leoshouse:


No disrespect Sis, but have you wondered if he could easily get these things you listed from any other RANDOM lady?

Okay so you are lucky you have a good guy. Lets take a look at an average Nigerian guy, trust me, any girl can offer what you listed.

I think the problem is ladies are in an industry where their "substitutes" offers better package and these ladies don't try to upgrade or get better.

No lady has still answered the OP's question!!

Quinn22:
Okay what do you want from a lady?

alexialin:




If Nigerian guy do not want this attributes from his girl.

What then does a Nigerian guy want??

Cos am not understanding where this is heading to

Tell us point blank what u want from a girl yur dating.

MEGGATRON:


i'm not telling......I know where this is heading.

Quinn22:
If you can't answer the question, how do you expect the ladies to provide you the attributes you expect from them? If you can't give an answer, then keep quiet and stop complaining!

Quinn22:
The guys can't tell the ladies what they expect from them, this is because they don't know what they want. And they expect the ladies to change, it's a big shame to them because they don't even know the answer to their questions. What a bloody shame!

alexialin:
For me? I bring emotional stability, true love, humility, a good listening ear, and I stand by him through thick and thin.

And mind yall guys here, waiting to hear financial support.

He sees its as disrespect to his ego, the first time I talked about money issues. He loves taking charge financially and he feels it's his task and responsibility to handle all financial matters. And yes he seeks my opinion if it has anything to do with us.

I simply make him grounded emotionally. And he's so happy
Love you boo boo..
And thanks Seun.
If not for Nairaland, we wouldn't have met each other

alexialin:




My dear, guys asking such questions are simply irresponsible.
They know what they want but they are ashamed to say it.
And we ladies know what u guys saying this trash wants.
Let admit it! They are broke, lazy and y'all clamouring for what does a woman bring, they simply want money!
Oh yes! Money and lots of it too. That's why they are ashamed to even utter it out..

Make una come collect!
Ladies have become Central Bank..
Lazy bunch!
Don't go and look for work do, Op and his cohorts.. Lol
Dey wait for large bags of money from your women. U hear??
Una go wait taya!

Quinn22:
Nice

Financial support when I can
My time
Emotional support
Sexual support when I can
Help him with the chores when I can
Nurturing when I'm in a good mood
Being extremely patient and a good listener.

MEGGATRON:


lol, even if I speak I speak for myself what difference would that make? [b]you ladies should figure it out, its your problem. [/b]

alexialin:





that's a good one too
I bet will he appreciate u a great deal for it.

No mind broke hungry guys on this forum.
They wont allow ladies hear word.
They should just spell it out.. Women give us money!!!!
And lots of it.. In sacks!
Then all their insults and complain about their Gfs will end..

Nellychinma20:
well of course you are right. your mum is the gang leader

Who is this ashewwo who must have slept with 7 men or more?? ...Omo ale jati jati

tellwisdom:



Who is this ashewwo who must have slept with 7 men or more?? ...Omo ale jati jati

Nellychinma20:
yes,its ur mum's apprentice in ashawo business
shebi she no Sabi train u well for respect?
Tell her she failed in her duties.
the faster u learn to respect women the lesser ur misery in life.

You this incoherent stupppid mgbeke. U are not a woman and i cannot respect OTELE like u. No be everybody dem dey quote. Anuofia

tellwisdom:


You this incoherent stupppid mgbeke. U are not a woman and i cannot respect OTELE like u. No be everybody dem dey quote. Anuofia

Nellychinma20:
lol
say that to ur mum

pocohantas:

You're very right, I won't dignify them with a response, I done talk my mind. The reason isn't far-fetched, they are unhappy outside NL. They'll come and open threads aimed at insulting ladies, then form innocent.

Quinn22:
ABI! Guys are the worst kind when it comes to money and gold digging
And they say girls like money
If I hear!

dingbang:
see dem.. Gbasa queen.. The question was directed to the guys....

usermane:
Of course they rarely bring anything to the table but instead of playing the blame game, why not look at it from another perspective?

Women mostly bring nothing worthwhile to the table because most of you men are cheap and lack standard. You are wowed instantly by pretty face, boob and butt so these women feel they need not to offer you more to get or keep your attention.

You want women to bring more to table? Demand more. Up your standard. Stop falling for airheads, inept, unambitious girls that only care about make up, boyfriend, money and fun. Control yourself. Discipline your mind. Stop getting carried away by their looks. Only then will women begin to offer you more

MEGGATRON:


What the man is lacking. it varies by each man's needs.

MEGGATRON:


lol, even if I speak I speak for myself what difference would that make? you ladies should figure it out, its your problem.

Alero3Arubi:



You haff kill pelzon.
Abeg oo I Dey chop!!

dingbang:
hehehehehe.... Wetin u been cook.

Alero3Arubi:


Na lemon grass and lime with fried paw paw.
Recession.

dingbang:
looool.. I just love your style.. Where do u base

Alero3Arubi:


Na Nigeria ooo.
I know, I know.
I don't like it here too.

You fit help sneak me across border?
Please epp my condition.

legendsilver:
I sometimes get confused on the subject matter, reason I felt like like asking matured minds here to share their thought on what they have achieved ever since they met the person they love!?
Thanks.

Noblepreneur:
Guess the kind of Ladies around you are empty in quote.I was a broke dude when I started dating and with the babe assistance,I counted my first one million naira.

Do not follow curves/Hips or Fine Face OP(Forget Slay Queens),date someone with brain and you will enjoy the dividends of relationship.