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Okay, what he did was wrong, he was disqualified from the show and he's apologized. What else do you want. I think at some point we have to define what is rape! If it was a tboss that went to grope a male housemate, I doubt it will be termed rape! On Bigbrother Africa several years back, a Botswana house mate, named Miss Peo was groping the Ghanaian male housemate and demanding for sex and it was all caught on tape, the guy refused her though and nothing happened! Infact Miss Peo and some other former housemates including Uti was even invited to visit the house during the edition Tayo faniran participated in. Somebody was groping someone and the person being groped said no and the one groping her stopped, that is rape? Somebody help me, am confused o. This whole case lacks merit.

paradigmshift:
i have no apology for your uncle I go die

Show me ur own uncle

paradigmshift:
what re u even saying..Ur own strong lol

the joke's on u!

sunnyeinstein:
the joke's on u!

talk to d hands

airex:
Show me ur own uncle

eyyya e pain am

paradigmshift:
talk to d hands

Hands cant hear, neither can they listen, they r slave to d brain and cns

Why do all this politicians forget that, if something they say doesn't pass off as a joke to over half of the people, then it is not a joke but an insult. They should stop trying to explain themselves. They are just makeing a fool of themselves. Rape or not, he made sexual advances that weren't consented to.

paradigmshift:
eyyya e pain am

U dey shame to show me your uncle ne? I don agree say my own uncle na "I go dye". Let's see whether my uncle dogs no feed better pass ur uncle.

airex:
U dey shame to show me your uncle ne? I don agree say my own uncle na "I go dye". Let's see whether my uncle dogs no feed better pass ur uncle.

u wish . animal on uniform.
by their rant we shall know dem.

paradigmshift:
u wish . animal on uniform.
by their rant we shall know dem.

Simple... Just show me your uncle. No need for long grammar. Poverty personified.

airex:
Simple... Just show me your uncle. No need for long grammar. Poverty personified.

come to benin n I will show u.
we too fresh , check my dp.
u dn chop today

What he said is not bad na. It is called comedy. AY is might not be a comedian but he is one of the richest in the business. Haters will always have something to say. Dude has made it big time. So, go and make your own

dayowunmi:
Okay, what he did was wrong, he was disqualified from the show and he's apologized. What else do you want. I think at some point we have to define what is rape! If it was a tboss that went to grope a male housemate, I doubt it will be termed rape! On Bigbrother Africa several years back, a Botswana house mate, named Miss Peo was groping the Ghanaian male housemate and demanding for sex and it was all caught on tape, the guy refused her though and nothing happened! Infact Miss Peo and some other former housemates including Uti was even invited to visit the house during the edition Tayo faniran participated in. Somebody was groping someone and the person being groped said no and the one groping her stopped, that is rape? Somebody help me, am confused o. This whole case lacks merit.

I support you bro. You have said it all

paradigmshift:
come to benin n I will show u.
we too fresh , check my dp.
u dn chop today

So ur uncle is an unknown figure.... My own uncle wey no be indigene of Benin still popular pass ur own uncle. U dey even shame to show me. SMH

airex:
So ur uncle is an unknown figure.... My own uncle wey no be indigene of Benin still popular pass ur own uncle. U dey even shame to show me. SMH

who's your uncle? Tony kabaka abi who lol

paradigmshift:
who's your uncle? Tony kabaka abi who lol

D one wey him dog dey chop better food pass ur own uncle family

airex:
D one wey him dog dey chop better food pass ur own uncle family

which dog. wake up from sleep n face real life. no level

safarigirl:
the useless man crawled into her bed, so she should run out because he was in it?

Someone that had his dick out while he was touching her inappropriately and you said nothing happened?

Of course such a thing is normal in this useless country filled with animals like you and Kemen so how will you see any wrong in it?

Even in SA, when two drunk housemates had sex, the guy was disqualified because the girl claimed she was inebtiated and was not aware. They were BOTH drunk, but who got the axe? Who was further humiliated? Women's rights groups followed it up, the guy never got the kind if exposure Kemen is gettaxe now

That is what takes place in a civilized society, not this jungle you animals live in.

Your mentality is as a result of your society

You see yourself?

So two drunk people had sex, not that the girl was drunk and he was not o, they were both drunk, and because she claimed she was not aware, the guy was disqualified, and you, Safari support such ruling?

Shameful

If the guy's eye was clear, and he was taking advantage of the drink girl, it would have been a different case.

This is just pathetic.

Kemen did wrong, was disqualified, and should move on.
But for the record again, he did not RAPE T Boss.
We can call that assault tho.

And if indeed people were wise in this country and not idiots, this should have been a trigger for a female based ngo or women rights whatever to run a campaign to educate young men (and women too) in secondary schools and tertiary institutions on how to conduct themselves with the opposite sex in the proper way, consent and al like it will be done in a "civilised country"; they are running their smelling mouth on social media

They only call civilised country when it suits their argument

Rubbish

dayowunmi:
Okay, what he did was wrong, he was disqualified from the show and he's apologized. What else do you want. I think at some point we have to define what is rape! If it was a tboss that went to grope a male housemate, I doubt it will be termed rape! On Bigbrother Africa several years back, a Botswana house mate, named Miss Peo was groping the Ghanaian male housemate and demanding for sex and it was all caught on tape, the guy refused her though and nothing happened! Infact Miss Peo and some other former housemates including Uti was even invited to visit the house during the edition Tayo faniran participated in. Somebody was groping someone and the person being groped said no and the one groping her stopped, that is rape? Somebody help me, am confused o. This whole case lacks merit.

