Good morning to all romancelanders
This story am about to share is a real life story
And I would be very glad for matured comments and advice before things goes out of hand
I happens to be the only male child of my family
I got married in the year 2012 to my wife that we were both from the same state Ondo state
Lost my dad few years ago
I lived in oke mosan in Abeokuta
I relocated to Abeokuta with my wife from Osun state when my Dad goes to a great beyond that was 3 years ago.
I changed my job and decided to stay around my mum in her house built by my Dad for sometime before renting my own house so as to ensure that she is not lonely.
I started living in the house for the past two years now with my wife and my baby son who is 3 years now

I have 3 sisters and all of them are married with kids
But I have this one very wicked, stubborn and hard hearted very crucial sister out of my sisters called Funke.
She happens to be our third born while am the last born.
She always feel so proud, possessive,bossy and always wants to take charge of any Affair in the family
She has been like that since her childbirth
She can talk to anybody anyhow,several times she abused my dad in his lifetime. I thought she would change when she get married but this irritating and rabid character keeps growing in her.
To cut the long story short

About 3 weeks ago she came to Abeokuta from lagos where she lives with her husband to visit our mum

And anytime she comes visiting it's quarrel,fights and arguments all of the time

She quarrel with anyone she sees around and most times she took on my innocent wife

So when my mum told me she is coming to stay for a week in the house I told my mum I will move out to rent a guest house for a week till she go back to Lagos because there is no Time she comes and she doesn't fight .
She has disgraced the family enough in our neighborhood so I don't want such to repeat itself

My mum discarded my opinion and assured me there won't be problem.
As if I know, Third day she arrived she came up with her attitude by shouting on everybody in the house
She picked up a serious quarell with me even in the area and started abusing me in the presence of neibors calling me different names, some elderly men came to settle the quarell.
During the duo... She cursed my wife in Yoruba and my wife in her presence returned the curse that it shall not be so in Jesus name.
My sister hearing that bounced on my wife and hit her in the nose and bite her..... In the process my wife got annoyed and bites her on her ear too blood was everywhere both from my wife nose and my sisterr outer ear.
I was having exams that day so after the fight I left the house with my wife and she was to return to her destination in lagos that same day.

As I was going out I locked my room with padlock and when we came back in the evening I was suprised what I saw.
My sister has broken the door to have access to my room....she carried away my wife certificates from her day one till present,and also my pictures from day one during my NYSC my wedding pics,and other important pictures, she wud have absconded with my certificates too if not that I took it to interview that morning.
The most painful and shocking thing she did after that
She bought a new blade and cut almost my wife clothes in the wardrobe and even my son clothes she pieces everything and destroyed my son toys

She even threatened my wife that she will go to to any length that she will separate us.
She has been running around on what she said
But I believe in Almighty God that I serve no evil shall befall me.

I reported her to some family members and up till now she is denying that she did not carry certificates and my photo album neither did she cut my wife clothes..

My wife have decided to take the case to police but the families are begging her to be patient but my sister is denying.... Am confused and don't know what to do next. Cos till now she is still denying and she said she can swear with Ogun or anything ... Pls save my family what should I do ?
I will appreciate you all for your comments.....
Thanks all

My wife
Blood coming out from her nose

Deep bite from my sister on my wife left hand

See how she cut her clothes with razor blade in three places when we were out of the house

Your sister is a vampire, werewolf and daredevil combined together in one, and Police cannot solve this issue. A spiritual leader will be more appropriate, even as your sister comes across as a possessed and mentally derailed/unstable person.

To be very frank with you, I think your sister is taking advantage of the fact that “There is nothing no one can do to me if I misbehaves". She has grown with this mentality and right now it might be difficult for her to stop.

There are several ways to deal with such kind of women, One of such is using her emotions to your advantage. One of the weakest part of a woman is her emotion. For the mere fact she is your sista gives you an advantage cos u know her darkest moments which you can use to witchunt her soul. There are things you tell a woman and you break down her soul. Tell her how her action have made her a laughing stock in d community. In doing this you must not show any form of aggressiveness, it must be done when u alone with her with a calm voice and a smiling face. She wud see u as a devil @ first ......
But then she wud think over it moments she is alone ..... And am sure it would make her feel guilty......And such behaviours wud b reduced drastically

If you report this matter to police, they'll use you people to make money without peacefully resolving the matter. Don't you people have elders? That your sister sef. Wetin join certificates with fight now?

