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Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Motolank: 4:42am On May 01, 2017 |
adam500hr:Divorce is a demon cast it out of your mind. Because your are very hard headed with her request she might be doing same to you. Ignore what she said and continue with your marriage. At least you're not a saint too, and if you are... Someday you ll stop being one. It's not a curse but sincere fact |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by samson07(m): 4:44am On May 01, 2017 |
Dhayor001:nice one bro 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by samson07(m): 4:49am On May 01, 2017 |
HungerBAD:bro sorry to say, you will need koboko soaked in a wattery pepper, haba why on earth will you give such advice, have you forgotten its for better for .....? 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Icaretoo: 5:50am On May 01, 2017 |
nnamdibig: when it come to a cheating spouse, their is no such thing as confess and be forgiven. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Nobody: 5:55am On May 01, 2017 |
NnamdiiKanu: That's obvious... but however still not the answer here to my question ? |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by dangotesmummy: 5:58am On May 01, 2017 |
pesinfada:anybody can make a mistake while talking especially if you had that in mind before |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by dangotesmummy: 5:59am On May 01, 2017 |
Businessman1986:smh |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by dangotesmummy: 5:59am On May 01, 2017 |
luminouz:shut up 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by mohisd(m): 6:05am On May 01, 2017 |
The main problem is getting pregnant b4 marriage, having sex!! B4 marriage makes u get suspicious of your partner..so from scratch ur marriage was already stamped invalid.. so bro help ur self do tins d right way 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by UnimkeAk(m): 6:40am On May 01, 2017 |
nnamdibig: I REPEAT ... IN THIS COUNTRY, NO WOMAN OF THIS GENERATION IS EVER GRATEFUL.... NO MATTER WHAT YOU HAVE DONE FOR A WOMAN , JUST TURN DOWN HER REQUEST ONE OR TWO TIMES , THE NEXT THING YOU'LL HEAR IS WHAT HAVE YOU EVEN DONE FOR ME. 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by yousouphe(m): 6:54am On May 01, 2017 |
Correct one. God bless you. Dhayor001: |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Reference(m): 7:00am On May 01, 2017 |
You must have started the journey with money so it will end with money. There is little chance it can be repaired any other way except God steps in. |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by soyinkaseun1010(m): 7:03am On May 01, 2017 |
Things are gradually fallen apart dis days,marriage sumtims looks like a curse( am not saying it is though) God pls give me a perfect marriage.... Biko |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by VERDA: 7:07am On May 01, 2017 |
GodnGold: Your very right about the necessary compromises needed by both partners and certain politics played and all, I just feel these compromises should come from a deep understanding of the fact that they are coming from different backgrounds with different desires,goals,values,dreams and all so cannot want the same things always,With this deeply understood by both parties compromises sometimes from either don't fester unconscious resentments and is not one sided leaving little or no room for certain minds games and all which may in the long run be destructive to the marriage. This might all seem like plenty talk and all but I just think certain broad boundaries should be set and not crossed no matter what within which other moment to moment issues can be grappled with and one of those boundaries should include never making ur spouse feel like he/she might loose you if what She/he wants at any particular time is not given.. .not even if u do not mean it. Like you said we did not hear from the bride. But like you said, you have been married for years nd sure you will agree with somethings I have written, I on the other hand while not married witness daily the bad politics and mind games played by my married relatives and friends witnessing first hand the damage these things cause because Na me them they always come meet to pour their complains and all. In the end I just think.. .to minimise certain things we just need to be better people. Forgive my long epistle. |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by bettercreature(m): 7:14am On May 01, 2017 |
NnamdiiKanu:You are just reasoning from your poverty riddled life perspective,you have no idea why the woman want to leave the shop beside she knows her husband is capable and know his worth reason she is asking for such amount.You have no idea how large they live or how small they live,you are just there judging as if you are one of their family 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Curvinus(m): 7:30am On May 01, 2017 |
Women suck real bad at thinking which explains why they are constantly working against their own interests. Difficult to form any sort of alliance with someone whose world is ruled by tingles and emotions. |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by sebod(m): 7:46am On May 01, 2017 |
hamzeiy: One of the responsibilities of a man is to defend his home against external aggression. He should fight for the survival of his marriage. And if after he's done all he could to make the woman see why the children don't deserve a broken home by changing her ways and insists on walking away, he then can be absolved of any guilt whatsoever. Never forget he made the first mistake of marrying her! 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by bigcycs: 7:55am On May 01, 2017 |
I once had a suspicion about my partner ,well after playing all my mind games to no end ,I simply remotely installed a virus in the spouses phone . Come and see rain and thunder. I got access to whatsapp chats, facebook, texts ,hell the virus would capture any conversation and play it back to me complete . Let's just say I did the needful and I am a happy man ,I feel bad snooping on her like that but my quest for facts/truth is insatiable ..lol |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Nobody: 8:04am On May 01, 2017 |
