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TUNSBOYLE:
me dont know, Becuz i remembet some ways back, when i invited my girl to my appartment, And i wanted to have fun with her with all my ego, she caution me and i look straight to her eyes,

Then i respected her love and the urge went missing, means i cheerish her

after some weeks, we enjoy as much as i expected .


if he love you he cant put force on you.

no fake love

TrapQueen77:
Why u didnt file a complaint? U know he raped u...

Stevengerd:
When U Av A Business Idea Lemme Knw.

mizeminent:
People will doubt if it's actually rape, cos I was in his house and he can deny it.

Softorgasm:
He forced himself on you without condom..

Have you visited the hospital for a medical check up?

pls go for check up..

Since you were deflowered through rape, then pls talk to your mom or aunt, an elder woman that you trust, any action she take is for your own good.

Finally there is every possibility that you will start giving yourself easily to men or you will start to hate guys..
this is why you need must tell your dad or elder brother, their support will reconstruct your mind.

lastly admit yourself to rehab..
there you will find ladies with similar cases to yours, their story and how they overcome the rape trauma will help you..

Socuul:
I joined NL because of you OP

who do you blame in this situation now?

tamertery:
OP

Atleast attache ur pictures now

So i can know wether to blame

The guy or not...

Thank you

Headlesschicken:
Children would always be children,n after all yuh big gal forming yuh brain deserted u d moment u needed it d most,just 2show how childish u are,i don't feel pity 4u anyway,just dust yuh ass n move on wiv yuh life,Berra days ahead...

mizeminent:
U sound like a child yourself, if you actually understand the post you will know that am not asking you to advice me just what you will do if you find yourself in such situation. It actually happened when I was 22years

edimolu:
Nd u havent moved past it?....why bring it up?

*modified*

Ok

mizeminent:
If there's anybody to take blame, I will willingly takes it

mizeminent:
It was a sunny day and I was returning from a nearby clinic where my nephew was admitted when I noticed a white BMW trying to get my attention. I shunned it and continue walking, I was now in my street and close to my house but the car was still following me, I decided to wait and hear him out since I don't want a stranger to know my house.
He said " hello beautiful, my name is B.J and I will like to be your friend, but I don't want you to stand under the sun for long just give me your number and we will talk later".
In my mind, I was like " that's better because I will get rid of him easily if he calls and I did not pick".
That was how I met B.J, unfortunately for me, he was not easy to get rid of, because he actually knows my house and work in my street which means I get to see him everyday.
I actually gets to like him because he is cute, friendly and jovial. So he told me he has a girlfriend and I also told him I have a boyfriend who happens to be in another state.
We actually started hanging out frequently as friend of course until I noticed that he was getting too touchy. 'As me I no like that his touching body', I started to avoid him, I no longer pick his calls or gave him one or excuse or the other whenever he calls to see me.
It seems he finally realized, that I was avoiding him on purpose, he calls me that certain day that he was in my street and if I did not come out to see him he will come to my house. I mean it was even raining lightly that day, as I did not want him to come to my house because I can't answer any question I decided to go and meet him.
When I reach his car, their was a friend with him at the front, he told me to enter the back and zoom off, the rain was already falling heavily by now and I kept asking him where he is heading to and he replied "where we can talk, because I can't park under the rain".
We reached a place which he told me is his house that I should come in so we can talk, I refused, after much persuasion I followed him inside, the friend left immediately we got inside.
I refused to talk to him telling I wanted to go home he was like okay let's go, as I made to stand up from where I was sitting he pushed me back and I fell backward on the bed to which he climb atop me doing all form of touching which I tried to refuse but he was too strong for me because I couldn't push him off. That was the day I realized that I did not have strength.
He went ahead and force his tom inside me, that was very painful, I shouted and cried. At last, he stood up and was begging me to forgive him because he did not understand what came over him. I did not say anything, I just requested to be returned to my house which he did and I blocked him out of my life.
He tried to contact me several times but I never bothered to pick his calls, two months later he is still trying to explain himself.
Anyway that was my first time of being knacked, he did not know that and I never told him because I like forming being matured and knows everything.


P.S: IF THIS HAPPENED TO YOU, WHAT WILL YOU DO?