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A Nigerian lady has taken to Twitter to narrate how leaving her husband at the altar, made some of her family members and those from her to be husband's side hate her so much. According to her, she never wanted the wedding that was scheduled to hold in one of the Saturdays in November in 2015, however she was pressured by her family to come for the wedding.

According to the lady who was over 30 at that time, she didn't like the guy that much and asked for more time which she never got. Here's her tweets;

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/05/nigerian-lady-narrates-how-leaving-her.html

Lalasticlala

my brother's a popular adage says, "Woman often varies, fool is he who trusts her."

All this "twitter story" sef.

Cholls:
my brother's a popular adage says, "Woman often
varies, fool is he who trusts her."

Omo nah so. But, I'm just curious. She said she was in her thirties, how old is she now ?

I believe women should marry as young as possible. In reality, the chances of marriage for women grow slimmer with each passing day.

Successful men won't marry a woman who's too old. Except a marriage of convenience - which "mordern" Nigerian women, don't even understand.

So you end up, marrying a low value guy when your 30 - 35, and his 40 - 45 and you console yourself with "I LOVE HIM". When you could have married a prospecting young man at 25 or so.

Please, Love has nothing to do with stability, posterity, prosperity in a marriage. It's sheer dedication, commitment, loyalty sacrifice and common goals.

Love will grow naturally ... it always has. Your current boyfriend or girlfriend - did you love either of them before you met them ?

parents forcing their children to marry whom they dont love in this day and age .does having a good job and millions in the bank account guarantee happiness in a marriage? they should let her be.

She did the right thing. Would probably have been divorced by now. The temporary heartache to the poor guy is better than marrying a woman who makes a disaster of his life and divorces him when he least expected .