bettercreature: Why don't she go find a job and stop bugging the husband for money Is he in a marriage with the husband or employed by the husband ?? Why does she expect millions of naira from the husband ?? 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Ukez15(m): 8:14am On May 01, 2017 |
Adam my man i have read alot of posts concerning this ur marriage wahala. I never Mary myself but if there is something i know from the experiences of strong married couples i have been around is not to let anybody compromise ur principles whether na ur spouse or not. You may have been a f*ck boi before paying for ur sins now but u don marry and there are alot of ways you can deal with this situation. I go only tell u like 3. First is the silly way- no reply her, care for ur kids and give her the silent treatment to max tune up. For like 2 months. She go mellow by force. No chaw her food too. If she no dey respond, just know say she dey cheat. Second is to take this sh*t public to her father. She be pastor pikin so go and shame her in her household and see if heaven does not fall(confront it wisely and traditionally sha. With drinks and family members). If she no heed to her family summons and advise, then just knw u married a Jezebel. Third is to do what most of the broke chicks and p*ssy niggas are telling u to do in this thread. Roll over and die. Give in to her demands and become a b*tch. I dont recommend this though unless you're not an alpha. Bro you know your wife pass, if she is not getting orgasms from u, she may be getting it from Somewhere else cos she seems to me like a free spirit kinda girl. There is no foundation in your relationship, so better go do a secret partenity test on ur kids. You don't want baggage to start haunting your future. Don't stay in a relationship you won't want for your children in the future..NIP THIS IN THE BUD NOW 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by ademide0710: 8:14am On May 01, 2017 |
UnimkeAk: Maybe the women you've met. Not everyone is ungrateful. I appreciate every little done by my husband. Not all women are ingrate. Get your complete engagement Asooke for #100k, call or what's app 07036640956. Offer ends on 31st of August, 2017. 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Adecks01(m): 8:17am On May 01, 2017 |
kneehighbootz:please Just show more love to your wife.THANKs |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Dhayor001(m): 8:19am On May 01, 2017 |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Nobody: 8:26am On May 01, 2017 |
henryhemon:Amen! |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Dhayor001(m): 8:29am On May 01, 2017 |
egedem: Pussy nigga with a good home, a happy marriage and a great wife. I think being a pussy nigga suits me bro. Cheers 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Dhayor001(m): 8:39am On May 01, 2017 |
bsonenterprise: Turd? Weakling? Lol. So i should yell, slap my wife around a bit and make baseless accusations just so I can be "The man"? Sorry your chiefness, I am not a low life animal controlled by instincts and ego. Enjoy your day. 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by gentleagu(m): 8:52am On May 01, 2017 |
Dhayor001: U are matured. 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by wolexieus: 9:15am On May 01, 2017 |
Adam, I really feel your pain. Truth is she is seeing someone else and she doesn't love you from your story and your comments. Even if guilty of what you accused her of, which many married ladies do now, it's too easy/ fast for her to think of separation or divorce except if you are the violent or aggressive type and she's thinking safety. It's unfortunate that people now want to eat the cake and have it. We want to be called married yet live like singles. Her primary motivation is materialism and that's the problem which you need to work on. She knew you had potentials before you made your wealth and she played her cards well. This particular issue won't break your marriage cos it will surely pass especially when you don't have a proof. And even if you have a proof show her but forgive her and hope she truly repents. My sincere prayer is that you don't have financial challenges in the future as that may spell your marital doom. Please bro, invest and divest the little or much that you have now for your children's future. You need to take charge of your marriage not just financially. No marriage is perfect so work to save yours BUT marriage is also not a do or die affair. Show her more love psychologically and spend more time with her possibly. However, don't accept a recurrence of cheating as that will put your life at risk. |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by hahn(m): 9:32am On May 01, 2017 |
cruchenuti: Even the marriages of Pastors crash Christian couples still have a higher divorce rate than atheist couples 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by 0ntruth: 9:43am On May 01, 2017 |
No one can say it any better than this 2. HungerBAD Acidosis I live to realize that ones be it a girlfriend,wife,boyfriend or husband cheated ones,it will take only Grace of God for him or her to stop the act. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by VULCAN(m): 10:36am On May 01, 2017 |
So from the confines of your bedroom you divined that his wife is not cheating. Wonders! A person you don't know and have not even seen her psychological profile but based on a few lines that the traumatised husband wrote. Hmm. Perhaps if he said he caught her in the act you would have said she was charmed. Aside from the fact that you share the same gender, you have no reason to tell him that his wife is NOT cheating. Even if she isn't, you don't have enough data to make such conclusion. Not every woman is as versed as you in psychological warfare. GodnGold: |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by greatman247(m): 10:37am On May 01, 2017 |
Joavid: He was not blind. You were rude with such question. As any man can be deceive by any woman. Some women can pretend during courtship even when you court them for so long. They are expert in that area. So it's not the duration of courtship that matters one needs to pray he don't fall victim of such women. |
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