ZarZar:

Lol. Yes, gimme one!

SMH... In exchange for PM? LOL

jericco1:
I've done that, but she doesn't 'have time to read'

That's sad.

A lot of people feel the need to "dumb" themselves down to the very dim witted level and that's why you see so much ignorance everywhere, which is a big shame. I personally am not as "physically attractive" as far as societal standards are concerned but I've had a little luck in the dating department and people are intrigued during discussions, when I switch from current happenings to soccer to entertainment, etc. Now, as a female, I guess it's seems a bit weird that I should be interested in soccer but hey, that's another stereotype. Plus I hope I'm not the only one who's fascinated by sarcasm, I mean when someone is witty enough to respond to sarcasm with sarcasm instead of getting offended ? Wow!!!!!
Lol, sorry if I'm not making any sense but I'm just so glad to see this thread sha.
Intelligence is SEXY

lovelygurl:
I wouldn't say most of them are single. I mean it just depends on the kind of people you are surrounded by.

There's nothing sexier than intelligence

Sure physical appearances matter but it's never enough to keep me going.

It also depends on interests as always. A genius in the art field will still get bored when (s)he is conversing with a quantum physicsist... Different interests

Ndawe:
A lot of people feel the need to "dumb" themselves down to the very dim witted level and that's why you see so much ignorance everywhere, which is a big shame. I personally am not as "physically attractive" as far as societal standards are concerned but I've had a little luck in the dating department and people are intrigued during discussions, when I switch from current happenings to soccer to entertainment, etc. Now, as a female, I guess it's seems a bit weird that I should be interested in soccer but hey, that's another stereotype. Plus I hope I'm not the only one who's fascinated by sarcasm, I mean when someone is witty enough to respond to sarcasm with sarcasm instead of getting offended ? Wow!!!!!
Lol, sorry if I'm not making any sense but I'm just so glad to see this thread sha.
Intelligence is SEXY

The soccer stereotype... Nah. I have friends who actually have a passion for it. What's weird is that I don't follow soccer like the other average guy. lol. You sound fascinating, really, and your comment makes sense enough. So? Glad you're in the sapiosexual club...

Lolx! I can relate. You tend to think more' than feel.. You keep finding flaws where there's possibly none for a normal person...

Am a woman, to some extent I don't like it. Am trying to beat it, so help me God

AmazingElla:
Lolx! I can relate. You tend to think more' than feel.. You keep finding flaws where there's possibly none for a normal person...

Am a woman, to some extent I don't like it. Am trying to beat it, so help me God

When you've used your head to conclude you've found the person, then it's hard to break off. Very hard. No one is perfect, that is why we must love them as they are.

Hehe. Exactly, there's nothing average about sapiosexuals jare. I actually just typed and hit submit without thinking, that's why I thought it was just rants. Thank you and indeed it's a fascinating club and me being fascinating.......... Hehe, I can't be the judge

epelumi42:


The soccer stereotype... Nah. I have friends who actually have a passion for it. What's weird is that I don't follow soccer like the other average guy. lol. You sound fascinating, really, and your comment makes sense enough. So? Glad you're in the sapiosexual club...

Ndawe:
Hehe. Exactly, there's nothing average about sapiosexuals jare. I actually just typed and hit submit without thinking, that's why I thought it was just rants. Thank you and indeed it's a fascinating club and me being fascinating.......... Hehe, I can't be the judge

Let me be the judge of that. You are.

hmmmm what about sapiosexuals that are mystics....they are very few, non conventional, highly intelligent, deep ,simple but suffers no fools.

epelumi42:


Let's make a toast then. To great personalities.

epelumi42:


Let's make a toast then. To great personalities.

To strongwill ...

Probable shortcut to dating a female sapiosexual: targeting (student and professional) lawyers and scientists...

ZarZar:
Maybe they come across as intimidating & make others feel like they have to step up their game in order to measure up. Just a guess though. Or it could be that they're the ones not interested since most seem to have very high standards to go with the kind of smarts they require from others.

I have this problem but I'm trying to adjust...

Toks2008:

I have this problem but I'm trying to adjust...

Many will consider you arrogant too... Good thing you're working on it.

Thank you

epelumi42:


Let me be the judge of that. You are.

epelumi42:
Sapiosexuals are simply people who are attracted to intelligence more than physical appearance. Though I find physical beauty appealing, I find it hard to be with ladies who have only fine faces to their credit and nothing upstairs.

This begs the question, why are most sapiosexuals single? Does it mean people no longer seek information or the number of educated illiterates is simply escalating.

What would you prefer, a brainy woman or a slay queen?

Just like ZarZar has said, a lot of people feel intimidated by our intelligence. Thank God I'm not alone in this train *sighs*.

Intelligence has always been a major player in my attraction. I value intelligence above all qualities in a potential partner. In fact, a mispronounced or misspelt word would wither all signs of attraction on the spot.

When a guy challenges me intellectually, I literally get wet(I'm not kidding right now). Intelligence is the way to get me bothered.

Looks fade; knowledge is forever. Smart is sexy.

EquiLiqui:


Just like ZarZar has said, a lot of people feel intimidated by our intelligence. Thank God I'm not alone in this train *sighs*.

Intelligence has always been a major player in my attraction. I value intelligence above all qualities in a potential partner. In fact, a mispronounced or misspelt word would wither all signs of attraction on the spot.

When a guy challenges me intellectually, I literally get wet(I'm not kidding right now). Intelligence is the way to get me bothered.

Looks fade; knowledge is forever. Smart is sexy.

Now that's intense. Mehn! Intense. Let me challenge you to an intellectual conversation. Probably on the philosophy of ethics. I love that topic like...

epelumi42:


Now that's intense. Mehn! Intense. Let me challenge you to an intellectual conversation. Probably on the philosophy of ethics. I love that topic like...

bring it on

EquiLiqui:

bring it on

On this thread? Or shall we take it to a more appropriate place?