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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by cloudyskygrind(m): 7:40am On Apr 20, 2017
pocohantas:
Why will ladies answer, when they know the aim of the thread?
One is even saying what the lady offers can be offered by any other lady, what do you guys offer that you have monopoly over?

Is it prick? Na only you get prick? Some guys own na bazooka...
Lots of ladies are even embracing dildos recently.
Is it money? You be Otedola? intelligence? Are you Zuckerberg?
You feel because you attach "m" to your NL username, you're automatically relevant and infallible?

Every time,what do ladies bring in a relationship. If it were a lady asking this useless question, all these boys will pounce on the thread telling her to leave fucboys! If the women in your lives are bringing nothing, change your circle or change yourself... maybe you deserve nothing.

Haba! Make una leave woman matter and hustle small na, since you guys have concluded women like money. All the topics for Romance section front-page na woman matter. Why so obsessed with us?

If ladies bring nothing,date yourselves na. Or date yam!even goat!

Some of you guys in this section have brain powers in negatives, you go about deriding females with the usual olosho,ashawo and wide toto insults. The only section you guys are relevant is this section because you can easily form a team to cyberbully ladies.

No stupid prick should quote me o...
In short, go and ask your mothers.
You still didn't answer the question undecided

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by numericalguy(m): 7:43am On Apr 20, 2017
Unfortunately, most Nigerian ladies are parasites. They take so much and give nothing in return. That is just the hard truth.



A lot of them get angry hen asked this question and that is because the can't conveniently answer the question. So the become angry and hurl insults at you.

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 7:49am On Apr 20, 2017
Vorpal:


You are really going hard this early morning oh
Some of them are becoming increasingly stupid. No answer will satisfy them, no be today we start to see this kind thread.

The lady that answered, one said what she offers can be offered by another. Is there any one like has monopoly of any attribute?

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by legendsilver(m): 7:49am On Apr 20, 2017
pocohantas:

Shattap jareh...
Which gold? Una get gold to dig?
How many of una done buy book for ya babe?
Or ask her GP? Receive receive indeed. Receive prick you mean? Because that's all some of you have, sadly it's a free gift of nature.

Oya shift one side... grin Na for NL una dey come show unasef.


No mind these useless boys, naso them use woman matter occupy like 3.5g inside their 4g brains.

Most of your reply speaks volume of who you truly are. Its obvious this topic got you unprepared, reason you prefer insults to logical reasoning.

Lemi ask you again?
What have you contributed to your relationship?

Answer if you actually contributed to the guy's life so that other young ladies here can learn. Period

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 7:53am On Apr 20, 2017
legendsilver:


Most of your reply speaks volume of who you truly are. Its obvious this topic got you unprepared, reason you prefer insults to logical reasoning.

Lemi ask you again?
What have you contributed to your relationship?

Answer if you actually contributed to the guy's life so that other young ladies here can learn. Period
Oga... this is the opening post. No be must say na babes go reply
I sometimes get confused on the subject matter, reason I felt like like asking matured minds here to share their thought on what they have achieved ever since they met the person they love!?
Thanks.
Answer on behalf of your wonderful mother, sisters and all the women in your life, so the ladies here can learn, Period!

No quote me again o, I am done with you.

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:59am On Apr 20, 2017
pocohantas:

Some of them are becoming increasingly stupid No answer will satisfy them, no be today we start to see this kind thread.

The lady that answered, one said what she offers can be offered by another. Is there any one like has monopoly of any attribute?


At the emboldened, I have noticed too. I am really curious as to the cause.

Do you think everyone is dignified a response? Do you think you can sway someone's perspective through words on here?
Most people have certain outlook to life as a result of their environment. Can you change a man/woman without his/her environment?

People are who they are, not what you want them to be or should be.

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by legendsilver(m): 7:59am On Apr 20, 2017
pocohantas:

Oga... this is the opening post. No be must say na babes go reply

Answer on behalf of your wonderful mother, sisters and all the women in your life, so the ladies here can learn, Period!

No quote me again o, I am done with you.
Y are you escaping the question? You have only rained down insults since the beginning of the topic. Now its clear that you have actually not contributed to his life, meaning you are a parasite in the life of that gentle guy that work all day to make end meet.

Just run far from me cus the topic was not directed to you initially.

