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Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by Sierusvirus(m): 9:16pm On May 08, 2017

khiaa:
So the man has to purchase his bride, the rings, pay for the wedding , and pay for the house to live in without any contribution from the bride , what good are these useless women? It's hard to believe that someone could be so selfish. That part of your culture is definitely flawed. You men should marry foreign women.

It just obvious that most girls need to be revalued and trained again b4 marriage. After they will be disturbing God for husband not knowing they chased him away due to their selfish, self centered and stingy mentality. grin

Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:16pm On May 08, 2017

kimbra:
Nobody is doing anyone a favour. If you're not ready to man up to responsibilities, don't think marriage. Like I said earlier...her financial support in the course of the wedding is optional.

May I ask:
- Is getting married the responsibility of men only (since they are the one asking a woman's hand)?
- would you ask a man's hand in marriage if your bf wouldn't do it himself?
- What do you believe is the responsibility of women in marriage?
- if a man's wealth should be use for the wellbeing of that said family, what will you use your wealth for?

Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by Topestbilly(m): 9:17pm On May 08, 2017

kimbra:
You're the one going to ask for her hand in marriage not the other way round. It's your responsibility to fund the wedding but it's a choice for her to assist if she could.

Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by khiaa(f): 9:46pm On May 08, 2017

Sierusvirus:
It just obvious that most girls need to be revalued and trained again b4 marriage. After they will be disturbing God for husband not knowing they chased him away due to their selfish, self centered and stingy mentality.

LMAO

I don't think they are all like that, I'm sure there are some with compassion. How could someone claim to love someone and be such a burden to them.

To be honest, when it comes to the actual wedding I would prefer a small wedding with family and friends and invest the money that would have been spent on a lavish wedding into buying a home.

As a matter of fact, if he is the man that I love and he loves me, where we got married wouldn't even matter, it could be just the two of us eloping to Las Vegas or Mexico.
It's the marriage that's important not the wedding.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by nezer83: 10:03pm On May 08, 2017

kimbra:
You're the one going to ask for her hand in marriage not the other way round. It's your responsibility to fund the wedding but it's a choice for her to assist if she could.

After he funds the weeding from A-Z you will then claim you are not his acquired property, Kontinue.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by xynerise: 1:43am On May 09, 2017

MrBrownJay1:
Hey bro, I am good, and you?
Yeah back on NL until I get fed up again lol

. Welcome back. You will get fed up again soon though grin

Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by Titilayooni(f): 3:47am On May 09, 2017

In as much as i hate gender equality,i still feel it is wrong to leave the finances to the groom alone. It should be a responsibility of both parties,they are both doing each other a favour...In typical yoruba land,the bride's family even spends more cause they are the host,xcept if the groom supports them financially which is normal......even if its a small wedding...As a bride sef,you wan marry and you cant fund anything on your wedding,its a shame....i would be getting married soon,even as a bride to be...i want to fund my cake,makeova for my mums,mother-in-law and accessories for the couple,sourvenir for my husband's frnds and mine too.. manicure&pedicure for d couple b4 the wedding.... he has his own roles& doesnt mean my husband cant do it all but its OUR wedding and i have a role to play in it. Life after wedding is still there(lol)

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Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by Sierusvirus(m): 9:21am On May 09, 2017

khiaa:
LMAO I don't think they are all like that, I'm sure there are some with compassion. How could someone claim to love someone and be such a burden to them.

To be honest, when it comes to the actual wedding I would prefer a small wedding with family and friends and invest the money that would have been spent on a lavish wedding into buying a home.

As a matter of fact, if he is the man that I love and he loves me, where we got married wouldn't even matter, it could be just the two of us eloping to Las Vegas or Mexico.
It's the marriage that's important not the wedding.

Yes cos I told my friend that you need not to waste money during wedding cos people come and eat and then wait for their downfall.
The woman should accept small wedding and encourage the husband to start his own house with the money he has, good life is the key point not wasting money.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by stuffs4me(m): 12:12pm On May 09, 2017

greatwhite:
It depends on the family/tribe you are dealing with. In an ideal Yoruba setting the wife's family host the wedding. In some Yoruba families the bride & groom share the responsibilities. If you intend to marry from the yorubas in kogi. The groom pays for everything. Unless the brides family decides to help u. Which is not usually the case.

See how this dog is telling lies on the good yoruba people of Kogi state.

It is not our culture as Yorubas (from Kogi or not) to leave everything to the groom. Intact it is usually the Bride's family (in all of Yoruba land) that shoulder most part of the wedding expenses.

Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by greatwhite(m): 12:54pm On May 09, 2017

stuffs4me:
See how this dog is telling lies on the good yoruba people of Kogi state.

It is not our culture as Yorubas (from Kogi or not) to leave everything to the groom. Intact it is usually the Bride's family (in all of Yoruba land) that shoulder most part of the wedding expenses.

Hey son, I don't usually reply people like you. And I don't owe you an explanation for my post. But for your ignorance, i'll clear the air. For the records I married a kaba woman. And I paid for everything. If you have a problem with my post, you know where the lagoon is.

you don't have to insult/quote me to get your point across. All this kidult with internet access.

Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by stuffs4me(m): 7:22pm On May 09, 2017

greatwhite:
Hey son, I don't usually reply people like you. And I don't owe you an explanation for my post. But for your ignorance, i'll clear the air. For the records I married a kaba woman. And I paid for everything. If you have a problem with my post, you know where the lagoon is.

you don't have to insult/quote me to get your point across. All this kidult with internet access.

Gerarahia... You and your coconut head..

I know you are lying. If only you had an ounce of sense you would have known that you can't generalize based on your personal experience (even if it were true).

You have no respect for your wife since you can come online and spew crap about her people. It's not your fault sha, if my people had not given you a wife now, would you have been able to open the cesspit you call mouth to say trash about us?

you are just an ungrateful biatch. If your people were so good, why then did you have to come and marry our fine, caring and humble daughter.

Re: Is It The Duty Of The Groom To Finance The Wedding Alone(photo)? by sainttwist1(m): 7:37pm On May 09, 2017

kimbra:
You're the one going to ask for her hand in marriage not the other way round. It's your responsibility to fund the wedding but it's a choice for her to assist if she could.

aunty weldone....

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