl! Thanks to everyone who have offered their advice; either kind or extremely rude, the Lord will bless you with what's in your heart against others!

That gal is too too young for you. 25 vs 17.... she might av physical features tat makes you think odawise bt bro you are just wasting your time.

nijaomegacode:
There is this girl at my church. We are in the choir unit together. She appears to like me as she always smiles at me and will move closer to me whenever we are talking. I am 25 and she's 17 and we kinda have a platonic relationship. Three days ago I gave her some money and she appreciated it. She even told her parents about it. That day I invited her to my house but she didn't come. When I asked why, she said she fell ill. I decided to invite her again and she came yesterday. We talked a lot and I told her I really like her. Her reply was that she is seeing someone. I said no problem we can be friends. To this she agreed. I tried to entertain her with drinks and some snacks but she refused saying she doesn't take things from just anybody. I made her understand that I am not doing this because I want her to say yes to me but as a friend. Still she refused. She stayed without saying anything or eating anything for almost 2hrs. Finally, she left after I asked if she has anything to do at home which she said she has to cook for her brothers as their mom is not at home.
The problem now is, today I sent some money to her (through her younger brother) because she told me she will be going to camp tomorrow. To my surprise she returned the money saying she did not ask me for it. I am confused. Is she playing hard to get or she is not just interested in me? Pls your advice will really help me because I love this girl and I will like to marry her.

paedophile

Lol, the ftc guy blood dey hot

firstking01:
Lol, the ftc guy blood dey hot

Aniker:

I'm your nightmare/nemesis, shebi you know

firstking01:
I'm your nightmare/nemesis, shebi you know

youre not jhor

Aniker:
youre not jhor

Btw, you are pretty

firstking01:
Btw, you are pretty

seriously...did you just write that

Aniker:
seriously...did you just write that

Nope, my twin collected my phone and typed it

firstking01:
Nope, my twin collected my phone and typed it

oh you have a twin

thats adorable .... cool siggy btw

Aniker:
oh you have a twin

thats adorable .... cool siggy btw

Thankia...btw, i 've been snooping on ya own siggy but still couldn't decipher, could you pls bail me out??

25vs17. Op this is really bad!! Aren't you even ashamed to type that a 17yr old is giving you green light? Op that girl is just being a teenager and she have no idea what love is really about. Op if you love that girl, do not take advantage of her teenager infatuation being that you are older, you are suppose to guide her and not cajole her. It's really disheartening seeing men do this to teenage girls... And to think you sing in church for God.

Chineke gere" kwa!! Haa!!

nijaomegacode:


Is it my fault?

Get sum1 else

wait Op, if she agreed and later up for you you go enter? To cut off your pick for pepper soup deh hungry me

firstking01:
Thankia...btw, i 've been snooping on ya own siggy but still couldn't decipher, could you pls bail me out??

hey i slept off lastnight , gm
lol my siggy...am talking about those fvckboys ,that rather have your ass than ur heart

Aniker:
hey i slept off lastnight , gm
lol my siggy...am talking about those fvckboys ,that rather have your ass than ur heart

Smh, you slept that early??

firstking01:
Smh, you slept that early??

yes i had a rough day

What is wrong with this nigga sef. 25 looking for 17. Haba grow up and wait till next yr when she's 18. Pedophile is who you are. Gerrout from there old man. E be like say you chop craze.

SlimmB:
huh

OP, she's 17 years, and you ain't treating her like a 17years old girl rather you treating her like you're inlove with your mate! you sound like you don't know your worth yet, or i say you suffering from a low self-esteem, sorry if i sound rude.
Anyway, there's no problem without solution all you need to do is change your formula before it to late.

Step 1: accept the fact that she's a 17 years old girl and treat her like one, for instance, you don't ask for her permission for anything, but don't give her the impression like it an order, but make it sound like it an authority, you need to impact this into her... very important.

Step 2: She sweet 17, so accept that FACT, i.e she so interested in romance right now and not thinking about the future or consequence. Age 25, you must know how to get under a girl pant sharp sharp, if not then you've lost in women battle!

Step 3: probably the last i'm gonna give. My brother no stress yourself at all for the girl matter, her body dey sweet her because it her nature and she can't control it... spend only when it necessary, don't take her out, invite her over again, and just give her something to take, if she refuses it, frown your face and be like "what's the meaning of that " she'll be shock or want to over react but she'll respect you cause of the age gap, then try all the tricks you've got just to make her feel at home and relax, if it one room apartment you've got,( but if it not, do it on your long chair in the sitting room) make sure she sit on your bed/chair, and try to be fun enough so you could relax your head on her laps if she react then be like "What's it again na wetting be the big deal na don't you see am tire, just let me be like this for at least 2 mins jawee(you must be in that position for more than 10 mins), if you rest your head on her laps and look up, brother i believe you know the way forward

Lol...
She's too young though. Any gal below 19 years (not even 18) is too young IMHO and a no-no for me. The Op should be thinking of dating gals in early twenties 20/21 years old.
But yea...I can say your trick will most likely work. Seems you have got "relevant" experience in the subject matter.