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 8:07am On Apr 20, 2017
Vorpal:


At the emboldened, I have noticed too. I am really curious as to the cause.

Do you think everyone is dignified a response? Do you think you can sway someone's perspective through words on here?
Most people have certain outlook to life as a result of their environment. Can you change a man/woman without his/her environment?
You're very right, I won't dignify them with a response, I done talk my mind. The reason isn't far-fetched, they are unhappy outside NL. They'll come and open threads aimed at insulting ladies, then form innocent. grin

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:09am On Apr 20, 2017
pocohantas:

You're very right, I won't dignify them with a response, I done talk my mind. The reason isn't far-fetched, they are unhappy outside NL. They'll come and open threads aimed at insulting ladies, then form innocent. grin

Yes madam, "don't cast pearls to pigs" wink

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by usermane(m): 8:44am On Apr 20, 2017
Of course they rarely bring anything to the table but instead of playing the blame game, why not look at it from another perspective?

Women mostly bring nothing worthwhile to the table because most of you men are cheap and lack standard. You are wowed instantly by pretty face, boob and butt so these women feel they need not to offer you more to get or keep your attention.

You want women to bring more to table? Demand more. Up your standard. Stop falling for airheads, inept, unambitious girls that only care about make up, boyfriend, money and fun. Control yourself. Discipline your mind. Stop getting carried away by their looks. Only then will women begin to offer you more

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:46am On Apr 20, 2017
leoshouse:


No disrespect Sis, but have you wondered if he could easily get these things you listed from any other RANDOM lady?

Okay so you are lucky you have a good guy. Lets take a look at an average Nigerian guy, trust me, any girl can offer what you listed.

I think the problem is ladies are in an industry where their "substitutes" offers better package and these ladies don't try to upgrade or get better.

No lady has still answered the OP's question!!

God will help us o,brother....
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 8:53am On Apr 20, 2017
usermane:
Of course they rarely bring anything to the table but instead of playing the blame game, why not look at it from another perspective?

Women mostly bring nothing worthwhile to the table because most of you men are cheap and lack standard. You are wowed instantly by pretty face, boob and butt so these women feel they need not to offer you more to get or keep your attention.

You want women to bring more to table? Demand more. Up your standard. Stop falling for airheads, inept, unambitious girls that only care about make up, boyfriend, money and fun. Control yourself. Discipline your mind. Stop getting carried away by their looks. Only then will women begin to offer you more
Ehen, thank God I get to see one sensible man. Though I disagree women bring nothing worthwhile. Like you said,it's what you demand, you get. Most of these guys find 'nerdy' chicks boring, they prefer instagram girls with plenty makeup. Then turnaround to nag and generalise!

For this your post, I will cease fire grin you're unbiased...
In short, I like you.

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:57am On Apr 20, 2017
Ladies bring what you ask of them into a relationship. If you think we have nothing to offer other than sex,then you are a sex maniac yourself. What you ask for is what you get smiley
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by legendsilver(m): 10:07am On Apr 20, 2017
God bless the human race, many demands less contribution
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by leoshouse(m): 10:23am On Apr 20, 2017
pocohantas:
Why will ladies answer, when they know the aim of the thread?
One is even saying what the lady offers can be offered by any other lady, what do you guys offer that you have monopoly over?

Is it prick? Na only you get prick? Some guys own na bazooka...
Lots of ladies are even embracing dildos recently.
Is it money? You be Otedola? intelligence? Are you Zuckerberg?
You feel because you attach "m" to your NL username, you're automatically relevant and infallible?

Every time,what do ladies bring in a relationship. If it were a lady asking this useless question, all these boys will pounce on the thread telling her to leave fucboys! If the women in your lives are bringing nothing, change your circle or change yourself... maybe you deserve nothing.

Haba! Make una leave woman matter and hustle small na, since you guys have concluded women like money. All the topics for Romance section front-page na woman matter. Why so obsessed with us?

If ladies bring nothing,date yourselves na. Or date yam!even goat!

Some of you guys in this section have brain powers in negatives, you go about deriding females with the usual olosho,ashawo and wide toto insults. The only section you guys are relevant is this section because you can easily form a team to cyberbully ladies.

No stupid prick should quote me o...
In short, go and ask your mothers.

