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Nogodye:
Bless God bro...though just relocated to ekiti from Osun some couple of months ago

Which side of osun are u based... Didi my nysc dere at ijebu jesa....... It was a calm local community town... It was fun

I can set you In The Path You desire..

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First Off.

Stop being a YES MAN..

Stop Being Predictable.

If you can understand this two. We can kick off.

Erums:
Which side of osun are u based... Didi my nysc dere at ijebu jesa....... It was a calm local community town... It was fun

Osogbo...Osun is a peaceful state! Guess you enjoyed your stay in ijebu jesa?

biz2get:
I can set you In The Path You desire..

..

First Off.

Stop being a YES MAN..

Stop Being Predictable.

If you can understand this two. We can kick off.

Ok... Noted... I realli wanna be unpredictable... Im ready to kick with u

Nogodye:
Osogbo...Osun is a peaceful state! Guess you enjoyed your stay in ijebu jesa?

Yea i did thou... Had less trouble...... They kinda made me like yoruba pple.... Bt now i realli cnt twll no more i ogun... Deyre quite different

Erums:
Ok... Noted... I realli wanna be unpredictable... Im ready to kick with u

Good.

I would like us to move this to whatsapp.

But nevertheless

How Confident Are you with yourself and Getting Ladies.?

Rate out of 0/10.?

biz2get:
Good.

I would like us to move this to whatsapp.

But nevertheless

How Confident Are you with yourself and Getting Ladies.?

Rate out of 0/10.?

I think 8/10...can i get your number?

Erums:
Yea i did thou... Had less trouble...... They kinda made me like yoruba pple.... Bt now i realli cnt twll no more i ogun... Deyre quite different

Yoruba people are accomodative and friendly infact their hospitality is unquantifiable...

Erums:
Krispycash..... Thanks alot for realky taking time to talk 2me abt this...
It hurts man.... I really didnt wanna give up until my last breakup...... I really was in love.. Bt i guess it was for the wrong person.... Yes.. She told a lil abt her past which really wasnt pleasant.. Bt i saw past it cos i wannted to support her thru.... Till she drastically returned to her past... Or better still i believe she never left... She just faked me..

Since ure retired....i cud call u sometime to get some advice frm u.... Cos dis thread cud realli be a big decision maker for mee.....

Brother let me give u a little hint... I have been around... I lost count of the number of girls I had been with in my early 20s.... I had all sorts of nicknames... But at the end of it all I became a shadow of my old self because when u become a playa u lose ur ability to give yourself to one person... You get used to giving yourself to multiple persons at the same time so love becomes just a word... You don't feel it ... And even when u do, you fight yourself... Subconsciously u tell yourself u just wanna hit it... Being a playa kills your ability to love trust or even have feelings... Genuinely... I have been around and touched almost every civilized tribe in nigeria and many offshore... But it all boils down to one thing, there is nothing more satisfying than that sense of belonging... Knowing there is that one person u can listen to when ur angry and her words even when they don't make sense, listening to them just soothes ur anger...
That one person who has ur mumu button... Forget all these kids on NL who try to say no love... They are just lions on keyboard and kittens in real life...
Love hurts but it is very satisfying... Don't give up u can't tell me u don't know what I am talking about... It is not about the sex...
It is not about the physical things... It is the feeling u get when u hear that personalized ringtone....
That fear when she doesn't call u for a few days and you are praying for her safety
That smile that creeps up on u when she tells you she's not going anywhere... The fear of losing her... These things may sound negative.... But these are the things that drive u to strive for greatness... These are the reasons u make yourself a better person.

So all in all... Falling in love is mostly about you and not your partner... Being a better version of you because she makes u want to be a better version of you...
Do not be scared to fall in love... It is what eventually makes u a man... No real man is a playa...

Erums:
I think 8/10...can i get your number?

Which Means you have the Potential To Attract Ladies.

At this Point I want you to remove Some Few Things from your mind COMPLETELY

Relationships Stop Looking For Relationships.

- INSTEAD LOOK FOR PUCCY TO Bleep.

