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Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by Nobody: 9:46pm On Apr 26, 2017
[quote author=Mrnairalandd post=55950325]Wrong mentality!!! This has got nothing to do with trust but mutual respect in a relationship. You girls need to grow up before venturing into marriage cos with this your write up, what your boyfriend or hubby would go through in your hands could only be imagined.

It's sad to see small children online contributing to a sensitive topic like this. And this is one of the reasons why marriages are failing these days.
It's an opinion
And I will give it as I see fit. What is very clear on this f

As a man, there is nothing bad in knowing what your wife/girlfriend does. If you respect your man as a woman, you ll definitely tell him your plan to attend a party and if he says he is not comfortable with your plan, that's it.[/quote


It's an opinion and I will give it as I see fit. What is very evident based on some of the comments is lack of intellectual maturity. I don't refer to " book smart". I refer to the inability to be objective in an argument . Disagree with what I have written , I don't impose my opinion on anyone. There seems to a way of thinking that embraces personalising rebukes as a way of emphasising a point. The fact of the matter is I get nothing from it except the fact that you are making an attempt to disagree but it's not working. It's not just you by the way it's a fair few.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by Nobody: 9:52pm On Apr 26, 2017
viroblaze:
Oh shut your gutter....i know your type very well
No you don't , we move in different circles poles we are apart .
This is the lack of intectual maturity I was referring to earlier. A prime example, of how instead of a sound rebuke you opt to personalise your disagreement in the hope that I am somehow bothered. It does not work with me I am afraid.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by MacDanielz(m): 10:10pm On Apr 26, 2017
Raine80:
Orders? She needs to evaluate her situation as a matter of urgency. If she is finding herself having to "ask" for permission from someone other than her parents then that relationship is unbalanced. If he is having to "deny" or " restrict" her movements then he is not addressing the issue either. His lack of trust and the source of that lack of trust. A healthy relationship is based on trust and that applies to both parities. When you say "Do you mind if I ...?" to your loved one you are taking his/her thoughts into consideration. When you start "ordering" someone and that someone starts to sneak behind your back it's time you both became parallel lines as you are clearly never going to meet halfway.
Bravo Girl!

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Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by Nobody: 10:25pm On Apr 26, 2017
MacDanielz:
Bravo Girl!

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...............NONSENSE I've Ever Read!

EVER!!!
Much obliged
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by carammel(f):
Proudlyngwa:
You just typed rubbish, am letting you know responsibility is a two way street.
I don't order around, if you are going to do something that will jeopardize your own safety and i will be held responsible, I will not allow it happen.
I and a friend have locked a girl who wanted to leave a friends house by 1am up, all because another girl called him.
The next day the girl was on her knees thanking me.

You sound very naive. When the time comes, you will appreciate a lot of things. For your info am happily married and happily oldskool, as well as bing a happy player.
Hope you get the drift.
Hogwash.
This isn't about being old-school, it isn't about your present status but about your sense of reasoning.
Keep being a player,just don't hurt the innocent woman at home.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by achieverme(m): 11:15pm On Apr 26, 2017
Raine80:
Orders? She needs to evaluate her situation as a matter of urgency. If she is finding herself having to "ask" for permission from someone other than her parents then that relationship is unbalanced. If he is having to "deny" or " restrict" her movements then he is not addressing the issue either. His lack of trust and the source of that lack of trust. A healthy relationship is based on trust and that applies to both parities. When you say "Do you mind if I ...?" to your loved one you are taking his/her thoughts into consideration. When you start "ordering" someone and that someone starts to sneak behind your back it's time you both became parallel lines as you are clearly never going to meet halfway.
If she depends financially or materially on someone else other than her parents, then she should be ready to take orders from someone else other than her parents. You can't have your cake and eat it.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by achieverme(m): 11:23pm On Apr 26, 2017
jericco1:
Common boyfriend. Hian!
How are you sure the boyfriend hasn't taken over the duties of the father? If that is the case, then it is right for him to play the role of the father, including ordering her about.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by piagetskinner(m): 11:40pm On Apr 26, 2017
party for little kid's... I hope they give their lives to Christ soon enough,

