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You want to find out if a man is serious about you? Wait to have sex with him. It may not be easy especially if you are Hot as well. If you don’t because you are a liberated lady, don’t be surprised if a decent percentage of those men never call again. sex doesn’t keep a man who doesn’t want to be kept. Guys tend to appreciate ladies that don’t give in easily.

I asked a question some time ago about the quickest you have gone from meeting someone to having sex and a guy said he started chatting with a lady around 5pm and by 7pm they already had sex. Guess what he said it was like a movie to him because they never met before so he deleted her number. I am not judging or shaming any lady but if you know you want a boyfriend/husband material, make him wait till he commit himself unless you want to do it for fun.

It’s not really about the number of dates or months, its about assessing his intention: Does this guy really like you enough to commit or does he just want to have sex with you? This will repel men who dont want to commit and keep women from having their hearts broken by pump and dump guys.

Thanks for taking time to read…

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/30/why-ladies-should-make-men-wait-for-sex/

This is the reason you are 32 with no BF yet!!

Keep on posting trash to the internet!!

Next please!!

This is super story..that is why edible cafetaria will collect your guy..continue to slay....

you've said the TRUTH!!!!!!!

ure right dear

sex outside marriage still remains adultery, if u like make him wait for 10years,stop corrupting d tender ones,whom wld read dis kinda sh!t n start acting towards it...

Hmmm,

I think we should stop treating sex like its some kind of achievement, or it's some kind of gift/present given because of good behaviour.

It's all about choices, if u wanna be in a sexual relationship, cool, if u wanna be in a relationship with no sex, cool too. Its a choice, the main ish is hopefully, U've got the right partner for it.

BiafranBushBoy:
This is the reason you are 32 with no BF yet!!

Keep on posting trash to the internet!!

Next please!!

Actually, the lady made a whole lot of sense in her post.

You don't even know her yet you already assumed she is 32 without a b.f nor husband, it's better to maintain one's moral principle at the expense on being single instead of throwing caution to the wind and baring it all especially when looking for something serious.


Sex doesn't keep a man hence it's pertinent to have other things keeping a friendship/relationship going before consenting to sex. Don't ask me what the big deal in sex is. It's very important and most times, as long he hasn't seen what is there, the curiosity would keep on arosing and as such, tend to be more serious in matters relating to the lady.

A salient point

Women should withhold sex till marriage

Men should also without spending any cash on their women until they are married

This will work perfectly for both parties involved

Unless you want to do it for fun!!!
Just imagine that brazen disregard
So you open free for a random guy but hold back to the other to trap him for marriage. Imagine the unfortunate guy

dollyjoy:
Actually, the lady made a whole lot of sense in her post.

You don't even know her yet you already assumed she is 32 without a b.f nor husband, it's better to maintain one's moral principle at the expense on being single instead of throwing caution to the wind and baring it all especially when looking for something serious.


Sex doesn't keep a man hence it's pertinent to have other things keeping a friendship/relationship going before consenting to sex. Don't ask me what the big deal in sex is. It's very important and most times, as long he hasn't seen what is there, the curiosity would keep on arosing and as such, tend to be more serious in matters relating to the lady.

why won't she make sense??
Make I no talk sha...

what is the meaning of "Withholding" sex??

Using it as a kinda "Carrot" to lure him to marriage

I wonder when some ladies would be wise enough!!

But as for the epistle you typed, the picture below is for you!!

What kinda nonsense is this again iwo olorun? Well op I don't blame you it's the kinda thirsty guys that u've been with.... Pls know this today if you give a man sex U're not doing him s favour buh yourself. Sex is mutual if you decide to keep urself another woman would give in who doesn't feel like keeping herself.. Sex is not a trophy, it's enjoyable by both partners. This kinda thread won't come into existence if you had much more to offer in ur relationships.......let men see you for more.. Like I usually say U're what you attract. Biko wake up.



U're not doing anybody a favour. Haba.. Show to the world there's more to ur cute face, ur big ass or big breast or the fact that u can fvck... Then and only then can u attract the guys that would appreciate until then pls work on urself... Walahor.

oluwasma:
You want to find out if a man is serious about you? Wait to have sex with him. It may not be easy especially if you are Hot as well. If you don’t because you are a liberated lady, don’t be surprised if a decent percentage of those men never call again. sex doesn’t keep a man who doesn’t want to be kept. Guys tend to appreciate ladies that don’t give in easily.

I asked a question some time ago about the quickest you have gone from meeting someone to having sex and a guy said he started chatting with a lady around 5pm and by 7pm they already had sex. Guess what he said it was like a movie to him because they never met before so he deleted her number. I am not judging or shaming any lady but if you know you want a boyfriend/husband material, make him wait till he commit himself unless you want to do it for fun.

It’s not really about the number of dates or months, its about assessing his intention: Does this guy really like you enough to commit or does he just want to have sex with you? This will repel men who dont want to commit and keep women from having their hearts broken by pump and dump guys.

Thanks for taking time to read…

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/30/why-ladies-should-make-men-wait-for-sex/

You won't have,sex with him like if you are doing him a favour but she will go and have sex with the third or fourth BF to hold body and soul together. who is she deceiving......
like a girl I wanted something serious but NO sex, came the first time on my bday, didn't touch her, b4 her next visit. I invite her to a very calm place and told her my intentions ( relationship that will lead to marriage), on her second and third time , still didn't touch her. quarrel started , why, cos I didn't touch her and that shows I don't trust her.
this girl in question was playing holy holy for me not knowing it was the usual women pretends. Pls ask me what I did next.........