bullabong:
truth is that the sexual drive of the average woman can't compare to that of the average man. When a wife turns a husband down for one reason or the other. Of which u know most women use sex as a weapon to negotiate,then the other lady who will gladly oblige any time and style just to win a place in a mans heart, suddenly becomes an option.

biggestbros:
Until we accept reality.

SmellingAnus:
Most likely, there are still some faithful men but my experiences with two married pals of mine in less than one week brought about this topic..

The first pal, is a business Man that is not doing badly, he has at least two kids that I know of all attending the so called expensive schools... He is from the East, an elder in the Church and we were having some business related conversation when somehow our discussions went into the arena of women.. lol... I told him some of my experiences and he also told me how he almost sent his wife packing for losing 4 million naira in two different ponzi schemes namely donation hub and earnfifty... He then told me about an Akwa-Ibom girl that he came across and made love to and ever since he has been praying to God to help him leave her but instead he is getting deeper into her....

This Man has a very beautiful wife with light skin but he confessed to me how the Akwa-Ibom babe is very sweet and neat... Infact he talked about going home to sleep and snore each time he has his routine sexual exercise with her which invariably means that he may not eat and most likely not touch his wife. When his wife complains of his strange lifestyle, he blames it on working too hard in his office of which he is the Boss...

What surprised me most as we were discussing in his office was that , he said he will not lie to me, that if the Akwa-Ibom babe calls him now, he will leave what he is doing to go and meet her... Within me, I was scared for so many reasons knowing fully well that I am still single and will not want that kind of life but the greater fear was that is possible that this man never planned for this type of life but he somehow found himself with a strange woman....

My second encounter was yesterday night with another Pal who is younger than the Man from the East... This one is from the West, his wife is in the West with their Kid while he is in Port Harcourt... This particular one is not necessarily as successful as the other man but he mentors people in business/investment related affairs... He is the kind of guy you could call to talk to your staff on how they could perform better (Business Consultant). In the course of our conversation, I found out that he is actually waiting for one small girl that lives in my neighborhood that just finished secondary school in FGGC Okigwe I suppose....

While I learnt some things from him, I also told him about the importance of starving his distractions and feeding his focus and we both agreed that women are major distractions.. he told me , he discovered that spends more on accommodating women in hotels for days just to have a sexually nice time....

I'm conclusion I ask, why do many married Men cheat on their wives, how can we help our future/current wives to help us not to cheat on them? What are those things married need that will make them not to cheat on their wives ? (Note: not al married cheat)..

SmellingAnus:
you are right to a point but the rate at which many of them cheat... Is it that all their wives are not doing enough to prevent it

SmellingAnus:
very true... The women also have their own blames in having a cheating husband

MDG007:

well majority of the women are faulty while a few men are just feeling its their birth right or a Man's life style of which its wrong.

coolcatty:


Abia....see u...as if suleman is not godfearing abi....or even David and Solomon.....man must cheat...just do it with a little iota of respect for ur spouse.... Never sleep with your wife's friends,relatives,neighbours or anyone your wife knows....cheat so so far from home and never ever allow ur wife to catch you.....only mumus get caught.

eleojo23:
This will be like the 1000th time this question will be asked on Nairaland. Una no dey tire?

THE OTHER 999 TIMES, NOBODY FIT SUPPLY US WIT BETTER ANSWER

olusola200:
Like my wife is lazy in bed

So I take to be the mother of my kid


She always have one excuse or the other

I work hard I don't drink nor smoke

All I want 3 times a week

I can't kill myself

Gbemishile1:

U're not a man,so u don't know ow it feels like being a man.

tgmservice:
Shut up OP
today women are the masters of cheating in relationships

fufuNegusi:
Marry a man that has the fear of God
Marry a woman that has the fear of God


CASE CLOSED

Esepayne:
but who are they cheating with

Chiefpriest1:
Okay. These reasons could be cultural, religious or biological.

I come from a part of Nigeria where women are shamed and stigmatized for indulging in sexual acts outside marriage.

In fact, they are made to carry a 'pot of shame' on their head , dancing through the entire village while children and women drum for her dance of shame.

So, you see the repercussions are heavy for a woman.

But in my not so few years on earth, no man has ever been shamed for doing that as far as the women is not your sister or mother. So, thats the societal factor.


Religion-wise, just look through the bible for example and see how many women were publicly shamed for adultery, fornication in relation to their male counterparts. Solomon, David?

Biologically, and this is my opinion, men are naturally 'hunters'. This is not justifying it though. But it's hard (but possible) to find a man who is not doing it.

Some who are not doing it have either not found the right opportunity or they are do it in their hearts.

The true test of a married man who wants to keep away from adultery is when he is posted outstation beyond where he can be suspected or caught.


Aside those 'academic ' reasons, some men are just not satiable, no matter how good or beautiful their wife is.

Some women too make it easy for their husband s to cheat on them. They see sex as a tool for negotiation or just perfunctory.

Others could be dirty or have sexual defects like dry vagina ( never gets wet) or never reach orgasm no matter the pre-intimacy.

Unless you are very disciplined, it is easy as a man to sway towards where you are getting the real deal, rather than smashing a dry wall every time.

Bamgboseomotoyo:
Some say it's because their wives's vaginal ain't tight anymore....and u know men's Penis never die

elaigwusimona:
i dont really know whether its a curse or what, right from the days of King David and Solomon in bible. All a woman needs are prayers otherwise forget it.
Men will always want their third leg to walk around anyhw, sometimes its the cause of the house wife.
Some women after marriage stop their normal package, and prefer and to tie wrappers, they forget their husband got attracted to them as a result of the exposure of their laps and breasts back then.
And when the husband go out there and see fresh laps and smooth breasts, he will definitely give it a try.
women are advices to always expose their body to their husband. like i say, prayers will help God keep ur man. women are dangerous.

CanadianNurse:
Whoever the op is... Please apply sense! Married women too cheat on their husbands too! Infact surprisingly statistics has it that more women cheat on their spouse than men! Logically one man cheats with two different women that equals to 2 ratio 1 that common sense

The question should be why do couples cheat? Don't attribute it to any gender

And for the records if men are scum then women are scumbags

bullabong:
Of course women are to blame. With d level of desperate woman out there and yet you keep denying a man what he has paid for that plenty girls are ready to give him freely just to have a man to cuddle up to once in a while. Brother between u and I ,that marriage thing doesn't work. And gudluk but don't forget..... bang!!! Bullabong warned ya!