Love Love is Just A Word. what you feel is not Love.

- Bleep LOVE, JUST Bleep PUCCY

Trust Any Lady Or Any Body Who Says "Yes" Don't Give A Bleep.

- Be Less Concerned About Anything Or Anyone She Is ROLLING WITH. BE CONCERNED ABOUT[b] THE AGENDA PUSSY[/b]

Communication Less Communication With Ladies After Sex.

- Before sex Com Level 6-7 Out of 10. after Sex 3-4 out of 10 Com Level with her.

Marriage This Word Is Overrated.

Start With This..

I would love to break something's down to you. But typing isn't my thing.

How good are you with manipulation.?

krispycash:
Brother let me give u a little hint... I have been around... I lost count of the number of girls I had been with in my early 20s.... I had all sorts of nicknames... But at the end of it all I became a shadow of my old self because when u become a playa u lose ur ability to give yourself to one person... You get used to giving yourself to multiple persons at the same time so love becomes just a word... You don't feel it ... And even when u do, you fight yourself... Subconsciously u tell yourself u just wanna hit it... Being a playa kills your ability to love trust or even have feelings... Genuinely... I have been around and touched almost every civilized tribe in nigeria and many offshore... But it all boils down to one thing, there is nothing more satisfying than that sense of belonging... Knowing there is that one person u can listen to when ur angry and her words even when they don't make sense, listening to them just soothes ur anger...
That one person who has ur mumu button... Forget all these kids on NL who try to say no love... They are just lions on keyboard and kittens in real life...
Love hurts but it is very satisfying... Don't give up u can't tell me u don't know what I am talking about... It is not about the sex...
It is not about the physical things... It is the feeling u get when u hear that personalized ringtone....
That fear when she doesn't call u for a few days and you are praying for her safety
That smile that creeps up on u when she tells you she's not going anywhere... The fear of losing her... These things may sound negative.... But these are the things that drive u to strive for greatness... These are the reasons u make yourself a better person.

So all in all... Falling in love is mostly about you and not your partner... Being a better version of you because she makes u want to be a better version of you...
Do not be scared to fall in love... It is what eventually makes u a man... No real man is a playa...

Bro... Im touched.. I cant really sleep off, cos u talkin to me... I realli do understand all ure saying... And gosh i realli want real love cos i prepared myself to love people. Probably dere tins im nt doing right i realli cnt tell. Now u said love hurts... But its nt suppose to. ... Im nt used to multiple patners.... If i got one the nearest person starts bieng irrelevant... So u see... Im eventually trying to be a man and for real im in my mid 20s.... The bells re ringing..... If it doesn't go right now.... Its gonna be in ma 30s den...... Sincerely i need dat one wonan u described up dere... But my hurts is a constant reminder that they dnt exist anymore.....

krispycash:
Brother let me give u a little hint... I have been around... I lost count of the number of girls I had been with in my early 20s.... I had all sorts of nicknames... But at the end of it all I became a shadow of my old self because when u become a playa u lose ur ability to give yourself to one person... You get used to giving yourself to multiple persons at the same time so love becomes just a word... You don't feel it ... And even when u do, you fight yourself... Subconsciously u tell yourself u just wanna hit it... Being a playa kills your ability to love trust or even have feelings... Genuinely... I have been around and touched almost every civilized tribe in nigeria and many offshore... But it all boils down to one thing, there is nothing more satisfying than that sense of belonging... Knowing there is that one person u can listen to when ur angry and her words even when they don't make sense, listening to them just soothes ur anger...
That one person who has ur mumu button... Forget all these kids on NL who try to say no love... They are just lions on keyboard and kittens in real life...
Love hurts but it is very satisfying... Don't give up u can't tell me u don't know what I am talking about... It is not about the sex...
It is not about the physical things... It is the feeling u get when u hear that personalized ringtone....
That fear when she doesn't call u for a few days and you are praying for her safety
That smile that creeps up on u when she tells you she's not going anywhere... The fear of losing her... These things may sound negative.... But these are the things that drive u to strive for greatness... These are the reasons u make yourself a better person.

