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Normally, I shouldn't talk to you then have my way immediately. But NO is in existence. You can tell me NO and in fact, I will be glad to walk away.. ..then why do you waste my time playing hard to get? Does that make you Feel happy?

Lol

I can sense ur pain Bro

It boosts dier ego!!

But you sef, why stress someone when you can see the "Hard to get" symptom?.

There are about 99766444467778888 girls in the country...

Of cos it does. Bt seriously u guys r stubborn. Many a time we plainly say NO bt u choose to press on thinking we r playing hard to get wen in reality WE DON'T LIKE U......

hmmmm

The very minute a woman sights you, she can already tell if she can date/fvck you or not. Every other thing in between is just "sereren".

To the sensible ladies it's not " playing hard to get" but " looking before leaping". You guys get it all mixed up, Not every lady who place you on hold is toying with you. Some are just being careful, and that is a sane thing to do

Once she says 'NO', I go say 'NO' too. I have no time to waste.

SINZ:
The very minute a woman sights you, she can already tell if she can date/fvck you or not. Every other thing in between is just "sereren".

. true

Alondrah:
To the sensible ladies it's not " playing hard to get" but " looking before leaping". You guys get it all mixed up, Not every lady who place you on hold is toying with you. Some are just being careful, and that is a sane thing to do

Most times they (ladies) overdo it, miscalculate and end up losing a good guy! When I was looking for a wife to marry, dis particular lady kept "dribbling" me for 4 months, of course I left her and went hunting somewhere else and luckily enough for me I caught a big fish within no time, the "dribbler" lady then came with full love of 120% when it was already too late for her...timing is very very important. Always be watchful and sensitive ladies!

Alondrah:
To the sensible ladies it's not " playing hard to get" but " looking before leaping". You guys get it all mixed up, Not every lady who place you on hold is toying with you. Some are just being careful, and that is a sane thing to do

I Concur With U Pon This These

For some it feeds their egos, they enjoy those desparate phone calls, the pleading, the begging seeing a fellow human being tormented by uncertainanity. Why do men bother with women like this? I am genuinely curious. The way I look at it if you are going to put in all that effort then that woman has to bring it.

AlphaT1:
Most times they (ladies) overdo it, miscalculate and end up losing a good guy! When I was looking for a wife to marry, dis particular lady kept "dribbling" me for 4 months, of course I left her and went hunting somewhere else and luckily enough for me I caught a big fish within no time, the "dribbler" lady then came with full love of 120% when it was already too late for her..timing is very very important. Always be watchful and sensitive ladies!

you are right. But some rush into relationships they regret later all in the name of "I don't want to play hard", " I don't want to waste time". How many frogs should a lady kiss before kissing prince charming? Definitely no appropriate answer to that question but a lady's mouth shouldn't be soiled with frogs' saliva before prince charming comes. I think every lady should take as long as she wants so far she won't regret. Moreover entering into a relationship base on attraction alone is dangerous, some fades away with time. Compatibility and Love should be the basis for a relationship.

Stevengerd:
I Concur With U Pon This These

Glad you agreed

as far I hurt you back I'm okay with you playing hard to get...... there are many ways to pay back, i don't stress, say no and I'm gone, that's all

Alondrah:
you are right. But some rush into relationships they regret later all in the name of "I don't want to play hard", " I don't want to waste time". How many frogs should a lady kiss before kissing prince charming? Definitely no appropriate answer to that question but a lady's mouth shouldn't be soiled with frogs' saliva before prince charming comes. I think every lady should take as long as she wants so far she won't regret. Moreover entering into a relationship base on attraction alone is dangerous, some fades away with time. Compatibility and Love should be the basis for a relationship.

Like I said be watchful and sensitive...... It is not how short or how long you take to accept someone that guarantees your compatibility.... You may take as long time as you want before accepting him and still end up shattered. You may still rush to accept him and end up battered... "watchful and sensitive" are the words!

AlphaT1:
Like I said be watchful and sensitive...... It is not how short or how long you take to accept someone that guarantees your compatibility.... You may take as long time as you want before accepting him and still end up shattered. You may still rush to accept him and end up battered... "watchful and sensitive" are the words!

This is not an argument, don't sound like it is one.

Alondrah:
Glad you agreed

Yea. Just The Same Way My Crush Did, I Never Knw She Was Studying Me. Bt We Cool Together

Hardeysolution:
Normally, I shouldn't talk to you then have my way immediately. But NO is in existence. You can tell me NO and in fact, I will be glad to walk away.. ..then why do you waste my time playing hard to get? Does that make you Feel happy?

i for one, it makes me happy... Feels like a game

Stevengerd:
Yea. Just The Same Way My Crush Did, I Never Knw She Was Studying Me. Bt We Cool Together

some ladies like to observe their suitors in their natural environment, so they sometimes act uninterested to know some things about the guy. You can't blame them tho, No one wants to be hurt. I'm happy for you.

Alondrah:
some ladies like to observe their suitors in their natural environment, so they sometimes act uninterested to know some things about the guy. You can't blame them tho, No one wants to be hurt. I'm happy for you.

I Remember When I Asked Her For Her Numba, She Told Me Nt Now... I Didnt Even Ask Her Again... Now She Always Glad Seeing Me Around Her.

Alondrah:
This is not an argument, don't sound like it is one.

I am only airing some words of wisdom that might help a lady out there!

sometimes when a lady says no, it means she's jus not interested. this jus reminded me of last month wen two guys walked up to me, de first guy was interested in me while de second was there to help him out (lol as a helper dat he is na) so dis guy asked me for ma number and I told him plain dah I won't give him! then his frnd jus carried de mata for head and started begging b4 I knew we all started gisting lyk we knew each other somewhere ( de guys were funny sha nd cute ) so after de whole gisting he requested for my number and I declined again den his frnd jus vex start to waka go and am lyk ahah!! de pesin wey need de number no vex na u!! c'mon gerrarahia jhor!! out of pity I wanted giving de oda guy my number den he made a very stupid statement dat provoked me, he said no girl had ever turned him down dah I was de first. immediately I heard dat statement I was lyk wtf!! I didn't even say anything I jus left him there and went away.

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You giving number out of pity? Gosh!! You ladies ehn.

Why play hard to get when you prolly like the dude and want to date him? If a lady plays hard to get, I give her grace period. If her hard to get exceeds the allocated period, off she goes. No time.

Yes it does "if I play hard to get" that means I'm in control.

I'll flirt with yah and get your hopes high & your emotions running everywhere and then go cold in a split second

youngbelieve:
out of pity I wanted giving de oda guy my number den he made a very stupid statement dat provoked me,

Girl you're so full of yourself sha!

Are you the only girl in the universe or how is your number going to improve his life?

I wonder what the pity is about, like his life depends on having your number.

Rubbish!

Respect guys dat works up to a gal and start gisting. it's nor easy.
Me I hv limit, once grace period for shakara is exceeded, I tend to loose interest. I always think that is how she gonna continue shld we be together.

Immature girls wld kip toying around wiv u,while d matured minded one's, would always stick 2wateva decision dey make,whether good or bad,besides dey cnt really say yes to everybody..

Who's the op referring to?

youngbelieve:
and u had to quote me to type dis!!?! lemme jus sound this as a warning to u, if u ever! I repeat if u ever!! in ur entire miserable life quote me when u ave ntin sensible to say eh!! den you'll see

There you go again, like quoting you adds a dime to my bank account.

Foolish geh!