@safarigirl what do you have to say to this?

paradigmshift:
which dog. wake up from sleep n face real life. no level

mumu.I think say u get mouth. Let's continue talking now

airex:
mumu.I think say u get mouth. Let's continue talking now

mumu raise to power 10. I can see you are jobless lmao. I go dey reply u whenever I dey my leisure time. bring it on

Ugosample:
@safarigirl what do you have to say to this?

sexual molestation is not rape. It is molestation and that is what I have been calling it. BTW, in none of those situations did we have an unconscious or semi-conscious participant. If you are groping someone when said person is asleep, it is assumed the person is not conscious of their actions

I have given an example of two drunk housemates who had CONSENSUAL sex in the eyes of most on BB SA, but the girl claimed the next morning to have been too drunk to remember giving consent and the guy was disqualified for that. That is the closest example to what happened in BBN. I know that if such a thing had happened in BB Naija, y'all would call the girl all sorts of names, that is the pitiful country Nigeria is

Ugosample:
You see yourself?

So two drunk people had sex, not that the girl was drunk and he was not o, they were both drunk, and because she claimed she was not aware, the guy was disqualified, and you, Safari support such ruling?

Shameful

If the guy's eye was clear, and he was taking advantage of the drink girl, it would have been a different case.

This is just pathetic.

Kemen did wrong, was disqualified, and should move on.
But for the record again, he did not RAPE T Boss.
We can call that assault tho.

And if indeed people were wise in this country and not idiots, this should have been a trigger for a female based ngo or women rights whatever to run a campaign to educate young men (and women too) in secondary schools and tertiary institutions on how to conduct themselves with the opposite sex in the proper way, consent and al like it will be done in a "civilised country"; they are running their smelling mouth on social media

They only call civilised country when it suits their argument

Rubbish

in America, if you sleep with a 17-year old girl and you are a 20-year old guy, it will be termed abuse of a minor. Is it fair? No, not exactly, but it is THE LAW.

The fact that barbarians occupy this part of the world does not mean everywhere else is filled with people who only know how to take without consideration for their actions

Nigeria still operates that useless law that a husband can have non-consensual sex with his wife. So don't worry, you and your ilk are safe as long as you remain here. Try what Kemen did to TBoss in SA, let me see how you won't see the four walls of a cell

safarigirl:
in America, if you sleep with a 17-year old girl and you are a 20-year old guy, it will be termed abuse of a minor. Is it fair? No, not exactly, but it is THE LAW.

The fact that barbarians occupy this part of the world does not mean everywhere else is filled with people who only know how to take without consideration for their actions

Nigeria still operates that useless law that a husband can have non-consensual sex with his wife. So don't worry, you and your ilk are safe as long as you remain here. Try what Kemen did to TBoss in SA, let me see how you won't see the four walls of a cell

That law goes two ways...

The same way a 20 year old woman will go to jail for sleeping with a 17 year old guy... It's vice versa.

And non consensual SEX between husband and wife is not what I support.

You did not even address the main thing I spoke about and you are getting emotional
Why would two drunk people have sex and it's the guy that gets the heat.
What if it was the guy that was being slept with against his consent.
That does not make sense to me.
A drunk girl taken advantage of by a clear eyed guy should be dealt with tho.

And for the record, I'm not in support of sexual violations against BOTH GENDERS.

safarigirl:
sexual molestation is not rape. It is molestation and that is what I have been calling it. BTW, in none of those situations did we have an unconscious or semi-conscious participant. If you are groping someone when said person is asleep, it is assumed the person is not conscious of their actions

I have given an example of two drunk housemates who had CONSENSUAL sex in the eyes of most on BB SA, but the girl claimed the next morning to have been too drunk to remember giving consent and the guy was disqualified for that. That is the closest example to what happened in BBN. I know that if such a thing had happened in BB Naija, y'all would call the girl all sorts of names, that is the pitiful country Nigeria is

And for you to support the girl in this case is terrible
So she claimed not giving consent and the guy was just disqualified like that
TWO DRUNK PEOPLE.
When they played the tape, was there any resistance from the girl? did she at any point say no, or push the guy back
Was she cajoled into getting drunk
What other factors were considered?


Instead two ADULTS had drunk sex and the man's life was ruined by it

And you still support that action within you

It's a shame, very big shame

Ugosample:
And for you to support the girl in this case is terrible
So she claimed not giving consent and the guy was just disqualified like that
TWO DRUNK PEOPLE.
When they played the tape, was there any resistance from the girl? did she at any point say no, or push the guy back
Was she cajoled into getting drunk
What other factors were considered?


Instead two ADULTS had drunk sex and the man's life was ruined by it

And you still support that action within you

It's a shame, very big shame

see what you're saying, is the reason why you belong in Nigeria. Don't ever go to a country that has law and order, you won't last.

Have a nice day

safarigirl:
see what you're saying, is the reason why you belong in Nigeria. Don't ever go to a country that has law and order, you won't last.

Have a nice day

And what makes you think I am a local boy without foreign exposure?

I'm just asking you on whether you think that "law" was fair in the guy and instead of you to address the issue on ground, you are still reacting emotionally

And I used to like your insightful posts on this forum over the years, but for you to respond like this, I'm feeling kinda disappointed.

Telling me not to go to a country that has "law and order" that I will not last. What is the correlation between that and the topic on ground?

pick out the holes in my argument, let me hear you and reason it (as you normally do, especially when it comes to women based topics) but you did not do that

As much as I believe in the law, that law must be fair and not stupid, or biased.
On that case, I still think more things should have been looked into instead of disgracing that guy.

What's wrong with that?

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www.nairaland.com/3755008/men-subject-sexual-harassment-work/2#55797535

Talking of an uncivilized country, many womenin this country are in denial that indeed men are harassed sexually in any form, while this subject matter is a recognized thing in the same "civilised countries" you love to mention.

What do you have to say to that?