So all in all... Falling in love is mostly about you and not your partner... Being a better version of you because she makes u want to be a better version of you...
Do not be scared to fall in love... It is what eventually makes u a man... No real man is a playa...

Your Opinion Tho.

Erums:
Bro... Im touched.. I cant really sleep off, cos u talkin to me... I realli do understand all ure saying... And gosh i realli want real love cos i prepared myself to love people. Probably dere tins im nt doing right i realli cnt tell. Now u said love hurts... But its nt suppose to. ... Im nt used to multiple patners.... If i got one the nearest person starts bieng irrelevant... So u see... Im eventually trying to be a man and for real im in my mid 20s.... The bells re ringing..... If it doesn't go right now.... Its gonna be in ma 30s den...... Sincerely i need dat one wonan u described up dere... But my hurts is a constant reminder that they dnt exist anymore.....

When you STOP LOVING PEOPLE. PEOPLE WILL LOVE YOU.

WHEN YOU STAY A PLAYA OR BAD GUY OR OUTLAW FOR A WHILE.

IT WOK BECOME YOU AND YOU WILL HANDLE ANY FUTURE GIRL YOU PLAN TO HAVE THE RIGHT WAY.

biz2get:
Which Means you have the Potential To Attract Ladies.

At this Point I want you to remove Some Few Things from your mind COMPLETELY

Relationships Stop Looking For Relationships.

- INSTEAD LOOK FOR PUCCY TO Bleep.

Love Love is Just A Word. what you feel is not Love.

- Bleep LOVE, JUST Bleep PUCCY

Trust Any Lady Or Any Body Who Says "Yes" Don't Give A Bleep.

- Be Less Concerned About Anything Or Anyone She Is ROLLING WITH. BE CONCERNED ABOUT[b] THE AGENDA PUSSY[/b]

Communication Less Communication With Ladies After Sex.

- Before sex Com Level 6-7 Out of 10. after Sex 3-4 out of 10 Com Level with her.

Marriage This Word Is Overrated.

Start With This..

I would love to break something's down to you. But typing isn't my thing.

How good are you with manipulation.?

Gradually getting ur hint..... Bro.... I sense all u saying
Manipulations if i allow it..... Its 9/10.... I dnt think one can get me easily... Lemme use de word im a smart ass... Bt i killed that skill long time ago... In me now manipulation is as low as 0 to - 1.... Or else i see reasons to let it grown bk.... Then it got no chioce

Erums:
Bro... Im touched.. I cant really sleep off, cos u talkin to me... I realli do understand all ure saying... And gosh i realli want real love cos i prepared myself to love people. Probably dere tins im nt doing right i realli cnt tell. Now u said love hurts... But its nt suppose to. ... Im nt used to multiple patners.... If i got one the nearest person starts bieng irrelevant... So u see... Im eventually trying to be a man and for real im in my mid 20s.... The bells re ringing..... If it doesn't go right now.... Its gonna be in ma 30s den...... Sincerely i need dat one wonan u described up dere... But my hurts is a constant reminder that they dnt exist anymore.....

Over time you've been hurt by friend's who are not women or whom you're not emotionally entangled with... The hurt is not what kills u... Its u giving up... Nobody said it would be easy... But it is a lot of hard work and like everything u work hard for... It always pays off... Be smart and use both ur head and your heart. But understand that she will come to you someday... If u decide to go player mode you will miss it... So... I'm still saying... Keep it alive... Learn from your past .... Do not regret your past for it is an experience from which most life'seasons are taught... Learn and realise your mistakes and flaws... Build on that to become a better and greater person... What doesn't kill u only makes u stronger get up and try again... It isn't about how many times u fall or fail... But how many times you are willing g to get up and move on ahead to succeed.

biz2get:
When you STOP LOVING PEOPLE. PEOPLE WILL LOVE YOU.

WHEN YOU STAY A PLAYA OR BAD GUY OR OUTLAW FOR A WHILE.

