₦airaland Forum

I will stay on my own jejely and will be getting green light here and there. majority of the time I will just tell myself no need and turn face the other way. its really stressful and time wasting.

some of these girls are too stubborn as they don't give up easily. first of all I believe everyone has what they want in a relationship.


but for me I know how to dress good and take care of myself with the little I got. I am fresh and handsome and know how to package. maybe this what attracting them to me but It takes more than this to stay in a relationship.


I can spend for outing with a Girl just any amount and even send her airtime. but I am resistance to giving them money for their personal stuff, reasons I believe I am not their father or employer and also believe there is always another guy somewhere. I hate to do things I will regret later and for being an unwise or a fool. I have my own problem and my mother and family is there with theirs. if I'm a problem solver I believe there are people in line that will probably get the money from me before any girl. beside my own problem is always bigger than me.

please note that I am not stinging but this is who I am. why is it mandatory for me to give money when we are in relationship. and why then if I don't give end the relationship. are there even independent girls in Nigeria? if yes where are they? sometimes I purposely hold back just to test to see their reaction and it always in the same direction like If you don't give you are not ready. one thing I discovered is that women want a man they can control and obey them like robot. but when you know yourself they always take to their hills. have you ever wonder? bro there is nothing wrong with you its them that something is wrong with.

a woman that can take absolute care of herself and only need a man to be there will always earn my love and respect. not those fake ass bitch who still want respect when depending on you. from there head to toe is fake beautify and life yet they want a real man.


atleast some girls need to prove to me why I should handover that bill to them. If I don't see you as my wife its hard for me to handover whatever bill to you as a girl.


as a result of this I always stays on my lanes most of the times. some of this girls keep gossiping about not see me with a girl or not having a girlfriend.

I do girls runs but majorly not in the open and not frequently.

there are some girl that keep on looking for me and asking for my number. after turning them down several time maybe I later decides to give them a try they all want me to fix their personal issues. like hair and other crazy things. I always believe in the higher bidder theory's and one can never satisfy or impress a girl with money. the little you try to give will hurt you later. I always refrain from doing it. and after sometime the love they use to tell me fades away. because I know who I am. you can keep you pussy but leave me alone bitch.

Bros the matter tire me too oo.

nna eh all dis ur long epistle na just to tell us say u don't give to girls I tire oh

fineboynl:
I will stay on my own jejely and will be getting green light here and there. majority of the time I will just tell myself no need and turn face the other way. its really stressful and time wasting.

some of these girls are too stubborn as they don't give up easily. first of all I believe everyone has what they want in a relationship.


but for me I know how to dress good and take care of myself with the little I got. I am fresh and handsome and know how to package. maybe this what attracting them to me but It takes more than this to stay in a relationship.


I can spend for outing with a Girl just any amount and even send her airtime. but I am resistance to giving them money for their personal stuff, reasons I believe I am not their father or employer and also believe there is always another guy somewhere. I hate to do things I will regret later and for being an unwise or a fool. I have my own problem and my mother and family is there with theirs. if I'm a problem solver I believe there are people in line that will probably get the money from me before any girl. beside my own problem is always bigger than me.

please note that I am not stinging but this is who I am. why is it mandatory for me to give money when we are in relationship. and why then if I don't give end the relationship. are there even independent girls in Nigeria? if yes where are they? sometimes I purposely hold back just to test to see their reaction and it always in the same direction like If you don't give you are not ready. one thing I discovered is that women want a man they can control and obey them like robot. but when you know yourself they always take to their hills. have you ever wonder? bro there is nothing wrong with you its them that something is wrong with.

a woman that can take absolute care of herself and only need a man to be there will always earn my love and respect. nyo those fake ass bitch who still want respect when depending on you. from there head to toe is fake beautify and life yet they want a real man.


atleast some girls need to prove to me why I should handover that bill to them. If I don't see you as my wife its hard for me to handover whatever bill to you as a girl.


as a result of this I always stays on my lanes most of the times. some of this girls keep gossiping about not see me with or not having a girlfriend.

I do girls runs but majorly not in the open and not frequently.

there are some girl that keep on looking for me and asking for my number. after turning them down several time maybe I later decides to give them a try they all want me to fix their personal issues. like hair and other crazy things. I always believe in the higher bidder theory's and one can never satisfy or impress a girl with money. the little you try to give will hurt you later. I always refrain from doing it. and after sometime the love they use to tell me fades away. because I know who I am. you can keep you pussy but live me alone bitch.

op I really get ur point, it's a fact that most of our Nigerian girls are turning into something else,whereby dating them comes with fatherly responsibilities.. soon our girls go bring agreement form 4 us to sign before we date them.
Na only God go save us from this KARASHIKA's

Please stop giving them.
Together we can curb the menace of parasitic relationships.

All these your life history just cos you ain't lucky in finding love?

one cow wey i just meet,one do hair ,then come remind me say em birthday na dis month,,meanwhile na banker o,

When I hear stories like this it makes me wonder one thing, where are these broke girls guys complain about?

I look at my friends and my circle of girl gang. I see the way all of us are hustling to make ends meet for ourselves without any assistance from boys or men. I look at us and I see our drive, determination, pride and passion.

Then I come to Nairaland and hear different stories. Then it just makes me wonder, where are these girls?

pocohantas:
Please stop giving them.
Together we can curb the menace of parasitic relationships.

Sounds like something a friend of mine would say. Op you people will not see girls like this to chyke

Lunagirl:
When I hear stories like this it makes me wonder one thing, where are these broke girls guys complain about?

I look at my friends and my circle of girl gang. I see the way all of us are hustling to make ends meet for ourselves without any assistance from boys or men. I look at us and I see our drive, determination, pride and passion.

Then I come to Nairaland and hear different stories. Then it just makes me wonder, where are these girls?

You and your circle of friends are not up to 0.0000000000000001% of actual number of girls in the real world

I agree with you. A boyfriend isn't a daddy but with which kind of girls do you even hang out with

Lunagirl:
When I hear stories like this it makes me wonder one thing, where are these broke girls guys complain about?

I look at my friends and my circle of girl gang. I see the way all of us are hustling to make ends meet for ourselves without any assistance from boys or men. I look at us and I see our drive, determination, pride and passion.

Then I come to Nairaland and hear different stories. Then it just makes me wonder, where are these girls?

Lol same with me and my girls I'm really tempted to tell op that you attract your likes but then again you never know

Lunagirl:
When I hear stories like this it makes me wonder one thing, where are these broke girls guys complain about?

I look at my friends and my circle of girl gang. I see the way all of us are hustling to make ends meet for ourselves without any assistance from boys or men. I look at us and I see our drive, determination, pride and passion.

Then I come to Nairaland and hear different stories. Then it just makes me wonder, where are these girls?

You can find them in the neighbourhoods,streets,churches,mosques,markets,campuses,busses,etc Nationwide.

Don't mind them OP. that is how they all are looking for who to transfer their burden to you can't get a girl without her ringing in your ears that she is hungry infact they are always hungry and they also want to make their hair,nails, as if they were not surviving before you meet them bunch of parasites flee from them destiny killers