Okay so I am gonna quote you.

Have you ever wondered why guys will now comfortably pay loads for the so called "oloshos"? Why there are now so many "oloshos" or "side chicks"?

and trust me, you are right, it's not the money or the sexgame (prick), a lady can get that from any random man too. I mean after all, we are not the people you mentioned anyway!

I try to be neutral on these issues, but it is becoming a major problem (worldwide). Guy now prefer to not be emotionally committed (distracted), shouldn't there be a reason for that?
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by legendsilver(m): 11:26am On Apr 20, 2017
And you think she will answer you? That girl dey suffer from guilty conscience
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by mablie(m): 12:44pm On Apr 20, 2017
usermane:
Of course they rarely bring anything to the table but instead of playing the blame game, why not look at it from another perspective?

Women mostly bring nothing worthwhile to the table because most of you men are cheap and lack standard. You are wowed instantly by pretty face, boob and butt so these women feel they need not to offer you more to get or keep your attention.

You want women to bring more to table? Demand more. Up your standard. Stop falling for airheads, inept, unambitious girls that only care about make up, boyfriend, money and fun. Control yourself. Discipline your mind. Stop getting carried away by their looks. Only then will women begin to offer you more
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 12:52pm On Apr 20, 2017
leoshouse:


Okay so I am gonna quote you.

Have you ever wondered why guys will now comfortably pay loads for the so called "oloshos"? Why there are now so many "oloshos" or "side chicks"?

and trust me, you are right, it's not the money or the sexgame (prick), a lady can get that from any random man too. I mean after all, we are not the people you mentioned anyway!

I try to be neutral on these issues, but it is becoming a major problem (worldwide). Guy now prefer to not be emotionally committed (distracted), shouldn't there be a reason for that?
Have you also wondered why some ladies now prefer not to be emotionally committed? Why it's now a case of the highest bidder?
Values have dropped! Even our young men have nothing to offer!
Ask these same guys how they have helped improve their girlfriends and you'll find out majority of them can't answer that question.

It's just a pity they have refused to be sincere and go about acting like ladies are all the problem they have. Some of them stick to empty girls all because of sex, that makes them empty too. Create a thread on how a lady graduated top of her class, they'll fall in to say she is ugly. Create another on roman goddess boobs or how sex is love and watch the thread hit 8 pages...

Nigeria is a diverse place, any type of man or woman you want is here. Even on this NL, it's easy to separate the wheat from the chaff, but you first have to be deserving of the kind of person you seek, then work your way into his or her social circle.

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by legendsilver(m): 1:49pm On Apr 20, 2017
pocohantas:

Have you also wondered why some ladies now prefer not to be emotionally committed? Why it's now a case of the highest bidder?
Values have dropped! Even our young men have nothing to offer!
Ask these same guys how they have helped improve their girlfriends and you'll find out majority of them can't answer that question.

It's just a pity they have refused to be sincere and go about acting like ladies are all the problem they have. Some of them stick to empty girls all because of sex, that makes them empty too. Create a thread on how a lady graduated top of her class, they'll fall in to say she is ugly. Create another on roman goddess boobs or how sex is love and watch the thread hit 8 pages...

Nigeria is a diverse place, any type of man or woman you want is here. Even on this NL, it's easy to separate the wheat from the chaff, but you first have to be deserving of the kind of person you seek, then work your way into his or her social circle.
So you can cook up sensible points like this?
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Apr 20, 2017
That is a very valid question... but the truth is many teenagers choose to start up a relationship for the adventure (party, sex, flexing etc) that lies in it, in many case both sexes know they ain't in it to offer sh¡t. They are in need to be wanted by someone and enjoy the feeling that they belong and affirmed, to someone or something, which l think conforms to what a larger part of societal mentality subscribes to... there are 3 things inherent in a relationship that holds promise than child's play 1. morality 2. good intellectual communication 3. love
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by rosieluv(f): 3:22pm On Apr 20, 2017
pocohantas:
Why will ladies answer, when they know the aim of the thread?
One is even saying what the lady offers can be offered by any other lady, what do you guys offer that you have monopoly over?

Is it prick? Na only you get prick? Some guys own na bazooka...
Lots of ladies are even embracing dildos recently.
Is it money? You be Otedola? intelligence? Are you Zuckerberg?
You feel because you attach "m" to your NL username, you're automatically relevant and infallible?