IT WOK BECOME YOU AND YOU WILL HANDLE ANY FUTURE GIRL YOU PLAN TO HAVE THE RIGHT WAY.

U mean bieng a player can help me get the right girl?

krispycash:
Over time you've been hurt by friend's who are not women or whom you're not emotionally entangled with... The hurt is not what kills u... Its u giving up... Nobody said it would be easy... But it is a lot of hard work and like everything u work hard for... It always pays off... Be smart and use both ur head and your heart. But understand that she will come to you someday... If u decide to go player mode you will miss it... So... I'm still saying... Keep it alive... Learn from your past .... Do not regret your past for it is an experience from which most life'seasons are taught... Learn and realise your mistakes and flaws... Build on that to become a better and greater person... What doesn't kill u only makes u stronger get up and try again... It isn't about how many times u fall or fail... But how many times you are willing g to get up and move on ahead to succeed.

What if it turns out same way again..... What if im Struck again....do u advice me to live someone wholeheartedly again?....... Can u guarantee pple? Yes i get ur message its all abt me first.... Bt love is give and take..... Dats all we want. ..... I fear for love

Erums:
What if it turns out same way again..... What if im Struck again....do u advice me to live someone wholeheartedly again?....... Can u guarantee pple? Yes i get ur message its all abt me first.... Bt love is give and take..... Dats all we want. ..... I fear for love

Brother .... There are no guarantees.
But just the same way there is no guarantee we will wake up tomorrow... But we believe we will... So we sleep with that belief...
Believe... And if it fails, try again... And again... And again...
Because u get involved in a car accident doesn't mean u will never drive or enter a car again...
There are no certainties....
Note: Love isn't give and take... Love is give... You alone can decide if u love someone.... U alone will know it is genuine....
Do not always expect them to reciprocate... It is a choice they have to consciously make....

Erums:
U mean bieng a player can help me get the right girl?

YES

BAD GUYS ATTRACTS GOOD GIRLS 90% OF THE TIME.

PLAYAS ATTRACT EVERYBODY EVEN GAY.

Here's The Thing about Bad Guys.

They Don't Love First. The Girl Should Love First.

They Play "1leg in... 2legs out"

They Don't Put All Eggs in One Basket.

They are not Needy. They Don't Seek For Peoples Approval

They Hurt Girls Feelings. And that Keeps the girl coming back.

#Haven't you seen Cases Where the guy doesn't treat the girl right but guess what SHE JUST LOVES HIM. #

And More

Here's A Thing About a Playa.

All that Up there. +

They DON'T GIVE A FUCCK

They just get the girl. Shine the congo, shine the congo some more shine the congo some more again.

They just keep shining the congo until the girls recives some sort of Sense.

They are not after any other thing. And will manipulate any girl they come across

And more.

Am sure after reading this you will know which sides you wanna become.

And how this helps you know the right girl for you.

Being a YES MAN. WILL ONLY ATTRACT PEOPLE WHO WILL HURT YOU TO YOU.

krispycash:
Brother .... There are no guarantees.
But just the same way there is no guarantee we will wake up tomorrow... But we believe we will... So we sleep with that belief...
Believe... And if it fails, try again... And again... And again...
Because u get involved in a car accident doesn't mean u will never drive or enter a car again...
There are no certainties....
Note: Love isn't give and take... Love is give... You alone can decide if u love someone.... U alone will know it is genuine....
Do not always expect them to reciprocate... It is a choice they have to consciously make....

Wooooo.... Realli.... No guarantees.... U asking me to do the same tin all over a again the same way which hasn't brought any good result bt damages
.... I belive theres a possibility of me getting a true bae.... Bt ptobably loving aint trusting which ive done in times past aint just de right way to go abt it..... Do u understand me

Erums:
Wooooo.... Realli.... No guarantees.... U asking me to do the same tin all over a again the same way which hasn't brought any good result bt damages
.... I belive theres a possibility of me getting a true bae.... Bt ptobably loving aint trusting which ive done in times past aint just de right way to go abt it..... Do u understand me

If u had it easy, you would never appreciate it.