Take the case to the police already, forget that you guys are affiliated by blood. Your house was burgled so it's just right that you report to police because you don't know where the missing items may be found.

Let them do their work.

Put a call to your sister's husband and tell him that your house was burgled and his wife is the prime suspect.


And bro, the scripture says " For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh" so let go of your mom and go get a house and build your own family with your wife.


You can visit her everyday if you're that close to her but please get your own house. There's no way your sister will come to your house to disrespect you and your wife.

Why are you still living with your mother?

Kondomatic:
Take the case to the police already, she's a devil's incarnate.



And bro, the scripture says " For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh" so let go of your mom and go get a house and build your own family with your wife.


You can visit her everyday if you're that close to her but please get your own house. There's no your way sister will come to your house to disrespect you and your wife.

Thanks you are right
Not thati don't have money or what it takes to rent house but I don't want my mum to be thinking of being alone.. But with what happened Now I think that is what I will do

Whaaaaaat? God knows i can't joke with my certificates with ANYBODY ! after how many stressful years ? Your wife shouldn't involve police ,she should involve Army and sars! what rubbish! .ur sister is a criminal and should be treated as such ,who breaks into people's house in their absence ? .I dnt care abt ur family palava ,make sure your sister provides those certificates before she runs away .

kaffy4tope:
Why are you still living with your mother?

I stated it in my story just don't want her to be alone

Cut on my wife clothes

She cuts all her trousers

Pure roforofo fight, anyways from what you wrote its all your fault, you are a man and you should act like one. Protecting and lecturing your wife is.your duty, fighting dirty is out.of it. Your sister needs to be tamed and only you can tame her since her husband cant. For once be the beast she wants you to be wirhout beating her, it scares women to see a cool or none reactive man do. Trust me the aftermath of the police station might not be good cos you never can.tell to what extreme she can go.behind the curtain

Take control of your home Mr. She's your sis yes, but that innocent woman is your wife whom you swore to protect.

Take control of your home. It's almost too late

When she was being recalcitrant as a child, your parents did not apply disciplinary actions that would have tamed her thus growing up with the mindset that there are no consequences​ for her actions.

Involve the Police in order to retrieve the certificates she took.

Move out of the family house and get someone to stay with your mum, to help her out as you get to visit her regularly.

Your sister needs a counseling psychologist to help her out as her mind is not in a good place.

Are you not a man? U ought to beat sense into her.. Jeez..

I feel ur pain. I only problem is why still stayin with ur mother wen u are already married?


Talk to ur wife to be patient.

While u pray God touch ur 6ta hrt to return d certificates.

U change apartment and be alone as dis will help gain u respect.


Don't be dependent. Try get an apartment where u and u wife will be staying and build ur home. Even if it's a room to start wit.

U are a man not a boy!

Wen u are married and still stay in family house it takes God's grace for such marriage to grow.

Am not married but am speaking frm experience. My parents divorced 14yrs ago simply because we were staying in a family house.



If u want to enjoy ur marriage bro park out for good and rent an apartment it may even be outside ur state.

I pray God help u.


Also intending couples should learn from this.

Your sister na confirm devil's incarnate. Leave the family house for her now. She's just pained you're inheriting your father's property

Your sister is mentally unstable...
She is a product of Bipolar mania... A paranoid

I think there's still more space at Yabaleft op

This is serious oh. I will advise you go to the barrack to lay complain. The soldiers there will be willing to give you female soldiers to teach her a lesson. She will confess all that she said she didn't do.

I concore with ejosh 4's comment..
Using police or barrack hands on her will do more harm than good. This is the time you need prayers more than ever because, someone that is able to do this can go to any extent to attack Your marriage both physically and spritualy..
The lord is Your strenght

Sister from the pit of hell, go to her husband's house with police. Arrest that devil and keep her behind bars.

Chai, this one is strong o heu. I think you should vacate your father's house and go get your own apartment because of your wife. Sorry to say this; don't you think that your sister's issue is Kinda spiritual, maybe you peeps should take her for deliverance. Is she not staying with her own husband or what.?

If you offend me, I will forgive you but offend my wife this way and pay for it.

How did your sister manage to get a husband?
Only God knows the kind of havoc she is causing in her husband's house, and even with his family.

A man will leave his father and mother and cleave unto his wife , and the Two shall become one flesh



Over time this scripture has been proven to be so


Until you leave, you can not cleave, Period.


I am certain your sister will have no right to beat up or insult your wife in your own house even.

Give your wife some respect