because he is coming soon!
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by CanadianNurse: 12:40am On Apr 27, 2017
Raine80:
Read what I wrote ..again
If he is ordering and she is not listening why are they together? That is the essence of what I wrote I did quite well in school thank you very much well enough to go to medical school. At the end of the day it's a matter of opinion
for the records I didn't bring your intellectual relevance into this... That teacher stuff was just to demonstrate that opinions are not always right... I read through your post again from a different perspective and I think I see where you are coming from! Congrats on your medical field... We on the same field!
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by Nobody: 12:48am On Apr 27, 2017
CanadianNurse:
for the records I didn't bring your intellectual relevance into this... That teacher stuff was just to demonstrate that opinions are not always right... I read through your post again from a different perspective and I think I see where you are coming from! Congrats on your medical field... We on the same field!
Much obliged ...
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by metallisc(m): 1:08am On Apr 27, 2017
Raine80:
Orders? She needs to evaluate her situation as a matter of urgency. If she is finding herself having to "ask" for permission from someone other than her parents then that relationship is unbalanced. If he is having to "deny" or " restrict" her movements then he is not addressing the issue either. His lack of trust and the source of that lack of trust. A healthy relationship is based on trust and that applies to both parities. When you say "Do you mind if I ...?" to your loved one you are taking his/her thoughts into consideration. When you start "ordering" someone and that someone starts to sneak behind your back it's time you both became parallel lines as you are clearly never going to meet halfway.

Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by chloride6: 1:09am On Apr 27, 2017
Raine80:
Orders? She needs to evaluate her situation as a matter of urgency. If she is finding herself having to "ask" for permission from someone other than her parents then that relationship is unbalanced. If he is having to "deny" or " restrict" her movements then he is not addressing the issue either. His lack of trust and the source of that lack of trust. A healthy relationship is based on trust and that applies to both parities. When you say "Do you mind if I ...?" to your loved one you are taking his/her thoughts into consideration. When you start "ordering" someone and that someone starts to sneak behind your back it's time you both became parallel lines as you are clearly never going to meet halfway.
Quit acting like people are supposed to be follow some sort of law of maturity and trust. Its very okay, to have irrational demands from one to another. Asking your boyfriend or girlfriend to allow you attend a party isn't all wrong it just shows you care about how the person feels. All this talk about trust, doesn't cut it. Some times people just don't feel comfortable, and it's all right to feel so. It's not about trust rather your human side is simply manifesting.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by loswhite(m): 1:31am On Apr 27, 2017
Raine80:
Orders? She needs to evaluate her situation as a matter of urgency. If she is finding herself having to "ask" for permission from someone other than her parents then that relationship is unbalanced. If he is having to "deny" or " restrict" her movements then he is not addressing the issue either. His lack of trust and the source of that lack of trust. A healthy relationship is based on trust and that applies to both parities. When you say "Do you mind if I ...?" to your loved one you are taking his/her thoughts into consideration. When you start "ordering" someone and that someone starts to sneak behind your back it's time you both became parallel lines as you are clearly never going to meet halfway.
At the slightest thing you women talk abt trust. The annoying part is even when your boyfriend knows you are cheating and you are guilty you still play the u don't trust me card. If u don't knw, your boyfriend telling u to stay away from some kind of party and guys is his own way of trying to prevent temptation but u will never see it from that angle rather u will come and tell us abt trust
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by jericco1(m): 1:32am On Apr 27, 2017
achieverme:
How are you sure the boyfriend hasn't taken over the duties of the father? If that is the case, then it is right for him to play the role of the father, including ordering her about.
he's stil not her father.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by achieverme(m): 2:31am On Apr 27, 2017
jericco1:
he's stil not her father.
If he finances her, he is her father. It is the duty of the father to finance his children until they get job or get married. A father that gave that role to a boyfriend is ready to share his position with a boyfriend.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by Constantiney: 3:07am On Apr 27, 2017
Lol look at all these moronic replies
ordering someone's daughter not to go to party all in the name of some relationship bollocks, do these people even know there are things you cant order your own child to do if he/shes above 18 in a well functioning society? smh
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by MistadeRegal(m): 3:53am On Apr 27, 2017
One thing I notice in her reaction to his order is that she fears him and that alone makes me respect her.
If she had been the "I don't care" type, she won't have hidden her face in those pictures.
Women can be crazy at times especially when they're in company of other women, so when you understand that, you worry less because they don't like being confined.
Accompany her if you worry about her since attending the party will make her happy.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by McMoly(m): 4:04am On Apr 27, 2017
Raine80:
Orders? She needs to evaluate her situation as a matter of urgency. If she is finding herself having to "ask" for permission from someone other than her parents then that relationship is unbalanced. If he is having to "deny" or " restrict" her movements then he is not addressing the issue either. His lack of trust and the source of that lack of trust. A healthy relationship is based on trust and that applies to both parities. When you say "Do you mind if I ...?" to your loved one you are taking his/her thoughts into consideration. When you start "ordering" someone and that someone starts to sneak behind your back it's time you both became parallel lines as you are clearly never going to meet halfway.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by McMoly(m): 4:21am On Apr 27, 2017
Your concerns ar undastandable,but somtyms dia is nid 2 curtail women's freakiness.
Trust alone doesn't solve all,objectivity is also key.