Erums:
Gradually getting ur hint..... Bro.... I sense all u saying
Manipulations if i allow it..... Its 9/10.... I dnt think one can get me easily... Lemme use de word im a smart ass... Bt i killed that skill long time ago... In me now manipulation is as low as 0 to - 1.... Or else i see reasons to let it grown bk.... Then it got no chioce

In your Own Goodness..

I advise you switch it back on.

Bcus it seems you have been relying on your HEART instead of YOUR BRAIN POWER.

You should message or call my number below. Maybe we can talk some more.

You need to Get your Game Back. So Girls Want to STICK WITH YOU NO MATTER WHAT.

biz2get:
YES

BAD GUYS ATTRACTS GOOD GIRLS 90% OF THE TIME.

PLAYAS ATTRACT EVERYBODY EVEN GAY.

Here's The Thing about Bad Guys.

They Don't Love First. The Girl Should Love First.

They Play "1leg in... 2legs out"

They Don't Put All Eggs in One Basket.

They are not Needy. They Don't Seek For Peoples Approval

They Hurt Girls Feelings. And that Keeps the girl coming back.

#Haven't you seen Cases Where the guy doesn't treat the girl right but guess what SHE JUST LOVES HIM. #

And More

Here's A Thing About a Playa.

All that Up there. +

They DON'T GIVE A FUCCK

They just get the girl. Shine the congo, shine the congo some more shine the congo some more again.

They just keep shining the congo until the girls recives some sort of Sense.

They are not after any other thing. And will manipulate any girl they come across

And more.

Am sure after reading this you will know which sides you wanna become.

And how this helps you know the right girl for you.

Being a YES MAN. WILL ONLY ATTRACT PEOPLE WHO WILL HURT YOU TO YOU.

I tink in our contemporary world... I will wanna agree with u on this.... I wonder how de guys i know are quite hardened and rough... Keep dat girl..... I cnt realli tell if its love... Bt i tink im abt to learn someting... Pls go along break all ice

krispycash:
If u had it easy, you would never appreciate it.

Like seriously... None of those relationship came easy... It came with alot of effort, cash, calls, time and attention.... Etc.... I had a major financial loss december last yr so i really stopped spending cash for girls bt all odas remained..... Gradually getting bk to my feet, i realli dnt wanna do mixtakes anylonger

biz2get:
In your Own Goodness..

I advise you switch it back on.

Bcus it seems you have been relying on your HEART instead of YOUR BRAIN POWER.

You should message or call my number below. Maybe we can talk some more.

You need to Get your Game Back. So Girls Want to STICK WITH YOU NO MATTER WHAT.

Ok.. Im gonna whatsapp you 2mrw.... My bat3 is almost dead... We talk more... Thanks alot pal.... Nice sleep

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@OP

Foremost, there's no evil in falling in love (fancy an opposite se.x) and meting out goodness towards such a person.

However, there's everything wrong with you, when you fails to decipher the intentions and character of such a person, around you, at least few hours to days after coming into contact with her.

This beg to question your level of self-awareness. Try to achieve self-realization. Once you get this done, automatically you'll be able to know or structure your ethical leanings, and by extension you'll be able to start to know what mandatory character you need or don't need from any woman. When the right characters are there couple with fancy, there you have found a true love. . . And you will never experience heartbreak again.

So, you need self-realization, altruism and willpower to be free from heartbreak.

Having explained the importance of self-realization above, let me explain the other values. Altruism and willpower; they helps you to know when to say no to exploitative requests and when to put an end to an unhealthy relationship - whenever you come into contact with a gold digger (opportunist).

When you live on the principle of altruism, sure you'll most often experience betrayals and disappointments from opportunists that crosses your path, but you can never experienced heartbreak. The reason is simple - when you give or honor request, you do so because of your selflessness and most importantly on your own volition, and not because of your greed/opportunistic dependencies to exploit the lady. And when a demand of intent to exploit you is made by your lady, you will have the willpower to turn down such request and call off her bluff because you've no opportunistic tendency against her.

