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lefulefu:
what of if the girl grows older and come enter university nko?
persin wey wan spoil go spoil

I disagree with you on your last statement. Some girls got spoiled because there was no one to give them the right orientation, information and/or sex education at the right time in their lives. But most girls got spoiled because they associated with wrong friends who gave them wrong orientation/information about sex. So, some girls got spoiled because they want to while others got spoiled because the condition, situation, environment and people around them pushed them to.
My girlfriend is just 17 and still in secondary school. When I met her, the condition and situations around her showed me that she will soon get spoiled. She is living only with her mum who had little or no time to watch, advice or correct her. She is a very attractive girl but she doesn't keep female friends. With the kind of bad boys that were getting closer to her, eyeing nothing but her attractive body, I had to start giving her advice and orientations as someone that was also close to me. When it occurred to me that she really need a guy to date, I had to offer myself in order to prevent her from falling into the wrong hands and also to ward off the randy guys around her. After all the good lessons I've taught her, she is now like a soul that has just been saved from destruction. Though her mum hates me now and thinks that I am sleeping with her, but God, who knows very well that she is still a virgin and that I'm the one transforming her life and making her to still remain a virgin, will bless me for my efforts.
So pls my guy change this mentality and date a teenager if you have the opportunity. You might be saving a soul by doing so.

Gentlegenius
How were you attracted to a 17years old?

Rukkydelta:
Gentlegenius
How were you attracted to a 17years old?

Though she had the looks... I mean the hot and attractive body right from when she was 16, but for a real man like me, getting attracted to a lady goes beyond physical looks. Her gentle and quiet nature which defines her inner beauty was actually what endears her to me. When I got closer to her I discovered other good virtues which shows that her type is extremely difficult to find these days.
Every sensible man should have priorities and when you meet a lady whose qualities suits your priorities, age becomes just a number- it doesn't matter whether she's too young or old.

gentlegenius:
I disagree with you on your last statement. Some girls got spoiled because there was no one to give them the right orientation, information and/or sex education at the right time in their lives. But most girls got spoiled because they associated with wrong friends who gave them wrong orientation/information about sex. So, some girls got spoiled because they want to while others got spoiled because the condition, situation, environment and people around them pushed them to.
My girlfriend is just 17 and still in secondary school. When I met her, the condition and situations around her showed me that she will soon get spoiled. She is living only with her mum who had little or no time to watch, advice or correct her. She is a very attractive girl but she doesn't keep female friends. With the kind of bad boys that were getting closer to her, eyeing nothing but her attractive body, I had to start giving her advice and orientations as someone that was also close to me. When it occurred to me that she really need a guy to date, I had to offer myself in order to prevent her from falling into the wrong hands and also to ward off the randy guys around her. After all the good lessons I've taught her, she is now like a soul that has just been saved from destruction. Though her mum hates me now and thinks that I am sleeping with her, but God, who knows very well that she is still a virgin and that I'm the one transforming her life and making her to still remain a virgin, will bless me for my efforts.
So pls my guy change this mentality and date a teenager if you have the opportunity. You might be saving a soul by doing so.

well during my 100 level and 200 level days in school there was a number of cultist guys in our area.u will see them drinking and smoking and carrying different girls.but then did such make me want to join them? of course not.so like i say before....persin wey wan corrupt go corrupt .and this 17 yr old kid u dating..if maybe u are in ur early 20s then its not too bad but guy if u over 30 or well into ur 40s haba! she just too young for u ooo.let the child face her WAEC and jamb abeg.

lefulefu:
well during my 100 level and 200 level days in school there was a number of cultist guys in our area.u will see them drinking and smoking and carrying different girls.but then did such make me want to join them? of course not.so like i say before....persin wey wan corrupt go corrupt .and this 17 yr old kid u dating..if maybe u are in ur early 20s then its not too bad but guy if u over 30 or well into ur 40s haba! she just too young for u ooo.let the child face her WAEC and jamb abeg.