Dat fyn line must b drawn..
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by einsteino(m): 4:30am On Apr 27, 2017
Raine80:
Orders? She needs to evaluate her situation as a matter of urgency. If she is finding herself having to "ask" for permission from someone other than her parents then that relationship is unbalanced. If he is having to "deny" or " restrict" her movements then he is not addressing the issue either. His lack of trust and the source of that lack of trust. A healthy relationship is based on trust and that applies to both parities. When you say "Do you mind if I ...?" to your loved one you are taking his/her thoughts into consideration. When you start "ordering" someone and that someone starts to sneak behind your back it's time you both became parallel lines as you are clearly never going to meet halfway.
You need to come to terms with reality. Once you are in a serious relationship/Marriage there would be restrictions regardless of your gender, either that or your relationship would start to give. My guys who are married often need an informal permission to hangout late in the night, this is something we did on a regular when they were single. Even in a serious relationship, the both of you would have to inform each other of certain things and atimes even request permission, its not ordering, courtesy simply demands it to forestall the unpalatable. What you said is only applicable to those dating for mere fun, a time would come when you would realize it takes lot of compromise on your rights as an adult to etch out a meaningful and lasting relationship. Moreover the narrative of the pic isnt factual.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by McMoly(m): 4:35am On Apr 27, 2017
[quote author=McMoly post=55955602][/quoted fffff
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by cao(f): 4:43am On Apr 27, 2017
Raine80, you gotta love all these butthurt folks, some of their comments no get any reason at all. Oh well, na their way.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by Nobody: 5:10am On Apr 27, 2017
And since when does it take anything other than ur 2 shillings rubbing each other to get u into medical school undecided


...in d end, dat comment really delineates the line that once differentiated u from the zombies.

How dreadful!
Raine80:
Read what I wrote ..again
If he is ordering and she is not listening why are they together? That is the essence of what I wrote I did quite well in school thank you very much well enough to go to medical school. At the end of the day it's a matter of opinion
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by Nobody: 5:16am On Apr 27, 2017
Then again, I won't blame u! undecided

It's the idiots that fostered the idea that medicine is rocket science that I blame.
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by lauskidlala(m): 5:22am On Apr 27, 2017
lol...
Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by Nobody: 5:55am On Apr 27, 2017
Which kind girl be this i wan know undecided
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Re: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by viroblaze: 6:48am On Apr 27, 2017
Raine80:
No you don't , we move in different circles poles we are apart .
This is the lack of intectual maturity I was referring to earlier. A prime example, of how instead of a sound rebuke you opt to personalise your disagreement in the hope that I am somehow bothered. It does not work with me I am afraid.
Are you OK for real? I think you should go look in the mirror and ask yourself a thousand times If you're OK..
That false sense of belonging you have, will bring your downfall if you don't make a turn around.. You don't know me and I don't bloody care.. But mark this day and my words..
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