Every time,what do ladies bring in a relationship. If it were a lady asking this useless question, all these boys will pounce on the thread telling her to leave fucboys! If the women in your lives are bringing nothing, change your circle or change yourself... maybe you deserve nothing.

Haba! Make una leave woman matter and hustle small na, since you guys have concluded women like money. All the topics for Romance section front-page na woman matter. Why so obsessed with us?

If ladies bring nothing,date yourselves na. Or date yam!even goat!

Some of you guys in this section have brain powers in negatives, you go about deriding females with the usual olosho,ashawo and wide toto insults. The only section you guys are relevant is this section because you can easily form a team to cyberbully ladies.

No stupid prick should quote me o...
In short, go and ask your mothers.
wawuu!! grin

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Quinn22(f): 4:14pm On Apr 20, 2017
So what do you expect a lady to bring to the table? smiley
MEGGATRON:


"support and encourage" and if she isn't there to do that the man would go astray? [b]bros we have family and friends for that.

"A good woman will always set her man on the right path"
yeah thats if the man is on the wrong path which is unusual.

[/b]
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Quinn22(f): 4:16pm On Apr 20, 2017
Does it matter?! Na wa oh! You are sounding as if a relationship is a competition
MEGGATRON:


OK, although no one is measuring but [b]what he does outweighs yours. [/b]
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Quinn22(f): 4:18pm On Apr 20, 2017
Why can't you answer it for us ladies smiley
leoshouse:


No disrespect Sis, but have you wondered if he could easily get these things you listed from any other RANDOM lady?

Okay so you are lucky you have a good guy. Lets take a look at an average Nigerian guy, trust me, any girl can offer what you listed.

I think the problem is ladies are in an industry where their "substitutes" offers better package and these ladies don't try to upgrade or get better.

No lady has still answered the OP's question!!
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Nellychinma20(f): 4:21pm On Apr 20, 2017
tellwisdom:
Nothing of course...Foolish people angry
well of course you are right. your mum is the gang leader
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Quinn22(f): 4:23pm On Apr 20, 2017
Mr man! What do you expect a lady to contribute to the relationship? undecided

If men have no answer, I guess they are no different from the ladies tongue
legendsilver:

Y are you escaping the question? You have only rained down insults since the beginning of the topic. Now its clear that you have actually not contributed to his life, meaning you are a parasite in the life of that gentle guy that work all day to make end meet.

Just run far from me cus the topic was not directed to you initially.
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by MEGGATRON(m): 4:27pm On Apr 20, 2017
Quinn22:
Does it matter?! Na wa oh! You are sounding as if a relationship is a competition

I don't know what relationship is to you, actually I do but that's not the issue here. it isn't a competition but an exoneration between both parties, if one is offering more than the other it becomes a burden.

its a quid pro quo practice, it should be fair and balance in good faith.

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by MEGGATRON(m): 4:32pm On Apr 20, 2017
Quinn22:
So what do you expect a lady to bring to the table? smiley

What the man is lacking. it varies by each man's needs.

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Quinn22(f): 4:32pm On Apr 20, 2017
So what do you expect a lady to offer?
MEGGATRON:


I don't know what relationship is to you, actually I do but that's not the issue here. it isn't a competition but an exoneration between both parties, if one is offering more than the other it becomes a burden.

its a quid pro quo practice, it should be fair and balance in good faith.
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Quinn22(f): 4:34pm On Apr 20, 2017
Okay what do you want from a lady?
MEGGATRON:


What the man is lacking. it varies by each man's needs.
Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Quinn22(f): 4:36pm On Apr 20, 2017
It's better to say it and let the ladies know or hold your peace and stop complaining about ladies not having anything to offer, because it shows you don't know what you want at the end of the day.
MEGGATRON:


What the man is lacking. it varies by each man's needs.

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Re: What Do Ladies Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Apr 20, 2017
legendsilver:
I sometimes get confused on the subject matter, reason I felt like like asking matured minds here to share their thought on what they have achieved ever since they met the person they love!?
Thanks.
Why not ask your mother or grandmother? Any bagger who feels ladies do not contribute nofin in a relationship should go and date their fellow man.

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