You just say what I wanted to say
If he is more than earlier twenties then there is a problem

Rukkydelta:
You just say what I wanted to say
If he is more than earlier twenties then there is a problem

he might even be in his late 50s sef
nothing wey some guys no go do .

just passing by

lefulefu:
he might even be in his late 50s sef
nothing wey some guys no go do .

I have checked is dp and I'm sure he is not less than 25
Instead of him to be playing big bros to that child he is busy playing lover
I wonder what he and that little girl discusses about cos their level of reasoning can never be or close to the same
Someone that hasn't wrote her SSCE
If I born pikin say I see any old man around her let the man just no say na 6feet he go just enter sharply
I blame some parents sha

lefulefu:
well during my 100 level and 200 level days in school there was a number of cultist guys in our area.u will see them drinking and smoking and carrying different girls.but then did such make me want to join them? of course not.so like i say before....persin wey wan corrupt go corrupt .and this 17 yr old kid u dating..if maybe u are in ur early 20s then its not too bad but guy if u over 30 or well into ur 40s haba! she just too young for u ooo.let the child face her WAEC and jamb abeg.

Hahaha Hahaha Hahaha....
You made me laugh uncontrollably.
Who told you that success in life depends on writing JAMB and going through higher institutions? How many graduates in this country are succeeding right now or even getting jobs? I am a graduate and at times I regret being one because there are many ways one can be educated without wasting years in higher institutions like the ones in Nigeria.
I've been there and I know that majority of the girls in our higher institutions don't really bend down to study, but instead they bend down to have sex with lecturers and Co students just to pass exams and graduate with good papers that won't take them anywhere. If you think she should go to higher institution, become a spoilt brat and come back, then be informed that all that is outside my priority. I have good business plans for her because she had a great talent in business management. I can educate her further by making her read some good books that can inspire her to succeed in business, attend a few business workshops and seminars etc. With these, she can even succeed more than the so called business management graduates.

peter0071:
just passing by

Say something

Rukkydelta:
Say something

based on logistics.... (I have said something)

Rukkydelta:
I have checked is dp and I'm sure he is not less than 25
Instead of him to be playing big bros to that child he is busy playing lover
I wonder what he and that little girl discusses about cos their level of reasoning can never be or close to the same
Someone that hasn't wrote her SSCE
If I born pikin say I see any old man around her let the man just no say na 6feet he go just enter sharply
I blame some parents sha

you know some of these older men vs teenager sort of relationship hardly ever end well.when these teen girls grow up to be adults and graduate from the university these ladies tend to consider these their boyfriends too old or old skool for them.she"s young now and considering him a big brother but if she get older she might wise up.so wetin the guy go do if na him dey train her and she come dump am for a younger guy if she graduate frm univ.

lefulefu:
you know some of these older men vs teenager sort of relationship hardly ever end well.when these teen girls grow up to be adults and graduate from the university these ladies tend to consider these their boyfriends too old or old skool for them.she"s young now and considering him a big brother but if she get older she might wise up.so wetin the guy go do if na him dey train her and she come dump am for a younger guy if she graduate frm univ.

As he stated earlier he said the girl only lives with her mum. I think that's why she have the urge of a male elder figure in her life someone that can act like a father or brother but unfortunately she found such solace in a wrong man
When the girl later dumps he will come back ranting that girls are gold diggers

lepasharon:
Useless men stay away from little girls

we dont want u old cargos

gentlegenius:
Hahaha Hahaha Hahaha....
You made me laugh uncontrollably.
Who told you that success in life depends on writing JAMB and going through higher institutions? How many graduates in this country are succeeding right now or even getting jobs? I am a graduate and at times I regret being one because there are many ways one can be educated without wasting years in higher institutions like the ones in Nigeria.
I've been there and I know that majority of the girls in our higher institutions don't really bend down to study, but instead they bend down to have sex with lecturers and Co students just to pass exams and graduate with good papers that won't take them anywhere. If you think she should go to higher institution, become a spoilt brat and come back, then be informed that all that is outside my priority. I have good business plans for her because she had a great talent in business management. I can educate her further by making her read some good books that can inspire her to succeed in business, attend a few business workshops and seminars etc. With these, she can even succeed more than the so called business management graduates.

