NIGHTMAREOO7:
Yoruba people and their family wahala shaa
So they even born like rabbit sef .
The "educated people"..
Same people dat were shadding a couple here sometime ago for giving birth to 6. .

Wat sucks here is not ur "giving birth to many" rather ur hypocrisy.. i don taya for una ooh

stop publicizing nonsense. its rare seeing yorubas giving birth that much


you&I know that your region and north are the problem of controlling population in Nigeria

mama chukwudi after her 11kids, she's still pregnant again

lovethchioma:
This isn't about who is at fault... of course I read the story to the end. They produced those children together and he can't run away from his responsibility. Divorce isn't just the solution here.

do u know d wife was disobedient to remove d contraceptive?

gud4dbest:

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she removed the contraception...you later discovered...I think you should av changed tactics b4 it got to that!

how will u know dat she has removed it if not d pregnancy d attest to it

I think there are family planning methods for men and consistent use of Condom is one...#why blaming the woman

“My lord, my wife wants to kill me with children; she is bearing them like rats"

she cant even cook nor wash her husband childrens cloth,only what she knows is to Bleep...i guess the woman must be very lazy and dirty....afonjas women sha

This issue of washing clothes, I don't see it as a big deal. If your wife can't wash it, why can't you wash it yourself or better still buy a washing machine to save you stress.

I know of a family WHR the woman told the man before they got married that she won't be responsible for his cloths. she even had to call family members as witnesses.

The man washed his clothes himself till his children became of age and they took over.

stop lashing her OK and see the miracle of no babies again problem solved

honourable356:
What are you saying here?
Are you not the one fucking her??
Why don't you take measure to ensure she doesn't get pregnant..??
Why blame her to the extent of opting for divorce??
Abstinence from sex won't get her pregnant..
Condom won't get her pregnant like as you put it rat..
Discover her safe period and have sex with her during that period only.
Funny...she bears children like rat That is an insult because you are the one thrusting into that place anyhow...

Sorry, divorce is out of it. If she refuse to control it just as she went to deactivate the birth control implant,then it is left for you to control it. Yes,you can!!!!!

The Pearl Index for other fertility awareness methods asides hormonal contraception is relatively high. That's why he took her to the hospital for a safe-proof method which she removed. I think he did his part as a man. It is not easy to tell a man not to sleep with his wife even in her fertile period, no matter how hard he tries, he may go out of line not because he wants to but nature calls. Sex is not something to be restricted, hence the need for various family planning methods. Both of them should sit down, choose a reliable method and be consistent (which is perhaps the most important apsect; consistency).

Missmossy:
Kikikiki this made me laugh who impregnates her?? I guess she is an illiterate, those with three and four kids are still complaining not to talk of six nawa oooo very immature decision. When the babies are not for sale!!

Yemisi

amakadihot87:
..........when he noticed it he should have got himself condoms,or use the withdrawal method

The failure rate of condoms will alarm you when it comes to preventing pregnancy, they just have a way of disappointing you when you need them most. Withdrawal method? Let's not even go there. Before you even 'ejaculate', the pre-cum laden with sperms have made their way past the vagina into the cervix. It takes 90 seconds to get to the tubes. Withdrawal method is the least reliable. I think the wife shouldn't have removed the device implanted.

honourable356:
There is always two sides of a story my dear..Even through the husband side of the story paints a picture of an illiterate wife...I have every reasons to believe that there is more to this than what the husband is narrating...

How can a sane man opt to divorce his wife on the ground of child bearing??

He will marry another wife,right? since we have to assume he can't do without sex,huh? The new wife would also increase the number of his kids too.

Let's assume the wife is indeed illiterate and won't understand implants,family control etc,the man as educated as he is should take control.. He can prevent it,he can actually control the number of kids he wants.. ..you and I know this!

He can yes, did he try to? Yes. They went for family planning, got an effective hormonal implant. And what happened, she SECRETLY removed it!!! Now that is beyond his control, the device is in her body not his. What else do you want him to do? Place a tracker device in her body?

mayor007:
And this idiotic man couldn't go for a vasectomy?

Why do we have so many imbeciles in the world today?

Well if you understand the implications of vasectomy, you may probably reevaluate the nature of his 'imbecility'. Get married and consider one if you can.

Fourwinds:
are u saying d man shouldn't have sex with his wife again.? did read where d man took certain measures to check d conception.? take ur time to read next time

These six are his children. Some irresponsible men do run away after fathering so many kids, leaving the woman alone to have to cater for them. His reason for seeking divorce is the children - de guy wan run! The irony of it is that the man will almost certainly get another woman and continue fathering more children. He is tired with this mother of six and want another woman - Shikena! Nothing unusual with men!

lovethchioma:
This isn't about who is at fault... of course I read the story to the end. They produced those children together and he can't run away from his responsibility. Divorce isn't just the solution here.