Greed/exploitation tendency is the number one reason many people do suffer heartbreak, because you're likely to become a pawn in the hands of an equally opportunistic and perfidious party you planned to exploit. A typical example of this is what usually happens between a ponzi scheme promoter and the participant(s).

krispycash:
.....

Still here pal

Diplomaticbeing:
@OP

Foremost, there's no evil in falling in love (fancy an opposite se.x) and meting out goodness towards such a person.

However, there's everything wrong with you, when you fails to decipher the intentions and character of such a person, around you, at least few hours to days after coming into contact with her.

This beg to question your level of self-awareness. Try to achieve self-realization. Once you get this done, automatically you'll be able to know or structure your ethical leanings, and by extension you'll be able to start to know what mandatory character you need or don't need from any woman. When the right characters are there couple with fancy, there you have found a true love. . . And you will never experience heartbreak again.

So, you need self-realization, altruism and willpower to be free from heartbreak.

Having explained the importance of self-realization above, let me explain the other values. Altruism and willpower; they helps you to know when to say no to exploitative requests or when to put an end to an unhealthy relationship - whenever you come into contact with a gold digger (opportunist).

When you live on the principle of altruism, sure you'll most often experience betrayals and disappointments from opportunists that crosses your path, but you can never experienced heartbreak. The reason is simple - when you give or honor request, you do so because of your selflessness and most importantly on your own volition, and not because of your greed/opportunistic dependencies to exploit the lady. And when a demand of intent to exploit you is made by your lady, you will have the willpower to turn down such request and call off her bluff because you've no opportunistic tendency against her.

Greed/exploitation tendency is the number one reason many people do suffer heartbreak.

:.... I try nt to be an opportunist.... My last haf visited and slept over for 3nights. Bt i didnt F. her for alot of reasons... Not just ne yielding to her flimsy excuses bt i was just learning 2be a man and in the same way letting her see it.... I get boners she sees it outta ny boxer.... Plays wit it bt i wudnt just fall in.. .... It wasnt realli abt sex man.... I wanted to truly know her. I just realized that move was foolish of me... I guess i didnt take the lead.... The rest are just story.... People can be heartless..... I realli wanna stop giving an F

Erums:
:.... I try nt to be an opportunist.... My last haf visited and slept over for 3nights. Bt i didnt F. her for alot of reasons... Not just ne yielding to her flimsy excuses bt i was just learning 2be a man and in the same way letting her see it.... I get boners she sees it outta ny boxer.... Plays wit it bt i wudnt just fall in.. .... It wasnt realli abt sex man.... I wanted to truly know her. I just realized that move was foolish of me... I guess i didnt take the lead.... The rest are just story.... People can be heartless..... I realli wanna stop giving an F

Interesting.?

But this is WEAK..

What sought of man were you trying to show her.?

A WEAK MAN.?

That doesn't Know when to hit a Nail with the Hammer.?

Here's and Hint.

Another Bad Guy Somewhere is Currently Shinning Her Congo, that you refused to shine for 3days.

Be A MAN not a man.

biz2get:
Interesting.?

But this is WEAK..

What sought of man were you trying to show her.?

A WEAK MAN.?

That doesn't Know when to hit a Nail with the Hammer.?

Here's and Hint.

Another Bad Guy Somewhere is Currently Shinning Her Congo, that you refused to shine for 3days.

Be A MAN not a man.

Bro i cant agree with u less.... Alot of damn mixtakes i made

Erums:
:.... I try nt to be an opportunist.... My last haf visited and slept over for 3nights. Bt i didnt F. her for alot of reasons... Not just ne yielding to her flimsy excuses bt i was just learning 2be a man and in the same way letting her see it.... I get boners she sees it outta ny boxer.... Plays wit it bt i wudnt just fall in.. .... It wasnt realli abt sex man.... I wanted to truly know her. I just realized that move was foolish of me... I guess i didnt take the lead.... The rest are just story.... People can be heartless..... I realli wanna stop giving an F

You not hitting on your girlfriend when she slept over neither made you an opportunist nor a non opportunist.