we've been dating for over two months now, and she ignores my calls one too many times; her excuses is always either she's with a family member or she's sleeping.

It didn't bother me until now.
Yesterday, I called her three times and she didn't pick all three of them but on the fourth trial she picked but immediately ended the call without even an "Hi". When I tried to call her the fifth time the phone had been switched off, I got pissed and didn't even bother to call her again.
She called me 8 hours later, telling me her battery died on the call, but when I told her I saw her activities on instagram just 40minutes after the incident, she pleaded she has been trying to ignore a particular number that has been disturbing her all morning which is what prompted her to put her phone in airplane mode.

she's been begging me non stop ever since not to be angry with her and to equally forgive her for lying to me. she said I shouldn't read any meaning into it, that it was an innocent mistake.

please do you think I should let it go or keep the relationship?

PS. she is 22 but still lives with her parents.

Just look at how a small girl is turning ur head ....

It all begins from a little lie.......

This is surprising....... coming from a Reverend Father !!!

She can't never take a Reverendfather serious on dating issues... (See your nickname is affecting, your dating life)..consider changing it..do it and see

modelmike7:
This is surprising.......
coming from a Reverend Father !!!

Lol

Officialkplus:
She can't never take a Reverendfather serious on dating issues... (See your nickname is affecting, your dating life)..consider changing it..do it and see

@ modelmike7 and co abeg Mona leave my moniker alone and help me put mouth for this matter.

VampireeM:
lol. How old are you? I don't think she is worth the stress.

I'm in my late twenties

reverendfather:
@ modelmike7 and co abeg Mona leave my moniker alone and help me put mouth for this matter.

Okay Reverend Father!!

mr man, if you're a mature man, seek serious relationship with a mature woman if you want rest of mind.

these smallies come with a lot of baggage

That girl is not serious with you. Better safe urself the stress and move on while it's still early. Period!

The problem is you are too soft on her..

How could you call a girl up to 5times in a day..

The max for me is twice.

Its very obvious you are not in charge of the relationship.. She is.

I'll advice you to read guys code in the romance/dating section...
I'm sure..you'll be alright afterwards..

TrueHeart365:
mr man, if you're a mature man, seek serious relationship with a mature woman if you want rest of mind.

these smallies come with a lot of baggage

U can shed more light so we can learn

dingbang:
Just look at how a small girl is turning ur head ....

I even doubt that he"s dating her.its all in his head

lefulefu:

I even doubt that he"s dating her.its all in his head

See as you remember secondary school teacher

Baba use ya head, don't allow dat smallie use u eh

okay thanks everyone for your input.

Yeah, as I expected: Every guy on Nairaland claims to be a guru in matters of the heart and would quickly advise "Dump that girl she is using you!"

Using ni, usage kor.

OP, do what'll make you happy jare!

sonofLuci:



See as you remember secondary school teacher

ehn na wich secondary sch teacher u dey yarn abt??

TrueHeart365:
mr man, if you're a mature man, seek serious relationship with a mature woman if you want rest of mind.

these smallies come with a lot of baggage

You are right

You are the Reverend, why giving us your job of seer to do?

Officialkplus:
The problem is you are too soft on her..

How could you call a girl up to 5times in a day..

The max for me is twice.

Its very obvious you are not in charge of the relationship.. She is.

I'll advice you to read guys code in the romance/dating section...
I'm sure..you'll be alright afterwards..

Bros. abeg share me the guy code link here.

reverendfather:
we've been dating for over two months now, and she ignores my calls one too many times; her excuses is always either she's with a family member or she's sleeping.

It didn't bother me until now.
Yesterday, I called her three times and she didn't pick all three of them but on the fourth trial she picked but immediately ended the call without even an "Hi". When I tried to call her the fifth time the phone had been switched off, I got pissed and didn't even bother to call her again.
She called me 8 hours later, telling me her battery died on the call, but when I told her I saw her activities on instagram just 40minutes after the incident, she pleaded she has been trying to ignore a particular number that has been disturbing her all morning which is what prompted her to put her phone in airplane mode.

she's been begging me non stop ever since not to be angry with her and to equally forgive her for lying to me. she said I shouldn't read any meaning into it, that it was an innocent mistake.

please do you think I should let it go or keep the relationship?

PS. she is 22 but still lives with her parents.

Bros. When a girl starts lying to you, she mostly uses another lie to cover the previous lie. A girl won't pick your calls for two reasons.
1. she is not interested at you
2. She is cheating on you and u are calling her when she is with the other guy or she doesn't want people around her to know she is in a relationship elsewhere.


if u check her phone, what did she save ur name as?

Do the same to her

reverendfather:
we've been dating for over two months now, and she ignores my calls one too many times; her excuses is always either she's with a family member or she's sleeping.

It didn't bother me until now.
Yesterday, I called her three times and she didn't pick all three of them but on the fourth trial she picked but immediately ended the call without even an "Hi". When I tried to call her the fifth time the phone had been switched off, I got pissed and didn't even bother to call her again.
She called me 8 hours later, telling me her battery died on the call, but when I told her I saw her activities on instagram just 40minutes after the incident, she pleaded she has been trying to ignore a particular number that has been disturbing her all morning which is what prompted her to put her phone in airplane mode.

she's been begging me non stop ever since not to be angry with her and to equally forgive her for lying to me. she said I shouldn't read any meaning into it, that it was an innocent mistake.

please do you think I should let it go or keep the relationship?

PS. she is 22 but still lives with her parents.

Guy some people especially Girls don't really like making or picking up phone calls most times Maybe based on their mood at that actual moment So Chill...

Mostly girls in benin are masters in that level
25yrs below...run for ur life

Drixxx:

Guy some people especially Girls don't really like making or picking up phone calls most times Maybe based on their mood at that actual moment So Chill...

What foolish mood can make a gal nt pik her bf's call?

SheldonCooper:



Bros. When a girl starts lying to you, she mostly uses another lie to cover the previous lie. A girl won't pick your calls for two reasons.
1. she is not interested at you
2. She is cheating on you and u are calling her when she is with the other guy or she doesn't want people around her to know she is in a relationship elsewhere.


if u check her phone, what did she save ur name as?

Baba sense just full your brain....

To me, it's rude to bug, harass unnecessary by suspecting or accusing a lady you ain't married or engaged to. Allow these ladies to make their choices in life else you will keep suspecting her till eternity. If the NUMBER ONE is THE ONE, there won't be NUMBER TWO trust me.

reverendfather:
we've been dating for over two months now, and she ignores my calls one too many times; her excuses is always either she's with a family member or she's sleeping.

It didn't bother me until now.
Yesterday, I called her three times and she didn't pick all three of them but on the fourth trial she picked but immediately ended the call without even an "Hi". When I tried to call her the fifth time the phone had been switched off, I got pissed and didn't even bother to call her again.
She called me 8 hours later, telling me her battery died on the call, but when I told her I saw her activities on instagram just 40minutes after the incident, she pleaded she has been trying to ignore a particular number that has been disturbing her all morning which is what prompted her to put her phone in airplane mode.

she's been begging me non stop ever since not to be angry with her and to equally forgive her for lying to me. she said I shouldn't read any meaning into it, that it was an innocent mistake.

please do you think I should let it go or keep the relationship?

PS. she is 22 but still lives with her parents.

No matter the advice given to you now, you definitely continue the vehicle relationship until she breaks your heart.



So no need.

Different people with different prob.....lol