but bros her parents go want her to go to the univ and get a degree even though i go agree with u that degree no be guarrantee to success. i am very sure her parents wont want her to just be a school cert holder.and this one wey u just dey convinced say na runzs and slay killing na im most female undergraduates dey do..there are some wey no get that time.what of ladies wey dey read courses like medicine,pharmacy etc..na which time dem get to dey slay .anyway sha just dey patient make she ripe b4 u start to dey nack her.

Rukkydelta:
As he stated earlier he said the girl only lives with her mum. I think that's why she have the urge of a male elder figure in her life someone that can act like a father or brother but unfortunately she found such solace in a wrong man
When the girl later dumps he will come back ranting that girls are gold diggers

father figure ni?
if a girl treats a guy like a father figure the wisest thing is to treat her like younger sister.hmmm like the story wey i read here about an older man wey train im young girlfriend frm secondary to univ level and after she graduated she got engaged to a younger guy and the man wey train her in school in anger pick knife and stabbed the girl.

Eglobalma:
we dont want u old cargos

Ur an old cargo urself ...pervert

lefulefu:
but bros her parents go want her to go to the univ and get a degree even though i go agree with u that degree no be guarrantee to success. i am very sure her parents wont want her to just be a school cert holder.and this one wey u just dey convinced say na runzs and slay killing na im most female undergraduates dey do..there are some wey no get that time.what of ladies wey dey read courses like medicine,pharmacy etc..na which time dem get to dey slay .anyway sha just dey patient make she ripe b4 u start to dey nack her.

Thanks for the advice in your last statement. I can't start sleeping with her now for many reasons. Apart from distracting her concentration in education, exposing her to sex now will open the way for exploration and exploitation. Being quite young and naive, she might want to explore and succumb easily to be exploited by randy guys especially when I'm not around and possibly won't know what she did. But with her virginity intact, and knowing too well that I'm aware of it, she won't try anything with anyone because once she gets deflowered, I'll know.
Concerning her education at the higher level, she is not even expecting it because her poor mum doesn’t have the financial strength to sponsor her. But if she so desire a University certificate, then I'll enrolled her to do part time after our marriage and she'll be going to school from my house. When there's determination, there'll be many ways to achieve what you want.

gentlegenius:
Thanks for the advice in your last statement. I can't start sleeping with her now for many reasons. Apart from distracting her concentration in education, exposing her to sex now will open the way for exploration and exploitation. Being quite young and naive, she might want to explore and succumb easily to be exploited by randy guys especially when I'm not around and possibly won't know what she did. But with her virginity intact, and knowing too well that I'm aware of it, she won't try anything with anyone because once she gets deflowered, I'll know.
Concerning her education at the higher level, she is not even expecting it because her poor mum doesn’t have the financial strength to sponsor her. But if she so desire a University certificate, then I'll enrolled her to do part time after our marriage and she'll be going to school from my house. When there's determination, there'll be many ways to achieve what you want.

kudos u not knacking her

modsfucker:
Just pray for a good wife. Even secondary school girls don tear eyes now.. . Most of them are into lesbianism, and many can't spend a week without sex.

don't generalise. no be secondary school turn these olosho old cargoes too? secondary school girl are still much better because even those wey don spoil never too advance in mileage

lepasharon:
Useless men stay away from little girls

when you the old women have turned to pros.titutes and unmarriageable nko? just tell us it hurts you that men now go for the very young ones abandoning you old cargoes

lefulefu:
father figure ni?
if a girl treats a guy like a father figure the wisest thing is to treat her like younger sister.hmmm like the story wey i read here about an older man wey train im young girlfriend frm secondary to univ level and after she graduated she got engaged to a younger guy and the man wey train her in school in anger pick knife and stabbed the girl.

it depends on the guy involved. don't let some people's story make you generalise . that's low self esteem. age difference is all about preference for women.