She thinks since u gave her money u want to drug her and sex her, she isn't mature at all

I RESPECT THE GIRL THAT DID THAT IN THIS AGE. OP GO FOR THAT BABE, SHE CANNOT BE PRICED WITH MONEY, SHE'S NOT JUST CONVINCED THAT YOU'RE WORTH IT RIGHT NOW, she may feel you are trying to use what you've got right now to buy her over, its left for you to prove that you really love her and that you are worth her love.

[I]→ OP uhm between the both of u I wonder who's 17 and who's 25 pls don't corrupt that good character. For she's a keeper °↫ [/i]

statutory rape bro, u shud be in jail in a society dat works, nt here whr senators marry 13yr olds.

Bros leave the babe
find someone ur size

Mixty:

Lol...
She's too young though. Any gal below 19 years (not even 18) is too young IMHO and a no-no for me. The Op should be thinking of dating gals in early twenties 20/21 years old.
But yea...I can say your trick will most likely work. Seems you have got "relevant" experience in the subject matter.

Too young the OP was aware of that before diving into the scenario
most bae below 21 still behaves like sweet 16! though i wonder why and mind you, those bae that are 22, 23 are once a sweet 16, so grap your copy while the photocopy machine is still in your custody
The OP don't want to think but rather fall inlove, as they say "love is blind" so let's assume the OP is ....

You mean a Nigerian girl returned money you gifted to her? ? ? That's the kind of girl I certainly would like to know.

She appears to have strong principles and knows what she wants, which is remarkable for a girl of her age. Ogbeni stop disturbing her and go and find your mate to play with.

nijaomegacode:
There is this girl at my church. We are in the choir unit together. She appears to like me as she always smiles at me and will move closer to me whenever we are talking. I am 25 and she's 17 and we kinda have a platonic relationship. Three days ago I gave her some money and she appreciated it. She even told her parents about it. That day I invited her to my house but she didn't come. When I asked why, she said she fell ill. I decided to invite her again and she came yesterday. We talked a lot and I told her I really like her. Her reply was that she is seeing someone. I said no problem we can be friends. To this she agreed. I tried to entertain her with drinks and some snacks but she refused saying she doesn't take things from just anybody. I made her understand that I am not doing this because I want her to say yes to me but as a friend. Still she refused. She stayed without saying anything or eating anything for almost 2hrs. Finally, she left after I asked if she has anything to do at home which she said she has to cook for her brothers as their mom is not at home.
The problem now is, today I sent some money to her (through her younger brother) because she told me she will be going to camp tomorrow. To my surprise she returned the money saying she did not ask me for it. I am confused. Is she playing hard to get or she is not just interested in me? Pls your advice will really help me because I love this girl and I will like to marry her.

Child Abuse...


She is 17, yet to see life and you should be helping her build her life. She knows nothing about 'love' even if she tells you she's seeing someone.

Haba.. ..

No spoil her with money again. And if you must give, it must be merited. And rather buy 'little' gifts for her and not expensive blah blah.. .

nijaomegacode:




No... I see love in the eyes of a girl! Thanks to everyone who have offered their advice; either kind or extremely rude, the Lord will bless you with what's in your heart against others!

Love?!... In the eyes of a teenager? 17 year old to be exact. What does she know about love , believe it or not u sir are a pedophile. There...dats ur rude response.

Warcraft:


Love?!... In the eyes of a teenager? 17 year old to be exact. What does she know about love , believe it or not u sir are a pedophile. There...dats ur rude response.

Warcraft:


Love?!... In the eyes of a teenager? 17 year old to be exact. What does she know about love , believe it or not u sir are a pedophile. There...dats ur rude response.

SlimmB:
huh

OP, she's 17 years, and you ain't treating her like a 17years old girl rather you treating her like you're inlove with your mate! you sound like you don't know your worth yet, or i say you suffering from a low self-esteem, sorry if i sound rude.
Anyway, there's no problem without solution all you need to do is change your formula before it to late.

Step 1: accept the fact that she's a 17 years old girl and treat her like one, for instance, you don't ask for her permission for anything, but don't give her the impression like it an order, but make it sound like it an authority, you need to impact this into her... very important.

Step 2: She sweet 17, so accept that FACT, i.e she so interested in romance right now and not thinking about the future or consequence. Age 25, you must know how to get under a girl pant sharp sharp, if not then you've lost in women battle!

Step 3: probably the last i'm gonna give. My brother no stress yourself at all for the girl matter, her body dey sweet her because it her nature and she can't control it... spend only when it necessary, don't take her out, invite her over again, and just give her something to take, if she refuses it, frown your face and be like "what's the meaning of that " she'll be shock or want to over react but she'll respect you cause of the age gap, then try all the tricks you've got just to make her feel at home and relax, if it one room apartment you've got,( but if it not, do it on your long chair in the sitting room) make sure she sit on your bed/chair, and try to be fun enough so you could relax your head on her laps if she react then be like "What's it again na wetting be the big deal na don't you see am tire, just let me be like this for at least 2 mins jawee(you must be in that position for more than 10 mins), if you rest your head on her laps and look up, brother i believe you know the way forward

My brother u need christ