My dear, if things remain the same way they're, the marriage will move from 'owner of houses' to 'street family'. He doesn't want to jeopardize the family's future with his wife recalcitrant mentality. Besides why should she be so interested in birthing after 5 children? Baffles me!

emperormossad:

I think he did his part as a man. It is not easy to tell a man not to sleep with his wife even in her fertile period, no matter how hard he tries, he may go out of line not because he wants to but nature calls.

Lol... so if He.goes out of line, will he go out of line with a donkey Abi cow Abi a fellow man?

Ok, let's say he goes out of line with a woman, won't he use condom?

People need to start taking responsibilities of their actions.

SSAwhistleblowe:
Irony of life..some people are looking for just one after how many years of marriage ..you get six dey talk say u don tire for the marriage...find a solution to your problem my friend and don't make God angry with you..what do you mean

What do you take God for? A supporter of marital foolishness? She should go ahead and birth 100 children na, since she has numerous ova.

Angel196:


That's what I don't get, why does she have to be the one to go to 'family planning' if he's the one not interested in having many babies? Why not go for the alternative and do the one meant for males? Why putting the blame solely on the wife when he a a choice too in the matter?

Because I the convenience and reliability of that method. If she hadn't removed it, most likely this complaint will not come up, baring a 'miracle'. Permanent sterilization methods are available but they also have their consequences on the sex lives of those involved. That's why hormonal methods are preferred, easily reversible when needed, cost-effective and satisfying.

Angel196:


That's what I don't get, why does she have to be the one to go to 'family planning' if he's the one not interested in having many babies? Why not go for the alternative and do the one meant for males? Why putting the blame solely on the wife when he a a choice too in the matter?

Because of the convenience and reliability of that method. If she hadn't removed it, most likely this complaint will not come up, baring a 'miracle'. Permanent sterilization methods are available but they also have their consequences on the sex lives of those involved. That's why hormonal methods are preferred, easily reversible when needed, cost-effective and satisfying.

mu2sa2:
These six are his children. Some men do run away after fathering so many kid, leaving the wife alone to have to cater for them. His reason for seeking divorce is the children - de guy wan run!

I'm not supporting d man running away but d wife didn't help matter by not adhering to d contraception measure

rosalieene:
This issue of washing clothes, I don't see it as a big deal. If your wife can't wash it, why can't you wash it yourself or better still buy a washing machine to save you stress.

I know of a family WHR the woman told the man before they got married that she won't be responsible for his cloths. she even had to call family members as witnesses.

The man washed his clothes himself till his children became of age and they took over.

Will you wash your hubby's clothes when you get married?

bolseas:


Lol... so if He.goes out of line, will he go out of line with a donkey Abi cow Abi a fellow man?

Ok, let's say he goes out of line with a woman, won't he use condom?

People need to start taking responsibilities of their actions.

Most married folks frown @ condoms, my parents inclusive. I've gone to town to look up the prevalence of condom use in marriages, it's very poor. The reason isn't far-fetched, the pleasures derived from sex without condoms is incomparable with that involving them. That's why there are effective and various family planning methods. Both of them should choose one and stick to it. I don't support divorce. Sex isn't something to be trifled with, if condoms were that effective, no one will be talking about other methods.

While thousands are not having at all. some are complaining of many. Allah Akbar!!!

Fourwinds:
come here my friend...na e wife oooo...so u no want make e dey do skin to skin.? mbok

No wonder... na ur ppl dey eat kpekus for bfast, lunch n dinner- 7days in a week.


Abadiye.

A lazy and ungrateful man, and if the woman have not got an issue till now he would have still complained

are you not the one sleeping with her?

NIGHTMAREOO7:
Yoruba people and their family wahala shaa
So they even born like rabbit sef .
The "educated people"..
Same people dat were shadding a couple here sometime ago for giving birth to 6. .

Wat sucks here is not ur "giving birth to many" rather ur hypocrisy.. i don taya for una ooh

you are just brainless

NIGHTMAREOO7:
Yoruba people and their family wahala shaa
So they even born like rabbit sef .
The "educated people"..
Same people dat were shadding a couple here sometime ago for giving birth to 6. .

Wat sucks here is not ur "giving birth to many" rather ur hypocrisy.. i don taya for una ooh

shame on u...that man is smart to divorce the woman u are daft to still maintain a relationship with ur brains instead to file for a divorce for lack of co.operation...

rosalieene:
Yemisi

What i do

LMFAO

Who de sow the seed, abi you de share your wife with other men? stupid man!

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