PierreDeFermath:
it depends on the guy involved. don't let some people's story make you generalise . that's low self esteem. age difference is all about preference for women.

low self esteem is when u use money to beg a woman to love u.low self esteem is also when u sponsor a lady in school just because she promised u marriage.you can help her if u want to help her without attaching conditions to your help.if u must sponsor a girl in school for marriage then u ought to be smart about it.

lefulefu:
low self esteem is when u use money to beg a woman to love u.low self esteem is also when u sponsor a lady in school just because she promised u marriage.you can help her if u want to help her without attaching conditions to your help.if u must sponsor a girl in school for marriage then u ought to be smart about it.

I totally concur with you. I get your point. it's just sad that a lot of men(christians especially)don't know their worth because they always get attached to a woman and see her as their entire life and indispensable which is a characteristic that makes men look weak and make women treat them like shit. women are much more than ready and responsible men in population but some men have used low self esteem to ruin their personality and relationship. when some muslim men are marrying 4 beautiful and educated wives and those women still feel lucky. its not like those muslim men are particularly rich o but they are very confident and see women as dispensable,so you don't go about chasing a woman if she doesn't want you as there are thousands of better women that want you. that's how we Muslims role. in Islamic culture,men always have self worth,a man is the head of the family and his wife/wives,you don't see yourself as inferior to a woman. That's why kneeling down to propose to a woman is not Islamic at all,in fact its a sin,we don't use wedding band and all that too. Muslim women understand all that and they respect we Muslim men. that's why Northern marriages are always the most successful in Nigeria.

PierreDeFermath:
I totally concur with you. I get your point. it's just sad that a lot of men(christians especially)don't know their worth because they always get attached to a woman and see her as their entire life and indispensable which is a characteristic that makes men look weak and make women treat them like shit. women are much more than ready and responsible men in population but some men have used low self esteem to ruin their personality and relationship. when some muslim men are marrying 4 beautiful and educated wives and those women still feel lucky. its not like those muslim men are particularly rich o but they are very confident and see women as dispensable,so you don't go about chasing a woman if she doesn't want you as there are thousands of better women that want you. that's how we Muslims role. in Islamic culture,men always have self worth,a man is the head of the family and his wife/wives,you don't see yourself as inferior to a woman. That's why kneeling down to propose to a woman is not Islamic at all,in fact its a sin,we don't use wedding band and all that too. Muslim women understand all that and they respect we Muslim men. that's why Northern marriages are always the most successful in Nigeria.

Hmm... you get point o.

Even at that, look out for girls from decent homes trained by both mom and dad under same roof. The odds of getting a good wife are higher with the above.

Before you join the bandwagon, remember that you will reap exactly what you sow: As you ravage these helpless young ones, other useless men will take undue advantage of your daughters and sisters . . .

Fuckshiit:
Number of höes fûçking keep increasing daily-- Fúçkiñg grab ém YOUNG (mö'fúçker)

isn't going for them young how hoes are made in the first place?

But if all take ur advice, who go marry those above 19 way done enter uni already.


Mind you, i will shoot any dude who comes even remotely close to my future daughter b4 she is old enough, I WILL KILL YOU

Girls that are in 100 level now, were in SS 3 three months ago - thanks to Corona virus and End SARS. Do you now automatically classify such girls as runs girls? University girls are basically secondary school girls. Some secondary school girls are older than university girls... and univeristy girls have better hygiene than secondary school girls. Being a runs girl is a personal thing that has nothing to do with age. For me a girl that is 23 years is not an old cargo, as it is being portrayed here